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A look back (Our final fantasy)
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"We've been discussing wrapping up the lifestyle and settling down for the foreseeable and it had us looking over our whole fab experience and our original motivations to take the step. When we decided to start our Fab journey, we did it just to see if it would be hot to put pics out there for strangers to see and we randomly chatted to someone visitng from the states that clicked and we took the leap. A couple of years later and we've gone on to live out our wildest sexual fantasies, bar the elusive MFF with a female (still looking). So this thread is for two things I guess, 1 is to put it out into the universe that we're looking for a lady. 2 we'd love to hear what brought to you Fab, Did it live up to it or was it completely different ect.. " Best Wishes to you both in everyway in whatever ye do after your fab adventure and l do hope you find the lady ye wish to before ye choose your next path in life ,.. ...my own fab experience was just that ...Fab. | |||
"We've been discussing wrapping up the lifestyle and settling down for the foreseeable and it had us looking over our whole fab experience and our original motivations to take the step. When we decided to start our Fab journey, we did it just to see if it would be hot to put pics out there for strangers to see and we randomly chatted to someone visitng from the states that clicked and we took the leap. A couple of years later and we've gone on to live out our wildest sexual fantasies, bar the elusive MFF with a female (still looking). So this thread is for two things I guess, 1 is to put it out into the universe that we're looking for a lady. 2 we'd love to hear what brought to you Fab, Did it live up to it or was it completely different ect.. " What brought us hear was wanting to expand on an already great sex life. We're together over 10 years and we were really unsure when we started. We had doubts of would it ruin what we had or change how we seen each other after sleeping with other people. It began with a guy joining us then a woman. It's progressed to us meeting solo, this is something we thought we would NEVER do. We've loved the experience so far but it won't be forever. We could be bowing out soon ourselves, we want to start a family in the near future. We don't regret deciding to do this, it's been an amazing experience. | |||
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"We came late to the scene, having both had long marriages with people with whom we were essentially incompatible, not just on a sexual level. We had the advantage of our relationship starting out with complete honesty and openness, and while I (fem) feared he might see me differently after our first foray into mmf which Lee suggested, it in fact deepened our intimacy and level of trust. Basically, as we see it, if you are to be successful in the lifestyle, you have to be prepared to let down all your barriers with your partner and discuss all your feelings, positive and negative. This in turn creates a whole new level of intimacy between you, not just on a sexual level. At this point, I would say it has been an entirely positive development for us, but I would approach each new situation carefully,I don't think there's any room for complacency when you open up your relationship. And as an afterthought, I wonder how successful anyone can be at closing Pandora's box once opened? " Great read, thanks for the reply. We think you'll never really close it. However, we think we'll keep in touch with a select few and maybe do a club visit every once in a while. But it'll will definitely become alot less present in our lives and more so a yearly treat lol | |||
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"How i ended up herë was . I was dating this lady who wanted to explore with me . But unfortunatly she dumped me and look her ex back . I would never have been herë . " Worked out the best for you then in the end, That's great! | |||
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"All very interesting. I often wonder if i did meet someone and settled down would i ever bring up fab and the experiences ive had here(mostly on my old profile) and how my then partner would react! It fascinates me how couples take such a big leap " It would either destroy your relationship or enhance it ..l know it's stating the obvious but l don't think there would be any middle ground..unless of course the lady you met was here herself which l do think then it would be unreal between the two of ye ...pure amazing. | |||
"All very interesting. I often wonder if i did meet someone and settled down would i ever bring up fab and the experiences ive had here(mostly on my old profile) and how my then partner would react! It fascinates me how couples take such a big leap It would either destroy your relationship or enhance it ..l know it's stating the obvious but l don't think there would be any middle ground..unless of course the lady you met was here herself which l do think then it would be unreal between the two of ye ...pure amazing." We actually know of a couple that met on tinder and after a few dates relised they were both on here
They're are gone from fab now, funny thing is they have no idea we're on here either.
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