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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So , after recently chatting about the subject with a lovely fab lady and the recent 'fucklicking' post.
I got to thinking.
What do ladies prefer?
What do guys prefer?
Bi guys or straight guys?
I dont fear the cock, I'm a liberal enough guy who has experienced a straight mmf with a bi couple.
So do straight guys fear the inevitability of body contact with the other male.?
Do the ladies go for bi guys to eliminate the possible tension between straight guys?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most guys we meet are straight but comfortable with accidental contact with another man. Let's be realistic, it's going to be pretty awkward if he's not. We don't really care about the man's orientation so long as boundaries are respected. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Most guys we meet are straight but comfortable with accidental contact with another man. Let's be realistic, it's going to be pretty awkward if he's not. We don't really care about the man's orientation so long as boundaries are respected. "
Top points. Realistic , respectful with boundaries |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No different to all the ass slapping and willy wanging in the showers after rugby and we are all so straight!  "
Yes, to the lads who are completely comfortable with it. But what about the lad in the dressing room that wouldn't be comfortable and wouldn't be confident enough to say it?
Wouldn't be me. Gotta be aware of it these days is all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do the ladies go for bi guys to eliminate the possible tension between straight guys? "
Definitely wouldn't be my reasoning.. It's because I would love to watch 2 guys kiss,suck,fuck.....and then join in |
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I dont fear the cock
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That's a good way to put it. The moaning, groaning, involuntary movements and struggling/grinning facial expressions of the woman is what I'd be looking at and being turned on by. The additional cock is required but its not the focus for the guys. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do the ladies go for bi guys to eliminate the possible tension between straight guys?
Definitely wouldn't be my reasoning.. It's because I would love to watch 2 guys kiss,suck,fuck.....and then join in "
Yes ,there is this too. So for you a bi mmf would be more fulfilling |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd prefer the guys to fully concentrate on me rather than each other. So as long as they do that I really don't mind if they're bi or straight.  "
Yes, it should be all about the lady. Indulge her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do the ladies go for bi guys to eliminate the possible tension between straight guys?
Definitely wouldn't be my reasoning.. It's because I would love to watch 2 guys kiss,suck,fuck.....and then join in
Yes ,there is this too. So for you a bi mmf would be more fulfilling "
And filling.. |
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Does the touching of cocks have to accidental if both guys are straight? A DVP they are touching on purpose and can still be straight? It for the females pleasure and such a turn on to se the woman so turned in. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do the ladies go for bi guys to eliminate the possible tension between straight guys?
Definitely wouldn't be my reasoning.. It's because I would love to watch 2 guys kiss,suck,fuck.....and then join in
Yes ,there is this too. So for you a bi mmf would be more fulfilling
And filling.. "
I did chose the way I phrased that.  very filling |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does the touching of cocks have to accidental if both guys are straight? A DVP they are touching on purpose and can still be straight? It for the females pleasure and such a turn on to se the woman so turned in. "
Yes I agree. There could be intentional contact of straight cocks. DVP. A dream so far |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does the touching of cocks have to accidental if both guys are straight? A DVP they are touching on purpose and can still be straight? It for the females pleasure and such a turn on to se the woman so turned in. "
"Incidental" as opposed to "accidental" then  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does the touching of cocks have to accidental if both guys are straight? A DVP they are touching on purpose and can still be straight? It for the females pleasure and such a turn on to se the woman so turned in.
"Incidental" as opposed to "accidental" then "
Could say inevitable as opposed to 'incidental' or 'accidental'
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does the touching of cocks have to accidental if both guys are straight? A DVP they are touching on purpose and can still be straight? It for the females pleasure and such a turn on to se the woman so turned in.
"Incidental" as opposed to "accidental" then
Could say inevitable as opposed to 'incidental' or 'accidental'
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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As long as the female in the mmf has as much of a good time as the 2 men I dont see what the problem would be.
My biggest fear would be a ffm when I as the male am not satisfying the 2 females like Ross in the episode of friends with his gay wife. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think both scenarios would be good fun. One where I an center of attention and the other where everyone is. Yep I'm being greedy and saying both "
Best of both worlds. |
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"I think both scenarios would be good fun. One where I an center of attention and the other where everyone is. Yep I'm being greedy and saying both "
Lol I don’t think anyone will be giving out to you Bo for this |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I think both scenarios would be good fun. One where I an center of attention and the other where everyone is. Yep I'm being greedy and saying both
Lol I don’t think anyone will be giving out to you Bo for this
Well I hope not anyhow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as everyone enjoys who cares? 3sums are amazing, mmf mfm ffm fmf, some of the best experiences I’ve had have been 3sums and as long as everyone’s comfortable the fun is incredible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does the touching of cocks have to accidental if both guys are straight? A DVP they are touching on purpose and can still be straight? It for the females pleasure and such a turn on to se the woman so turned in.
"Incidental" as opposed to "accidental" then
Could say inevitable as opposed to 'incidental' or 'accidental'
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Whether it's accidental, incidental or inevitable, if a man has any issues the touch of another male then I expect the experience might not be as "fulfilling" as the lady would like it to be.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All I know is I want one... Soon.
Same here
Let's send out a search party. 
We should "
Should be no problem getting volunteers... getting them to show up is another issue
Lee |
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"All I know is I want one... Soon.
Same here
Let's send out a search party.
We should
Should be no problem getting volunteers... getting them to show up is another issue
Lee"
If it’s a complete stranger that you have being chatting in here and never met then that is all ways a risk for every meet on here!
I was more talking about that ground work be done, the coffee meet, teasing and may be the first kissing and touchy feely session out of the way so that every one knows they are comfortable with each other!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All I know is I want one... Soon.
Same here
Let's send out a search party.
We should
Should be no problem getting volunteers... getting them to show up is another issue
Lee"
I'm unfortunately all too aware that fellow fabbers here don't show up and don't contribute either. It's just Dickish behavior.
Happens in many scenarios here not just mmf. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All I know is I want one... Soon.
Same here
Let's send out a search party.
We should
Should be no problem getting volunteers... getting them to show up is another issue
Lee
I'm unfortunately all too aware that fellow fabbers here don't show up and don't contribute either. It's just Dickish behavior.
Happens in many scenarios here not just mmf."
Yeah unfortunately it does, they don’t know what their missing out on tho when they don’t show up. |
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If youre not okay with your cock being held against his, or the tips of the head of your cocks touching as she licks them, then you shouldnt be in a 3some.
As for more stuff, it just makes you experimental, not bi, not gay, not bi curious.
Bi guys will meet either a guy or girl.
Someone who will hold another guys cock in a 3some wont run home and join gaydar and hook up with all the men he can find. He can still have zero, even less than zero interest in dating or meeting guys on his own.
Same applies to women, women being adventerous in a 3some does not make them bi, meeting women on their own, or guys on their own does. |
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As it happens myself and a mf couple are looking to explore a little further at the moment and on the lookout for an extra female to add to the mix. The female partner want to finally tick that bi curious box. If any of ye ladies fancy joining us for fun just give a shout.  |
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"If youre not okay with your cock being held against his, or the tips of the head of your cocks touching as she licks them, then you shouldnt be in a 3some.
As for more stuff, it just makes you experimental, not bi, not gay, not bi curious.
Bi guys will meet either a guy or girl.
Someone who will hold another guys cock in a 3some wont run home and join gaydar and hook up with all the men he can find. He can still have zero, even less than zero interest in dating or meeting guys on his own.
Same applies to women, women being adventerous in a 3some does not make them bi, meeting women on their own, or guys on their own does."
Spot on mate!! |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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If youre not okay with your cock being held against his, or the tips of the head of your cocks touching as she licks them, then you shouldnt be in a 3some.
As for more stuff, it just makes you experimental, not bi, not gay, not bi curious.
Bi guys will meet either a guy or girl.
Someone who will hold another guys cock in a 3some wont run home and join gaydar and hook up with all the men he can find. He can still have zero, even less than zero interest in dating or meeting guys on his own.
Same applies to women, women being adventerous in a 3some does not make them bi, meeting women on their own, or guys on their own does.
It doesn't happen often on here but I completely agree with you this time. Just because people experiment at times doesn't mean they are bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when its come to mmf for us we treat it as good fun, its all about trust and respect, I am straight and it does not bother me if the guy brushes of me, threesomes do lead to some fun positions for my wife, same as mff, my wife is bi curious and when she plays with another woman we end up in all sorts of positions no point in over thinking it as long as everyone knows the boundries before they start  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don’t mind throwing my name out there
Apologies if I come across rude. Opinions is what the post sought , not names in a hat
Sorry about that man"
No worries. Just a topic with varying views. Or so I thought. Most seem to be comfortable |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"when its come to mmf for us we treat it as good fun, its all about trust and respect, I am straight and it does not bother me if the guy brushes of me, threesomes do lead to some fun positions for my wife, same as mff, my wife is bi curious and when she plays with another woman we end up in all sorts of positions no point in over thinking it as long as everyone knows the boundries before they start "
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By *nicumCouple
over a year ago
Dublin |
"If youre not okay with your cock being held against his, or the tips of the head of your cocks touching as she licks them, then you shouldnt be in a 3some.
As for more stuff, it just makes you experimental, not bi, not gay, not bi curious.
Bi guys will meet either a guy or girl.
Someone who will hold another guys cock in a 3some wont run home and join gaydar and hook up with all the men he can find. He can still have zero, even less than zero interest in dating or meeting guys on his own.
Same applies to women, women being adventerous in a 3some does not make them bi, meeting women on their own, or guys on their own does.
It doesn't happen often on here but I completely agree with you this time. Just because people experiment at times doesn't mean they are bi. "
Could not agree more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t mind throwing my name out there
Apologies if I come across rude. Opinions is what the post sought , not names in a hat"
Really ? I was watching this thread closely ,should probably start my own thread so |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don’t mind throwing my name out there
Apologies if I come across rude. Opinions is what the post sought , not names in a hat
Really ? I was watching this thread closely ,should probably start my own thread so "
I may respond to that thread if posted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't mind the orientation of the guy joining us but we're very clear that if the thought of being up close and personal with E freaks you out then you're probably not the man for us. We enjoy frotting and fucklicking and double BJs as part of an MMF, and a little soft bi play between the men is a huge turn on if everyone is cool with it. |
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We generally only consider guys who have been verified for mfm meets. Some guys like the idea of it but then in the heat of battle they realise just how up close and personal they are going to be with another guy's raging hard on and it it all goes bad.. You don't need to be bi, you don't need to be attracted to dudes, just confident and openminded |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We generally only consider guys who have been verified for mfm meets. Some guys like the idea of it but then in the heat of battle they realise just how up close and personal they are going to be with another guy's raging hard on and it it all goes bad.. You don't need to be bi, you don't need to be attracted to dudes, just confident and openminded"
Spot on
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We generally only consider guys who have been verified for mfm meets. Some guys like the idea of it but then in the heat of battle they realise just how up close and personal they are going to be with another guy's raging hard on and it it all goes bad.. You don't need to be bi, you don't need to be attracted to dudes, just confident and openminded"
I'll have to get cracking on a couple verification |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being open minded includes bi contact as well: as ;; crossing swords o touching whit another man while having a mfm , if none of this then u can call yoursel open minded .. |
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By *reland8Man
over a year ago
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"When I started swinging, my ex and I were looking for an MFM, and included both straight and bi guys in our search (my ex was straight) as we felt bi guys might actually be more comfortable. "
And how’d that work out? |
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The mmf's I've had have been with couples and the guys have been straight. Some haven't minded cocks touching during the lady giving oral and DVD, others have been dead against it which limited what we could do.
The dream is a bi mmf |
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