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over a year ago
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Wondering what you think about this ....
I’ve discussed this lifestyle with my partner, she’s always intrigued by it and on holidays has flirted with guys. Even to the point of a slow set in a Las Vegas club- to dance music.
But when in Ireland or normal settings she goes back into her shell.
This weekend we are going out and I have an anklet I’d like her to wear do you think it would attract the wrong attention, the right attention or no attention?
I’d like a guy or couple to spot it and see if a conversation ensued about the lifestyle. I’m not looking for her to be swept off her feet into a room and come back to me a hotwife lol I think she’d call the Garda if a guy tried that 
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I don't think people will notice, but then again you'll never know until you try it.
Socials would be a better approach in my opinion you dont have to commit to anything just drink with like minded people.
Anyhow where are you going ?   |
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over a year ago
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"Gas me and my lady thinking of same , anklet- drop the hint like , even if no one notice we know it’s bold "
Yea that’s the idea it’s a little naughty !! |
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over a year ago
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"Obviously it's nerves back here when she goes out?
Afraid she will be seen by the neighbours dancing with a stranger etc. Try a night away from your area and see how that goes? "
Yea it’s nerves and perceptions of people |
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"Obviously it's nerves back here when she goes out?
Afraid she will be seen by the neighbours dancing with a stranger etc. Try a night away from your area and see how that goes?
Yea it’s nerves and perceptions of people"
Am I naive..I never knew an ankle meant swinger..or anything for that matter
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"Obviously it's nerves back here when she goes out?
Afraid she will be seen by the neighbours dancing with a stranger etc. Try a night away from your area and see how that goes?
Yea it’s nerves and perceptions of people"
Am I naive..I never knew an ankle meant swinger..or anything for that matter
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"Obviously it's nerves back here when she goes out?
Afraid she will be seen by the neighbours dancing with a stranger etc. Try a night away from your area and see how that goes?
Yea it’s nerves and perceptions of people
Am I naive..I never knew an ankle meant swinger..or anything for that matter
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Yeah I’m sitting here scratching my head lol |
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"Noone will even notice that shes wearing it. It's not "a swinger thing" as far as I know. Shes either up it or she isn't unfortunately. "
Then why is he going to get her to wear an anklet if its not a swinger thing.. I'm sorry and not trying to be rude butI still don't get it?. . |
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over a year ago
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It’s not a “swinger” but a “hotwife” thing there are charms you can buy to put on the anklets, for example HW, a key (symbol for cage) ace of spades etc
But no not a swingers thing. |
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"It’s not a “swinger” but a “hotwife” thing there are charms you can buy to put on the anklets, for example HW, a key (symbol for cage) ace of spades etc
But no not a swingers thing. "
But a regular anklet without those emblems means nothing at all right? |
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Yes, that’s my understanding.
I was explained the meaning of it in Vegas by a guy who’s wife was wearing a collar at the pool as me and him sat at the bar.
Was an eye opener haha, Vegas is another level obviously than Dublin night out lol |
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"Yes, that’s my understanding.
I was explained the meaning of it in Vegas by a guy who’s wife was wearing a collar at the pool as me and him sat at the bar.
Was an eye opener haha, Vegas is another level obviously than Dublin night out lol"
Noone in Dublin will have a clue.. unless it has some emblem like you said. |
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"Yes, that’s my understanding.
I was explained the meaning of it in Vegas by a guy who’s wife was wearing a collar at the pool as me and him sat at the bar.
Was an eye opener haha, Vegas is another level obviously than Dublin night out lol
Noone in Dublin will have a clue.. unless it has some emblem like you said."
Sure we will see... I genuinely think it’s more known than you think. |
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