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I’ve met a few fellow fabbers on the typical dating apps, but i don’t think there are any forum or socials for singles on here who would like to be in a couple. I guess some singles here meet and hit it off, but that can be a challenge.
Are there any groups or socials pre existing for this? I might setup a kik group. PM if you would like to be included. It might lead to a social night out.
Some will fab isn’t the place for dating, but those apps are a minefield, so why not widen the search on here. |
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Count me in! I'm in full agreement that most apps are just as sex orientated as fab these days, and also if you want a partner who's kinky or swings then you should be looking where the kinky swingers are!! |
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"Count me in! I'm in full agreement that most apps are just as sex orientated as fab these days, and also if you want a partner who's kinky or swings then you should be looking where the kinky swingers are!! "
Pm me for kik group. |
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over a year ago
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"I'd like to be added! Loving the casual sex life but always open to finding more. I miss cuddles! I’ll marry you ????. Join up "
Will you stop proposing to me everywhere!?! PMSL |
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over a year ago
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"Count me in! I'm in full agreement that most apps are just as sex orientated as fab these days, and also if you want a partner who's kinky or swings then you should be looking where the kinky swingers are!! "
1000000%
Most "dating" apps only sugar coat people's want for casual hook ups which mostly involve bad sex as people sugar coat casual hook ups as "going on a date".
When I changed my profile saying that I'm looking for a boyfriend almost a year ago - I got a considerable amount of mail calling me an idiot for "looking for love on a sex site".
How does one find kinky love in a vanilla world?
How does one bring a relationship into fantasy?
Fab is most perfect platform to find love for those, who want to explore, who couldn't otherwise be upfront about their kinks and fantasies with their potential vanilla partners, who want more from their relationships than just an old routine..
I found that on fab. He's perfect in every sense  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Count me in! I'm in full agreement that most apps are just as sex orientated as fab these days, and also if you want a partner who's kinky or swings then you should be looking where the kinky swingers are!! "
Well said, justification for fab single men at last  |
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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago
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"Count me in! I'm in full agreement that most apps are just as sex orientated as fab these days, and also if you want a partner who's kinky or swings then you should be looking where the kinky swingers are!!
1000000%
Most "dating" apps only sugar coat people's want for casual hook ups which mostly involve bad sex as people sugar coat casual hook ups as "going on a date".
When I changed my profile saying that I'm looking for a boyfriend almost a year ago - I got a considerable amount of mail calling me an idiot for "looking for love on a sex site".
How does one find kinky love in a vanilla world?
How does one bring a relationship into fantasy?
Fab is most perfect platform to find love for those, who want to explore, who couldn't otherwise be upfront about their kinks and fantasies with their potential vanilla partners, who want more from their relationships than just an old routine..
I found that on fab. He's perfect in every sense "
Well said my dear! 
Im lucky enough that found a man outside swinger world. We both have fantasies and he is open to the suggestions,eg three- and more-somes 
It really seems to be a perfect relationship. Life isnt only about sex. And so what he is 10ywars younger than me!  |
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The problem I find with dating sites is that Women go straight on looks and very rarely give the man a chance. Attraction is very important, I agree, but so is their personality. I'm actually the nicest person you could meet and I'd do anything to help anyone out. On POF and tinder for over a year and a half and I see the same Ladies on it time and time again.. and they are actually all stunning Ladies. I just feel their waiting out on an absolute Adonis hunk of a man to sweep them of their feet and live happily ever after. At the same time, just a normal person like me could be just the right person for them but because majority of Ladies are going on looks that chance has passed. Sounds like I'm ranting..but I'm not.  Feel free to correct if I'm wrong in what I'm seeing though. |
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"The problem I find with dating sites is that Women go straight on looks and very rarely give the man a chance. Attraction is very important, I agree, but so is their personality. I'm actually the nicest person you could meet and I'd do anything to help anyone out. On POF and tinder for over a year and a half and I see the same Ladies on it time and time again.. and they are actually all stunning Ladies. I just feel their waiting out on an absolute Adonis hunk of a man to sweep them of their feet and live happily ever after. At the same time, just a normal person like me could be just the right person for them but because majority of Ladies are going on looks that chance has passed. Sounds like I'm ranting..but I'm not. Feel free to correct if I'm wrong in what I'm seeing though. "
There has to be an attraction on both sides surely |
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"Date a girl on here? Sure I would have to be their cousin/their partners cousin before they would even masturbate thinking about me.
Maybe it could happen, if they were into more normal stuff."
Oh dear sounds like you've had bad experiences |
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"The problem I find with dating sites is that Women go straight on looks and very rarely give the man a chance. Attraction is very important, I agree, but so is their personality. I'm actually the nicest person you could meet and I'd do anything to help anyone out. On POF and tinder for over a year and a half and I see the same Ladies on it time and time again.. and they are actually all stunning Ladies. I just feel their waiting out on an absolute Adonis hunk of a man to sweep them of their feet and live happily ever after. At the same time, just a normal person like me could be just the right person for them but because majority of Ladies are going on looks that chance has passed. Sounds like I'm ranting..but I'm not. Feel free to correct if I'm wrong in what I'm seeing though. "
Couldn’t agree with you any less yes basic attraction is key but someone could be an Adonis and be as thick as two planks I won’t have an interest cause he can’t even carry a conversation what I find about dating apps is they’ve become an extension of here people just wanting sex.
I’m here and on dating apps but my rules are different just because I’m on here doesn’t mean I can’t look to date on dating apps or here for that matter yet I’ve been given stick over it over those who’ve recognised me from here.
You could line the last 10 guys I’ve dated up and they would all look completely different the only comparison they have is they’re mostly good craic and there was banter there cause that’s what the most important thing is in dating! |
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"The problem I find with dating sites is that Women go straight on looks and very rarely give the man a chance. Attraction is very important, I agree, but so is their personality. I'm actually the nicest person you could meet and I'd do anything to help anyone out. On POF and tinder for over a year and a half and I see the same Ladies on it time and time again.. and they are actually all stunning Ladies. I just feel their waiting out on an absolute Adonis hunk of a man to sweep them of their feet and live happily ever after. At the same time, just a normal person like me could be just the right person for them but because majority of Ladies are going on looks that chance has passed. Sounds like I'm ranting..but I'm not. Feel free to correct if I'm wrong in what I'm seeing though. "
You're not ranting my friend ..you're just telling the truth... |
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"The problem I find with dating sites is that Women go straight on looks and very rarely give the man a chance. Attraction is very important, I agree, but so is their personality. I'm actually the nicest person you could meet and I'd do anything to help anyone out. On POF and tinder for over a year and a half and I see the same Ladies on it time and time again.. and they are actually all stunning Ladies. I just feel their waiting out on an absolute Adonis hunk of a man to sweep them of their feet and live happily ever after. At the same time, just a normal person like me could be just the right person for them but because majority of Ladies are going on looks that chance has passed. Sounds like I'm ranting..but I'm not. Feel free to correct if I'm wrong in what I'm seeing though.
You're not ranting my friend ..you're just telling the truth..."
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"The problem I find with dating sites is that Women go straight on looks and very rarely give the man a chance. Attraction is very important, I agree, but so is their personality. I'm actually the nicest person you could meet and I'd do anything to help anyone out. On POF and tinder for over a year and a half and I see the same Ladies on it time and time again.. and they are actually all stunning Ladies. I just feel their waiting out on an absolute Adonis hunk of a man to sweep them of their feet and live happily ever after. At the same time, just a normal person like me could be just the right person for them but because majority of Ladies are going on looks that chance has passed. Sounds like I'm ranting..but I'm not. Feel free to correct if I'm wrong in what I'm seeing though.
Couldn’t agree with you any less yes basic attraction is key but someone could be an Adonis and be as thick as two planks I won’t have an interest cause he can’t even carry a conversation what I find about dating apps is they’ve become an extension of here people just wanting sex.
I’m here and on dating apps but my rules are different just because I’m on here doesn’t mean I can’t look to date on dating apps or here for that matter yet I’ve been given stick over it over those who’ve recognised me from here.
You could line the last 10 guys I’ve dated up and they would all look completely different the only comparison they have is they’re mostly good craic and there was banter there cause that’s what the most important thing is in dating!"
I was recognized a few times on Bumble. The average message would kind of hint well you are on Fab lets skip the formalities and just meet and fuck. I don't do that on Fab its always social first.I do like to have dinner and drinks occasionally! |
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"The problem I find with dating sites is that Women go straight on looks and very rarely give the man a chance. Attraction is very important, I agree, but so is their personality. I'm actually the nicest person you could meet and I'd do anything to help anyone out. On POF and tinder for over a year and a half and I see the same Ladies on it time and time again.. and they are actually all stunning Ladies. I just feel their waiting out on an absolute Adonis hunk of a man to sweep them of their feet and live happily ever after. At the same time, just a normal person like me could be just the right person for them but because majority of Ladies are going on looks that chance has passed. Sounds like I'm ranting..but I'm not. Feel free to correct if I'm wrong in what I'm seeing though.
Couldn’t agree with you any less yes basic attraction is key but someone could be an Adonis and be as thick as two planks I won’t have an interest cause he can’t even carry a conversation what I find about dating apps is they’ve become an extension of here people just wanting sex.
I’m here and on dating apps but my rules are different just because I’m on here doesn’t mean I can’t look to date on dating apps or here for that matter yet I’ve been given stick over it over those who’ve recognised me from here.
You could line the last 10 guys I’ve dated up and they would all look completely different the only comparison they have is they’re mostly good craic and there was banter there cause that’s what the most important thing is in dating!
I was recognized a few times on Bumble. The average message would kind of hint well you are on Fab lets skip the formalities and just meet and fuck. I don't do that on Fab its always social first.I do like to have dinner and drinks occasionally! "
Bumbles membership will be showing a spike in memberships after this I’d imagine |
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"The problem I find with dating sites is that Women go straight on looks and very rarely give the man a chance."
They do start by filtering by looks. I am handsome. I get so many matches on the sites, every day 5 or 6 new women message me on my phone. I get hundreds of matches.
Its one of the reasons I can come on here and say stuff how I do, women not having sex with me over a forum post means nothing to me. I can get sex whenever I want.
However, the first questions out of all Irish girls mouths is usually about money, your job, how much you make.
Again I am lucky in this department. However I know if I tell them I am unemployed living at home their interest falls off the chart.
My point is, there is always something to blame, because women are picky as fuck.
Half of them would be lucky to have a half decent man, and they act like they are gods gift. |
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"The problem I find with dating sites is that Women go straight on looks and very rarely give the man a chance.
They do start by filtering by looks. I am handsome. I get so many matches on the sites, every day 5 or 6 new women message me on my phone. I get hundreds of matches.
Its one of the reasons I can come on here and say stuff how I do, women not having sex with me over a forum post means nothing to me. I can get sex whenever I want.
However, the first questions out of all Irish girls mouths is usually about money, your job, how much you make.
Again I am lucky in this department. However I know if I tell them I am unemployed living at home their interest falls off the chart.
My point is, there is always something to blame, because women are picky as fuck.
Half of them would be lucky to have a half decent man, and they act like they are gods gift."
I think it depends on age range & at what stage in your life.
I'm older and the superficial stuff isn't important to me. All I'm after is mutual attraction, conversation, humour, respect & how you make each other feel. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"Count me in! I'm in full agreement that most apps are just as sex orientated as fab these days, and also if you want a partner who's kinky or swings then you should be looking where the kinky swingers are!!
1000000%
Most "dating" apps only sugar coat people's want for casual hook ups which mostly involve bad sex as people sugar coat casual hook ups as "going on a date".
When I changed my profile saying that I'm looking for a boyfriend almost a year ago - I got a considerable amount of mail calling me an idiot for "looking for love on a sex site".
How does one find kinky love in a vanilla world?
How does one bring a relationship into fantasy?
Fab is most perfect platform to find love for those, who want to explore, who couldn't otherwise be upfront about their kinks and fantasies with their potential vanilla partners, who want more from their relationships than just an old routine..
I found that on fab. He's perfect in every sense "
This |
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"The problem I find with dating sites is that Women go straight on looks and very rarely give the man a chance.
They do start by filtering by looks. I am handsome. I get so many matches on the sites, every day 5 or 6 new women message me on my phone. I get hundreds of matches.
Its one of the reasons I can come on here and say stuff how I do, women not having sex with me over a forum post means nothing to me. I can get sex whenever I want.
However, the first questions out of all Irish girls mouths is usually about money, your job, how much you make.
Again I am lucky in this department. However I know if I tell them I am unemployed living at home their interest falls off the chart.
My point is, there is always something to blame, because women are picky as fuck.
Half of them would be lucky to have a half decent man, and they act like they are gods gift."
Yes what u say is true am not working and just can't afford much and this puts women off all the time but am happy it dos then I know there not for me |
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Missus you are gorgeous looking tho so it was fairly easy for you to find that on here.Mostmen ive chatted to want to "livethe fantasises" before meeting someone as they wouldnt want their good lil girlfriend tarnished so to speak. Just my experience.
Plus i hear guys go on about attraction but every day reality or fab I see that men always go for beautiful women. Attraction is a factor in meeting someone I have to be physically attracted to someone before I can go further. |
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"Missus you are gorgeous looking tho so it was fairly easy for you to find that on here.Mostmen ive chatted to want to "livethe fantasises" before meeting someone as they wouldnt want their good lil girlfriend tarnished so to speak. Just my experience.
Plus i hear guys go on about attraction but every day reality or fab I see that men always go for beautiful women. Attraction is a factor in meeting someone I have to be physically attracted to someone before I can go further. "
You've no idea what I look like! Also I haven't found what I'm looking for, if I had I wouldn't still be here. I just stay optimistic and open to opportunities, like joining fun kik groups! |
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"Missus you are gorgeous looking tho so it was fairly easy for you to find that on here.Mostmen ive chatted to want to "livethe fantasises" before meeting someone as they wouldnt want their good lil girlfriend tarnished so to speak. Just my experience.
Plus i hear guys go on about attraction but every day reality or fab I see that men always go for beautiful women. Attraction is a factor in meeting someone I have to be physically attracted to someone before I can go further.
You've no idea what I look like! Also I haven't found what I'm looking for, if I had I wouldn't still be here. I just stay optimistic and open to opportunities, like joining fun kik groups! "
Er um i was talking to missus lol |
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"Missus you are gorgeous looking tho so it was fairly easy for you to find that on here.Mostmen ive chatted to want to "livethe fantasises" before meeting someone as they wouldnt want their good lil girlfriend tarnished so to speak. Just my experience.
Plus i hear guys go on about attraction but every day reality or fab I see that men always go for beautiful women. Attraction is a factor in meeting someone I have to be physically attracted to someone before I can go further.
You've no idea what I look like! Also I haven't found what I'm looking for, if I had I wouldn't still be here. I just stay optimistic and open to opportunities, like joining fun kik groups!
Er um i was talking to missus lol"
Using the quote button would be helpful so! |
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"Missus you are gorgeous looking tho so it was fairly easy for you to find that on here.Mostmen ive chatted to want to "livethe fantasises" before meeting someone as they wouldnt want their good lil girlfriend tarnished so to speak. Just my experience.
Plus i hear guys go on about attraction but every day reality or fab I see that men always go for beautiful women. Attraction is a factor in meeting someone I have to be physically attracted to someone before I can go further.
You've no idea what I look like! Also I haven't found what I'm looking for, if I had I wouldn't still be here. I just stay optimistic and open to opportunities, like joining fun kik groups!
Er um i was talking to missus lol
Using the quote button would be helpful so! "
MEOW catty! I saidthe username I was talking about / to therefore you cannot read properly thank you for pointing out the USE THE QUOTE BUTTON tho jeeze |
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"Missus you are gorgeous looking tho so it was fairly easy for you to find that on here.Mostmen ive chatted to want to "livethe fantasises" before meeting someone as they wouldnt want their good lil girlfriend tarnished so to speak. Just my experience.
Plus i hear guys go on about attraction but every day reality or fab I see that men always go for beautiful women. Attraction is a factor in meeting someone I have to be physically attracted to someone before I can go further.
You've no idea what I look like! Also I haven't found what I'm looking for, if I had I wouldn't still be here. I just stay optimistic and open to opportunities, like joining fun kik groups!
Er um i was talking to missus lol
Using the quote button would be helpful so!
MEOW catty! I saidthe username I was talking about / to therefore you cannot read properly thank you for pointing out the USE THE QUOTE BUTTON tho jeeze"
Excuse me for presuming you were responding to the most recent post in the thread as opposed to one that was literally weeks old |
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"I’ve met a few fellow fabbers on the typical dating apps, but i don’t think there are any forum or socials for singles on here who would like to be in a couple. I guess some singles here meet and hit it off, but that can be a challenge.
Are there any groups or socials pre existing for this? I might setup a kik group. PM if you would like to be included. It might lead to a social night out.
Some will fab isn’t the place for dating, but those apps are a minefield, so why not widen the search on here."
Good luck to all and I do hope some of ye find who and what you're looking for.
Wish this was around in my time.
Life would be very different |
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By *cleeCouple
over a year ago
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Stick with pof.. I found my partner on there.. Five years together now.. Its not all about looks.. Chat first, get to know them.. If you feel comfortable, meet.. Without pof I would never have found him.. Good luck.. |
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"Stick with pof.. I found my partner on there.. Five years together now.. Its not all about looks.. Chat first, get to know them.. If you feel comfortable, meet.. Without pof I would never have found him.. Good luck.. "
A lot of ATTATCHED men on POF pretending not to be. Congratulations to you but not for everyone |
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"Count me in! I'm in full agreement that most apps are just as sex orientated as fab these days, and also if you want a partner who's kinky or swings then you should be looking where the kinky swingers are!!
1000000%
Most "dating" apps only sugar coat people's want for casual hook ups which mostly involve bad sex as people sugar coat casual hook ups as "going on a date".
When I changed my profile saying that I'm looking for a boyfriend almost a year ago - I got a considerable amount of mail calling me an idiot for "looking for love on a sex site".
How does one find kinky love in a vanilla world?
How does one bring a relationship into fantasy?
Fab is most perfect platform to find love for those, who want to explore, who couldn't otherwise be upfront about their kinks and fantasies with their potential vanilla partners, who want more from their relationships than just an old routine..
I found that on fab. He's perfect in every sense "
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