"You see this term bandied about on profiles, what exactly does it mean to you? "
Having the intelligence to treat someone as you yourself would like to be treated. Also show yourself to be respectful, small acts like giving your seat to an elderly person, that kinda stuff. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Simply being polite mannerly like on fab where so many reports of people unfortunately mostly guys when don't get there own way"
Surely it has to go beyond words? |
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"You see this term bandied about on profiles, what exactly does it mean to you? "
Those who tend to have words like respectful, discreet and no drama emblazoned on profiles, in my experience, tend to have a complete lack of such principles. It's just basic fab lip service.
Bit like that word genuine. It means nothing to me.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You see this term bandied about on profiles, what exactly does it mean to you?
Those who tend to have words like respectful, discreet and no drama emblazoned on profiles, in my experience, tend to have a complete lack of such principles. It's just basic fab lip service.
Bit like that word genuine. It means nothing to me. "
Indeed, our observations have been similar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its something I would like to think I give everyone until they give me a reason not to.
It doesnt mean I like a person but or will agree with everything they say. But they will get my honest opinions and interactions.
When I have lost respect for someone I juat stop engaging with them in any serious manner |
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Those who tend to have words like respectful, discreet and no drama emblazoned on profiles, in my experience, tend to have a complete lack of such principles. It's just basic fab lip service.
Bit like that word genuine. It means nothing to me. "
So very true! Non pushy another one of those words or easy going. 9/10 they're not!
Respect is dependent on the situation I think. But I'd like to think someone I'd fab meet would be a decent human being and treat me with the same regard they'd treat non fab people, (unless they're a dickhead), listen to what I want and be honest about what they can or can't do.
Basically don't view me as a goal to a hole only...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You see this term bandied about on profiles, what exactly does it mean to you? "
Treat people here how you would like them to treat you . That to me is respect . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You see this term bandied about on profiles, what exactly does it mean to you?
Treat people here how you would like them to treat you . That to me is respect . "
This 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You see this term bandied about on profiles, what exactly does it mean to you? "
Respect ,to me ,means one thing ,pure and simple ,no condescending, obnoxious, pompous, arrogant or abusive Messages or attitudes...you let the other person be the person they are ,if you click ,great ,if not ,you do not degrade them with verbals regards their physical appearance or other attributes. |
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Echoing what other women on the thread have said, respect means being treated like a whole human being and not just a prospective ride. This means - addressing me with the same basic manners you would afford any stranger on the street (sadly a high bar to meet on this site), accepting and respecting my boundaries, and having patience, aka an awareness that I have an actual life outside of Fab.
I've come across a lot of people on here who think that because it's a sex site, the above doesn't apply, unfortunately. |
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Respect works both ways and in the world of fab should apply equally to everyone regardless of sexual preference or how they identify.
There are numerous threads about disrespectful men but it has to be said that is not only men who don't understand the word.
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I think it can mean a number of things.
To firstly have manners and act in appropriate way.
Know the difference between Human Being a Being Human, treat people as humans, not a piece of meat.
Remember at the other end there is a real person with feelings, if they are not your type dont abuse them for not having the body shape or face you like.
To pay attention to others wishes and rules, to not cross their line or boundaries.
In general be nice and take rejection well and move on
That's my opinion
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Respect means Im a human being like others. Im not a sex toy, a thing you can play or shag because you want.
Also, having manners, being polite and have understanding to single mums, people with diff disabilities.
Having enough courage to be yourself and treating others in the same way you want to be treated 
It seems it is too much for many people here and the irony is we all are adults.
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By *ucky24Man
over a year ago
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Just to echo what Smokey witch said.
I believe respect is treating people how you would wish to be treated. Also treating them a whole person not just a hole.
People are precious and should be valued. However some people treat their possessions with more respect than their fellow human beings.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Those who tend to have words like respectful, discreet and no drama emblazoned on profiles, in my experience, tend to have a complete lack of such principles. It's just basic fab lip service.
Bit like that word genuine. It means nothing to me.
So very true! Non pushy another one of those words or easy going. 9/10 they're not!
Respect is dependent on the situation I think. But I'd like to think someone I'd fab meet would be a decent human being and treat me with the same regard they'd treat non fab people, (unless they're a dickhead), listen to what I want and be honest about what they can or can't do.
Basically don't view me as a goal to a hole only...
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Respect is definitely dependent on situations and the person you're in the company of. Unfortunately we don't find out what an utter Dick they are until after we've met them.
As I said all that jargon of respecting rules, boundaries and the person as a human with feelings is fabswinger lip service that people write because it fills space on profiles and they think it's what you want to hear.
These thing's can only be demonstrated by actions. Not what is banded about on profiles and on forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It should be a given and so doesn't need to be spelled out.
Let's not forget the 'veri treat her/him with respect'...  "
If I knew how to forget that shite I would  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It should be a given and so doesn't need to be spelled out.
Let's not forget the 'veri treat her/him with respect'... "
Ah but what I'm seeing here is that people don't seem to consider that respect doesn't just involve how you behave to the person's face, but also behind their back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Treat people online as you would were you sitting across from them. Back biting and sniping is soon found out...that's when the big ole block button comes in |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Respect is definitely dependent on situations and the person you're in the company of. Unfortunately we don't find out what an utter Dick they are until after we've met them.
As I said all that jargon of respecting rules, boundaries and the person as a human with feelings is fabswinger lip service that people write because it fills space on profiles and they think it's what you want to hear.
These thing's can only be demonstrated by actions. Not what is banded about on profiles and on forums. "
Exactly, they just say what they think people want to hear and the reality is actions speak louder than words. That's it in a nutshell. It's not what you say but what you do. Words are only as good as the follow through! |
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Respect is definitely dependent on situations and the person you're in the company of. Unfortunately we don't find out what an utter Dick they are until after we've met them.
As I said all that jargon of respecting rules, boundaries and the person as a human with feelings is fabswinger lip service that people write because it fills space on profiles and they think it's what you want to hear.
These thing's can only be demonstrated by actions. Not what is banded about on profiles and on forums.
Exactly, they just say what they think people want to hear and the reality is actions speak louder than words. That's it in a nutshell. It's not what you say but what you do. Words are only as good as the follow through!"
This is so true... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Exactly, they just say what they think people want to hear and the reality is actions speak louder than words. That's it in a nutshell. It's not what you say but what you do. Words are only as good as the follow through!"
Me and you would get on.  |
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"It should be a given and so doesn't need to be spelled out.
Let's not forget the 'veri treat her/him with respect'...
Ah but what I'm seeing here is that people don't seem to consider that respect doesn't just involve how you behave to the person's face, but also behind their back "
I couldnt agree more, I wouldn't cum on a ladies back without asking, same as i wouldn't cum on her face or boobs without asking.....ones gotta show respect  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Grinds my gears when someone has plastered "respectful" all over their profiles and their private messages yet clearly not respecting my preferences and opinions.
Put those people in a bin... sorry block list  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Respect as being truthful with the others person about what your looking for, not putting pressure on them and obviously not being selfish if you do end up meeting |
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"To tell her I am about to cum in her mouth before I cum. Thats what respect means.
So considerate."
No, respectful. Some women dont want cum in their mouth, and I respect that.
Considerate is helping her out of her panties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"some of the comments are making me due to the fact that some of the people making said comments definitely don't show respect to others on these forums "
Keep seeing you guys throwing mild digs at other people's behaviours. Pot kettle? |
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"some of the comments are making me due to the fact that some of the people making said comments definitely don't show respect to others on these forums
Keep seeing you guys throwing mild digs at other people's behaviours. Pot kettle? "
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"some of the comments are making me due to the fact that some of the people making said comments definitely don't show respect to others on these forums
Keep seeing you guys throwing mild digs at other people's behaviours. Pot kettle? "
We just say it as we see it. If that's an issue don't bother looking at our posts |
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Respect is a two way street.
I generally consider myself to be mannerly and treat all with good nature, fun and banter.
If it's not reciprocated, then the other driver will find themselves in a cul de sac (without the k) |
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