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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do men call you a time waster when you tell them you not meeting them. This guy has been messaging me all the time and i kept telling him im not meeting him but he continues to message and then finally last time he told me im a time waster how annoying is that ,have anyone else here experienced this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do men call you a time waster when you tell them you not meeting them. This guy has been messaging me all the time and i kept telling him im not meeting him but he continues to message and then finally last nite he told me im a time waster how annoying is that ,have anyone else here experienced this "
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who knows?? But probably because you on here you are contractually obliged to sleep with everyone....surely you read the small print ???
Some folk just think the art of conversation is gone... consider it a lucky escape, block and move on. xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"who knows?? But probably because you on here you are contractually obliged to sleep with everyone....surely you read the small print ???
Some folk just think the art of conversation is gone... consider it a lucky escape, block and move on. xx"
Lol |
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"Why do men call you a time waster when you tell them you not meeting them. This guy has been messaging me all the time and i kept telling him im not meeting him but he continues to message and then finally last time he told me im a time waster how annoying is that ,have anyone else here experienced this "
Spend a bit of time learning the features of fab.
You can set filters, block people, report people.
Fab is supposed to be fun and remember you're in control of any conversation not the other way around |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do men call you a time waster when you tell them you not meeting them. This guy has been messaging me all the time and i kept telling him im not meeting him but he continues to message and then finally last time he told me im a time waster how annoying is that ,have anyone else here experienced this
Spend a bit of time learning the features of fab.
You can set filters, block people, report people.
Fab is supposed to be fun and remember you're in control of any conversation not the other way around"
Ye your right mister i suppose i need to get harder |
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"Dont like to block i rarely do unless someone get abusive "
I actually do understand this, but when someone you've already turned down is being pushy about meeting and making you feel uncomfortable, is that not an abuse of your tolerance? He may have even seen your continued willingness to converse with him as a sign that you might change your mind... The first thing that I read on your profile was that no reply means no interest, from which a literal person might infer that any reply at all means you are interested (and some folk really are that literal in their interpretations lol). Unfortunately some just view 'no' as a 'no for now', so you will have to back that 'no' up with something else, or they'll continue to hope/chance their arm. |
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"Why do men call you a time waster when you tell them you not meeting them. This guy has been messaging me all the time and i kept telling him im not meeting him but he continues to message and then finally last time he told me im a time waster how annoying is that ,have anyone else here experienced this "
Just block people who continue to mail after you've told them no. It's the only way. And don't give it a second thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We regularly block people if they message and we aren't interested, it's nothing personal it's just to declutter fab, more chance of finding people you are interested in that way.
Oh just to clarify, we do respond with a nice 'sorry not interested happy fabbing'. Just another way to filter fab and find the people you want to 
I think too many look at the block as a bad thing, the way we see it there's no point in people we've no interest in clogging updates, and likewise no point us showing up on people we're never gonna meet, so far so good  |
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"Why do men call you a time waster when you tell them you not meeting them. This guy has been messaging me all the time and i kept telling him im not meeting him but he continues to message and then finally last time he told me im a time waster how annoying is that ,have anyone else here experienced this "
He feels you wasted his time because he spent time messaging and didn't get what he wanted or expected. Bottom line is he is a dick. Block and move on. I know you may not like to block but it really does save a lot of hassles from self entitled arseholes. Don't let it put you off though. Patience is key on this site. |
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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago
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"Why do men call you a time waster when you tell them you not meeting them. This guy has been messaging me all the time and i kept telling him im not meeting him but he continues to message and then finally last time he told me im a time waster how annoying is that ,have anyone else here experienced this "
the only person's time you're wasting is your own.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont like to block i rarely do unless someone get abusive "
I think you may need to start blocking more. It will hopefully drive the point home to people that you are not interested.
I block people who don't want to meet me. Saves me messaging them down the line by accident. |
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"Why do men call you a time waster when you tell them you not meeting them. This guy has been messaging me all the time and i kept telling him im not meeting him but he continues to message and then finally last time he told me im a time waster how annoying is that ,have anyone else here experienced this
Spend a bit of time learning the features of fab.
You can set filters, block people, report people.
Fab is supposed to be fun and remember you're in control of any conversation not the other way around"
This ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do men call you a time waster when you tell them you not meeting them. This guy has been messaging me all the time and i kept telling him im not meeting him but he continues to message and then finally last time he told me im a time waster how annoying is that ,have anyone else here experienced this "
Just block them. I’m blocking people most days here. I’m here for me, not for them. Block and carry on. Who needs all that shite? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell him to go and shite. I'm married and had to cancel once or twice and the other person one which was married completely understood, made it up to them tho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell him to go and shite. I'm married and had to cancel once or twice and the other person one which was married completely understood, made it up to them tho. "
Would the wife not let you go.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just had 2 couples wanting fun,became suspicious when both are verified by each other and trying to organise meetz tonite,im an easy going man but im no fucking eejit,luckily im meeting a lovely lady,too many fakes here unfortunately x enjoy your weekend guys x stay safe xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Found out that milkman123 and herpussyhiscock are the same profile x gobshites
A few hours on the Fab naughty step for you my friend."
Its worth it to expose these gobshites buddy |
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OP your profile is detailed and explicitly describes what you are looking for.
As such, those who read it understand and act accordingly, those who are genuine Fabbers.
When the idiots who don't read the profile contact you regardless, offer an olive branch covered in strychnine, telling them that they are not for you, which they would know, if they've read your profile.
If, after that, they continue to contact you with pushy emails, just block them.
The Block button is there for a reason and, unfortunately, has to be used, on occasion.
Your given example is just one of those scenarios.
Don't feel guilty about making your Fab life exactly how you want it to be |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP your profile is detailed and explicitly describes what you are looking for.
As such, those who read it understand and act accordingly, those who are genuine Fabbers.
When the idiots who don't read the profile contact you regardless, offer an olive branch covered in strychnine, telling them that they are not for you, which they would know, if they've read your profile.
If, after that, they continue to contact you with pushy emails, just block them.
The Block button is there for a reason and, unfortunately, has to be used, on occasion.
Your given example is just one of those scenarios.
Don't feel guilty about making your Fab life exactly how you want it to be "
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