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"Well for starters lose the bottle cock pic as it makes your tinker bell look tiny." Done haha  | |||
"Being a single male on fab hard work!! Sometimes I see a couple or a lady on fab that takes my fancy but I don’t bother writing to them cause they are probably hounded and are sick to death of fellas mailing them!! I feel like I’m annoying them ha So what I am wondering is should I start mailing them and join the rest of the hunters or should I just hope they notice and message me? I’m sure I’m not the only one thinking this ha" So your logic is that since so many men are making a move, you'll do nothing and hope it works? Best of luck with that. | |||
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"Being a single male on fab hard work!! Sometimes I see a couple or a lady on fab that takes my fancy but I don’t bother writing to them cause they are probably hounded and are sick to death of fellas mailing them!! I feel like I’m annoying them ha So what I am wondering is should I start mailing them and join the rest of the hunters or should I just hope they notice and message me? I’m sure I’m not the only one thinking this ha" Course tis hard for single guys on fab ,ladies get swamped with Messages here everyday ,l was chatting to a lady that is only on here a few days ,on her first day here she got 268 Messages that day alone so how the fuck is a lady gonna go through that amount ? It's head wrecking so that's why guys probably don't get many replies which in turn makes it harder for them as individual sender's of Messages,and l think that being on the forums and contributing to topics can be a way easier form of contact access as ladies see your posts etc and can work out for themselves what type of guy one is through his answers and comments.so maybe that might be a better avenue plus you can reply privately too which shows the ladies you're interested in what they're talking about which in turn catches their attention quicker than your messages lost in a yellow wall of hundreds. | |||
"Try being a 51 year old TV lol " Or even 45 . | |||
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"If someone is actively looking for someone in your age range, it's no harm to send a message. Thing is lots of guys don't read profiles and message people who are not looking for meets, or who are looking for someone older/younger, or only looking for couples or ladies, and that does become annoying... But if you're what they're looking for, you'd be daft not to message. Now don't think that guarantees you a meet, because even though they may be actively looking for a single male in your age range, they may be looking for someone taller, closer to home, further away from home, or aren't into big dicks... There may be lots of reasons why they won't pick you this time... But if you're polite and don't do the rejected rant thing, they might just pick you next time "the advanced search is good for a lot of this stuff. Let's you look for people in your age range but has an option which excludes you if you're not in their range. Also an option that if they don't want single males they can be excluded from your search. Narrows down as best for guys looking and then you just need to read the profile a bit | |||
 people have standards and most women are inundated with hundreds of men all looking to bang them. | |||
Socials are a perfect way of meeting ladies imo. | |||
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"If someone is actively looking for someone in your age range, it's no harm to send a message. Thing is lots of guys don't read profiles and message people who are not looking for meets, or who are looking for someone older/younger, or only looking for couples or ladies, and that does become annoying... But if you're what they're looking for, you'd be daft not to message. Now don't think that guarantees you a meet, because even though they may be actively looking for a single male in your age range, they may be looking for someone taller, closer to home, further away from home, or aren't into big dicks... There may be lots of reasons why they won't pick you this time... But if you're polite and don't do the rejected rant thing, they might just pick you next time "This is spot on | |||
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"Being a single male on fab hard work!! Sometimes I see a couple or a lady on fab that takes my fancy but I don’t bother writing to them cause they are probably hounded and are sick to death of fellas mailing them!! I feel like I’m annoying them ha So what I am wondering is should I start mailing them and join the rest of the hunters or should I just hope they notice and message me? I’m sure I’m not the only one thinking this ha Course tis hard for single guys on fab ,ladies get swamped with Messages here everyday ,l was chatting to a lady that is only on here a few days ,on her first day here she got 268 Messages that day alone so how the fuck is a lady gonna go through that amount ? It's head wrecking so that's why guys probably don't get many replies which in turn makes it harder for them as individual sender's of Messages,and l think that being on the forums and contributing to topics can be a way easier form of contact access as ladies see your posts etc and can work out for themselves what type of guy one is through his answers and comments.so maybe that might be a better avenue plus you can reply privately too which shows the ladies you're interested in what they're talking about which in turn catches their attention quicker than your messages lost in a yellow wall of hundreds." 268 messages  im lucky if i even get one  | |||
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"Im Single , It would be nice to get a reply to a message even ... We are all on here for the same senario , I'll share picts if the lady requests ......" Tip for you - the lady will never request. There are hundreds of other profiles giving them the information they need to determine whether they'll be interested without having to ask. Your profile is your shop window. If it doesn't convey what's on offer, nobody is gonna go out of their way to come in and ask what you're selling on the slim chance they might want to buy. Another analogy - having no pics and no bio on your profile is like being a restaurant called Food and instead of a menu board outside there's a small plaque that says "just ask". | |||
"Im Single , It would be nice to get a reply to a message even ... We are all on here for the same senario , I'll share picts if the lady requests ...... Tip for you - the lady will never request. There are hundreds of other profiles giving them the information they need to determine whether they'll be interested without having to ask. Your profile is your shop window. If it doesn't convey what's on offer, nobody is gonna go out of their way to come in and ask what you're selling on the slim chance they might want to buy. Another analogy - having no pics and no bio on your profile is like being a restaurant called Food and instead of a menu board outside there's a small plaque that says "just ask". " LOVE your restaurant analogy! Nailed it right on the head | |||
"Why do your sentences finish with ha?? Just be yourself ha. Chat to all and you will find the right lady or maybe a couple who like your profile and personality ha. But a bit of advice, drop the ha. You took the time to post here without sounding like a twat so just do the same to profiles you like. It's tough for us good looking guys I feel your pain. No ha's were killed or maimed in making this message ha." Oddly I find that 'ha' thing quite irritating too in messages or on profiles... Glad to know I'm not the only fusspot!  | |||
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"Im Single , It would be nice to get a reply to a message even ... We are all on here for the same senario , I'll share picts if the lady requests ......" In all honesty, if I were looking to meet someone, I wouldn't reply either (unless by some chance your message alone was incredibly witty and compelling), because you've no public pics, and your profile blurb is almost non-existent... I'd just skip to the next message. | |||
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"[Removed by trigger happy poster who used the wrong emoji at 21/12/19 11:12:44]" Ah yeah but you're the Manbeast and we all want a cuddly toy | |||
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"It really isn't hard work. " It's actually really enjoyable. | |||
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"Both public pics are dick pics, your profile refers to your dick and how big it is, your free falling without a parachute, crashing a burning in a great ball of fire, if you think for a second that's what women or couples are looking for I think your mistaken. There is nothing interesting about your profile to entice a female or couple but that's just my opinion. Now I'm away to get popcorn and theres room on the couch for one or two to join me lol " Schooch over I'll bring the drink this could get interesting. I agree with your points tho | |||
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"The problem is the male to female ratio Heres an idea, what about a group (maybe kik group) where the same number of males to females is allowed ? Then see how u get on (And put me in the group seems its my idea) " Trust me ratio has nothing to do with someone just being naturally attractive or sending a message that actually peaks someone's attention and interest. There can be 1000 messages sitting in the inbox, but that one, which is worth reading will always get a reply in a timely manner. | |||
"Well try being a single lady who doesnt meet attached,or over/under a certain age,within a certain radius of her,wanting some attributes attached to the man with the cock... yeah needle in a haystack... " Nah, it's the ratio they say. They must know better... | |||
"Well try being a single lady who doesnt meet attached,or over/under a certain age,within a certain radius of her,wanting some attributes attached to the man with the cock... yeah needle in a haystack... Nah, it's the ratio they say. They must know better..." They know best... apparently...  | |||
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"It's hard for single men on fab. It's hard for single women on fab. End of." Let’s all just be hard together | |||
"It's hard for single men on fab. It's hard for single women on fab. End of. Let’s all just be hard together "Preferably in same bed ... | |||
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"If someone is actively looking for someone in your age range, it's no harm to send a message. Thing is lots of guys don't read profiles and message people who are not looking for meets, or who are looking for someone older/younger, or only looking for couples or ladies, and that does become annoying... But if you're what they're looking for, you'd be daft not to message. Now don't think that guarantees you a meet, because even though they may be actively looking for a single male in your age range, they may be looking for someone taller, closer to home, further away from home, or aren't into big dicks... There may be lots of reasons why they won't pick you this time... But if you're polite and don't do the rejected rant thing, they might just pick you next time "One of the best advices is the one above. Don't mind the general ratio between males/couples/females. What you should concentrate on, is to find the women who like your type, both looks and personality. Stay away from the Fab forum "celebrities", also from the ones posting daily pics looking for attention and fabs. Concentrate on the ones close to where you live. Look for the ones that are +/- 5 years to your real age. Work on your pics, everyone loves nice pics. Once you get a reply back, try your best to keep her interested. The majority of us on Fab, have bits, bumps and lumps, but we always look for some sort of physical attraction first. No matter what, ultimately the face pic swap is going to be the moment when she or you, will know if you want to meet or not, regardless of how funny and smart your chat was. Even if you spent days and weeks chatting, after you exchanged face pics, it is a make or break moment. | |||
"If someone is actively looking for someone in your age range, it's no harm to send a message. Thing is lots of guys don't read profiles and message people who are not looking for meets, or who are looking for someone older/younger, or only looking for couples or ladies, and that does become annoying... But if you're what they're looking for, you'd be daft not to message. Now don't think that guarantees you a meet, because even though they may be actively looking for a single male in your age range, they may be looking for someone taller, closer to home, further away from home, or aren't into big dicks... There may be lots of reasons why they won't pick you this time... But if you're polite and don't do the rejected rant thing, they might just pick you next time
One of the best advices is the one above.
Don't mind the general ratio between males/couples/females.
What you should concentrate on, is to find the women who like your type, both looks and personality.
Stay away from the Fab forum "celebrities", also from the ones posting daily pics looking for attention and fabs.
Concentrate on the ones close to where you live.
Look for the ones that are +/- 5 years to your real age.
Work on your pics, everyone loves nice pics.
Once you get a reply back, try your best to keep her interested.
The majority of us on Fab, have bits, bumps and lumps, but we always look for some sort of physical attraction first.
No matter what, ultimately the face pic swap is going to be the moment when she or you, will know if you want to meet or not, regardless of how funny and smart your chat was.
Even if you spent days and weeks chatting, after you exchanged face pics, it is a make or break moment.
"Good advice there too | |||
"If someone is actively looking for someone in your age range, it's no harm to send a message. Thing is lots of guys don't read profiles and message people who are not looking for meets, or who are looking for someone older/younger, or only looking for couples or ladies, and that does become annoying... But if you're what they're looking for, you'd be daft not to message. Now don't think that guarantees you a meet, because even though they may be actively looking for a single male in your age range, they may be looking for someone taller, closer to home, further away from home, or aren't into big dicks... There may be lots of reasons why they won't pick you this time... But if you're polite and don't do the rejected rant thing, they might just pick you next time
One of the best advices is the one above.
Don't mind the general ratio between males/couples/females.
What you should concentrate on, is to find the women who like your type, both looks and personality.
Stay away from the Fab forum "celebrities", also from the ones posting daily pics looking for attention and fabs.
Concentrate on the ones close to where you live.
Look for the ones that are +/- 5 years to your real age.
Work on your pics, everyone loves nice pics.
Once you get a reply back, try your best to keep her interested.
The majority of us on Fab, have bits, bumps and lumps, but we always look for some sort of physical attraction first.
No matter what, ultimately the face pic swap is going to be the moment when she or you, will know if you want to meet or not, regardless of how funny and smart your chat was.
Even if you spent days and weeks chatting, after you exchanged face pics, it is a make or break moment.
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"Its funny the there seem to be alot of experts on this thread , dushing out advice and have zero verifications..." they are the ones that are expert in not getting meets | |||
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"Its funny the there seem to be alot of experts on this thread , dushing out advice and have zero verifications..." There is literally one profile on the whole thread that isnt verified. And he isnt exactly professing to be an expert. | |||
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