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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s the bouncers approach
“Sorry regulars only” - “but how can I become a regular if you won’t let me in”
- “just move along there your blocking the entrance” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are plenty people that will meet non verified people for a social as well as meet and greets.
If you search the forums for tips for newbies you might pick up some helpful ideas  |
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You've actually spent more time writing this post whingeing than you did writing your profile, cock blocking yourself there.
Add a variety of pics to your profile. Take the time to write something that might catch someone's eye.
DO NOT SEND COCK PICS
Chat in the forum, the chat room etc.
We all climbed over the stumbling blocks your meeting, dust yourself off, get up and try again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met plenty of unverified people to give them first verify and advice over over coffee. People were kind to me when I started off. For the most part they were polite well mannered and respectful of the fact it was just coffee. But unfortunately couple of males put me off. They misunderstood my kind offer of just coffee and thought they were getting a blowjob in the car after. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Correct me if I'm wrong but short version seems to be that you want to meet and fuck without putting any effort in at all cos when you know, you know.
Question then is, how are either party gonna know without you putting the effort in, you know? |
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"Well at least he's owned up he's married and he don't do coffee so any takers
He doesn't really have the art of conversation though  "
Yes and I think this is why he will get no meets but if he changes his mind about going for coffee he might win this back |
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"Well at least he's owned up he's married and he don't do coffee so any takers
He doesn't really have the art of conversation though
Yes and I think this is why he will get no meets but if he changes his mind about going for coffee he might win this back "
You reckon? Married, no time for getting to know someone, wants a quick ride, lacking sentence structure....hmmmmmm, let me think?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dear jaysus this is a recurring problem with alot of the messages i receive put some god damn effort in can guarentee no woman is going to meet open her legs and give you the ride we aint prostitutes here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont have time for coffee "
So you don't have time for coffee... Which means you don't have time to give a lady a chance to meet and verify you which is what your post is about in the first place......kinda hard to fathom that one but anyway hope things work out for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wouldn go down on you anyway"
That's not what you said when you messaged us lol. But hey, any hole's a goal, right buddy? Thankfully we're a little more discerning 
Good luck in your quest for that elusive meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People like OP is what makes fab horrible.
Finding genuine single men, who are brave enough not to chicken out is hard enough. Finding Men, who are willing to put some effort in is almost impossible.
Personally I would absolutely hate meeting a married man. Why?
Because I know he'll put more effort into seducing me than seducing his own wife, who he's busy complaining about for not having a sex drive and I would absolutely hate my own man to pay more attention to some random bimbo who may spread her legs for him than me.
Also many more other reasons.
Don't have time for a coffee?? Don't have time to get to know someone enough to have chemistry? Delete your profile now. This is not a dial a ride.
Swinging is based on respecting others preferences. Swinging is about making ALL parties happy.
You, OP seem to be one entitled and rude person, I genuinely wish there was less of your type on this site.
P.S. I had your profile blocked before, I'm certain it's for a good reason. |
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"People like OP is what makes fab horrible.
Finding genuine single men, who are brave enough not to chicken out is hard enough. Finding Men, who are willing to put some effort in is almost impossible.
Personally I would absolutely hate meeting a married man. Why?
Because I know he'll put more effort into seducing me than seducing his own wife, who he's busy complaining about for not having a sex drive and I would absolutely hate my own man to pay more attention to some random bimbo who may spread her legs for him than me.
Also many more other reasons.
Don't have time for a coffee?? Don't have time to get to know someone enough to have chemistry? Delete your profile now. This is not a dial a ride.
Swinging is based on respecting others preferences. Swinging is about making ALL parties happy.
You, OP seem to be one entitled and rude person, I genuinely wish there was less of your type on this site.
P.S. I had your profile blocked before, I'm certain it's for a good reason. "
Yes this is about right |
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By *arl2020Man
over a year ago
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Hey missus what your saying is dead right but I'd like to think I'm a genuine guy and wont chicken out to meet up even for a coffee but still no luck on here so weather your nice are not and your still not guaranteed a meet I'm not agree with the way he going on and with his remarks but u dont blame guys that get fed up with not getting meets are even s social |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People like OP is what makes fab horrible.
Finding genuine single men, who are brave enough not to chicken out is hard enough. Finding Men, who are willing to put some effort in is almost impossible.
Personally I would absolutely hate meeting a married man. Why?
Because I know he'll put more effort into seducing me than seducing his own wife, who he's busy complaining about for not having a sex drive and I would absolutely hate my own man to pay more attention to some random bimbo who may spread her legs for him than me.
Also many more other reasons.
Don't have time for a coffee?? Don't have time to get to know someone enough to have chemistry? Delete your profile now. This is not a dial a ride.
Swinging is based on respecting others preferences. Swinging is about making ALL parties happy.
You, OP seem to be one entitled and rude person, I genuinely wish there was less of your type on this site.
P.S. I had your profile blocked before, I'm certain it's for a good reason. "
100% agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey missus what your saying is dead right but I'd like to think I'm a genuine guy and wont chicken out to meet up even for a coffee but still no luck on here so weather your nice are not and your still not guaranteed a meet I'm not agree with the way he going on and with his remarks but u dont blame guys that get fed up with not getting meets are even s social "
Altough I have met many unverified guys and couples (my personal preference). I do find it the biggest problem to be no shows.
I am one of them people who are against having any pressure of having sex with.
I offer someone to meet for a drink and get to know each other and still end up with more no shows than anything else (even when arranged meet is with a well verified fab member).
People don't want to meet unverified fabbers as veris act as some kind of insurance that the person or people will show up, but it's not true. I had way more no shows from married or well verified people than I had from newbies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People like OP is what makes fab horrible.
Finding genuine single men, who are brave enough not to chicken out is hard enough. Finding Men, who are willing to put some effort in is almost impossible.
Personally I would absolutely hate meeting a married man. Why?
Because I know he'll put more effort into seducing me than seducing his own wife, who he's busy complaining about for not having a sex drive and I would absolutely hate my own man to pay more attention to some random bimbo who may spread her legs for him than me.
Also many more other reasons.
Don't have time for a coffee?? Don't have time to get to know someone enough to have chemistry? Delete your profile now. This is not a dial a ride.
Swinging is based on respecting others preferences. Swinging is about making ALL parties happy.
You, OP seem to be one entitled and rude person, I genuinely wish there was less of your type on this site.
P.S. I had your profile blocked before, I'm certain it's for a good reason. "
Jeez..Missus ..are you a Carpenter ?...cause you really hit that nail on the head ....well said lady ...well said |
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Another thread from men with completely generic profiles complaining no women will meet them after they went to all the trouble of logging on.
Why isn't this site like some kind of Shebay with a "ride it now" option?
Cannot travel? I suppose that's "does not deliver to your address."
Cannot accommodate? Ah that's for the creeps, doesn't apply to a ride like me.
They're offering constructive criticism in the forum's, better insult them. That'll strengthen my case.
Meet for a coffee? Clearly code for sex. Sure they owe me the ride if I'm forking out 7 quid for coffee and a muffin. Here ya go love, cup a java and a side of stud muffin.
All these women telling me to spruce up my profile, have a bit of respect and patience?
Lesbian's.
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"I have met plenty of unverified people to give them first verify and advice over over coffee. People were kind to me when I started off. For the most part they were polite well mannered and respectful of the fact it was just coffee. But unfortunately couple of males put me off. They misunderstood my kind offer of just coffee and thought they were getting a blowjob in the car after."
there is always a few dopes
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So missus would u fancy meeting up for s coffee then and I can show that all us men arnt thst bad thst I will show up and gave s chat and s coffee and nothing else "
I genuinely don't need any random people to "prove me wrong" and "show me how there's some decent men about".
I never said there wasn't any good men, there's just very far and few compared with dial a ride brigade. |
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over a year ago
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"Well at least he's owned up he's married and he don't do coffee so any takers
He doesn't really have the art of conversation though "
I think he is doing a great job, he should be encouraged to talk more... as the more he talks the better the rest of us single guys look without even saying a word. Guys who would actually like a coffee. |
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...that means an enticing profile, pics & ice breaker... 
yes I know you just sent me one 
