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"I've spoken to so many women from this site over the months since I've joined and a common theme that we have all encountered is the view that because we are on FAB we're not worth any more than a ride or that we are sluts if we sleep with many people. Firstly we are the same person if we meet on POF, TINDER, FAB or any other site you might meet us on. The same person that you would meet on a Saturday. Whatever our standards are they don't change just because we are on FAB. I've spoken to and encountered it myself that men can't get past the fact they want to date someone they met on FAB. I say to these men. Grow the f*ck up. It's a website, plain and simple. People have been meeting in various ways for centuries, stop viewing the fact we are on FAB as any different as being on TINDER or anywhere else you pick up women. No matter where you meet us, we are the exact same person with the exact same appetite for connection and sex. Also would ye ever pi*s off with your double standards and judgy attitude. Men get pats on the backs and told they are the big man when they add partners to their list but a woman who owns her sexuality and appetite for sex is considered a slut. BULLSH*T I CALL BULLSH*T. How many people here are in sexless or from sexless relationships. I for one would have rathered been with a sexually charged person than who I was with. If I found someone from FAB or any other avenue that was as sexually hungry as myself and who I had a connection with I'd go for it full force. So lads and ladies with the judgy attitudes, lay down your judgement and open your eyes to what may just be standing in front of you. " Well said | |||
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"Anyone who won't date someone just because they are on fab needs to take a long hard look in the mirror. Don't care where i meet someone. If there is a connection there is a connection. It's about the person not where you met them. I've dated girls I've met of a similar site to fab over the years. Means fuck all where i met them. " Agree | |||
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"Anyone who won't date someone just because they are on fab needs to take a long hard look in the mirror. Don't care where i meet someone. If there is a connection there is a connection. It's about the person not where you met them. I've dated girls I've met of a similar site to fab over the years. Means fuck all where i met them. " Why do they need to take a look in the mirror.Everyone is entitled to their own opinion on the subject. | |||
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"Very well said! Guy I chatted to on here & swapped face pics recognized me on POF recently. Apparently, I shouldn't be on both Bitch please "He actually said that to you? So what's he doing on both then?  | |||
"I LOVE being a slut "Good girl.  | |||
"I LOVE being a slut "Good in ya! ?? | |||
"Very well said! Guy I chatted to on here & swapped face pics recognized me on POF recently. Apparently, I shouldn't be on both Bitch please
He actually said that to you? So what's he doing on both then? "That was my response! And I was blocked on both....shocking altogether;) | |||
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"Very well said! Guy I chatted to on here & swapped face pics recognized me on POF recently. Apparently, I shouldn't be on both Bitch please
He actually said that to you? So what's he doing on both then?
That was my response! And I was blocked on both....shocking altogether;) "The hypocrisy and cheek of some people on here never fails to astound me. Lol | |||
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"I've spoken to so many women from this site over the months since I've joined and a common theme that we have all encountered is the view that because we are on FAB we're not worth any more than a ride or that we are sluts if we sleep with many people. Firstly we are the same person if we meet on POF, TINDER, FAB or any other site you might meet us on. The same person that you would meet on a Saturday. Whatever our standards are they don't change just because we are on FAB. I've spoken to and encountered it myself that men can't get past the fact they want to date someone they met on FAB. I say to these men. Grow the f*ck up. It's a website, plain and simple. People have been meeting in various ways for centuries, stop viewing the fact we are on FAB as any different as being on TINDER or anywhere else you pick up women. No matter where you meet us, we are the exact same person with the exact same appetite for connection and sex. Also would ye ever pi*s off with your double standards and judgy attitude. Men get pats on the backs and told they are the big man when they add partners to their list but a woman who owns her sexuality and appetite for sex is considered a slut. BULLSH*T I CALL BULLSH*T. How many people here are in sexless or from sexless relationships. I for one would have rathered been with a sexually charged person than who I was with. If I found someone from FAB or any other avenue that was as sexually hungry as myself and who I had a connection with I'd go for it full force. So lads and ladies with the judgy attitudes, lay down your judgement and open your eyes to what may just be standing in front of you. " well said x | |||
"I've spoken to so many women from this site over the months since I've joined and a common theme that we have all encountered is the view that because we are on FAB we're not worth any more than a ride or that we are sluts if we sleep with many people. Firstly we are the same person if we meet on POF, TINDER, FAB or any other site you might meet us on. The same person that you would meet on a Saturday. Whatever our standards are they don't change just because we are on FAB. I've spoken to and encountered it myself that men can't get past the fact they want to date someone they met on FAB. I say to these men. Grow the f*ck up. It's a website, plain and simple. People have been meeting in various ways for centuries, stop viewing the fact we are on FAB as any different as being on TINDER or anywhere else you pick up women. No matter where you meet us, we are the exact same person with the exact same appetite for connection and sex. Also would ye ever pi*s off with your double standards and judgy attitude. Men get pats on the backs and told they are the big man when they add partners to their list but a woman who owns her sexuality and appetite for sex is considered a slut. BULLSH*T I CALL BULLSH*T. How many people here are in sexless or from sexless relationships. I for one would have rathered been with a sexually charged person than who I was with. If I found someone from FAB or any other avenue that was as sexually hungry as myself and who I had a connection with I'd go for it full force. So lads and ladies with the judgy attitudes, lay down your judgement and open your eyes to what may just be standing in front of you. " Well said Ms!
I had similar conversation with my female friends (out of Fabworld but also swingers) and they told me exactly the same.
Four of them are married, me and another lady (from fab) aint and this is our observation: most of the men thinks "she wants only ride so no material to be my gf or wife"
Zonk! We are even better because once your all interests in general match altogether with sex interests (or kinks) there is the perfect match!    | |||
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"There is definitely an air of - well your on fab, so all you're good for is opening your legs. The disrespectful behaviour comes in many forms, and from those well verified who should know better to those faceless, nameless, passer throughs who feel the need to have a go at being abusive. I've zero tolerance for disrespectful behaviour from anyone. People say they're open minded, few are and mostly they're not. Don't let this get to you tequila. I'd date ya! "Rarw baby | |||
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"I've spoken to so many women from this site over the months since I've joined and a common theme that we have all encountered is the view that because we are on FAB we're not worth any more than a ride or that we are sluts if we sleep with many people. Firstly we are the same person if we meet on POF, TINDER, FAB or any other site you might meet us on. The same person that you would meet on a Saturday. Whatever our standards are they don't change just because we are on FAB. I've spoken to and encountered it myself that men can't get past the fact they want to date someone they met on FAB. I say to these men. Grow the f*ck up. It's a website, plain and simple. People have been meeting in various ways for centuries, stop viewing the fact we are on FAB as any different as being on TINDER or anywhere else you pick up women. No matter where you meet us, we are the exact same person with the exact same appetite for connection and sex. Also would ye ever pi*s off with your double standards and judgy attitude. Men get pats on the backs and told they are the big man when they add partners to their list but a woman who owns her sexuality and appetite for sex is considered a slut. BULLSH*T I CALL BULLSH*T. How many people here are in sexless or from sexless relationships. I for one would have rathered been with a sexually charged person than who I was with. If I found someone from FAB or any other avenue that was as sexually hungry as myself and who I had a connection with I'd go for it full force. So lads and ladies with the judgy attitudes, lay down your judgement and open your eyes to what may just be standing in front of you. " Absolutely 100% sick of the bullshit and men thinking u are only for their pleasure .. | |||
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"I've spoken to so many women from this site over the months since I've joined and a common theme that we have all encountered is the view that because we are on FAB we're not worth any more than a ride or that we are sluts if we sleep with many people. Firstly we are the same person if we meet on POF, TINDER, FAB or any other site you might meet us on. The same person that you would meet on a Saturday. Whatever our standards are they don't change just because we are on FAB. I've spoken to and encountered it myself that men can't get past the fact they want to date someone they met on FAB. I say to these men. Grow the f*ck up. It's a website, plain and simple. People have been meeting in various ways for centuries, stop viewing the fact we are on FAB as any different as being on TINDER or anywhere else you pick up women. No matter where you meet us, we are the exact same person with the exact same appetite for connection and sex. Also would ye ever pi*s off with your double standards and judgy attitude. Men get pats on the backs and told they are the big man when they add partners to their list but a woman who owns her sexuality and appetite for sex is considered a slut. BULLSH*T I CALL BULLSH*T. How many people here are in sexless or from sexless relationships. I for one would have rathered been with a sexually charged person than who I was with. If I found someone from FAB or any other avenue that was as sexually hungry as myself and who I had a connection with I'd go for it full force. So lads and ladies with the judgy attitudes, lay down your judgement and open your eyes to what may just be standing in front of you. Absolutely 100% sick of the bullshit and men thinking u are only for their pleasure .." It's not just men with this attitude. Some women on here think the same. | |||
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Well said nevertheless...maybe people dont come on fab with the idea of dating but anything can happen between people meeting on here and whoever says otherwise is living in the past century...mwaaaah xxx | |||
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"Agreed! It always annoys me when people are like "it's a sex site, not a dating site". I love the casual sex/swinging life but of course I don't wanna be single forever. And just cos I'm on fab doesn't mean I'm not relationship material or whatever. " Having spent a looooonnnnggg time in a sexless marriage, were I ever to date in future I'd consider women on FAB to be perfect relationship material tbh | |||
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"I've spoken to so many women from this site over the months since I've joined and a common theme that we have all encountered is the view that because we are on FAB we're not worth any more than a ride or that we are sluts if we sleep with many people. Firstly we are the same person if we meet on POF, TINDER, FAB or any other site you might meet us on. The same person that you would meet on a Saturday. Whatever our standards are they don't change just because we are on FAB. I've spoken to and encountered it myself that men can't get past the fact they want to date someone they met on FAB. I say to these men. Grow the f*ck up. It's a website, plain and simple. People have been meeting in various ways for centuries, stop viewing the fact we are on FAB as any different as being on TINDER or anywhere else you pick up women. No matter where you meet us, we are the exact same person with the exact same appetite for connection and sex. Also would ye ever pi*s off with your double standards and judgy attitude. Men get pats on the backs and told they are the big man when they add partners to their list but a woman who owns her sexuality and appetite for sex is considered a slut. BULLSH*T I CALL BULLSH*T. How many people here are in sexless or from sexless relationships. I for one would have rathered been with a sexually charged person than who I was with. If I found someone from FAB or any other avenue that was as sexually hungry as myself and who I had a connection with I'd go for it full force. So lads and ladies with the judgy attitudes, lay down your judgement and open your eyes to what may just be standing in front of you. " Hit the nail on the head, very well put. | |||
"Lol the white knights are out in fullforce tonight." As are the trolls.  | |||
I actually think the build up and good night out is great , I want to see you’re weird d*unk side haha, obviously we are all here to have good fun , but a connection makes the experience that bit better more at ease  | |||
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"Well said OP. It has always annoyed me that guys can sleep all around them and get high fives or pats on the back and called a stud while if a woman wants to enjoy her sexuality then she gets slut shamed. Why can't Fab be for dating also? If a person is into kinks or swinging or an open relationship but also hopes to have a regular partner one day then what better place to meet a like minded or open minded person than here on Fab whilst also enjoying themselves along the way?" Totally agree | |||
"I've spoken to so many women from this site over the months since I've joined and a common theme that we have all encountered is the view that because we are on FAB we're not worth any more than a ride or that we are sluts if we sleep with many people. Firstly we are the same person if we meet on POF, TINDER, FAB or any other site you might meet us on. The same person that you would meet on a Saturday. Whatever our standards are they don't change just because we are on FAB. I've spoken to and encountered it myself that men can't get past the fact they want to date someone they met on FAB. I say to these men. Grow the f*ck up. It's a website, plain and simple. People have been meeting in various ways for centuries, stop viewing the fact we are on FAB as any different as being on TINDER or anywhere else you pick up women. No matter where you meet us, we are the exact same person with the exact same appetite for connection and sex. Also would ye ever pi*s off with your double standards and judgy attitude. Men get pats on the backs and told they are the big man when they add partners to their list but a woman who owns her sexuality and appetite for sex is considered a slut. BULLSH*T I CALL BULLSH*T. How many people here are in sexless or from sexless relationships. I for one would have rathered been with a sexually charged person than who I was with. If I found someone from FAB or any other avenue that was as sexually hungry as myself and who I had a connection with I'd go for it full force. So lads and ladies with the judgy attitudes, lay down your judgement and open your eyes to what may just be standing in front of you. " yes of course ,never realised there was that attitude, dont understand that how you can put aside a true emotion because of some fucked up ego or fear,seems insane to me if ,what a true connection is what they looking for,its the only thing that's real. | |||
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I have met guy who said he wouldn't want date anyone from fab.. Ok fine but what's better be with someone you can enjoy sex and be happy or be with someone, sexless and cheat!?!
And someone just said only because we love sex and are here doesn't mean we are not relationship material. I'm single and I would love date Fabber so atleast it saves awkward moments later | |||
"So perfectly said
I have met guy who said he wouldn't want date anyone from fab.. Ok fine but what's better be with someone you can enjoy sex and be happy or be with someone, sexless and cheat!?!
And someone just said only because we love sex and are here doesn't mean we are not relationship material. I'm single and I would love date Fabber so atleast it saves awkward moments later "Dead right girl. I wouldnt have an issue dating a girl from fab either. | |||
"So perfectly said
I have met guy who said he wouldn't want date anyone from fab.. Ok fine but what's better be with someone you can enjoy sex and be happy or be with someone, sexless and cheat!?!
And someone just said only because we love sex and are here doesn't mean we are not relationship material. I'm single and I would love date Fabber so atleast it saves awkward moments later Dead right girl. I wouldnt have an issue dating a girl from fab either."Why did you join a sex site for.Was it to meet someone for sex or someone for a relationship or both. | |||
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"So perfectly said
I have met guy who said he wouldn't want date anyone from fab.. Ok fine but what's better be with someone you can enjoy sex and be happy or be with someone, sexless and cheat!?!
And someone just said only because we love sex and are here doesn't mean we are not relationship material. I'm single and I would love date Fabber so atleast it saves awkward moments later Dead right girl. I wouldnt have an issue dating a girl from fab either. Why did you join a sex site for.Was it to meet someone for sex or someone for a relationship or both."I don't think anyone have to explain to others why they joined.. But I will say I joined For my pleasure. | |||
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"So perfectly said
I have met guy who said he wouldn't want date anyone from fab.. Ok fine but what's better be with someone you can enjoy sex and be happy or be with someone, sexless and cheat!?!
And someone just said only because we love sex and are here doesn't mean we are not relationship material. I'm single and I would love date Fabber so atleast it saves awkward moments later Dead right girl. I wouldnt have an issue dating a girl from fab either. Why did you join a sex site for.Was it to meet someone for sex or someone for a relationship or both.
I don't think anyone have to explain to others why they joined.. But I will say I joined For my pleasure."While pleasure is very important in a relationship it's not enough to sustain it you need love,trust, and respect all those things.A relationship won't last because you both love sex if you haven't all of the others things mentioned above it's just sex. | |||
"So perfectly said
I have met guy who said he wouldn't want date anyone from fab.. Ok fine but what's better be with someone you can enjoy sex and be happy or be with someone, sexless and cheat!?!
And someone just said only because we love sex and are here doesn't mean we are not relationship material. I'm single and I would love date Fabber so atleast it saves awkward moments later Dead right girl. I wouldnt have an issue dating a girl from fab either. Why did you join a sex site for.Was it to meet someone for sex or someone for a relationship or both.
I don't think anyone have to explain to others why they joined.. But I will say I joined For my pleasure. While pleasure is very important in a relationship it's not enough to sustain it you need love,trust, and respect all those things.A relationship won't last because you both love sex if you haven't all of the others things mentioned above it's just sex."Also a relationship won't last if you've all those things and shit sex. It's about finding someone who fulfills all your need and my point being It should not matter where you find them | |||
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"I completely get your sentiment op, a sexually liberated women is often still regarded as a loose woman. Then again you could argue that the whole swinger scene is frowned upon. Unfortunately your appeal will change very little, it takes a long time to shift engrained yet outdated attitudes in society and Ireland has still a long way to go. All you can do is to liberate yourself further, which includes that you give a toss about those people who think you're not girlfriend material. It sources from the same fear or weakness of not considering a sexually liberated person as a potential partner, namely being 'outside the norm' and not being loved by everyone and all the other crap that comes with it. It's up to you to stay away from them, unless they're a good fuck and you just feel like having that at this instant and nothing more. Finally yes this is a sex site, it doesn't mean romance cannot be found here, although I think going around here with the only purpose to find prince charming might not be the right approach. Go out and enjoy yourself, fight your corner of sexual liberation and it might happen. " 100% agree girls can do with ever they please but have to agree with this last part. From a couples point of view bringing in a single girl who is looking for love can be unsettling. It's best not to get worked up over things and if you meet a guy and he doesn't treat you the way you want to be treated then move on. | |||
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"I completely get your sentiment op, a sexually liberated women is often still regarded as a loose woman. Then again you could argue that the whole swinger scene is frowned upon. Unfortunately your appeal will change very little, it takes a long time to shift engrained yet outdated attitudes in society and Ireland has still a long way to go. All you can do is to liberate yourself further, which includes that you give a toss about those people who think you're not girlfriend material. It sources from the same fear or weakness of not considering a sexually liberated person as a potential partner, namely being 'outside the norm' and not being loved by everyone and all the other crap that comes with it. It's up to you to stay away from them, unless they're a good fuck and you just feel like having that at this instant and nothing more. Finally yes this is a sex site, it doesn't mean romance cannot be found here, although I think going around here with the only purpose to find prince charming might not be the right approach. Go out and enjoy yourself, fight your corner of sexual liberation and it might happen. " Fantastic response!......Are women really being made feel like sluts and undateable because they are on here?? Has the OP a personal experience of been ridiculed excessively by men on here? From the responses I'm not convinced it's the case and such an outburst from where I'm looking is almost suggesting that everyone is throwing stones? | |||
"Guys on here fuck girls that they are too embarrassed to leave a veri for. This is not the average Irish guy, I lived in a house abroad with five Irish guys. Not one of them ever cheated on a girl, ever had a one night stand. They were just ordinary lads, who went on a date, tried to get to know a girl, ended up dating and having sex. Nearly every girl on here would dump them for being boring. But then they come on here and find sexually active and open guys, and then complain when them guys just see them as a hole. The amount of guys on here that will see a girl as someone they could date, someone they could bring home, hang out with, or just sit around laughing at stupid movies with them, is the minority of men. Even when couples do happen, its normally a sexual one, where the guy is just using the girl to get more sex. I doubt they do anything fun that is non sexual." Christ lad this is the second post I agree with you, lol be careful people might start to like you | |||
"So perfectly said
I have met guy who said he wouldn't want date anyone from fab.. Ok fine but what's better be with someone you can enjoy sex and be happy or be with someone, sexless and cheat!?!
And someone just said only because we love sex and are here doesn't mean we are not relationship material. I'm single and I would love date Fabber so atleast it saves awkward moments later Dead right girl. I wouldnt have an issue dating a girl from fab either. Why did you join a sex site for.Was it to meet someone for sex or someone for a relationship or both.
I don't think anyone have to explain to others why they joined.. But I will say I joined For my pleasure. While pleasure is very important in a relationship it's not enough to sustain it you need love,trust, and respect all those things.A relationship won't last because you both love sex if you haven't all of the others things mentioned above it's just sex.
Also a relationship won't last if you've all those things and shit sex. It's about finding someone who fulfills all your need and my point being
It should not matter where you find them "Could you trust or respect someone that would get up on anything with a pulse and that's most men in a nutshell on fab.They may swear blind that they are different but there one and only goal is your hole. | |||
"So perfectly said
I have met guy who said he wouldn't want date anyone from fab.. Ok fine but what's better be with someone you can enjoy sex and be happy or be with someone, sexless and cheat!?!
And someone just said only because we love sex and are here doesn't mean we are not relationship material. I'm single and I would love date Fabber so atleast it saves awkward moments later Dead right girl. I wouldnt have an issue dating a girl from fab either. Why did you join a sex site for.Was it to meet someone for sex or someone for a relationship or both.
I don't think anyone have to explain to others why they joined.. But I will say I joined For my pleasure. While pleasure is very important in a relationship it's not enough to sustain it you need love,trust, and respect all those things.A relationship won't last because you both love sex if you haven't all of the others things mentioned above it's just sex.
Also a relationship won't last if you've all those things and shit sex. It's about finding someone who fulfills all your need and my point being
It should not matter where you find them Could you trust or respect someone that would get up on anything with a pulse and that's most men in a nutshell on fab.They may swear blind that they are different but there one and only goal is your hole."Alot of the men being spoke of by the ladies have been seen on other sites too looking for a relationship so here's your double standard. One girl got told she shouldn't be on Pof if she's on fab even though he was doing the same thing. All the sites can be sex sites if that's your standard. No one joins fab to find love or a lover but I think being open to meeting people from all avenues is where its at. I'm not searching for a relationship but I'm on here and Pof and Tinder to meet people and if one of those people becomes a connection I could give a toss where I met them | |||
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"Also I love that this has got so many people talking. Love a healthy debate " Fair play to you TQ.. great post..I know your a classy lady.. I'd never judge any man woman or couple on fab... | |||
"Also I love that this has got so many people talking. Love a healthy debate Fair play to you TQ.. great post..I know your a classy lady.. I'd never judge any man woman or couple on fab... "Ohhh you | |||
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"So perfectly said
I have met guy who said he wouldn't want date anyone from fab.. Ok fine but what's better be with someone you can enjoy sex and be happy or be with someone, sexless and cheat!?!
And someone just said only because we love sex and are here doesn't mean we are not relationship material. I'm single and I would love date Fabber so atleast it saves awkward moments later Dead right girl. I wouldnt have an issue dating a girl from fab either. Why did you join a sex site for.Was it to meet someone for sex or someone for a relationship or both.
I don't think anyone have to explain to others why they joined.. But I will say I joined For my pleasure. While pleasure is very important in a relationship it's not enough to sustain it you need love,trust, and respect all those things.A relationship won't last because you both love sex if you haven't all of the others things mentioned above it's just sex.
Also a relationship won't last if you've all those things and shit sex. It's about finding someone who fulfills all your need and my point being
It should not matter where you find them Could you trust or respect someone that would get up on anything with a pulse and that's most men in a nutshell on fab.They may swear blind that they are different but there one and only goal is your hole."Are you saying men on fab are not boyfriend material? | |||
"So perfectly said
I have met guy who said he wouldn't want date anyone from fab.. Ok fine but what's better be with someone you can enjoy sex and be happy or be with someone, sexless and cheat!?!
And someone just said only because we love sex and are here doesn't mean we are not relationship material. I'm single and I would love date Fabber so atleast it saves awkward moments later Dead right girl. I wouldnt have an issue dating a girl from fab either. Why did you join a sex site for.Was it to meet someone for sex or someone for a relationship or both.
I don't think anyone have to explain to others why they joined.. But I will say I joined For my pleasure. While pleasure is very important in a relationship it's not enough to sustain it you need love,trust, and respect all those things.A relationship won't last because you both love sex if you haven't all of the others things mentioned above it's just sex.
Also a relationship won't last if you've all those things and shit sex. It's about finding someone who fulfills all your need and my point being
It should not matter where you find them Could you trust or respect someone that would get up on anything with a pulse and that's most men in a nutshell on fab.They may swear blind that they are different but there one and only goal is your hole.
Are you saying men on fab are not boyfriend material? "100 percent | |||
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"Love this post OP! You're totally right, and people who don't consider other swingers / kinksters to be relationship material are only cheating themselves at the end of the day. " This | |||
"Guys on here fuck girls that they are too embarrassed to leave a veri for. This is not the average Irish guy, I lived in a house abroad with five Irish guys. Not one of them ever cheated on a girl, ever had a one night stand. They were just ordinary lads, who went on a date, tried to get to know a girl, ended up dating and having sex. Nearly every girl on here would dump them for being boring. But then they come on here and find sexually active and open guys, and then complain when them guys just see them as a hole. The amount of guys on here that will see a girl as someone they could date, someone they could bring home, hang out with, or just sit around laughing at stupid movies with them, is the minority of men. Even when couples do happen, its normally a sexual one, where the guy is just using the girl to get more sex. I doubt they do anything fun that is non sexual." Well put D... a lot of nice guys here are something seen as boring but not in the leaba!! Lads also being judged on how good there ability is to be sexy in a text | |||
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"Self confessed and proud slut here. "
There's a great line in Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy's book 'The Ethical Slut' - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Ethical_Slut - which asserts
'...we are proud to reclaim the word 'slut' as a term of approval, even endearment. To us, a slut is a person of any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you'
...which strikes me as an eminently sensible and mature approach to human sexuality. It's a very interesting book, and worth investigating if you're so inclined. There's a decent synopsis here, if you're too busy slutting about the place to read the whole book -
https://www.thecuriousreader.in/go-to-book/the-ethical-slut/ | |||
"I've spoken to so many women from this site over the months since I've joined and a common theme that we have all encountered is the view that because we are on FAB we're not worth any more than a ride or that we are sluts if we sleep with many people. Firstly we are the same person if we meet on POF, TINDER, FAB or any other site you might meet us on. The same person that you would meet on a Saturday. Whatever our standards are they don't change just because we are on FAB. I've spoken to and encountered it myself that men can't get past the fact they want to date someone they met on FAB. I say to these men. Grow the f*ck up. It's a website, plain and simple. People have been meeting in various ways for centuries, stop viewing the fact we are on FAB as any different as being on TINDER or anywhere else you pick up women. No matter where you meet us, we are the exact same person with the exact same appetite for connection and sex. Also would ye ever pi*s off with your double standards and judgy attitude. Men get pats on the backs and told they are the big man when they add partners to their list but a woman who owns her sexuality and appetite for sex is considered a slut. BULLSH*T I CALL BULLSH*T. How many people here are in sexless or from sexless relationships. I for one would have rathered been with a sexually charged person than who I was with. If I found someone from FAB or any other avenue that was as sexually hungry as myself and who I had a connection with I'd go for it full force. So lads and ladies with the judgy attitudes, lay down your judgement and open your eyes to what may just be standing in front of you. " My favourite post on fab | |||
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"Self confessed and proud slut here.
There's a great line in Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy's book 'The Ethical Slut' - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Ethical_Slut - which asserts
'...we are proud to reclaim the word 'slut' as a term of approval, even endearment. To us, a slut is a person of any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you'
...which strikes me as an eminently sensible and mature approach to human sexuality. It's a very interesting book, and worth investigating if you're so inclined. There's a decent synopsis here, if you're too busy slutting about the place to read the whole book -
https://www.thecuriousreader.in/go-to-book/the-ethical-slut/"I like that. I used to be like that
I may read that. | |||
"Guys on here fuck girls that they are too embarrassed to leave a veri for. This is not the average Irish guy, I lived in a house abroad with five Irish guys. Not one of them ever cheated on a girl, ever had a one night stand. They were just ordinary lads, who went on a date, tried to get to know a girl, ended up dating and having sex. Nearly every girl on here would dump them for being boring. But then they come on here and find sexually active and open guys, and then complain when them guys just see them as a hole. The amount of guys on here that will see a girl as someone they could date, someone they could bring home, hang out with, or just sit around laughing at stupid movies with them, is the minority of men. Even when couples do happen, its normally a sexual one, where the guy is just using the girl to get more sex. I doubt they do anything fun that is non sexual." Jaysus! Glad I wasn't one of your housemates
I lived in a house abroad for many years, in south UK, with a bunch of Irish guys.
Many went on dates with girls, tried to get to know them and had relationships with them.
I don't think a single one of them never had a one night stand or, at some point, did sleep with someone else behind the back of the one they were dating.
Absolutely not one single one of them ever called any of the women they met, in any scenario, a slut, either before or after they'd slept with them.
I, during that time, was often referred to as a slut.
I didn't take offence and still don't.
I don't see it as a slur, as I know that I was enjoying myself, played safe, was tested and I know that my partners were fully aware of my proclivities.
Or, what I'm really saying is, My house was much more Fun than your house
To the poster calling some of us White Knights.
Get back in your cave man!
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"I've spoken to so many women from this site over the months since I've joined and a common theme that we have all encountered is the view that because we are on FAB we're not worth any more than a ride or that we are sluts if we sleep with many people. Firstly we are the same person if we meet on POF, TINDER, FAB or any other site you might meet us on. The same person that you would meet on a Saturday. Whatever our standards are they don't change just because we are on FAB. I've spoken to and encountered it myself that men can't get past the fact they want to date someone they met on FAB. I say to these men. Grow the f*ck up. It's a website, plain and simple. People have been meeting in various ways for centuries, stop viewing the fact we are on FAB as any different as being on TINDER or anywhere else you pick up women. No matter where you meet us, we are the exact same person with the exact same appetite for connection and sex. Also would ye ever pi*s off with your double standards and judgy attitude. Men get pats on the backs and told they are the big man when they add partners to their list but a woman who owns her sexuality and appetite for sex is considered a slut. BULLSH*T I CALL BULLSH*T. How many people here are in sexless or from sexless relationships. I for one would have rathered been with a sexually charged person than who I was with. If I found someone from FAB or any other avenue that was as sexually hungry as myself and who I had a connection with I'd go for it full force. So lads and ladies with the judgy attitudes, lay down your judgement and open your eyes to what may just be standing in front of you. " THE MOST AMAZING LADY I've EVER met in my life l met her on Fab and would have to say l would NOT have had the courage or confidence to approach her in the real World . | |||
