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"Seriously though, we're all grown-ups surely, and can cope with bumping into someone we've had sex with, maybe even be able to have a conversation? "
Conversation? You're looking for jam on it now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously though, we're all grown-ups surely, and can cope with bumping into someone we've had sex with, maybe even be able to have a conversation?
Conversation? You're looking for jam on it now. "
Ah go on outa that, sure it's impossible to shut you up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must be the only one that hasn’t been lol I’m not sure if that’s a good thing lol .
They saw you first!!!
Ohhh now that’s a burn . Tanx "
Only messing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I have someone that sees me in Tesco and messages me after telling me what I’m wearing
Same here ,can't wear same jammies twice running anymore Busty lol!
Haha it’s happened three times now and he’s never spoke to me ever just messages me tell me what I’m wearing I’m waiting on him telling me I forgot to buy milk "
If he was any good he'd save you the trip and ask you can get pic you up anything while he's there and drop it off too you....could end up killing 2 birds with 1 stone |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes I have someone that sees me in Tesco and messages me after telling me what I’m wearing
Same here ,can't wear same jammies twice running anymore Busty lol!
Haha it’s happened three times now and he’s never spoke to me ever just messages me tell me what I’m wearing I’m waiting on him telling me I forgot to buy milk
If he was any good he'd save you the trip and ask you can get pic you up anything while he's there and drop it off too you....could end up killing 2 birds with 1 stone "
I obviously look a little scary he can’t even say hi it might be worth his while |
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Someone I had met came into my workplace. But wasn't by accident she actually came in looking for me. To this day I dont know how she knew where I worked. She said I told her, but i definitely didn't.
The one and only time I almost shat myself |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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"Someone I had met came into my workplace. But wasn't by accident she actually came in looking for me. To this day I dont know how she knew where I worked. She said I told her, but i definitely didn't.
The one and only time I almost shat myself "
What a fuckin psycho! What is wrong with people |
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"Someone I had met came into my workplace. But wasn't by accident she actually came in looking for me. To this day I dont know how she knew where I worked. She said I told her, but i definitely didn't.
The one and only time I almost shat myself "
I have noticed myself that some men give away a surprising amount of information about themselves, I think men in general are not as cautious of strangers as women are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone I had met came into my workplace. But wasn't by accident she actually came in looking for me. To this day I dont know how she knew where I worked. She said I told her, but i definitely didn't.
The one and only time I almost shat myself
What a fuckin psycho! What is wrong with people "
They're fuckin psychos |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Come to think of it I do recall going into a restaurant and ordering a coffe and asking to to use the toilet and this waitress that was comeing my direction. ( whom I never seen before )
Sarcastically says no you can’t and called me by my name . I could laugh it off |
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"Someone I had met came into my workplace. But wasn't by accident she actually came in looking for me. To this day I dont know how she knew where I worked. She said I told her, but i definitely didn't.
The one and only time I almost shat myself
I have noticed myself that some men give away a surprising amount of information about themselves, I think men in general are not as cautious of strangers as women are. "
" She was practised at the art of deception "...
Shur isn't that a line in the Rolling Stones song...you can't always get what you want...that just didn't fall outta the tree... |
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I've been spotted a lot in public by people I've met. Most of the time I don't realise unless they message me later! I'm not rude, I just don't expect to see people I know so I'm not looking out for them. That, or I don't recognise them with their clothes on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone I had met came into my workplace. But wasn't by accident she actually came in looking for me. To this day I dont know how she knew where I worked. She said I told her, but i definitely didn't.
The one and only time I almost shat myself "
Maybe she came in to tell you she's pregnant! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I work in a very public place, have my face up in public on my profile, yet only once someone recognized me and messaged me later asking if it was me.
One person in 2 years. Am I a master of disguise or do people have better things to do than go looking for strangers who may be on fab?
Hear a lot of stories going like "God forbid someone would recognize me down the street and assume people I'm with are on fab"
Come on... we're not celebrities. Nobody cares who you're with down the street. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What I find bemusing is that some people appear to be having sex with individuals that they would be horrified to have to acknowledge in public with even the briefest of nods |
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"What I find bemusing is that some people appear to be having sex with individuals that they would be horrified to have to acknowledge in public with even the briefest of nods "
Oh that too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What I find bemusing is that some people appear to be having sex with individuals that they would be horrified to have to acknowledge in public with even the briefest of nods "
Shushh and get back under that table before someone sees ya |
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"What I find bemusing is that some people appear to be having sex with individuals that they would be horrified to have to acknowledge in public with even the briefest of nods
Shushh and get back under that table before someone sees ya"
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****HIJACK **** Aapols!
Sorta the same topic...
Met a dude from here a few years ago, fucked twice but not really my kinda guy - always testing to go without a Johnny! (No ta)
Fast forward, 2 years I find out he's dating my real life friend (not on fab) and shes getting kinda serious about him...so I message him, for him to may be say it to her? He warns me off, but I said if we meet out and she susses, I wont lie to her. I was giving him a chance to discuss the lifestyle with her which he had not as yet!
Now they're exclusive, going on holidays together & that prick is still logging in on here!
Dont want to be a bitch or loose a friend but I think she should know, for her sexual health alone if nothing else!!!!
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I'd advise keep well out of it, unless you know he is actively meeting on here and putting her at risk. She might not thank you if the relationship end's because of it. But that's just my take on it..told a friend before had seen her guy with another girl. She believed him and it only made thing's awkward between us |
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"Someone I had met came into my workplace. But wasn't by accident she actually came in looking for me. To this day I dont know how she knew where I worked. She said I told her, but i definitely didn't.
The one and only time I almost shat myself
Maybe she came in to tell you she's pregnant! "
Oh shit, never thought of that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd advise keep well out of it, unless you know he is actively meeting on here and putting her at risk. She might not thank you if the relationship end's because of it. But that's just my take on it..told a friend before had seen her guy with another girl. She believed him and it only made thing's awkward between us"
I'd second that, stay out of other people's relationships. |
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"What I find bemusing is that some people appear to be having sex with individuals that they would be horrified to have to acknowledge in public with even the briefest of nods " I have no problem acknowledging, but i draw the line at stalkers that's just weird |
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"What I find bemusing is that some people appear to be having sex with individuals that they would be horrified to have to acknowledge in public with even the briefest of nods I have no problem acknowledging, but i draw the line at stalkers that's just weird "
Oh I absolutely agree there |
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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago
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Have spotted people I recognize or know but I would never draw attention to it.
I would message them later. You just never know if they are with someone or meeting someone so I would never risk outing them in public |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Trust me, I'd rather not get involved but I keep thinking shoe on the other foot she would tell me! Was hoping after giving him ample chances, he would have fessed up, but no." keep your mouth shut you'll only embarrass her and end your friendship people always say they want to know do they fook
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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago
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Do what your gut is telling you.
It might not be what she wants to hear but if you think she would tell you then and you want to tell her then tell her.
But be prepared it could go either way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd advise keep well out of it, unless you know he is actively meeting on here and putting her at risk. She might not thank you if the relationship end's because of it. But that's just my take on it..told a friend before had seen her guy with another
girl. She believed him and it only made thing's awkward between us
I'd second that, stay out of other people's relationships. "
It's one of those situations were ' you're dammed if you do and dammed if you dont'
My advice ...dont get involved x |
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"I'd advise keep well out of it, unless you know he is actively meeting on here and putting her at risk. She might not thank you if the relationship end's because of it. But that's just my take on it..told a friend before had seen her guy with another girl. She believed him and it only made thing's awkward between us"
I'd rather things were akward because of the truth than easy because of lies.
In fact if they never want to talk to me again, thats okay.
I have told a girl that 3 or 4 guys she dated are assholes, and she never believes me, but always agrees with me in the end when they break up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have once by a regular meet when i was here as a single guy. she nodded as did i. dee has been as well by people she hadn't met. they were just being creepy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cheers folks - good and bad I appreciate your opinion x
I've been stewing on it for far too long. "
I know most people have said stay out of it but honestly if they were a close friend I'd tell them I know I'd want to be told and your loyalty should be to her not him or some unwritten fab code of silence |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cheers folks - good and bad I appreciate your opinion x
I've been stewing on it for far too long.
I know most people have said stay out of it but honestly if they were a close friend I'd tell them I know I'd want to be told and your loyalty should be to her not him or some unwritten fab code of silence"
It's not a "fab code" for me, it's a life lesson learned |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd advise keep well out of it, unless you know he is actively meeting on here and putting her at risk. She might not thank you if the relationship end's because of it. But that's just my take on it..told a friend before had seen her guy with another girl. She believed him and it only made thing's awkward between us
I'd rather things were akward because of the truth than easy because of lies.
In fact if they never want to talk to me again, thats okay.
I have told a girl that 3 or 4 guys she dated are assholes, and she never believes me, but always agrees with me in the end when they break up."
It wasn't easy I told a friend and they chose to believe the story he told and is still with him. As i said unless she know's he is actively putting her friend at risk. At the moment all he is guilty of is previously meeting on fab and logging in. Maybe the friend know's about this site and is getting involved. I just think it might cause more hassle than it's worth. Also the fact she has been with him before..that might not sit well with her friend. Especially if it is getting serious |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Once in the local Dunnes stores by someone who id briefly spoke to at a private party.... " .i know the dunnes stores il be goin to now to see can i see ya there lol |
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"Once in the local Dunnes stores by someone who id briefly spoke to at a private party.... .i know the dunnes stores il be goin to now to see can i see ya there lol "
Thats not creepy at all.... not even a little bit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've discovered that folk we're social with nearly everyday frequent this place... Lol. Slightly different conversation with them now.... "
Much more open fun conversations? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yup by two that I was like wtf.
One my old work boss! that was awkward on the following Monday morning.
Another old gym teacher wonder if he's still here. He was a fine piece of stuff hehe..
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Only by people I've met or know... some are friends I'll stop and chat with, others may be working or in company, so I'll just say hi in passing or we'll give each other a nod of acknowledgement. Despite having public face pics from time to time, I've never had a complete stranger say 'hey aren't you on Fab?' or mail me saying they'd seen me out and about... I've seen lots of people's face pics on here, either in FPF swaps, or on their profiles, but unless they're someone I'm chatting with regularly and forming a rapport with, I'm unlikely to remember a face I've seen just once or twice in a photo.
It's a bit like running into someone when they're not in their work uniform... You might see a face and feel a vague sense of recognition, but not be able to place it.
Now if I started wearing my lingerie or 'Fab' ensembles in public... That might trigger some people's recollection alright |
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"Someone I had met came into my workplace. But wasn't by accident she actually came in looking for me. To this day I dont know how she knew where I worked. She said I told her, but i definitely didn't.
The one and only time I almost shat myself "
Not cool |
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"What I find bemusing is that some people appear to be having sex with individuals that they would be horrified to have to acknowledge in public with even the briefest of nods I have no problem acknowledging, but i draw the line at stalkers that's just weird
Oh I absolutely agree there "
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My late partner, the couple profile we had, she used to get recognised all the time even when we didn't have face pics. They usually recognised her from certain dresses she wore or whatever (so ladies take note).
Often it would be after we'd come out of a store or shopping centre and then we would have a message from someone asking if she had just been in such and such a place because they think they had recognised her but wasn't sure. Nobody ever actually approached her though as they respected that she would be in company. |
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"Always best to just pretend you don’t know them and walk on by...they could be with a relative/child/co worker and you could make life very awkward for them!"
Nearly all of my peeps know I'm on here. They wouldn't care because I don't care. |
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