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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never got a coffee when I've done it....few restraining orders...and a knee in the bollix is about all"
...Yeah that's how i would see this, thanks for your comment. Maybe someone will have more optimistic story for us... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews. "
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha"
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it! "
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dose it work? Or this is possible only in this prank videos on Facebook????
It always worked for me
Wait
That was 40 years ago when I was young and fit
Probably won't work now lol"
Haha fair point....thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a few coffee meets..all simply just coffee...but the chat has always been great! I think most ladies on here appreciate a social meet first, I think it's certainly an opportunity for someone to put their best foot forward which their fab profile may not always portray |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it! "
 why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me. "
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dose it work? Or this is possible only in this prank videos on Facebook????"
If a stranger walked up to me in the street and asked me for coffee I'd look for the hidden cameras because they have to be winding me up. Then I'd run away |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me.
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that"
So basically ,,a friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me.
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that
So basically ,,a friend "
Without benefits |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
where the wild roses grow |
"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me.
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that
So basically ,,a friend Without benefits "
So a Fwb |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me.
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that
So basically ,,a friend Without benefits
So a Fwb "
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me.
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that
So basically ,,a friend Without benefits "
if the friend paid for the day out, does that qualify as a benefit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me.
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that
So basically ,,a friend Without benefits if the friend paid for the day out, does that qualify as a benefit? "
Oh you're getting into murky territory there..
Anyway, surely all friends come with benefits of some kind, or why bother? |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me.
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that
So basically ,,a friend Without benefits if the friend paid for the day out, does that qualify as a benefit?
Oh you're getting into murky territory there..
Anyway, surely all friends come with benefits of some kind, or why bother? "
None of ye ever just hung out with a FWB for a couple of hours just to hang out?
Doesn't sound like much of a friend if you feel the need to only be around them for sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews. "
Well...you're not wrong there tbh...like... both are meeting to see if that bridge is gonna be crossed ..if so ..great ...if not. .ain't the end of the World ..but well summed up with your " like pre sex interviews " |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me.
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that
So basically ,,a friend Without benefits if the friend paid for the day out, does that qualify as a benefit?
Oh you're getting into murky territory there..
Anyway, surely all friends come with benefits of some kind, or why bother?
None of ye ever just hung out with a FWB for a couple of hours just to hang out?
Doesn't sound like much of a friend if you feel the need to only be around them for sex "
That's why I wouldn't use the term in the first place, sex is easily got, real friendship not so much |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me.
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that
So basically ,,a friend Without benefits if the friend paid for the day out, does that qualify as a benefit?
Oh you're getting into murky territory there..
Anyway, surely all friends come with benefits of some kind, or why bother?
None of ye ever just hung out with a FWB for a couple of hours just to hang out?
Doesn't sound like much of a friend if you feel the need to only be around them for sex
That's why I wouldn't use the term in the first place, sex is easily got, real friendship not so much"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me.
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that
So basically ,,a friend Without benefits if the friend paid for the day out, does that qualify as a benefit?
Oh you're getting into murky territory there..
Anyway, surely all friends come with benefits of some kind, or why bother?
None of ye ever just hung out with a FWB for a couple of hours just to hang out?
Doesn't sound like much of a friend if you feel the need to only be around them for sex
That's why I wouldn't use the term in the first place, sex is easily got, real friendship not so much
The difference between a FB and a FWB "
It's just not something that would appeal to me at all, if I liked someone that much and we shared what I consider real friendship and regular sex, it would be a relationship. Each to their own as they say. |
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Are you talking about random on fab?
Or are you talking about random strangers on the street, walking up and saying "Fancy a coffee?"
It actually happens me on a regular basis. Never by an Irish girl though.
A russian girl asked me could I take a photo of her at the bridge on O'Connell street. I said of course yeah. She pulled a big face for the photo, I laughed.
She asked if she could repay me with a cup of coffee, I said I dont drink coffee, cause I am awkward and said I drink tea instead. Anyway went for it, had a nice time hanging out, then she got the airbus to the airport and flew home as it was her last day.
Another girl who had bright green hair, and punk ripped clothes on, covered in tattoos from LA, asked if I wanted a cup. We ended up walking down to the pigeon house that night as she said she wanted to visit it. Didn't turn into sex, but maybe it could have cause she told me she goes to nudist beaches and has had 3somes.
I was walking up into the Dublin mountains and on two different occassions women asked to tag along with me. Irish women never go for a walk with me. One was a blonde american on a hiking trip. The other was two south american girls who were living in Ireland they asked to join me and were trying to get better at hiking cause they wanted to do hiking holidays outside Ireland.
I can only really remember one Irish girl asking me if I wanted a cup of tea random on the street. I was standing at a bus stop and she was on other side of road struggling with bags of shopping, So I asked her if she needed a hand, and helped her carry them home then she invited me in for a cup of tea said I could see the bus coming from her front window and could sit inside till it came.
Anyway, yeah it happens all the time really. I can only imagine it happens women non stop. Although I would never random ask a woman. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dose it work? Or this is possible only in this prank videos on Facebook????
If a stranger walked up to me in the street and asked me for coffee I'd look for the hidden cameras because they have to be winding me up. Then I'd run away"
Yeah, and this is what I was asking for...stranger on the street asking to go for coffee now...so would be NO in your case??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Are you talking about random on fab?
Or are you talking about random strangers on the street, walking up and saying "Fancy a coffee?"
It actually happens me on a regular basis. Never by an Irish girl though.
A russian girl asked me could I take a photo of her at the bridge on O'Connell street. I said of course yeah. She pulled a big face for the photo, I laughed.
She asked if she could repay me with a cup of coffee, I said I dont drink coffee, cause I am awkward and said I drink tea instead. Anyway went for it, had a nice time hanging out, then she got the airbus to the airport and flew home as it was her last day.
Another girl who had bright green hair, and punk ripped clothes on, covered in tattoos from LA, asked if I wanted a cup. We ended up walking down to the pigeon house that night as she said she wanted to visit it. Didn't turn into sex, but maybe it could have cause she told me she goes to nudist beaches and has had 3somes.
I was walking up into the Dublin mountains and on two different occassions women asked to tag along with me. Irish women never go for a walk with me. One was a blonde american on a hiking trip. The other was two south american girls who were living in Ireland they asked to join me and were trying to get better at hiking cause they wanted to do hiking holidays outside Ireland.
I can only really remember one Irish girl asking me if I wanted a cup of tea random on the street. I was standing at a bus stop and she was on other side of road struggling with bags of shopping, So I asked her if she needed a hand, and helped her carry them home then she invited me in for a cup of tea said I could see the bus coming from her front window and could sit inside till it came.
Anyway, yeah it happens all the time really. I can only imagine it happens women non stop. Although I would never random ask a woman."
Hi and thanks for your message here, yeah I was wondering about stranger on the street, seems to be so easy on this prank videos but how it is in real life, not that nice looks like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dose it work? Or this is possible only in this prank videos on Facebook????
If a stranger walked up to me in the street and asked me for coffee I'd look for the hidden cameras because they have to be winding me up. Then I'd run away
Yeah, and this is what I was asking for...stranger on the street asking to go for coffee now...so would be NO in your case???"
It certainly would |
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me. "
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me.
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that
So basically ,,a friend Without benefits if the friend paid for the day out, does that qualify as a benefit?
Oh you're getting into murky territory there..
Anyway, surely all friends come with benefits of some kind, or why bother?
None of ye ever just hung out with a FWB for a couple of hours just to hang out?
Doesn't sound like much of a friend if you feel the need to only be around them for sex
That's why I wouldn't use the term in the first place, sex is easily got, real friendship not so much"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Dose it work? Or this is possible only in this prank videos on Facebook????
If a stranger walked up to me in the street and asked me for coffee I'd look for the hidden cameras because they have to be winding me up. Then I'd run away
Yeah, and this is what I was asking for...stranger on the street asking to go for coffee now...so would be NO in your case??? It certainly would "
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me.
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that
So basically ,,a friend Without benefits if the friend paid for the day out, does that qualify as a benefit?
Oh you're getting into murky territory there..
Anyway, surely all friends come with benefits of some kind, or why bother?
None of ye ever just hung out with a FWB for a couple of hours just to hang out?
Doesn't sound like much of a friend if you feel the need to only be around them for sex
That's why I wouldn't use the term in the first place, sex is easily got, real friendship not so much
The difference between a FB and a FWB "
Each on their own. When I hang out for hours then there's sex involved, that doesn't mean the fwb is a fb only. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me.
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that
So basically ,,a friend Without benefits if the friend paid for the day out, does that qualify as a benefit?
Oh you're getting into murky territory there..
Anyway, surely all friends come with benefits of some kind, or why bother?
None of ye ever just hung out with a FWB for a couple of hours just to hang out?
Doesn't sound like much of a friend if you feel the need to only be around them for sex
That's why I wouldn't use the term in the first place, sex is easily got, real friendship not so much
The difference between a FB and a FWB
Each on their own. When I hang out for hours then there's sex involved, that doesn't mean the fwb is a fb only. "
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By *oghunter33Woman
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me.
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that
So basically ,,a friend Without benefits if the friend paid for the day out, does that qualify as a benefit?
Oh you're getting into murky territory there..
Anyway, surely all friends come with benefits of some kind, or why bother?
None of ye ever just hung out with a FWB for a couple of hours just to hang out?
Doesn't sound like much of a friend if you feel the need to only be around them for sex
That's why I wouldn't use the term in the first place, sex is easily got, real friendship not so much
The difference between a FB and a FWB
Each on their own. When I hang out for hours then there's sex involved, that doesn't mean the fwb is a fb only.
...would love to take you for the coffee... "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me.
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that
So basically ,,a friend Without benefits if the friend paid for the day out, does that qualify as a benefit?
Oh you're getting into murky territory there..
Anyway, surely all friends come with benefits of some kind, or why bother?
None of ye ever just hung out with a FWB for a couple of hours just to hang out?
Doesn't sound like much of a friend if you feel the need to only be around them for sex
That's why I wouldn't use the term in the first place, sex is easily got, real friendship not so much
The difference between a FB and a FWB
Each on their own. When I hang out for hours then there's sex involved, that doesn't mean the fwb is a fb only.
...would love to take you for the coffee...
That's very kind of you, unfortunately doghunter doesn't do coffee meets. "
Hahaha i knew that it's never easy...tell me so what doghunter is doing??????? |
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By *oghunter33Woman
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me.
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that
So basically ,,a friend Without benefits if the friend paid for the day out, does that qualify as a benefit?
Oh you're getting into murky territory there..
Anyway, surely all friends come with benefits of some kind, or why bother?
None of ye ever just hung out with a FWB for a couple of hours just to hang out?
Doesn't sound like much of a friend if you feel the need to only be around them for sex
That's why I wouldn't use the term in the first place, sex is easily got, real friendship not so much
The difference between a FB and a FWB
Each on their own. When I hang out for hours then there's sex involved, that doesn't mean the fwb is a fb only.
...would love to take you for the coffee...
That's very kind of you, unfortunately doghunter doesn't do coffee meets.
Hahaha i knew that it's never easy...tell me so what doghunter is doing???????"
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"Fab coffee meets are like pre sex interviews.
Can be yes, fully agree....but also can be just a coffee when you have quite day....or not? Is it always about sex haha
No. Its not always about sex. I have spent lovely days with two people whom are my FwBs and even if we had a filthy minds we behaved very well
God damn it!
why would you spend days with a fwb and not claim the benefit? Makes no sense to me.
Nor me, seems like a platonic friendship, not that there's anything wrong with that
So basically ,,a friend Without benefits if the friend paid for the day out, does that qualify as a benefit?
Oh you're getting into murky territory there..
Anyway, surely all friends come with benefits of some kind, or why bother?
None of ye ever just hung out with a FWB for a couple of hours just to hang out?
Doesn't sound like much of a friend if you feel the need to only be around them for sex
That's why I wouldn't use the term in the first place, sex is easily got, real friendship not so much
The difference between a FB and a FWB
Each on their own. When I hang out for hours then there's sex involved, that doesn't mean the fwb is a fb only.
...would love to take you for the coffee...
That's very kind of you, unfortunately doghunter doesn't do coffee meets.
Hahaha i knew that it's never easy...tell me so what doghunter is doing???????
A good hunter chooses the prey carefully and goes straight for the kill. "
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