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A very modest Elegant Ecstacy proposal....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello all.
So... Elegant Ecstacy: Samhain is almost upon us. And as I have always done I have made the event female heavy (the reason being, horny women tend to fuck one another as well as the guys so having too many fems never presents much of a problem).
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That said, it is indeed something I've come in for some critism for in the past. As such I suggest a remedy to the problem.
I'm thinking of arranging a very special Elegant Ecstacy, as yet unnamed, which will feature between 5 and 10 single women and hotwives and 15 to 20 of Fab's hottest single males.
The usual EE trappings will be there, food, open bar, sumptuous surroundings and entertainment, but this event will be leveled squarely at the pleasure and absolute indulgent of our lady guests....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sounds like my kind of party! Where do I sign ???!"
*resists the urge to present penis*
Not sure about signing it.... But maybe your initials   
If you're onboard consider yourself one of the chosen few!  |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Hello all.
So... Elegant Ecstacy: Samhain is almost upon us. And as I have always done I have made the event female heavy (the reason being, horny women tend to fuck one another as well as the guys so having too many fems never presents much of a problem).
BUT.
That said, it is indeed something I've come in for some critism for in the past. As such I suggest a remedy to the problem.
I'm thinking of arranging a very special Elegant Ecstacy, as yet unnamed, which will feature between 5 and 10 single women and hotwives and 15 to 20 of Fab's hottest single males.
The usual EE trappings will be there, food, open bar, sumptuous surroundings and entertainment, but this event will be leveled squarely at the pleasure and absolute indulgent of our lady guests....
Thoughts? Opinions? Anyone interested?! "
A very interesting party idea that I'm sure my fellow hotwives would be very keen to throw their names in the hat for.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd gladly throw my hat in the ring for any single male spots available though I'm not in fab's 25 hottest (maybe theyre all busy that night "
You don't do too badly chum |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would absolutely love to attend as my first social
Think you may have misread the post friend
Well not social but gathering"
I don't mean to be in anyway discouraging, condescending or rude but honestly but would not be the type of event for first timers.... I recommend a social first.
Envy had (by all accounts) an amazing one last night... Beija is famous for hers... They'd suit a newcomer much better |
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"Would absolutely love to attend as my first social
Think you may have misread the post friend
Well not social but gathering
I don't mean to be in anyway discouraging, condescending or rude but honestly but would not be the type of event for first timers.... I recommend a social first.
Envy had (by all accounts) an amazing one last night... Beija is famous for hers... They'd suit a newcomer much better "
I assure you, and this isn't ego speaking, I will fit right in 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If this party does, go ahead, would you indever think of possible having a theme party.
For example - Eyes wide shut theme, that would make it exciting, lol.
As you stated, yourself, have a balance of ladies/Gents ratio.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Based on the replies so far I will assume an age & height limit...wishing you all the best with this event...hopefully the single guys will actually turn up & not let the side down |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I assure you, and this isn't ego speaking, I will fit right in
Add me to the list "
You're a member for over a year... With one verification from over 5 months ago. I can assure you that even if it was your ego speaking it wouldn't have a helluva lot to say 
As for adding you to the list, we will respectfully have to decline at this particular juncture. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If this party does, go ahead, would you indever think of possible having a theme party.
For example - Eyes wide shut theme, that would make it exciting, lol.
As you stated, yourself, have a balance of ladies/Gents ratio.
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I think you're misunderstanding the terms 'balance' and 'ratio' friend... 
We're talking about an event werein there are 2/3 times the amount of males to women.  
As for an Eyes Wide Shut dealie, you'd be better off checking out Killing Kittens. They hablve the whole mask dealie down pat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If this party does, go ahead, would you indever think of possible having a theme party.
For example - Eyes wide shut theme, that would make it exciting, lol.
As you stated, yourself, have a balance of ladies/Gents ratio.
I think you're misunderstanding the terms 'balance' and 'ratio' friend...
We're talking about an event werein there are 2/3 times the amount of males to women.
As for an Eyes Wide Shut dealie, you'd be better off checking out Killing Kittens. They hablve the whole mask dealie down pat! "
Thanks, with your swift response.
No, I understand the concepts of "balance" and "ratio".
Only cristism, with having a higher ratio for your events is that, you might make it feel awkward for the ladies, unless it's a gangbang, type of event.
Killing kittens- The Greek mythology, club, lol.
Yes, I understand, there themes.
Yh, iv gotta look into more into there club's so.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks, with your swift response.
No, I understand the concepts of "balance" and "ratio".
Only cristism, with having a higher ratio for your events is that, you might make it feel awkward for the ladies, unless it's a gangbang, type of event.
Killing kittens- The Greek mythology, club, lol.
Yes, I understand, there themes.
Yh, iv gotta look into more into there club's so.
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Thank you for your suggestions, but the ladies I have in mind are MORE than capable of holding their own, takes quite a bit to make them feel "awkward".
Um... Not entirely sure KK has anything to do with Greek mythology, they just require that their attendees be masked upon entry.
Fun fact: the name Killing Kittens was taken from a Victorian euphemism for female masturbation. Young Victorian ladies were told that every time they touched themselves that God would "kill a kitten", cause he's a prick like that ya know.
So Killing Kittens took the name as a way of celebrating and prioritising female pleasure. Quite an inspired moniker if you ask me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can I cum?
Only you can answer that one Dear Lady
Alot.... But may I attend said party "
Details are still being finalised but I'll certainly keep you up to date if you so wish! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I cum?
Only you can answer that one Dear Lady
Alot.... But may I attend said party
Details are still being finalised but I'll certainly keep you up to date if you so wish! "
Yes please |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We'd definitely be interested, depending on date, location etc. "
All of that has yet to be determined... This post was mainly to see if we could garner the appropriate interest!
I have no doubt we can source the ladies.... It's the young, hung, sane, reliable, fit men that will be the largest problem!
But I'll start working on the logistics.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks, with your swift response.
No, I understand the concepts of "balance" and "ratio".
Only cristism, with having a higher ratio for your events is that, you might make it feel awkward for the ladies, unless it's a gangbang, type of event.
Killing kittens- The Greek mythology, club, lol.
Yes, I understand, there themes.
Yh, iv gotta look into more into there club's so.
Thank you for your suggestions, but the ladies I have in mind are MORE than capable of holding their own, takes quite a bit to make them feel "awkward".
Um... Not entirely sure KK has anything to do with Greek mythology, they just require that their attendees be masked upon entry.
Fun fact: the name Killing Kittens was taken from a Victorian euphemism for female masturbation. Young Victorian ladies were told that every time they touched themselves that God would "kill a kitten", cause he's a prick like that ya know.
So Killing Kittens took the name as a way of celebrating and prioritising female pleasure. Quite an inspired moniker if you ask me. "
I have misrepresented, myself lol.
I used, the killing kitchen, and presumed, was about greek mythology, when in matter of fact its regarding Victorian times, I knew it had some pre historical meaning tho.
Best Endeavour, its good to know.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have misrepresented, myself lol.
I used, the killing kitchen, and presumed, was about greek mythology, when in matter of fact its regarding Victorian times, I knew it had some pre historical meaning tho.
Best Endeavour, its good to know.
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Um. OK. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We'd definitely be interested, depending on date, location etc.
All of that has yet to be determined... This post was mainly to see if we could garner the appropriate interest!
I have no doubt we can source the ladies.... It's the young, hung, sane, reliable, fit men that will be the largest problem!
But I'll start working on the logistics.... "
Ah so hard to find good staff these days |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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"We'd definitely be interested, depending on date, location etc.
All of that has yet to be determined... This post was mainly to see if we could garner the appropriate interest!
I have no doubt we can source the ladies.... It's the young, hung, sane, reliable, fit men that will be the largest problem!
But I'll start working on the logistics....
Ah so hard to find good staff these days "
I'm happy with my staff if that's what you want to call it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Finally.. A party with enough men to go around... Inspiring idea!
I'd certainly be interested "
Heard from plenty of ladies... Not too many lads....
Where are ya boys?! |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"Finally.. A party with enough men to go around... Inspiring idea!
I'd certainly be interested
Heard from plenty of ladies... Not too many lads....
Where are ya boys?! "
with all the moaning about men not getting a chance to go to parties that it's not about getting invites but having the balls to get an invite. Here's a party actively looking for single men to out number women but they just keep getting more women It's laughable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Intriguing...
Very much looking forward to a point in time when date & venue are set in stone and we receive an official notice that single male spaces are completely sold out.
I’ll be sure to register my interest then
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Intriguing...
Very much looking forward to a point in time when date & venue are set in stone and we receive an official notice that single male spaces are completely sold out.
I’ll be sure to register my interest then
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That's generally what happens alright |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Finally.. A party with enough men to go around... Inspiring idea!
I'd certainly be interested
Heard from plenty of ladies... Not too many lads....
Where are ya boys?!
with all the moaning about men not getting a chance to go to parties that it's not about getting invites but having the balls to get an invite. Here's a party actively looking for single men to out number women but they just keep getting more women It's laughable "
Excellent description buddy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Intriguing...
Very much looking forward to a point in time when date & venue are set in stone and we receive an official notice that single male spaces are completely sold out.
I’ll be sure to register my interest then
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You'll register your interest when single male spaces are sold out?
Hardly a way to go about things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Intriguing...
Very much looking forward to a point in time when date & venue are set in stone and we receive an official notice that single male spaces are completely sold out.
I’ll be sure to register my interest then
You'll register your interest when single male spaces are sold out?
Hardly a way to go about things "
One might presume so..
As it stands I have a 100% success rate using this strategy, it has never failed me, so why try fix something that’s not broken.
I would appreciate a brief update when every single male ticket has been snapped up.
J
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Thoughts? Opinions? Anyone interested?! "
Yes! This. Fantastic idea! Seems like lots of ladies agree.
(My tuppence worth - if you need 20 guys confirm 40. But with your experience in organising events I suspect you don’t need my advice)
Best of luck with it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thoughts? Opinions? Anyone interested?!
Yes! This. Fantastic idea! Seems like lots of ladies agree.
(My tuppence worth - if you need 20 guys confirm 40. But with your experience in organising events I suspect you don’t need my advice)
Best of luck with it. "
Thank you for the advice... It is good advice... But I have around 7 or so male friends on the scene upon whom I can count,and with the infamous HotWife Gemma taking part and the fabulous Beija onboard I'm sure they'll have plenty of solid suggestions for reliable dudes...!! |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
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Thoughts? Opinions? Anyone interested?!
Yes! This. Fantastic idea! Seems like lots of ladies agree.
(My tuppence worth - if you need 20 guys confirm 40. But with your experience in organising events I suspect you don’t need my advice)
Best of luck with it.
Thank you for the advice... It is good advice... But I have around 7 or so male friends on the scene upon whom I can count,and with the infamous HotWife Gemma taking part and the fabulous Beija onboard I'm sure they'll have plenty of solid suggestions for reliable dudes...!! "
I can definitely suggest a few that regularly attend my events |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single guys ... step out from behind the keyboard ...
step up, stay up, stand out.
It is not often there is an event openly looking for guys...
Sure whatelse would you dressup & undress for at Halloween |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Single guys ... step out from behind the keyboard ...
step up, stay up, stand out.
It is not often there is an event openly looking for guys...
Sure whatelse would you dressup & undress for at Halloween"
Considering names....
Names are important
Elegant Ecstacy: Regina?
Elegant Ecstasy: Domina?
Elegant Ecstasy: Femina?
(I'm big on Latin as you might guessed! ) |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Just being curious, there's a good amount of couples showing interest, do the male partners automatically qualify as one of Fab's hottest single male or will they be just onlookers or will they be left at home?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just being curious, there's a good amount of couples showing interest, do the male partners automatically qualify as one of Fab's hottest single male or will they be just onlookers or will they be left at home?
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That will be up the ladies involved.
Some enjoy the HotWife scenario whilst I'm sure others will want their partners present.
I'm not the ring master here... Simply the facilitator. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Just being curious, there's a good amount of couples showing interest, do the male partners automatically qualify as one of Fab's hottest single male or will they be just onlookers or will they be left at home?
That will be up the ladies involved.
Some enjoy the HotWife scenario whilst I'm sure others will want their partners present.
I'm not the ring master here... Simply the facilitator. "
I understand, I don't want to be a smarty pants, but theoretically some hubbies/partners might take up some of the available male spaces without necessarily matching the young, hung, sane, reliable, fit criteria or the Fab's hottest, ignoring at the moment that they're obviously not single. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I understand, I don't want to be a smarty pants, but theoretically some hubbies/partners might take up some of the available male spaces without necessarily matching the young, hung, sane, reliable, fit criteria or the Fab's hottest, ignoring at the moment that they're obviously not single. "
Hey it's the lady's call.
They'll select who they want there. Hubbies and partners included. There's an element of hyperbole to saying Fab's Hottest anything....
I don't count myself amongst anything other Fab's biggest Pain in the Hole but I'll be there! |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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I understand, I don't want to be a smarty pants, but theoretically some hubbies/partners might take up some of the available male spaces without necessarily matching the young, hung, sane, reliable, fit criteria or the Fab's hottest, ignoring at the moment that they're obviously not single.
Hey it's the lady's call.
They'll select who they want there. Hubbies and partners included. There's an element of hyperbole to saying Fab's Hottest anything....
I don't count myself amongst anything other Fab's biggest Pain in the Hole but I'll be there! "
Hahaha, I know another one that would qualify for Fab's biggest pain in the hole yet an excellent meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hahaha, I know another one that would qualify for Fab's biggest pain in the hole yet an excellent meet. "
Oh I can't even claim that. I'm a VERY disappointing meet..... |
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"Just being curious, there's a good amount of couples showing interest, do the male partners automatically qualify as one of Fab's hottest single male or will they be just onlookers or will they be left at home?
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Just being curious, there's a good amount of couples showing interest, do the female partners automatically qualify as one of Fab's hottest single females or will they be just onlookers or will they be left at home? Swings and roundabouts eh .
we of course wouldn't qualify as hottest anything but it would be nice to know if it's aimed at fulfilling the needs of females first or all in attendance. If so should the ugly lads like myself bring a packed lunch and a deck of cards. Either way I'd say it will be a cracking night. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just being curious, there's a good amount of couples showing interest, do the male partners automatically qualify as one of Fab's hottest single male or will they be just onlookers or will they be left at home?
Just being curious, there's a good amount of couples showing interest, do the female partners automatically qualify as one of Fab's hottest single females or will they be just onlookers or will they be left at home? Swings and roundabouts eh .
we of course wouldn't qualify as hottest anything but it would be nice to know if it's aimed at fulfilling the needs of females first or all in attendance. If so should the ugly lads like myself bring a packed lunch and a deck of cards. Either way I'd say it will be a cracking night. "
Lads and Lassies.
People seem to be struggling a little bit with this "hottest" people phrase.
Allow me to qualify; there will be present approximately 6 females. Attraction is, of course, relative, so the use of "hottest" was entirely hyperbole.
The ladies will be people known to me or vouched for by people known to me.
This is not a business. There will be no profit made. It will be a private event.
In so far as is possible the selected males will be known to me or to the ladies attending. The ladies will have ultimate say on the male presence.
This is simply an experiment to provide a few women with a party event werein their tastes are specifically catered for rather than the usual private party I put together which is typically female heavy.
No offence is intended nor do we require any criticism.
As per usual if you don't agree with the notion or how it's been put together, simply don't look to join.
There's tonnes of other events out there to cater for ever taste.
Those who are interested... Please do get in touch.
Regards,
TPB. |
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By *r zipsMan
over a year ago
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I would be very interested in an invite to your event. I was away from the lifestyle for a bit but it is so hard to leave. I am known by some of the ladys that you have spoken of in earlier texts. Hope to here back .thank you |
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Considering names....
Names are important
Elegant Ecstacy: Regina?
Elegant Ecstasy: Domina?
Elegant Ecstasy: Femina?
(I'm big on Latin as you might guessed! ) "
Domina, probably too bdsm. Femina, too girls only. Reginae is cool and if you want to emphasise worship & adoration you also have Elegant Ecstasy: Deae. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Just being curious, there's a good amount of couples showing interest, do the male partners automatically qualify as one of Fab's hottest single male or will they be just onlookers or will they be left at home?
Just being curious, there's a good amount of couples showing interest, do the female partners automatically qualify as one of Fab's hottest single females or will they be just onlookers or will they be left at home? Swings and roundabouts eh .
we of course wouldn't qualify as hottest anything but it would be nice to know if it's aimed at fulfilling the needs of females first or all in attendance. If so should the ugly lads like myself bring a packed lunch and a deck of cards. Either way I'd say it will be a cracking night.
Lads and Lassies.
People seem to be struggling a little bit with this "hottest" people phrase.
Allow me to qualify; there will be present approximately 6 females. Attraction is, of course, relative, so the use of "hottest" was entirely hyperbole.
The ladies will be people known to me or vouched for by people known to me.
This is not a business. There will be no profit made. It will be a private event.
In so far as is possible the selected males will be known to me or to the ladies attending. The ladies will have ultimate say on the male presence.
This is simply an experiment to provide a few women with a party event werein their tastes are specifically catered for rather than the usual private party I put together which is typically female heavy.
No offence is intended nor do we require any criticism.
As per usual if you don't agree with the notion or how it's been put together, simply don't look to join.
There's tonnes of other events out there to cater for ever taste.
Those who are interested... Please do get in touch.
Regards,
TPB. "
No criticism intended, just was wondering how it works.
Anyhow good luck, I'm sure you'll make a great event out of it as usual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just being curious, there's a good amount of couples showing interest, do the male partners automatically qualify as one of Fab's hottest single male or will they be just onlookers or will they be left at home?
Just being curious, there's a good amount of couples showing interest, do the female partners automatically qualify as one of Fab's hottest single females or will they be just onlookers or will they be left at home? Swings and roundabouts eh .
we of course wouldn't qualify as hottest anything but it would be nice to know if it's aimed at fulfilling the needs of females first or all in attendance. If so should the ugly lads like myself bring a packed lunch and a deck of cards. Either way I'd say it will be a cracking night. "
Ugly?!
I have few words in mind but ugly would never be one, although the picture of you sitting naked with deck of cards in you hands is very tempting to see
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Very interesting and it's nice to see sum different ideas "
Thanks! There's only so many variations one can come up with!
Still waiting for 20 ladies to suggest a reverse gangbang with myself though....
(am well aware I'd cum within 3 seconds of entering the first lady but be totally worth it!) |
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"Very interesting and it's nice to see sum different ideas
Thanks! There's only so many variations one can come up with!
Still waiting for 20 ladies to suggest a reverse gangbang with myself though....
(am well aware I'd cum within 3 seconds of entering the first lady but be totally worth it!) "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd be interested in putting myself forward as a possible candidate for a space at the event please. Sounds like the makings of a memorable night "
Thank kindly and we shall keep you in mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be interested in putting myself forward as a possible candidate for a space at the event please. Sounds like the makings of a memorable night
Thank kindly and we shall keep you in mind "
Much appreciated my good man |
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"Very interesting and it's nice to see sum different ideas
Thanks! There's only so many variations one can come up with!
Still waiting for 20 ladies to suggest a reverse gangbang with myself though....
(am well aware I'd cum within 3 seconds of entering the first lady but be totally worth it!) "
Isn't every man waiting/hoping for that lol |
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