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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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People give out on here they don’t receive replies so after a couple of messages from the same person most times I’ll eventually reply and say not interested most are good and say thanks for the response and leave it at that.
But there are a number of people here and on the rise that give you a torrent of abuse if you reject them and then try to say they’d be lowering their standards to begin with and you’re lucky they’re offering to meet you because you’re not apparently up there with the hot women on the site.
I don’t care if your an Adonis or Aphrodite if I’ve no interest in you and politely decline why can’t you just leave it at that?
Yes it’s crap to be rejected and it stings but show some class instead of belittling yourself to try tear someone else down?! |
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"People give out on here they don’t receive replies so after a couple of messages from the same person most times I’ll eventually reply and say not interested most are good and say thanks for the response and leave it at that.
But there are a number of people here and on the rise that give you a torrent of abuse if you reject them and then try to say they’d be lowering their standards to begin with and you’re lucky they’re offering to meet you because you’re not apparently up there with the hot women on the site.
I don’t care if your an Adonis or Aphrodite if I’ve no interest in you and politely decline why can’t you just leave it at that? I always say thanks for taking time too reply even if not interested
Yes it’s crap to be rejected and it stings but show some class instead of belittling yourself to try tear someone else down?! "
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
It used to bother me but not anymore got fed up of: but why,ye fat c##t and all the other bullshit they spout now i just block simples really my block list is longer than my friends list wouldn't have it any other way  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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It used to bother me but not anymore got fed up of: but why,ye fat c##t and all the other bullshit they spout now i just block simples really my block list is longer than my friends list wouldn't have it any other way
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It used to bother me but not anymore got fed up of: but why,ye fat c##t and all the other bullshit they spout now i just block simples really my block list is longer than my friends list wouldn't have it any other way
Yep mine too."
Same as that. The name calling doesn’t bother me but to say you’re lowering your standards eh mate they were ok when ya sent the 10 messages asking to meet me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There has been a few threads like this recently from people who have a fair bit of expirence of the site.
Is it getting worse that you feel the need to vent?
Dont get me wrong I dont excuse the behaviour or think that it shouldnt bother you.
Just curious about the sudden increase |
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I got a load of abusive messages before for rejecting someone, all I said was thanks but no thanks. I should of be rude and just deleted the message instead. So I just blocked them after that. It's nice to be nice. |
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People shouldn't be here if they can't take rejection. Yes, it can be disappointing not to hear back from another user or to be told 'no thanks', but that's life, you're not going to be everyone's cup of tea.
Going off on one when you're knocked back is a true mark of an entitled asshole. |
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"There has been a few threads like this recently from people who have a fair bit of expirence of the site.
Is it getting worse that you feel the need to vent?
Dont get me wrong I dont excuse the behaviour or think that it shouldnt bother you.
Just curious about the sudden increase"
I think there has been an increase in certain types of behaviour. I've noticed it certainly. Also a lot more fake accounts than usual, which may be where some of it is coming from. |
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Aye, everyone has likes and dislikes. I rarely follow up a first message unless I forgot to include a face pic or body pic.
I get some messages from people I'm not interested in and I just drop a not interesr, best of luck in that case, but I'm not inundated with messages like single females or couples. |
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over a year ago
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I notice a increase in the pre reject messages. I have never spoken to them or had any interaction but they message me to tell me how fat flabby ugly riddled with STDs blah blah blah that I am. Queue eye rolling on my part
One fella recently told me to cop myself on for thinking I was sexy after I posted a wet shirt that clearly showed all my curves and belly and bog thighs. It doesn't get to me I know that they are fuckwits. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I notice a increase in the pre reject messages. I have never spoken to them or had any interaction but they message me to tell me how fat flabby ugly riddled with STDs blah blah blah that I am. Queue eye rolling on my part
One fella recently told me to cop myself on for thinking I was sexy after I posted a wet shirt that clearly showed all my curves and belly and bog thighs. It doesn't get to me I know that they are fuckwits."
He doesn't diserve your time Rosy. He knew he was a pewney specimen so he threw insults instead |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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Ye get alot of but "it's a sex site" that you should fuck them cause they think you'd be privileged because im a big aul curvy bird mabey its how some roll on here but diffinitly not me if they keep repeating the same message ill just ignore or block them.. |
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One fella recently told me to cop myself on for thinking I was sexy after I posted a wet shirt that clearly showed all my curves and belly and bog thighs. It doesn't get to me I know that they are fuckwits."
What an arsehole. Your pics are great. I bet if you'd shown any interest in him, he'd have crawled over broken glass to be with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's back to the usual type isn't it ,the guys that join here thinking every lady here is just waiting and hoping that they'll get a message from them so they can f**k em just like that  ...BUT ...then the reality of the situation hits the guys... they're not getting replies .. they're being blocked... they're being...God Forbid ... REJECTED !!!...then they start the abuse cause " who the f**k does she think she is to turn down my advances ??? "...but sorry guys..it does happen..and wait for it guys ...to nearly every guy here at some stage or another ..and then, thing is ,what really gets them worked up is they see a Veri from her for another guy ..then they really go ape altogether..." What ??.she fucked him..but won't fuck me !!! ".. key board warriors...the ones that can't handle rejection and then spit venom...( Please note l fully accept NOT all guys on this site resort to such low life antics but obviously there are some here as the ladies have already pointed out ) |
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"I notice a increase in the pre reject messages. I have never spoken to them or had any interaction but they message me to tell me how fat flabby ugly riddled with STDs blah blah blah that I am. Queue eye rolling on my part
One fella recently told me to cop myself on for thinking I was sexy after I posted a wet shirt that clearly showed all my curves and belly and bog thighs. It doesn't get to me I know that they are fuckwits."
Ahh here leave the big thighs out of this,,
Not every fella can handle that level of sexyness ,  |
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"I notice a increase in the pre reject messages. I have never spoken to them or had any interaction but they message me to tell me how fat flabby ugly riddled with STDs blah blah blah that I am. Queue eye rolling on my part
One fella recently told me to cop myself on for thinking I was sexy after I posted a wet shirt that clearly showed all my curves and belly and bog thighs. It doesn't get to me I know that they are fuckwits.
Ahh here leave the big thighs out of this,,
Not every fella can handle that level of sexyness , "
autocorrect thing Bog is Big,, I ment Bog ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I notice a increase in the pre reject messages. I have never spoken to them or had any interaction but they message me to tell me how fat flabby ugly riddled with STDs blah blah blah that I am. Queue eye rolling on my part
One fella recently told me to cop myself on for thinking I was sexy after I posted a wet shirt that clearly showed all my curves and belly and bog thighs. It doesn't get to me I know that they are fuckwits."
You are sexy, beautiful, funny and I love your company...  |
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We ve been lucky not to receive anything so rude ,wonder is because we re a couple and they're only big threatening guys with the single ladies -Who knows but then again we tend to ignore most messages from profiles we aren't interested in ,even if they are repeats . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I notice a increase in the pre reject messages. I have never spoken to them or had any interaction but they message me to tell me how fat flabby ugly riddled with STDs blah blah blah that I am. Queue eye rolling on my part
One fella recently told me to cop myself on for thinking I was sexy after I posted a wet shirt that clearly showed all my curves and belly and bog thighs. It doesn't get to me I know that they are fuckwits.
Ahh here leave the big thighs out of this,,
Not every fella can handle that level of sexyness , autocorrect thing Bog is Big,, I ment Bog ffs"
Bog thighs saves lives |
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"There has been a few threads like this recently from people who have a fair bit of expirence of the site.
Is it getting worse that you feel the need to vent?
Dont get me wrong I dont excuse the behaviour or think that it shouldnt bother you.
Just curious about the sudden increase
I think there has been an increase in certain types of behaviour. I've noticed it certainly. Also a lot more fake accounts than usual, which may be where some of it is coming from."
There has been a huge increase. A certain troll seems to have many accounts and has also taken to private messaging people now.
Seems also the paper article has brought fresh blood to the site unfortunately it seems that not all are nice. |
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I DO feel guilty turning down women clamouring to meet me . But I’ve only got so many hours in a day. Don’t take it personally- u might get lucky some day. And as for the abuse - it may only be 7” but it’s normally big enough except for my 600 lb life subjects |
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You get a sense of who is going to react badly just from their initial messages... They're usually telling you what they want to do to you, with no thought as to whether or not it might be what you'd like, so they're already in selfish mode and expecting capitulation. Half the time they probably don't even really want to meet... They'd be happy enough for someone (anyone) just to say 'oo yeah baby, you're sooo big and hard, give it to me now' like a good little porn actress so they can spunk their duvet, roll over and have 40 winks. But the average Fab female is intelligent enough to know this and is unlikely to entertain them, so they don't get the responses they hoped for, and then lash out. I call it being wangry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It used to bother me but not anymore got fed up of: but why,ye fat c##t and all the other bullshit they spout now i just block simples really my block list is longer than my friends list wouldn't have it any other way
Yep mine too.
Same as that. The name calling doesn’t bother me but to say you’re lowering your standards eh mate they were ok when ya sent the 10 messages asking to meet me"
Wow did men actually response with messages like that when rejected. That’s shocking and hard to believe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You get a sense of who is going to react badly just from their initial messages... They're usually telling you what they want to do to you, with no thought as to whether or not it might be what you'd like, so they're already in selfish mode and expecting capitulation. Half the time they probably don't even really want to meet... They'd be happy enough for someone (anyone) just to say 'oo yeah baby, you're sooo big and hard, give it to me now' like a good little porn actress so they can spunk their duvet, roll over and have 40 winks. But the average Fab female is intelligent enough to know this and is unlikely to entertain them, so they don't get the responses they hoped for, and then lash out. I call it being wangry "
 very funny but also true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly I think most people have standards that are out of this world and a bit much to be honest "
Nothing wrong with having standards.what one may consider to be over the top someone else would consider them just normal common standards.there is sonething and someone here for everyone afterall. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly I think most people have standards that are out of this world and a bit much to be honest "
Na.. Standards are there for a reason, fucking anything will just give you temporary sense of relief, if you enjoyed it or not, if you don't have standards you don't respect yourself or the person your with |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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Enough white knights already on this thread so I'm not going to join the quilt. I will say though that, as in real life despite being online, you're dealing with normal real people on fab and it's a good motto to treat everyone as you'd like to be treated yourself. Fab is for fun and there is no fun in being an online troll unless you're seriously dimented with a chip on your shoulder. As is real life, rejection is an everyday experience so by now any adult should be able to respond to it in an adult manner and not toss their toys out of the pram. |
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It never surprising me some of the stuff that gets said on here lol standards are there for a reason which many have pointed out,I would never just sleep with anyone there has to be a spark sense of humor etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate the word "standards" cos it implies that classically good looking people are higher up. It also makes people think that they can be dicks to anyone they don't fancy.
Having personal tastes is completely normal though, and some people are more rigid with theirs than others - and that's allowed. No matter what you look like, you're never gonna be everyone's cuppa tea.
If you don't meet someone's "standards" move on and invest your time in someone who thinks you're a fucking ride. That's what everyone deserves.
Being pissy and moany about it will only ever make you less attractive! |
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Not only ladies get rude replies in fairness. I sent a very nice polite mail to a couple last night. Who may I add had looked at my profile about a dozen times in last week. The response I got was rude to say the least. I did send a mail back thanking them for taking the time to reply and wishing them luck in future. No need for it really. Lol sorry rant over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It used to bother me but not anymore got fed up of: but why,ye fat c##t and all the other bullshit they spout now i just block simples really my block list is longer than my friends list wouldn't have it any other way
Yep mine too.
Same as that. The name calling doesn’t bother me but to say you’re lowering your standards eh mate they were ok when ya sent the 10 messages asking to meet me"
Yes, I've been called everything from a snob to a fat fuckin cunt...because I don't reply to "hey"..."hows u"..." wanna fuck " ...
Sorry but these are the one liners along with their "well hung" dick pics!!
Everyone has the right to ignore if not interested.. and if there is a conversation going and I'm not feeling it, I generally say I don't want to meet. |
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"You get a sense of who is going to react badly just from their initial messages... They're usually telling you what they want to do to you, with no thought as to whether or not it might be what you'd like, so they're already in selfish mode and expecting capitulation. Half the time they probably don't even really want to meet... They'd be happy enough for someone (anyone) just to say 'oo yeah baby, you're sooo big and hard, give it to me now' like a good little porn actress so they can spunk their duvet, roll over and have 40 winks. But the average Fab female is intelligent enough to know this and is unlikely to entertain them, so they don't get the responses they hoped for, and then lash out. I call it being wangry "
This right here. You got it spot on.  |
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By *ashy85Man
over a year ago
Waterford |
"Honestly I think most people have standards that are out of this world and a bit much to be honest
Nothing wrong with having standards.what one may consider to be over the top someone else would consider them just normal common standards.there is sonething and someone here for everyone afterall."
Very easy for all the good looking people to say that. But I see something beautiful in most women even tho they wouldn't look at me once haha |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Honestly I think most people have standards that are out of this world and a bit much to be honest
Na.. Standards are there for a reason, fucking anything will just give you temporary sense of relief, if you enjoyed it or not, if you don't have standards you don't respect yourself or the person your with
This is so true. Why just fuck someone for the sake of it. I'm not everyone's cup of tea and that is fine. I don't mind when someone says they don't find me attractive. I'd hate to be someones pity fuck. You need that spark to make the sex good. Then it's fun and satisfying.I don't have out of this world standards I'm just an ordinary person as well. But I do need to find the person I am with attractive physically and mentally in order to have sex with them. Then we have fun lots of it |
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By *ashy85Man
over a year ago
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"Honestly I think most people have standards that are out of this world and a bit much to be honest
Na.. Standards are there for a reason, fucking anything will just give you temporary sense of relief, if you enjoyed it or not, if you don't have standards you don't respect yourself or the person your with
This is so true. Why just fuck someone for the sake of it. I'm not everyone's cup of tea and that is fine. I don't mind when someone says they don't find me attractive. I'd hate to be someones pity fuck. You need that spark to make the sex good. Then it's fun and satisfying.I don't have out of this world standards I'm just an ordinary person as well. But I do need to find the person I am with attractive physically and mentally in order to have sex with them. Then we have fun lots of it "
To me it has noting to do with a pity fuck I don't look or judge women that way. Maybe I'm weird but I find something attractive about most women weather it's looks or personality and sometimes people over look others for that even tho sex could be mental. Just food for thought is all |
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"Honestly I think most people have standards that are out of this world and a bit much to be honest
Nothing wrong with having standards.what one may consider to be over the top someone else would consider them just normal common standards.there is sonething and someone here for everyone afterall.
Very easy for all the good looking people to say that. But I see something beautiful in most women even tho they wouldn't look at me once haha "
That's unfortunately the reality of the site for many of us men here but its absolutely no excuse for some of the shit the ladies here are putting up with. I'm not to everyone's taste and have been rejected plenty,but I'd never in a million years turn on someone because I dont appeal to them,and if I'm turning someone down I'd be nice about it.
I was talking at length to someone about this yesterday. The other common thing in addition to the insults she was saying is lads straight up offering money to ladies here for sex. I'm not surprised the ladies of Fab are fussy if this is the shit they're putting up with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Enough white knights already on this thread so I'm not going to join the quilt. I will say though that, as in real life despite being online, you're dealing with normal real people on fab and it's a good motto to treat everyone as you'd like to be treated yourself. Fab is for fun and there is no fun in being an online troll unless you're seriously dimented with a chip on your shoulder. As is real life, rejection is an everyday experience so by now any adult should be able to respond to it in an adult manner and not toss their toys out of the pram."
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"Honestly I think most people have standards that are out of this world and a bit much to be honest
Nothing wrong with having standards.what one may consider to be over the top someone else would consider them just normal common standards.there is sonething and someone here for everyone afterall.
Very easy for all the good looking people to say that. But I see something beautiful in most women even tho they wouldn't look at me once haha
That's unfortunately the reality of the site for many of us men here but its absolutely no excuse for some of the shit the ladies here are putting up with. I'm not to everyone's taste and have been rejected plenty,but I'd never in a million years turn on someone because I dont appeal to them,and if I'm turning someone down I'd be nice about it.
I was talking at length to someone about this yesterday. The other common thing in addition to the insults she was saying is lads straight up offering money to ladies here for sex. I'm not surprised the ladies of Fab are fussy if this is the shit they're putting up with."
I keep getting mixed up for being a professional on Escorts Ireland. I was offered €50 this morning for a car meet. Do I look like the type of lady to meet in the back of your shitty Totoya Corolla |
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
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"People give out on here they don’t receive replies so after a couple of messages from the same person most times I’ll eventually reply and say not interested most are good and say thanks for the response and leave it at that.
But there are a number of people here and on the rise that give you a torrent of abuse if you reject them and then try to say they’d be lowering their standards to begin with and you’re lucky they’re offering to meet you because you’re not apparently up there with the hot women on the site.
I don’t care if your an Adonis or Aphrodite if I’ve no interest in you and politely decline why can’t you just leave it at that?
Yes it’s crap to be rejected and it stings but show some class instead of belittling yourself to try tear someone else down?! "
I have had so much rejection and turned down so many times i have just become hardened and imune to it....
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"Honestly I think most people have standards that are out of this world and a bit much to be honest
Nothing wrong with having standards.what one may consider to be over the top someone else would consider them just normal common standards.there is sonething and someone here for everyone afterall.
Very easy for all the good looking people to say that. But I see something beautiful in most women even tho they wouldn't look at me once haha
That's unfortunately the reality of the site for many of us men here but its absolutely no excuse for some of the shit the ladies here are putting up with. I'm not to everyone's taste and have been rejected plenty,but I'd never in a million years turn on someone because I dont appeal to them,and if I'm turning someone down I'd be nice about it.
I was talking at length to someone about this yesterday. The other common thing in addition to the insults she was saying is lads straight up offering money to ladies here for sex. I'm not surprised the ladies of Fab are fussy if this is the shit they're putting up with.
I keep getting mixed up for being a professional on Escorts Ireland. I was offered €50 this morning for a car meet. Do I look like the type of lady to meet in the back of your shitty Totoya Corolla "
Fuck off its a Yaris and you should be honoured to grace Betsys back seat |
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