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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you've met for social... agreed time and place for a meet...
Days beforehand how much teasing or texting do you do?? If any at all...
How much preparation goes into a meet ??
All depends on how teasing your doing before.
But normally I like to tease and enjoy the craic
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That all depends. Depends on the tone of things. Some like a build up some dont.
Go with the flow , if your meet like a tease or a check in.
If not keep it cool |
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over a year ago
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I prefer to keep it to a minimum once the arrangement is made, no point creating expectations that might not materialise. Just the details of where and when and any updates that might be required. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I always find of someone is interested in meeting you stay in touch and have a laugh and a flirt etc.
You know when leading up to a meet someone goes quiet they are not interested and most likely won't show. In those situations I will cancel the meet if they haven't answered messages. |
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"I always find of someone is interested in meeting you stay in touch and have a laugh and a flirt etc.
You know when leading up to a meet someone goes quiet they are not interested and most likely won't show. In those situations I will cancel the meet if they haven't answered messages. " I find a bit of cheeky texting back and forth tends to increase the anticipation and excitment! |
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"I like to tease and have a bit of banter ... get to know the other person a wee bit ..."
I’d agree but this question does come with a minor health warning. If there is no regularising contact some people will get offended and canceled, other will get annoyed if they’ve too much. For you, only a fool would stand you up. I’d even offer coffee. I grind my one, you like grinding? |
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"I would put a lot of preparation into looking well and making an effort there, I wouldn'talways flirt a lot beforehand, it depends on the person, sometimes it happens sometimes not"
I agree depends on the person you are talking to.
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"I prefer to keep it to a minimum once the arrangement is made, no point creating expectations that might not materialise. Just the details of where and when and any updates that might be required. "
This |
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"So you've met for social... agreed time and place for a meet...
Days beforehand how much teasing or texting do you do?? If any at all...
How much preparation goes into a meet ??
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I'd always prep 100% ie make sure everything sorted to be there on time etc and just text the previous day and morning/day of meet tomorrow make sure everything is still on track and tell her that Im looking forward to meeting her regardless of outcome . |
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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago
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"So you've met for social... agreed time and place for a meet...
Days beforehand how much teasing or texting do you do?? If any at all...
How much preparation goes into a meet ??
I'd always prep 100% ie make sure everything sorted to be there on time etc and just text the previous day and morning/day of meet tomorrow make sure everything is still on track and tell her that Im looking forward to meeting her regardless of outcome . "
This. |
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I'd always prep 100% ie make sure everything sorted to be there on time etc and just text the previous day and morning/day of meet tomorrow make sure everything is still on track and tell her that Im looking forward to meeting her regardless of outcome .
This. " this guy had it 100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Two possible routes here. Sometimes you just automatically click with a person and flirting and teasing and a bit of banter just comes out naturally and effortlessly and nothing seems to be a limit.
Other times you see something in a person that may interest you, but the conversation just isn't flowing, but that little something wants to give them a chance so you do, you arrange to meet them and as soon as it happens they initiate the sex talk and you just feel like "blah", don't fancy you any more |
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