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Why you wouldn't meet me 
Men often complain that they don't get replies to messages or meet requests, they never know what they're 'doing wrong' or why they've been rejected/blocked, so without naming anyone or giving away too much detail, I'd like you all to think of a recent expression of interest you declined, or ignored, and post your comment below in the form of a frank reply... Tell them why you didn't want to meet them.
Let's see if a sampling of reasons helps anyone understand this world of Fab a little better...
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over a year ago
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"Ooooh where to start... 
Not on me... I try to limit myself to receiving just one Manbeast rejection per week "
Its best for both parties!
One awkward moment a week is more than sufficient |
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"Why you wouldn't meet me
Men often complain that they don't get replies to messages or meet requests, they never know what they're 'doing wrong' or why they've been rejected/blocked, so without naming anyone or giving away too much detail, I'd like you all to think of a recent expression of interest you declined, or ignored, and post your comment below in the form of a frank reply... Tell them why you didn't want to meet them.
Let's see if a sampling of reasons helps anyone understand this world of Fab a little better...
Remember... No names! "
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Paraphrasing a lttle here
(for purpose of Fabbers & Admin peeps) 
DECLINE 1:
"No, I do not want to sleep with your sister and I think you need help" Think we know about that person
DECLINE 2:
"I met you for coffee. It was a good chat but there was no chemistry" She didn't take that well, tried harder to met only to see that there was no point
DECLINE 3:
"Sorry, I'm not into men. Have a great weekend"
I let him down gently and he then offered with
"How about I suck you off while you watch porn?" 
Told him that wasn't a good idea
DECLINE 4:
"I think you need to chat to someone outside of FAB"
She was looking for revenge sex 
DECLINE 5:
"I just don't think we'd click" 
Nasty attitude towards men
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Question...
Will any of our listed answers be used from here on in towards the men of fab when we initially message someone??? |
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"Ooooh where to start...
Not on me... I try to limit myself to receiving just one Manbeast rejection per week
Its best for both parties!
One awkward moment a week is more than sufficient "
Shit... Better not open my last message then |
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over a year ago
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"Ooooh where to start...
Not on me... I try to limit myself to receiving just one Manbeast rejection per week
Its best for both parties!
One awkward moment a week is more than sufficient
Shit... Better not open my last message then "
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"Why you wouldn't meet me
Men often complain that they don't get replies to messages or meet requests, they never know what they're 'doing wrong' or why they've been rejected/blocked, so without naming anyone or giving away too much detail, I'd like you all to think of a recent expression of interest you declined, or ignored, and post your comment below in the form of a frank reply... Tell them why you didn't want to meet them.
Let's see if a sampling of reasons helps anyone understand this world of Fab a little better...
Remember... No names!
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Paraphrasing a lttle here
(for purpose of Fabbers & Admin peeps)
DECLINE 1:
"No, I do not want to sleep with your sister and I think you need help" Think we know about that person
DECLINE 2:
"I met you for coffee. It was a good chat but there was no chemistry" She didn't take that well, tried harder to met only to see that there was no point
DECLINE 3:
"Sorry, I'm not into men. Have a great weekend"
I let him down gently and he then offered with
"How about I suck you off while you watch porn?"
Told him that wasn't a good idea
DECLINE 4:
"I think you need to chat to someone outside of FAB"
She was looking for revenge sex
DECLINE 5:
"I just don't think we'd click"
Nasty attitude towards men
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Question...
Will any of our listed answers be used from here on in towards the men of fab when we initially message someone??? "
Possibly... There may be some who actually don't know how to let someone down gently... They may find inspiration in someone else's replies. |
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"Ooooh where to start...
Not on me... I try to limit myself to receiving just one Manbeast rejection per week
Its best for both parties!
One awkward moment a week is more than sufficient
Shit... Better not open my last message then
Marked unread
Taxi for Trysto "
Wait... If you reject me twice this week does that mean you'll cave next week?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ooooh where to start...
Not on me... I try to limit myself to receiving just one Manbeast rejection per week
Its best for both parties!
One awkward moment a week is more than sufficient
Shit... Better not open my last message then
Marked unread
Taxi for Trysto
Wait... If you reject me twice this week does that mean you'll cave next week? "
No it means once a week now becomes twice a week!
Kaizer is embarassed for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok this one
‘Hi how are you? love your profile...... need a mammy if you want to submit your cv x’
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Shiver me timbers!
No one will ever come close to Mama TK |
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"Ooooh where to start...
Not on me... I try to limit myself to receiving just one Manbeast rejection per week
Its best for both parties!
One awkward moment a week is more than sufficient
Shit... Better not open my last message then
Marked unread
Taxi for Trysto
Wait... If you reject me twice this week does that mean you'll cave next week?
No it means once a week now becomes twice a week!
Kaizer is embarassed for you "
Embarrassment is good... Last week it was just apathy... See...? I'm wearing you down! |
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"I get this all the time, nobody reads profiles.
I state clearly in mine "no pussy pics" yet I'm bombarded daily, my inbox is like a Gynecological Data Base, then the girls message why wont you meet, then proceed to ask for videos, girls, just read the profile "
How do you respond? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ooooh where to start...
Not on me... I try to limit myself to receiving just one Manbeast rejection per week
Its best for both parties!
One awkward moment a week is more than sufficient
Shit... Better not open my last message then
Marked unread
Taxi for Trysto
Wait... If you reject me twice this week does that mean you'll cave next week?
No it means once a week now becomes twice a week!
Kaizer is embarassed for you
Embarrassment is good... Last week it was just apathy... See...? I'm wearing you down! "
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok this one
‘Hi how are you? love your profile...... need a mammy if you want to submit your cv x’
How would you reply? "
I don’t know I was speechless I just ignored it
But in general messages that begin
Nice tits
What size are they ? 
Wana trade pics?
Are you really married?
Does your husband know your here?
I answer none of them because I know if they read my profile they would know the answers to all of these
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"Ooooh where to start...
Not on me... I try to limit myself to receiving just one Manbeast rejection per week
Its best for both parties!
One awkward moment a week is more than sufficient
Shit... Better not open my last message then
Marked unread
Taxi for Trysto
Wait... If you reject me twice this week does that mean you'll cave next week?
No it means once a week now becomes twice a week!
Kaizer is embarassed for you
Embarrassment is good... Last week it was just apathy... See...? I'm wearing you down!
Your determination is either admirable or unnerving "
Tenacity... I just need to work out now if it's time to increase the number of foof pics I send you... Y'know.. Seal the deal |
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"Ok this one
‘Hi how are you? love your profile...... need a mammy if you want to submit your cv x’
How would you reply?
I don’t know I was speechless I just ignored it
But in general messages that begin
Nice tits
What size are they ?
Wana trade pics?
Are you really married?
Does your husband know your here?
I answer none of them because I know if they read my profile they would know the answers to all of these
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That's the idea of this thread though... To provide answers. Not to specific questions as such... But in general terms.
For example, I could simply say that I'm not meeting... It's a boilerplate answer. But that tends to invite the 'well keep me in mind for when you are then' kind of message, so to be clearer, I might have to stipulate that even if I was meeting, the person was outside of my age range, or was too far away, etc. |
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"I normally ask them to come back when they have grown a vagina....
Stunning but boring as fook could have been a recent one but I'm nice "
Miracle Gro really has upped it's game
So how do you phrase that nicely? |
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"I normally ask them to come back when they have grown a vagina....
Stunning but boring as fook could have been a recent one but I'm nice
Miracle Gro really has upped it's game
So how do you phrase that nicely? "
Your pics are stunning but I dont think we are a great match..... or something along those lines |
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"I normally ask them to come back when they have grown a vagina....
Stunning but boring as fook could have been a recent one but I'm nice
Miracle Gro really has upped it's game
So how do you phrase that nicely?
Your pics are stunning but I dont think we are a great match..... or something along those lines"
That sounds pretty acceptable to me... And it's also gender neutral. Could be used for either sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I normally ask them to come back when they have grown a vagina....
Stunning but boring as fook could have been a recent one but I'm nice
Miracle Gro really has upped it's game
So how do you phrase that nicely?
Your pics are stunning but I dont think we are a great match..... or something along those lines
That sounds pretty acceptable to me... And it's also gender neutral. Could be used for either sex "
I am available for rejection consultation anytime |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how about... I'm driving by you want a bj. I've turned that down a few times "
Ya its really hard to keep up with the car when your pants are lulled down |
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"how about... I'm driving by you want a bj. I've turned that down a few times
Ya its really hard to keep up with the car when your pants are lulled down"
Just snortled into my coffee and sprayed it everywhere... Most unladylike! |
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"I get this all the time, nobody reads profiles.
I state clearly in mine "no pussy pics" yet I'm bombarded daily, my inbox is like a Gynecological Data Base, then the girls message why wont you meet, then proceed to ask for videos, girls, just read the profile
How do you respond? "
I usually respond by asking if they want the video in 720p,1080p or 4K quality
All jokes aside, I feel for the ladies, some guys think swinging site = handy ride, I think porn is to blame, well that and stupidity, I say seduce the mind, the body will follow.
I pick out quality females that attract me, send a nice message and await a reply, never sent a second one if i didnt get a reply nor do i question why. I actually cant figure out guys who do, or then get nasty and call names |
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"I get this all the time, nobody reads profiles.
I state clearly in mine "no pussy pics" yet I'm bombarded daily, my inbox is like a Gynecological Data Base, then the girls message why wont you meet, then proceed to ask for videos, girls, just read the profile
How do you respond?
I usually respond by asking if they want the video in 720p,1080p or 4K quality
All jokes aside, I feel for the ladies, some guys think swinging site = handy ride, I think porn is to blame, well that and stupidity, I say seduce the mind, the body will follow.
I pick out quality females that attract me, send a nice message and await a reply, never sent a second one if i didnt get a reply nor do i question why. I actually cant figure out guys who do, or then get nasty and call names"
That's something I'm also curious about... Do rejected ladies ever behave the same way? But that's a topic for another thread, another day. |
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"A simple'No thanks" usually does it for us - we don't have to explain ourselves "
Jesus I tried that and got my head taken off,
To which I replied
Ohhh potty mouth, I'm not sure but I think I like it,
I got blocked
So won't be trying that again. |
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"I get this all the time, nobody reads profiles.
I state clearly in mine "no pussy pics" yet I'm bombarded daily, my inbox is like a Gynecological Data Base, then the girls message why wont you meet, then proceed to ask for videos, girls, just read the profile
How do you respond?
I usually respond by asking if they want the video in 720p,1080p or 4K quality
All jokes aside, I feel for the ladies, some guys think swinging site = handy ride, I think porn is to blame, well that and stupidity, I say seduce the mind, the body will follow.
I pick out quality females that attract me, send a nice message and await a reply, never sent a second one if i didnt get a reply nor do i question why. I actually cant figure out guys who do, or then get nasty and call names"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ooooh where to start...
Not on me... I try to limit myself to receiving just one Manbeast rejection per week
Its best for both parties!
One awkward moment a week is more than sufficient
Shit... Better not open my last message then
Marked unread
Taxi for Trysto
Wait... If you reject me twice this week does that mean you'll cave next week?
No it means once a week now becomes twice a week!
Kaizer is embarassed for you
Embarrassment is good... Last week it was just apathy... See...? I'm wearing you down!
Your determination is either admirable or unnerving
Tenacity... I just need to work out now if it's time to increase the number of foof pics I send you... Y'know.. Seal the deal "
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"You look clean and neat but tattoos are a SUCH a turn off,
Sorry x x x
Not much I can say about that 1
I did suggest she could give me a really hot bath and try scrub them off,
I was blocked, "
Are girls really that mean |
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"You look clean and neat but tattoos are a SUCH a turn off,
Sorry x x x
Not much I can say about that 1
I did suggest she could give me a really hot bath and try scrub them off,
I was blocked,
Are girls really that mean "
Are you joking,,
That's nothing
No harm no fowl
Saying that I've been shown a few screen shots of real Nastyness that ye girls get,
So unfortunately I think Guys might win that 1.  |
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"You look clean and neat but tattoos are a SUCH a turn off,
Sorry x x x
Not much I can say about that 1
I did suggest she could give me a really hot bath and try scrub them off,
I was blocked, "
That bitch be crazy |
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"You look clean and neat but tattoos are a SUCH a turn off,
Sorry x x x
Not much I can say about that 1
I did suggest she could give me a really hot bath and try scrub them off,
I was blocked,
That bitch be crazy "
Lol
See I wanted to say that but I'm neat and clean you see , can't be at that shite lol |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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You look clean and neat but tattoos are a SUCH a turn off,
Sorry x x x
Not much I can say about that 1
I did suggest she could give me a really hot bath and try scrub them off,
I was blocked,
Ohh I like tattoos. And she obviously had no sense of humour either lol |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"You look clean and neat but tattoos are a SUCH a turn off,
Sorry x x x
Not much I can say about that 1
I did suggest she could give me a really hot bath and try scrub them off,
I was blocked,
Are girls really that mean
Are you joking,,
That's nothing
No harm no fowl
Saying that I've been shown a few screen shots of real Nastyness that ye girls get,
So unfortunately I think Guys might win that 1. "
I don’t know if I wana be here anymore I don’t know why ud go out of your way to insult someone it’s beyond me |
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"You look clean and neat but tattoos are a SUCH a turn off,
Sorry x x x
Not much I can say about that 1
I did suggest she could give me a really hot bath and try scrub them off,
I was blocked,
Ohh I like tattoos. And she obviously had no sense of humour either lol "
1 would think that a SOH is a must here, right,,,, right,, |
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"You look clean and neat but tattoos are a SUCH a turn off,
Sorry x x x
Not much I can say about that 1
I did suggest she could give me a really hot bath and try scrub them off,
I was blocked,
Ohh I like tattoos. And she obviously had no sense of humour either lol
1 would think that a SOH is a must here, right,,,, right,, "
Nope just a pulse |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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You look clean and neat but tattoos are a SUCH a turn off,
Sorry x x x
Not much I can say about that 1
I did suggest she could give me a really hot bath and try scrub them off,
I was blocked,
Ohh I like tattoos. And she obviously had no sense of humour either lol
1 would think that a SOH is a must here, right,,,, right,,
Lol. You would think so alright |
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I get lots of men asking.. "my wife wd like a tranta message"..
I reply, " thanks, I'd love to talk to you wife anytime about her massage,"
"wd you fuck her".
I don't reply after that.
My favourite requests are from women who have heard about me from a female friend. They've read my profile, and write a nice intro message telling me a bit about themselves= Instant rapport=good vibes=guaranteed massage. |
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"You look clean and neat but tattoos are a SUCH a turn off,
Sorry x x x
Not much I can say about that 1
I did suggest she could give me a really hot bath and try scrub them off,
I was blocked, "
Wow really! I find tattoos such a turn on I think they’re so sexy well except when they’re spelling out your wife’s name but then each to their own |
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I can understand if I don't fit someone's expectations and if they are honest and polite and say thanks but no thanks that's fine.
It's when we've chatted for a while and they ask for a face pic and then block immediately. A simple message to say I'm not their type would be less frustrating. |
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"The only times I've had to say no or turn down an offer was if it came from another man or a suspicious couples profile or a lady young enough to be my daughter."
That's what u want. One in her 20s or 30s. She'd give you the ride of your life
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"The only times I've had to say no or turn down an offer was if it came from another man or a suspicious couples profile or a lady young enough to be my daughter.That's what u want. One in her 20s or 30s. She'd give you the ride of your life "
Not for me thanks. |
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