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Ive met 2 members from here who are wheelchair users. 1 was lovely, 1 was a lying prick, so a mixed bag 
Seriously though for me personally if there was an attraction it would 100% not make anyone less appealing to me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive met 2 members from here who are wheelchair users. 1 was lovely, 1 was a lying prick, so a mixed bag
Seriously though for me personally if there was an attraction it would 100% not make anyone less appealing to me"
Thanks that's good to know an I one the nice ones by the way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why was the other thread on this subject closed? Are we that afraid of offending people with open opinions now?
I guess depending on the type of disability it may or may not bring issues with it. It may put someone off if they have never had to get their head round the semantics of what the person can or can't do in a sexual scenario. Or maybe they feel that sex may hurt or injure the person in the chair.
I guess open discussion would be the best way to approach it so that everyone knows what to expect and so lessen the risks of unexpected reactions causing embarrassment.
And of course, the person in the chair may have the confidence and physical ability in other areas to make the wheelchair irrelevant anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fab is for fantasies and fun..
Fucking a guy in a wheelchair wouldn't be on my to do list...
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Are you trying to say that fun cant be had just because of the person been in the chair or are you afraid of the unknown |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab is for fantasies and fun..
Fucking a guy in a wheelchair wouldn't be on my to do list...
Fab, fantasies, fun and wheelchairs are not mutually exclusive. Idiotic to suggest otherwise. "
You seem sensitive with my comment, I meant it as in it might interest other people...
I said on "my" to do list..
Might be on another person's list... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab is for fantasies and fun..
Fucking a guy in a wheelchair wouldn't be on my to do list...
Are you trying to say that fun cant be had just because of the person been in the chair or are you afraid of the unknown "
It's just not in my interets that's all..
You did ask a question opening this thread I'm giving my opinion.  |
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"Why was the other thread on this subject closed? Are we that afraid of offending people with open opinions now?
I guess depending on the type of disability it may or may not bring issues with it. It may put someone off if they have never had to get their head round the semantics of what the person can or can't do in a sexual scenario. Or maybe they feel that sex may hurt or injure the person in the chair.
I guess open discussion would be the best way to approach it so that everyone knows what to expect and so lessen the risks of unexpected reactions causing embarrassment.
And of course, the person in the chair may have the confidence and physical ability in other areas to make the wheelchair irrelevant anyway. "
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"Fab is for fantasies and fun..
Fucking a guy in a wheelchair wouldn't be on my to do list...
Fab, fantasies, fun and wheelchairs are not mutually exclusive. Idiotic to suggest otherwise.
You seem sensitive with my comment, I meant it as in it might interest other people...
I said on "my" to do list..
Might be on another person's list..."
What you said was fab is for fantasies and fun. There's a hidden implication that wheelchair users cannot part take in both. Your post was pretty harsh on first reading. I understand it doesn't reflect what you meant to say. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fab is for fantasies and fun..
Fucking a guy in a wheelchair wouldn't be on my to do list...
Are you trying to say that fun cant be had just because of the person been in the chair or are you afraid of the unknown
It's just not in my interets that's all..
You did ask a question opening this thread I'm giving my opinion. "
I'm know it's not on your to do list but if you came across me in a club some night would you walk the other way based on the chair..
Lol an god no I'm not taking offense we all here for one thing.. a laugh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab is for fantasies and fun..
Fucking a guy in a wheelchair wouldn't be on my to do list...
Fab, fantasies, fun and wheelchairs are not mutually exclusive. Idiotic to suggest otherwise.
You seem sensitive with my comment, I meant it as in it might interest other people...
I said on "my" to do list..
Might be on another person's list...
What you said was fab is for fantasies and fun. There's a hidden implication that wheelchair users cannot part take in both. Your post was pretty harsh on first reading. I understand it doesn't reflect what you meant to say. "
Absolutely not!!
Apologies if you thought that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab is for fantasies and fun..
Fucking a guy in a wheelchair wouldn't be on my to do list...
Are you trying to say that fun cant be had just because of the person been in the chair or are you afraid of the unknown
It's just not in my interets that's all..
You did ask a question opening this thread I'm giving my opinion.
I'm know it's not on your to do list but if you came across me in a club some night would you walk the other way based on the chair..
Lol an god no I'm not taking offense we all here for one thing.. a laugh "
No I wouldn't...
I chat to lots of people I wouldn't play with... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab is for fantasies and fun..
Fucking a guy in a wheelchair wouldn't be on my to do list...
Are you trying to say that fun cant be had just because of the person been in the chair or are you afraid of the unknown
It's just not in my interets that's all..
You did ask a question opening this thread I'm giving my opinion.
I'm know it's not on your to do list but if you came across me in a club some night would you walk the other way based on the chair..
Lol an god no I'm not taking offense we all here for one thing.. a laugh
No I wouldn't...
I chat to lots of people I wouldn't play with..."
It may even be down to specific sexual preferences. Rough dominant sex, or certain positions would be hard or impossible to perform depending on the type of disability, and these might be what a woman is after, so the preference my just be down to incompatibility rather than a specific prejudice to the disability itself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im not 100% sure but id love to do it it just turns me on same with ugly women lol"
"ugly" women? Who made you the judge? That comment made you sound like a right twat, and I'm assuming you hold a woman in a wheelchair with the same low regard, just a cheap thrill for a neanderthal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do women on here feel towards men in wheelchairs "
No problem as far as a man is well mannered, have a good sense of humour, sexy smile and have personality and can hold a conversation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab is for fantasies and fun..
Fucking a guy in a wheelchair wouldn't be on my to do list...
Are you trying to say that fun cant be had just because of the person been in the chair or are you afraid of the unknown
It's just not in my interets that's all..
You did ask a question opening this thread I'm giving my opinion.
I'm know it's not on your to do list but if you came across me in a club some night would you walk the other way based on the chair..
Lol an god no I'm not taking offense we all here for one thing.. a laugh
No I wouldn't...
I chat to lots of people I wouldn't play with...
It may even be down to specific sexual preferences. Rough dominant sex, or certain positions would be hard or impossible to perform depending on the type of disability, and these might be what a woman is after, so the preference my just be down to incompatibility rather than a specific prejudice to the disability itself. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Smokey witch you can be the judge of my smile an conversation skills if you fancy a chat
With pleasure;-)
PM me 
Ive met Smokey in person a few weeks ago and be careful, she is a real witch
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Jaysus! You too?! Rosy, you are worse than my all family and friends 
OP, Im a normal woman, optimistic and laughing a lot nothing magical Im afraid |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Good thread but not all disabilities are visible. There are many many disabilities that are hidden. That person might look as fit as a fiddle from the outside but on the inside they can be very ill. I think the thread has gone down a one way street concerning solely wheelchair users. Just my opinion |
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Someone made a thread about meeting with a disability and the women in general said they were not a charity and would not meet them.
But these women are the same who campaigned for the right to abort babies due to being disabled. I was shocked at how many women were so open about not liking disabled men.
Men are generally more forgiving of a disability. |
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"Good thread but not all disabilities are visible. There are many many disabilities that are hidden. That person might look as fit as a fiddle from the outside but on the inside they can be very ill. I think the thread has gone down a one way street concerning solely wheelchair users. Just my opinion "
Ermm, check the title of the thread and the OP's initial question. The thread has been specifically about wheelchairs from the beginning. |
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"Good thread but not all disabilities are visible. There are many many disabilities that are hidden. That person might look as fit as a fiddle from the outside but on the inside they can be very ill. I think the thread has gone down a one way street concerning solely wheelchair users. Just my opinion
Ermm, check the title of the thread and the OP's initial question. The thread has been specifically about wheelchairs from the beginning. "
Ermm, I’m not disputing the fact that it’s about wheelchair users Ermm I’m simply suggesting that when talking or discussing disabilities not everyone who has a disability has a wheelchair and why the thread isn’t taking a wider perspective of all people with disabilities Ermm I trust that clears that up and you approve that I have an opinion Ermm |
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"Good thread but not all disabilities are visible. There are many many disabilities that are hidden. That person might look as fit as a fiddle from the outside but on the inside they can be very ill. I think the thread has gone down a one way street concerning solely wheelchair users. Just my opinion
Ermm, check the title of the thread and the OP's initial question. The thread has been specifically about wheelchairs from the beginning.
Ermm, I’m not disputing the fact that it’s about wheelchair users Ermm I’m simply suggesting that when talking or discussing disabilities not everyone who has a disability has a wheelchair and why the thread isn’t taking a wider perspective of all people with disabilities Ermm I trust that clears that up and you approve that I have an opinion Ermm "
The OP is in a wheelchair. He started a thread relevant to him.
Want to cover all bases for people with a disability? Go start a thread of your own then...
Ermm.... |
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"Good thread but not all disabilities are visible. There are many many disabilities that are hidden. That person might look as fit as a fiddle from the outside but on the inside they can be very ill. I think the thread has gone down a one way street concerning solely wheelchair users. Just my opinion
Ermm, check the title of the thread and the OP's initial question. The thread has been specifically about wheelchairs from the beginning.
Ermm, I’m not disputing the fact that it’s about wheelchair users Ermm I’m simply suggesting that when talking or discussing disabilities not everyone who has a disability has a wheelchair and why the thread isn’t taking a wider perspective of all people with disabilities Ermm I trust that clears that up and you approve that I have an opinion Ermm
The OP is in a wheelchair. He started a thread relevant to him.
Want to cover all bases for people with a disability? Go start a thread of your own then...
Ermm.... "
This! |
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"Good thread but not all disabilities are visible. There are many many disabilities that are hidden. That person might look as fit as a fiddle from the outside but on the inside they can be very ill. I think the thread has gone down a one way street concerning solely wheelchair users. Just my opinion
Ermm, check the title of the thread and the OP's initial question. The thread has been specifically about wheelchairs from the beginning.
Ermm, I’m not disputing the fact that it’s about wheelchair users Ermm I’m simply suggesting that when talking or discussing disabilities not everyone who has a disability has a wheelchair and why the thread isn’t taking a wider perspective of all people with disabilities Ermm I trust that clears that up and you approve that I have an opinion Ermm
The OP is in a wheelchair. He started a thread relevant to him.
Want to cover all bases for people with a disability? Go start a thread of your own then...
Ermm....
This! "
Exactly!
Pick a disability and start a thread about it, or do a Disability Umbrella thread that tries to cover all.
Pardon the pun but don't go derailing the wheelchair one for your own needs.
Back to the thread.
I personally would be reticent to meet a woman in a wheelchair, from a Fab perspective.
Socially, absolutely no problem but sexually, I don't know.
Literally because I don't know the complications/possibilities/ etc.
As such, I feel I'd be kinda short changing them and nobody wants that.
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"Good thread but not all disabilities are visible. There are many many disabilities that are hidden. That person might look as fit as a fiddle from the outside but on the inside they can be very ill. I think the thread has gone down a one way street concerning solely wheelchair users. Just my opinion I met a lady from pof in a wheelchair that wanted NSS but as was said above due to physical problems it was not possible to help her ,But social was great and she was amazing funny lady ,And like us all she knew what she wanted, unfortunately in the real world she would've needed help by others maybe even her carers to achieve this ,there is room for everyone in this world to get some satisfaction
Ermm, check the title of the thread and the OP's initial question. The thread has been specifically about wheelchairs from the beginning.
Ermm, I’m not disputing the fact that it’s about wheelchair users Ermm I’m simply suggesting that when talking or discussing disabilities not everyone who has a disability has a wheelchair and why the thread isn’t taking a wider perspective of all people with disabilities Ermm I trust that clears that up and you approve that I have an opinion Ermm
The OP is in a wheelchair. He started a thread relevant to him.
Want to cover all bases for people with a disability? Go start a thread of your own then...
Ermm....
This!
Exactly!
Pick a disability and start a thread about it, or do a Disability Umbrella thread that tries to cover all.
Pardon the pun but don't go derailing the wheelchair one for your own needs.
Back to the thread.
I personally would be reticent to meet a woman in a wheelchair, from a Fab perspective.
Socially, absolutely no problem but sexually, I don't know.
Literally because I don't know the complications/possibilities/ etc.
As such, I feel I'd be kinda short changing them and nobody wants that.
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