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 that's an example not an actual real person I'm talking about, scenarios like that are turning women into pretentious stuck up people and I do not like people like that.
I do look forward to all the "OGs" going to tell me what they think about this post, I honestly couldn't give two shits, I'm venting and I'm sure if half the men weren't acting like beta males to get meet they would agree too.   | |||
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Merry Christmas OP maybe 2020 will be different "Happily take a hug
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"Oh I’m sorry you feel like this OP! I hope you’re feeling a bit better now you’ve got that off your chest and I just want to add that not all women on Fab are like that. Maybe you’re not messaging the right ones? Do you actually read their profiles? I delete a lot of guys simply because they haven’t read my profile and I find that disrespectful..." Maybe im not messaging the right ones, and hopefully that changes, I appreciate your input though, I read and re-read profiles so I know what they want, just when I message or indeed when many men message they are ignored regardless so, oh well. | |||
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Merry Christmas OP maybe 2020 will be different
Happily take a hug
Happy Xmas! "Ladies give this man a hug... Its Christmas ffs
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"Oh I’m sorry you feel like this OP! I hope you’re feeling a bit better now you’ve got that off your chest and I just want to add that not all women on Fab are like that. Maybe you’re not messaging the right ones? Do you actually read their profiles? I delete a lot of guys simply because they haven’t read my profile and I find that disrespectful... Maybe im not messaging the right ones, and hopefully that changes, I appreciate your input though, I read and re-read profiles so I know what they want, just when I message or indeed when many men message they are ignored regardless so, oh well. "Ach. So it’s you being impatient? Sometimes we women need time to mull things over | |||
"Ohhhh popcorn on the ready This is gonna be epic, "Don't think so, I'm not here for arguing, and anyone that disagrees are more than entitled to do so, I just don't have to give a shit of they do. This is my experience, just because people might not think it's right doesn't mean it isn't true | |||
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"Ohhhh popcorn on the ready This is gonna be epic,
Don't think so, I'm not here for arguing, and anyone that disagrees are more than entitled to do so, I just don't have to give a shit of they do.
This is my experience, just because people might not think it's right doesn't mean it isn't true "Ohh I didn't mean from an argument point of view, and I have no doubt that is your experience, I've witnessed some of same BS myself, I just ment the replies will be entertaining as fffk is all,  and as I'm going on to night shift, I thank you in advance, | |||
"I do laugh at women on here, they hold the power and they know it and manners and respectfulness goes out the window. If a guy sends a nice polite opening message it wouldn’t hurt to reply! I could expand on this but I don’t want to offend all the obvious models on here "I used to reply to almost all my messages on here. Just to say thanks but no thank you. And I got some of the worst abusive messages I've ever read. Men who couldn't take rejection telling me how fat, ugly, stupid, and disgusting I am anyway and how they never wanted me in the first place. One charmer even went so far as to advise me to start making myself sick because I was so hideously obese. So its very easy to say women don't reply because they're rude but actually in most cases you can blame your fellow men for that one. | |||
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"I do laugh at women on here, they hold the power and they know it and manners and respectfulness goes out the window. If a guy sends a nice polite opening message it wouldn’t hurt to reply! I could expand on this but I don’t want to offend all the obvious models on here
I used to reply to almost all my messages on here. Just to say thanks but no thank you. And I got some of the worst abusive messages I've ever read. Men who couldn't take rejection telling me how fat, ugly, stupid, and disgusting I am anyway and how they never wanted me in the first place.
One charmer even went so far as to advise me to start making myself sick because I was so hideously obese.
So its very easy to say women don't reply because they're rude but actually in most cases you can blame your fellow men for that one.
"Absolutely, I don't think we as men have all the issues at all, guys that can't handle rejection is one thing and being ignored is another. Abuse is not where I go when someone says they aren't interested, it's completely okay. And I agree for both sides there are issues but surely we would be able root out the bag eggs from both sides to make this a better place to actually talk and meet genuine nice people. But maybe that's just wishful thinking
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"Bing.....that's the popcorn ready in the microwave, theres room on the couch for a few more, who wants to join me.. " You got the popcorn I've got the . All that's left to Sit back and enjoy it Coke cola now eh..... Down with that sort of thing. I do feel your pain though OP but like everything in life you've got to take the good with the bad. Yes there are some females on here that believe they are 'gods gift' to all men and how dare we msg then without anything else than a full photo album and a brief life history but then there are the fakes and the sheer quantity of makes banging on their doors looking for a handy quickie.... And then there are the outright rude ppl that women have to deal with on here. Patience is a virtue so don't paint every girl with the same brush. It's raining today but the sun might come out tomorrow and put a big smile on your face. Best of luck to you either way. | |||
"I totally sympathise with the OP it's tough when you thoughtful well crafted message gets deleted or unread. So I totally feel for your frustrations. But if men were to run a single ladies profile for one day they might realise what we go through. Yes it would be lovely and polite to reply to everyone but its not possible and sometimes a polite no thanks gets you a barrage of abuse or a why wont you meet me message. Lots of men take rejection well but you don't know the ones who are going to throw their toys out of the cot Plenty of men do very well here and reap the rewards. But most put time and effort into their profile and photos and messages. Sometimes I roll my eyes so hard I see my brain at the men with blank profiles lamenting the fact it's not dial a ride here But I wish the OP well and hope things improve in 2020 xoxo " I understand completely you can't click your fingers and magically have a beautiful woman on the other side of your bed, but when it comes to these amazing profiles and pics and that, it's all subjective, I'm not one to blast my body all over my page but it's decent, I like to leave a little to the imagination you know? And when it comes to my personality or what I'm into, there's not enough room on my page to really put that across so I almost rely on messages to show what I'm like. Might be the wrong method, and I've gotten meets here before i just feel as though it's getting progressively soul sucking to message a potential interest and for it to be immediately deleted, but there veris are from lads that had no pics on there page and 5 words in the bio, it's mad  | |||
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"Bing.....that's the popcorn ready in the microwave, theres room on the couch for a few more, who wants to join me.. You got the popcorn I've got the . All that's left to Sit back and enjoy it Coke cola now eh..... Down with that sort of thing. I do feel your pain though OP but like everything in life you've got to take the good with the bad. Yes there are some females on here that believe they are 'gods gift' to all men and how dare we msg then without anything else than a full photo album and a brief life history but then there are the fakes and the sheer quantity of makes banging on their doors looking for a handy quickie.... And then there are the outright rude ppl that women have to deal with on here. Patience is a virtue so don't paint every girl with the same brush. It's raining today but the sun might come out tomorrow and put a big smile on your face. Best of luck to you either way. " Not all women on here are the same, I completely agree, and I do appreciate your message bud, nice to see nice people here, and from the replys to this I do feel almost normal about not having a good time of late, I do hope in the future it picks up, and I'm always up for a buzz and a laugh so, Thanks again! | |||
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"I try to reply to all messages. But if I engage in chat and then say I'm not interested in meeting I'm accused of wasting their time. If their first message is "wanna meet" and I say no thanks I'm a bitch. So I sometimes find it easier to not reply sometimes. But op don't give up there are alot of divas here but also alot of very nice genuine people too x" I know, I can see that myself sometimes. It's a double edge sword really, if youre nice you are leading someone on, if your not your a bitch. It's not just hard for men I can appreciate that no problem and of course not all women are the same haha just previous experience on here hadn't been good this far. Thanks for your input it means a lot | |||
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"Thank you so much, that's lovely of you to say. I'm not a monster but I don't see myself as very attractive either. That sounds lovely, meeting good people with similar interests is all I think anyone wants from here so, sounds good to me "I'm going to assume this reply is for me haha If you want to take me up on my offer at any point you can feel free to PM me. I promise I'll reply haha | |||
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"U lucky guy now you'll have faith in the site .what a nice girl !" Absolutely, I've seen some lovely people on this forum today, my spirits are definitely lifted, appreciate your input too bud | |||
"I totally sympathise with the OP it's tough when you thoughtful well crafted message gets deleted or unread. So I totally feel for your frustrations. But if men were to run a single ladies profile for one day they might realise what we go through. Yes it would be lovely and polite to reply to everyone but its not possible and sometimes a polite no thanks gets you a barrage of abuse or a why wont you meet me message. Lots of men take rejection well but you don't know the ones who are going to throw their toys out of the cot Plenty of men do very well here and reap the rewards. But most put time and effort into their profile and photos and messages. Sometimes I roll my eyes so hard I see my brain at the men with blank profiles lamenting the fact it's not dial a ride here But I wish the OP well and hope things improve in 2020 xoxo I understand completely you can't click your fingers and magically have a beautiful woman on the other side of your bed, but when it comes to these amazing profiles and pics and that, it's all subjective, I'm not one to blast my body all over my page but it's decent, I like to leave a little to the imagination you know? And when it comes to my personality or what I'm into, there's not enough room on my page to really put that across so I almost rely on messages to show what I'm like. Might be the wrong method, and I've gotten meets here before i just feel as though it's getting progressively soul sucking to message a potential interest and for it to be immediately deleted, but there veris are from lads that had no pics on there page and 5 words in the bio, it's mad "Why do men always feel the need to compare themselves to others? "You met someone with a bad profile, so you must reply to my messages also, if you don't, you're an ignorant bitch with double standards" Doesn't work that way buddy. | |||
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"I totally sympathise with the OP it's tough when you thoughtful well crafted message gets deleted or unread. So I totally feel for your frustrations. But if men were to run a single ladies profile for one day they might realise what we go through. Yes it would be lovely and polite to reply to everyone but its not possible and sometimes a polite no thanks gets you a barrage of abuse or a why wont you meet me message. Lots of men take rejection well but you don't know the ones who are going to throw their toys out of the cot Plenty of men do very well here and reap the rewards. But most put time and effort into their profile and photos and messages. Sometimes I roll my eyes so hard I see my brain at the men with blank profiles lamenting the fact it's not dial a ride here But I wish the OP well and hope things improve in 2020 xoxo I understand completely you can't click your fingers and magically have a beautiful woman on the other side of your bed, but when it comes to these amazing profiles and pics and that, it's all subjective, I'm not one to blast my body all over my page but it's decent, I like to leave a little to the imagination you know? And when it comes to my personality or what I'm into, there's not enough room on my page to really put that across so I almost rely on messages to show what I'm like. Might be the wrong method, and I've gotten meets here before i just feel as though it's getting progressively soul sucking to message a potential interest and for it to be immediately deleted, but there veris are from lads that had no pics on there page and 5 words in the bio, it's mad
Why do men always feel the need to compare themselves to others?
"You met someone with a bad profile, so you must reply to my messages also, if you don't, you're an ignorant bitch with double standards"
Doesn't work that way buddy.
"I know it doesn't work that way and I've already said, it's a double edged sword, women don't have easy and either do men, this post was about my experience not a personal attack on any woman or women so, I appreciate your opinion and input | |||
"Women are looking for models. An men would ride anything. An some women with all the messages they get start to think they are models" Most of the men I meet have Dad bods but are funny as fuck and can hold a conversation. Chiseled abs and zero craic does nothing to give me the the fanny flutters | |||
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Fairplay to you Op my experience hasen't been the same as that, but it's great for a man to come on and speak his peace on the forums. Too many guys come on here and just agree with the women  in the hope of attention & approval.
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" Finally a man with a backbone on the forums
Fairplay to you Op my experience hasen't been the same as that, but it's great for a man to come on and speak his peace on the forums. Too many guys come on here and just agree with the women in the hope of attention & approval.
Respect "Agreed Fair play fella | |||
"Women are looking for models. An men would ride anything. An some women with all the messages they get start to think they are models Most of the men I meet have Dad bods but are funny as fuck and can hold a conversation. Chiseled abs and zero craic does nothing to give me the the fanny flutters " I ssssaid sssome women. An you look like a model. Asss the old ssssaying goes sssting like a bee flutter like a Fanny that's why they call me mohumpitmaybe | |||
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"So, after being here a long enough time now, I've met some people, I've chatted I've seen many happy people, but overall it's men complaining about women, and women saying men should be almost lucky to get a message back. I'm done with the double standard, call me salty, call me immature, call me what you want. There's no equality here, there's no fair here. Whoever agrees or doesn't agree doesn't matter, I just wanted to say my piece, this site is not as fun as people make out, because the only people that make it out to be fun are of course, you guessed it, women. I love women and I especially love nice women, but I don't get how a 55 year old woman in monaghan can act like she's the fuckin queen when you ask how she is, that's just not right that's an example not an actual real person I'm talking about, scenarios like that are turning women into pretentious stuck up people and I do not like people like that.
I do look forward to all the "OGs" going to tell me what they think about this post, I honestly couldn't give two shits, I'm venting and I'm sure if half the men weren't acting like beta males to get meet they would agree too. "Fair play to you, I agree with everything you say. The double standards from some on here are head wrecking | |||
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"At the moment 53 women online to 300 men Didnt even look at the amount of couples online How in gods name are them 53 women supposed to keep the 300 men happy eh This site is only a bit of fun Dont take it so serious "It is supposed to be fun, and I get that there's a massive surplus of men to women here, but that doesn't mean that the women have to "keep 300 men happy". That's online all over Ireland, so your really gonna chat to who's close or who's gonna be where ur gonna be at a time if it suited both, I'm happy to see nice people and I respect your opinion. I can see exactly what your saying | |||
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"I totally get what you are saying op... There are alot of people on here that think alot of themselves and think that means they can be rude. That goes for fems, couples and males... Its not OK but people think they can act how they want online. On the other hand.. Work on your profile and messages and hopefully you will come across nicer profiles. We all started somewhere, and it's not easy but you need to put the work in and stand out from the masses
Mrs "I've been talking to a couple of lovely people and they have brought up some great points so I'm going to take it all on board and overhaul my profile tonight and hopefully in the coming weeks life picks up a little on here for me, no doubt everyone has their struggles on this at some point and I can appreciate that all the not so nice just women, so taking that all on board we will see how it goes, but thank you for your input Mrs | |||
"People take this site far too seriously, its supposed to be for a bit of hanky panky now and again. For some people this is how they get 100% of their fun. For me, this site is just for the odd wild 3some or a wild night with a single woman. My sex life. For others its very serious business, their wives wont fuck them, and they cant get fucked while out and about, and they dont have time for women on here to not fuck them. If women are doing better on here than they would in a pub, then fair play to them, its a sex site, they come here to have their fancy tickled not yours. Obviously some people on here are weirdos, like when I post an honest opinion and they reply telling me that I will never get a meet again after posting it, like that is a concern I hold close to my heart, like I will break down into a panic that I will never have sex again, I dont understand them people, they seem strange to me. But obviously a lot are just getting the best they can out of the site too. And then others are just using it for sex now and again and its much less serious to them. Saying all that, its not just this site where women dont reply often. I am on dating sites, and I get between 5-10 new messages from women every day. However these are women messaging me, I have rarely if ever written a message to someone on them sites and got a reply back. 99.9% of time women wont reply to me unless they have shown an interest first." That's a great point, i do think a lot of people use this as a primary tool for sex, and that may not be the best option because if you don't get anywhere you will be frustrated and your feelings will get hurt, for me, it's not a primary one but I've been here a couple years now on and off, and I've met a handful of lovely people, but today I've met more nice people than I have in my whole time here. I reckon if I don't take it too serious, have the buzz, make my profile somewhat desirable or interesting then the sky's the limit. Also, a social would be good for getting to know people I see so I am looking to get myself to one of those too. Thanks for your side on this though, can never have too many points of view | |||
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"Well. I know I'm just a ordinary person I don't pretend to be anything else. I answer most messages I don't answer ones anymore that cheat to get through my filters or the faf ones.I also check a profile out before I amswer any message. I keep my filters tight so that I don't get a load of messages but still get too many to answer and keep conversations going with the guys I actually chat to. I don't know what type of messages you send so I can't comment on what you say. But even when I send a first message to a guy I don't expect a reply. There is no way I could possibly meet all or chat to everyone who messages me and to be fair some of the crap I have had from guys on here when I do reply is making me seriously rethink even answering some new mail. And yes maybe you don't give crap but believe me quite a few do. Yes I get being a single guy on here is hard but really I chose who I want to meet and chat and that is my perogative just like it is the perogative of any guy who chats to me to decide if he wants to meet. Not all guys see it as any hole is goal and not all women are up their own arses either. There is bad in both sides to be fair but moaning and marking everyone as the same is wrong as well. I meet guys who I get on with and have a laugh with. And plenty of decent ordinary guys get meets on here cos they don't act like assholes or get stroppy. Get on the forums in the chat rooms etc if you want to get more people seeing you apartfrom that just have fun. " I don't think everyone is the same nor do I want to come across like I'm just shitting on women (not a kink BTW) but like I said previous there's good and bad in men and women and couples and gay people, with everyone, I am happy to see so many valid opinions on the subject though and I am very keen to make the most of all the information and help I've been given thus far. I understand women get a lot of messages and of course you need to stand out to be seen, so that's my perogative now is to be me like I am outside of this and in person on this site to show what I'm like, thank you for your input I do appreciate everyone that has given me a different perspective on this and hopefully with all that I've got the next few months can be fun filled and exciting | |||
"Fair play for taking feedback on board. " Of course, there's no point in saying I have an issue if I'm not willing to fix things from my side | |||
"I'm knee deep at the minute lad and I don't read profiles and don't message woman either... Just enjoy the forums and see what happens I used to constantly get rejected now I just don't bother and if someone's interested they'll mail me "Yeah I think I'll be more active in the future on the forums and having a craic, rather than focusing on the end product of why we are all here, I should focus on having decent conversation and a good laugh and the end product will come itself | |||
"I'm knee deep at the minute lad and I don't read profiles and don't message woman either... Just enjoy the forums and see what happens I used to constantly get rejected now I just don't bother and if someone's interested they'll mail me
Yeah I think I'll be more active in the future on the forums and having a craic, rather than focusing on the end product of why we are all here, I should focus on having decent conversation and a good laugh and the end product will come itself "And try the UK forums. A flight with Ryanair really isn’t much for the right person | |||
"I'm knee deep at the minute lad and I don't read profiles and don't message woman either... Just enjoy the forums and see what happens I used to constantly get rejected now I just don't bother and if someone's interested they'll mail me
Yeah I think I'll be more active in the future on the forums and having a craic, rather than focusing on the end product of why we are all here, I should focus on having decent conversation and a good laugh and the end product will come itself
And try the UK forums. A flight with Ryanair really isn’t much for the right person "I agree, and I hear Birmingham is a lovely place to start lol I will definitely be able to travel around, don't think distance will be an issue for me thankfully | |||
"I'm knee deep at the minute lad and I don't read profiles and don't message woman either... Just enjoy the forums and see what happens I used to constantly get rejected now I just don't bother and if someone's interested they'll mail me
Yeah I think I'll be more active in the future on the forums and having a craic, rather than focusing on the end product of why we are all here, I should focus on having decent conversation and a good laugh and the end product will come itself
And try the UK forums. A flight with Ryanair really isn’t much for the right person
I agree, and I hear Birmingham is a lovely place to start lol I will definitely be able to travel around, don't think distance will be an issue for me thankfully "Yeah don't bother with the regional one Wales is dead mate. Do not go to Birmingham mate trust me constantly get pied there | |||
"I'm knee deep at the minute lad and I don't read profiles and don't message woman either... Just enjoy the forums and see what happens I used to constantly get rejected now I just don't bother and if someone's interested they'll mail me
Yeah I think I'll be more active in the future on the forums and having a craic, rather than focusing on the end product of why we are all here, I should focus on having decent conversation and a good laugh and the end product will come itself
And try the UK forums. A flight with Ryanair really isn’t much for the right person
I agree, and I hear Birmingham is a lovely place to start lol I will definitely be able to travel around, don't think distance will be an issue for me thankfully
Yeah don't bother with the regional one Wales is dead mate.
Do not go to Birmingham mate trust me constantly get pied there "Thanks for the info, what ones would you recommend? It won't be this side of Xmas anyway but hopefully in the new year I can get away for a bit, | |||
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"I'm knee deep at the minute lad and I don't read profiles and don't message woman either... Just enjoy the forums and see what happens I used to constantly get rejected now I just don't bother and if someone's interested they'll mail me
Yeah I think I'll be more active in the future on the forums and having a craic, rather than focusing on the end product of why we are all here, I should focus on having decent conversation and a good laugh and the end product will come itself
And try the UK forums. A flight with Ryanair really isn’t much for the right person
I agree, and I hear Birmingham is a lovely place to start lol I will definitely be able to travel around, don't think distance will be an issue for me thankfully
Yeah don't bother with the regional one Wales is dead mate.
Do not go to Birmingham mate trust me constantly get pied there
Thanks for the info, what ones would you recommend?
It won't be this side of Xmas anyway but hopefully in the new year I can get away for a bit, "Stick to the lounge mate | |||
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"Sending a shitty message isn’t acceptable from anyone but if someone is cunt to you, block them and forget about them. You wouldn’t want to meet them anyway. No one owes anyone a reply here even if you’ve chatted in the past. It does my head in that some people think you’re rude if you don’t reply to every mail you get. At the end of the day, most of us are strangers to each other and I prefer to save my time and energy for people I know/like/would like to get to know. " I agree, nobody is owed a reply just cause. And my point wasn't that everyone should reply, I understand what your saying though, you may aswell use your time with who you want, I'm seeing both sides now more than ever, thanks for your perspective though | |||
"Sending a shitty message isn’t acceptable from anyone but if someone is cunt to you, block them and forget about them. You wouldn’t want to meet them anyway. No one owes anyone a reply here even if you’ve chatted in the past. It does my head in that some people think you’re rude if you don’t reply to every mail you get. At the end of the day, most of us are strangers to each other and I prefer to save my time and energy for people I know/like/would like to get to know. I agree, nobody is owed a reply just cause. And my point wasn't that everyone should reply, I understand what your saying though, you may aswell use your time with who you want, I'm seeing both sides now more than ever, thanks for your perspective though "To be fair, it’s refreshing to see someone willing to see the other side and take feedback on board. I imagine your location doesn’t really help but if you’re willing to travel you should be grand! | |||
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"Sending a shitty message isn’t acceptable from anyone but if someone is cunt to you, block them and forget about them. You wouldn’t want to meet them anyway. No one owes anyone a reply here even if you’ve chatted in the past. It does my head in that some people think you’re rude if you don’t reply to every mail you get. At the end of the day, most of us are strangers to each other and I prefer to save my time and energy for people I know/like/would like to get to know. I agree, nobody is owed a reply just cause. And my point wasn't that everyone should reply, I understand what your saying though, you may aswell use your time with who you want, I'm seeing both sides now more than ever, thanks for your perspective though
To be fair, it’s refreshing to see someone willing to see the other side and take feedback on board. I imagine your location doesn’t really help but if you’re willing to travel you should be grand!"Well personally I don't see a point in speaking your mind if your not willing to take some stuff on board, I'm not right about everything I think so when a fresh perspective comes along id be silly to not take it on board. A little maturity goes a long way here I see | |||
"There will never be an equality here because of the imbalanced ratio of men to women. It has negative impacts on both sides and it's unlikely to change. It's like with most things in this world, some get more than others, some can't handle the attention/power and get distorted and some try it with arse licking. Bit like politics. However there are many inbetween and that's where the fun can be found. " You are dead right, there's no equality nor will there ever be probably, but I hope for the future that it becomes a lot more fun, and maybe I've been goung about this the completely wrong way but I'm willing to change and try new things to rectify that entirely, I appreciate you for taking the time to give me some feedback about all of this, and with you and everyone else on this thread, and indeed anyone that reads this and relates to it, they will be able to see genuine nice people that want to help and not hinder and that's just fantastic, and of a Tuesday no less  | |||
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"Just want to say thanks to everyone who has helped this morning, I appreciate you all. I feel a lot happier and hopeful about the whole issue, thanks for taking the time to give me different perspectives and things to take into consideration, you are all gems "Did the 55year old in Monaghan get back to ya though? | |||
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"Just want to say thanks to everyone who has helped this morning, I appreciate you all. I feel a lot happier and hopeful about the whole issue, thanks for taking the time to give me different perspectives and things to take into consideration, you are all gems
Did the 55year old in Monaghan get back to ya though?"Sadly, she was just an example.. But, if there's any 55 year old in monaghan want to prove me wrong, feel free  | |||
"just go to meet and greet, you will be grand " Absolutely, that's the plan anyway, if I win the Fab Lotto and get my name on a list I will be there with bells on | |||
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"just go to meet and greet, you will be grand Absolutely, that's the plan anyway, if I win the Fab Lotto and get my name on a list I will be there with bells on "Ah the meet and greets arent as hard to get invites to as the parties, judging from your ability for basic communication and discussion shown above you will be grand. | |||
"just go to meet and greet, you will be grand Absolutely, that's the plan anyway, if I win the Fab Lotto and get my name on a list I will be there with bells on
Ah the meet and greets arent as hard to get invites to as the parties, judging from your ability for basic communication and discussion shown above you will be grand."I appreciate that bud, I just want to do like many others do on here. Have fun, meet nice people, and enjoy myself so, onwards and upwards | |||
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" Yeah don't bother with the regional one Wales is dead mate. Do not go to Birmingham mate trust me constantly get pied there " Hush Gorgeous, you know that’s not true. We’re very welcoming in Birmingham OP | |||
"Well done op on outlining your issue clearly and in a well mannered way. Most of these type threads come across as cranky and lead to rows easily enough as there's usually a particular target for the post. I think you've just been unlucky tbh. There are a lot of women here who make up for the few that act like primadonnas. They are out there so keep looking. Best of luck! " Thank you for your kind words, I find its a lot easier to communicate the issue when you can take a look at yourself and see what you are doing wrong, I've no doubt there are plenty of lovely women out there and I look forward to meeting some of them, a little maturity seems to go a long way as I've said before so, I'll keep on keeping on | |||
"Well done op on outlining your issue clearly and in a well mannered way. Most of these type threads come across as cranky and lead to rows easily enough as there's usually a particular target for the post. I think you've just been unlucky tbh. There are a lot of women here who make up for the few that act like primadonnas. They are out there so keep looking. Best of luck! Thank you for your kind words, I find its a lot easier to communicate the issue when you can take a look at yourself and see what you are doing wrong, I've no doubt there are plenty of lovely women out there and I look forward to meeting some of them, a little maturity seems to go a long way as I've said before so, I'll keep on keeping on " | |||
" Yeah don't bother with the regional one Wales is dead mate. Do not go to Birmingham mate trust me constantly get pied there Hush Gorgeous, you know that’s not true. We’re very welcoming in Birmingham OP "I have no doubt, I may even experience it for myself at some stage | |||
"So, after being here a long enough time now, I've met some people, I've chatted I've seen many happy people, but overall it's men complaining about women, and women saying men should be almost lucky to get a message back. I'm done with the double standard, call me salty, call me immature, call me what you want. There's no equality here, there's no fair here. Whoever agrees or doesn't agree doesn't matter, I just wanted to say my piece, this site is not as fun as people make out, because the only people that make it out to be fun are of course, you guessed it, women. I love women and I especially love nice women, but I don't get how a 55 year old woman in monaghan can act like she's the fuckin queen when you ask how she is, that's just not right that's an example not an actual real person I'm talking about, scenarios like that are turning women into pretentious stuck up people and I do not like people like that.
I do look forward to all the "OGs" going to tell me what they think about this post, I honestly couldn't give two shits, I'm venting and I'm sure if half the men weren't acting like beta males to get meet they would agree too. "Spot on. This site gives some women unbelievable notions about themselves. In real life they wouldn't get a look in but on here some of them rule the roost because fellas would tell them anything just to get their mickeys wet. Makes you wonder. Noel. | |||
"So, after being here a long enough time now, I've met some people, I've chatted I've seen many happy people, but overall it's men complaining about women, and women saying men should be almost lucky to get a message back. I'm done with the double standard, call me salty, call me immature, call me what you want. There's no equality here, there's no fair here. Whoever agrees or doesn't agree doesn't matter, I just wanted to say my piece, this site is not as fun as people make out, because the only people that make it out to be fun are of course, you guessed it, women. I love women and I especially love nice women, but I don't get how a 55 year old woman in monaghan can act like she's the fuckin queen when you ask how she is, that's just not right that's an example not an actual real person I'm talking about, scenarios like that are turning women into pretentious stuck up people and I do not like people like that.
I do look forward to all the "OGs" going to tell me what they think about this post, I honestly couldn't give two shits, I'm venting and I'm sure if half the men weren't acting like beta males to get meet they would agree too.
Spot on. This site gives some women unbelievable notions about themselves. In real life they wouldn't get a look in but on here some of them rule the roost because fellas would tell them anything just to get their mickeys wet.
Makes you wonder.
Noel. "I agree, I can't just say what people want to hear, I have to be myself and with all the advice I find it easier now to do that than I ever had on here, there's weird people on both sides, the stuck up and the desperate, but I've seen there's some really nice people here too, it's given me some hope for the future, cheers for your input tho | |||
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"So after fixing my profile, I'm looking for tips, pointers, what I should or shouldn't have on it, and with my profile pic, is it too normal or what? I swear I'm a little more intelligent than I'm putting across but I'm second guessing myself lol "For the love of god never use the word gem A few more public pics....the ladies like the eye candy too Also some people dont like profiles with face pics as they think it indicates a lack of discretion | |||
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"So after fixing my profile, I'm looking for tips, pointers, what I should or shouldn't have on it, and with my profile pic, is it too normal or what? I swear I'm a little more intelligent than I'm putting across but I'm second guessing myself lol
For the love of god never use the word gem
A few more public pics....the ladies like the eye candy too
Also some people dont like profiles with face pics as they think it indicates a lack of discretion"What's wrong with gem? Id say it in person too I just text like I talk
So body pics, and naked ones? I can do that | |||
"I do laugh at women on here, they hold the power and they know it and manners and respectfulness goes out the window. If a guy sends a nice polite opening message it wouldn’t hurt to reply! I could expand on this but I don’t want to offend all the obvious models on here
I used to reply to almost all my messages on here. Just to say thanks but no thank you. And I got some of the worst abusive messages I've ever read. Men who couldn't take rejection telling me how fat, ugly, stupid, and disgusting I am anyway and how they never wanted me in the first place.
One charmer even went so far as to advise me to start making myself sick because I was so hideously obese.
So its very easy to say women don't reply because they're rude but actually in most cases you can blame your fellow men for that one.
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" What's wrong with gem? Id say it in person too I just text like I talk
So body pics, and naked ones? I can do that "Cringey fab verifications have ruined that word for me for eternity...
Ya get naked but if your gonna put cock pics up make em classy... dress that bad boy up in a bow tie | |||
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"I've nothing to add that hasn't already been said and your profile reads well. Just one small thing...I know you're list of interests isn't intended to be exhaustive but are you really not interested in safe sex?" I must've clicked that off when I was doin the new list. Thank you for reading it, and telling me about that mistake, it's safe sex or no sex with me | |||
"I've nothing to add that hasn't already been said and your profile reads well. Just one small thing...I know you're list of interests isn't intended to be exhaustive but are you really not interested in safe sex? I must've clicked that off when I was doin the new list. Thank you for reading it, and telling me about that mistake, it's safe sex or no sex with me "No problem and good luck with your new invigorated attitude. Think we all have the Fab doldrums now and again. Which is incidentally - and somewhat ironically - often the reason some of our messages go unanswered | |||
