I mailed a lady earlier, just putting in a little effort as I always do when sending a message.
She replied to me thanking me for my message, flattered that I took the time to read her profile, but politely declined to chat further.
I understand that you ladies have hundreds, if not thousands of mails in your inbox.......but if a guy does put in a little effort, have a think about replying even if it is just to say ‘thanks but no thanks. |
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over a year ago
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I reply to most mails not all. If someone cheats to get through my filters and or sends me a rude message I don't answer anymore. But then I have my filters pretty tight too so I don't get as many mails as others do. |
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"I reply to most mails not all. If someone cheats to get through my filters and or sends me a rude message I don't answer anymore. But then I have my filters pretty tight too so I don't get as many mails as others do. "
I have to agree Bo you do turn a guy Dow in a very polite manner.  |
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"I reply to most mails not all. If someone cheats to get through my filters and or sends me a rude message I don't answer anymore. But then I have my filters pretty tight too so I don't get as many mails as others do. "
Yes I have pretty tight filters though have to admit I rarely get any rude messages...just the very odd one.
I try to reply to all messages even its a polite no thank you. So thank you guys for being nice  |
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"I reply to most mails not all. If someone cheats to get through my filters and or sends me a rude message I don't answer anymore. But then I have my filters pretty tight too so I don't get as many mails as others do.
Yes I have pretty tight filters though have to admit I rarely get any rude messages...just the very odd one.
I try to reply to all messages even its a polite no thank you. So thank you guys for being nice "
Yes your very polite , how's you keeping x |
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I’ve had the same experience op the fact is you can’t be everybody’s cup of tea and due to the high volume men to women it’s hard to even engage in conversation never mind anything else,poor ladies get hundreds of mail but it’s only nice to get a reply manners cost nothing |
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Or....... follow sote rules and dont reply of not interested, even if the guy has spent a whole 2 mins reading your profile.
And as a refreshing breath of air people semding mails will not care if they get a reply or not  |
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"We try to reply to any messages we receive even if it's just a thank you but not interested, unless it's a pushy or vulgar message with a sick pic attached "
No one deserves a reply if they are being a gob-shite. Many of the horror messages I’ve heard that have been sent on here.....I wonder do those that send them actually want a reply, is it that they just get a perverse kick from shocking people. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I reply to most mails not all. If someone cheats to get through my filters and or sends me a rude message I don't answer anymore. But then I have my filters pretty tight too so I don't get as many mails as others do.
I have to agree Bo you do turn a guy Dow in a very polite manner.
Lol thanks   we did have a few nice chats tho |
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"Or....... follow sote rules and dont reply of not interested, even if the guy has spent a whole 2 mins reading your profile.
And as a refreshing breath of air people semding mails will not care if they get a reply or not "
Sorry, I don’t follow what your trying to say?? |
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While a thanks for the mail but not interested is nice to receive back after mailing someone
Not everyone takes the thanks but not interested that well no matter how nicely written.
Its either your plagued with constant mails as to why your not interested or ur the scum of the earth and abused to the highest because ur not.
U cant blame women or men for no replys in fairness. |
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"Kaizer tries to reply to all his mail, good bad or indifferent but its quite difficult 
It's nice to be nice  you crack me up  "
It's no laughing matter David  |
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"Or....... follow sote rules and dont reply of not interested, even if the guy has spent a whole 2 mins reading your profile.
And as a refreshing breath of air people semding mails will not care if they get a reply or not
Sorry, I don’t follow what your trying to say??"
Ya Im not sure myself reading back.
Basically this topic pops up all the time and its pointless. Site guidelines say no reply means no interest that should be enough for people.
Now to be fair your post was on the more sane and polite versions but it still gives the wrong impression that someone reading a profile and putting a bit of effort into a message is intitled to a reply |
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If someone really made an effort and read my profile they would (or should) know what to write to me. I set my profile up after being away for a while recently and for the best part all that I received was vulgar one liners.
I would reply if someone caught my eye and made a genuine effort. |
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"Kaizer tries to reply to all his mail, good bad or indifferent but its quite difficult
It's nice to be nice you crack me up
It's no laughing matter David "
it really isn’t the struggle is real Kaizer |
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"I mailed a lady earlier, just putting in a little effort as I always do when sending a message.
She replied to me thanking me for my message, flattered that I took the time to read her profile, but politely declined to chat further.
I understand that you ladies have hundreds, if not thousands of mails in your inbox.......but if a guy does put in a little effort, have a think about replying even if it is just to say ‘thanks but no thanks."
I always try and respond to a kind message, even if just to say thankyou. Vulgar messages.. nah |
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"Or....... follow sote rules and dont reply of not interested, even if the guy has spent a whole 2 mins reading your profile.
And as a refreshing breath of air people semding mails will not care if they get a reply or not
Sorry, I don’t follow what your trying to say??"
Just ignore him he likes to bark at everything that moves. |
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"Kaizer tries to reply to all his mail, good bad or indifferent but its quite difficult
It's nice to be nice you crack me up
It's no laughing matter David it really isn’t the struggle is real Kaizer "
Kaizer Koncurs
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"While a thanks for the mail but not interested is nice to receive back after mailing someone
Not everyone takes the thanks but not interested that well no matter how nicely written.
Its either your plagued with constant mails as to why your not interested or ur the scum of the earth and abused to the highest because ur not.
U cant blame women or men for no replys in fairness."
very true |
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This place is great for discussions and debate from all sides and people have made some great points but you could point facts out all night to why women don’t reply but just cause you send a message,unfortunately It doesn’t guarantee us a reply  |
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"Or....... follow sote rules and dont reply of not interested, even if the guy has spent a whole 2 mins reading your profile.
And as a refreshing breath of air people semding mails will not care if they get a reply or not
Sorry, I don’t follow what your trying to say??
Ya Im not sure myself reading back.
Basically this topic pops up all the time and its pointless. Site guidelines say no reply means no interest that should be enough for people.
Now to be fair your post was on the more sane and polite versions but it still gives the wrong impression that someone reading a profile and putting a bit of effort into a message is intitled to a reply"
Ahh yeah I get ya now
Certainly was not getting up on my soapbox to say that every lady should be compelled to reply to any half decent message they receive.....there would not be enough minutes in the day for them having to do that.
All I was doing was sharing and giving credit where credit was due. |
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