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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Unless it's a very good and original shot, I find them slightly irritating but not off putting. Why? Because I don't really grasp what the message of those pics should be in terms of attracting potential new meets. Is it 'wooohoo look at me, I got my cock into a pussy before, so I'm a good meet' or is it simply a trophy or is it self feeding wank fodder that intrigues the poster more than anyone else? Or do I miss something?
All of the above doesn't apply to couples, different ball game althogether as they're a team. |
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"Unless it's a very good and original shot, I find them slightly irritating but not off putting. Why? Because I don't really grasp what the message of those pics should be in terms of attracting potential new meets. Is it 'wooohoo look at me, I got my cock into a pussy before, so I'm a good meet' or is it simply a trophy or is it self feeding wank fodder that intrigues the poster more than anyone else? Or do I miss something?
All of the above doesn't apply to couples, different ball game althogether as they're a team. "
Exactly this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Huge turn off for me.
When I see photos of previous meets on someone's profile first what comes to mind is exactly what doghunter said, second - if there's 7 different bj photos by 7 different women to me it looks like a person is a picture taker and I certainly would never let someone random take photos of me in the bedroom.
Hate it when someone even asks me about it, so do tend to avoid people with meet photos to even avoid that question ever popping up. |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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For me it’s mostly about who is the focus of the picture. If the picture is on a guys profile but only shows an inch of cock...turn off. The owner of the profile should be the focus of the pic imo |
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I kinda question the person.
You were enjoying yourself so much and involved with the other person (s) so much that you stopped to take a pic?
Not something that I would really be interested in myself, during a meet.
Then again, unless you have that rapid, repeating shot mode on your camera, you'll have a very small window of opportunity to get a pic of me fucking   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does showing photos of past meets on your profile attract new people to get in touch or is it a turn off?
particularly penetration pics and other sex acts"
No. Not even was tempted to do any. Not interested but if someone is having them, posted to the public view and pics are explicit its a turn off to me.
I like art or funny pics. |
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It's a turn-off for me for lots of reasons, but mostly because taking photos is the last thing on my mind when I'm having great sex with someone I really fancy, so it tends to make me think the person is just having sex for the photo op, rather than actually being completely lost in and enjoying the moment with someone they've made a connection with, someone they very likely will have had limited time with. For couples it's different I suppose, they've all the time and opportunity in the world, but if you're just spending a night or a few hours with someone amazing, it baffles me how 'hold it there... I'm just going to grab my phone and take a few snaps' even crosses anyone's mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a turn-off for me for lots of reasons, but mostly because taking photos is the last thing on my mind when I'm having great sex with someone I really fancy, so it tends to make me think the person is just having sex for the photo op, rather than actually being completely lost in and enjoying the moment with someone they've made a connection with, someone they very likely will have had limited time with. For couples it's different I suppose, they've all the time and opportunity in the world, but if you're just spending a night or a few hours with someone amazing, it baffles me how 'hold it there... I'm just going to grab my phone and take a few snaps' even crosses anyone's mind. "
Exactly this!  and I just imagine how comic situation it might be |
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"It's a turn-off for me for lots of reasons, but mostly because taking photos is the last thing on my mind when I'm having great sex with someone I really fancy, so it tends to make me think the person is just having sex for the photo op, rather than actually being completely lost in and enjoying the moment with someone they've made a connection with, someone they very likely will have had limited time with. For couples it's different I suppose, they've all the time and opportunity in the world, but if you're just spending a night or a few hours with someone amazing, it baffles me how 'hold it there... I'm just going to grab my phone and take a few snaps' even crosses anyone's mind. "
So, what I said, just more detailed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a turn-off for me for lots of reasons, but mostly because taking photos is the last thing on my mind when I'm having great sex with someone I really fancy, so it tends to make me think the person is just having sex for the photo op, rather than actually being completely lost in and enjoying the moment with someone they've made a connection with, someone they very likely will have had limited time with. For couples it's different I suppose, they've all the time and opportunity in the world, but if you're just spending a night or a few hours with someone amazing, it baffles me how 'hold it there... I'm just going to grab my phone and take a few snaps' even crosses anyone's mind.
Exactly this! and I just imagine how comic situation it might be "
I've put up a status once saying that if it crosses ones mind to take a photo of them receiving a blow job, was that blowjob any good to begin with.
In result my inbox got quite flooded with offended blowjob receivers  |
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"It's a turn-off for me for lots of reasons, but mostly because taking photos is the last thing on my mind when I'm having great sex with someone I really fancy, so it tends to make me think the person is just having sex for the photo op, rather than actually being completely lost in and enjoying the moment with someone they've made a connection with, someone they very likely will have had limited time with. For couples it's different I suppose, they've all the time and opportunity in the world, but if you're just spending a night or a few hours with someone amazing, it baffles me how 'hold it there... I'm just going to grab my phone and take a few snaps' even crosses anyone's mind.
Exactly this! and I just imagine how comic situation it might be
I've put up a status once saying that if it crosses ones mind to take a photo of them receiving a blow job, was that blowjob any good to begin with.
In result my inbox got quite flooded with offended blowjob receivers "
I call Bullshit!
There's no such thing as offended blowjob receivers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a turn-off for me for lots of reasons, but mostly because taking photos is the last thing on my mind when I'm having great sex with someone I really fancy, so it tends to make me think the person is just having sex for the photo op, rather than actually being completely lost in and enjoying the moment with someone they've made a connection with, someone they very likely will have had limited time with. For couples it's different I suppose, they've all the time and opportunity in the world, but if you're just spending a night or a few hours with someone amazing, it baffles me how 'hold it there... I'm just going to grab my phone and take a few snaps' even crosses anyone's mind.
Exactly this! and I just imagine how comic situation it might be
I've put up a status once saying that if it crosses ones mind to take a photo of them receiving a blow job, was that blowjob any good to begin with.
In result my inbox got quite flooded with offended blowjob receivers
I call Bullshit!
There's no such thing as offended blowjob receivers "
Oh there is! They're not offended by receiving a blowjob. They're offended by me questioning their enjoyment...  |
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"It's a turn-off for me for lots of reasons, but mostly because taking photos is the last thing on my mind when I'm having great sex with someone I really fancy, so it tends to make me think the person is just having sex for the photo op, rather than actually being completely lost in and enjoying the moment with someone they've made a connection with, someone they very likely will have had limited time with. For couples it's different I suppose, they've all the time and opportunity in the world, but if you're just spending a night or a few hours with someone amazing, it baffles me how 'hold it there... I'm just going to grab my phone and take a few snaps' even crosses anyone's mind.
Exactly this! and I just imagine how comic situation it might be
I've put up a status once saying that if it crosses ones mind to take a photo of them receiving a blow job, was that blowjob any good to begin with.
In result my inbox got quite flooded with offended blowjob receivers
I call Bullshit!
There's no such thing as offended blowjob receivers
Oh there is! They're not offended by receiving a blowjob. They're offended by me questioning their enjoyment... "
Gobshites!
A gorgeous woman has taken your cock in her mouth and you can't communicate? Shows where their brains are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a turn-off for me for lots of reasons, but mostly because taking photos is the last thing on my mind when I'm having great sex with someone I really fancy, so it tends to make me think the person is just having sex for the photo op, rather than actually being completely lost in and enjoying the moment with someone they've made a connection with, someone they very likely will have had limited time with. For couples it's different I suppose, they've all the time and opportunity in the world, but if you're just spending a night or a few hours with someone amazing, it baffles me how 'hold it there... I'm just going to grab my phone and take a few snaps' even crosses anyone's mind.
Exactly this! and I just imagine how comic situation it might be
I've put up a status once saying that if it crosses ones mind to take a photo of them receiving a blow job, was that blowjob any good to begin with.
In result my inbox got quite flooded with offended blowjob receivers
I call Bullshit!
There's no such thing as offended blowjob receivers
Oh there is! They're not offended by receiving a blowjob. They're offended by me questioning their enjoyment...
Gobshites!
A gorgeous woman has taken your cock in her mouth and you can't communicate? Shows where their brains are "
Somehow methinks we're talking about different things here |
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By *attooYouMan
over a year ago
just about northside |
Totally respect the opinions here, which tend to be about taking photos in the first place. Funny thing is, majority of posts show taking photo or vids in their profile interests.
Best,
Sober guy. |
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"Totally respect the opinions here, which tend to be about taking photos in the first place. Funny thing is, majority of posts show taking photo or vids in their profile interests.
Best,
Sober guy. "
Taking photos doesn't always mean with someone. It also doesn't mean they have to be displayed. Some of the profiles that have photos of other people also say they are discreet. Posting a photo of a past meet is hardly discreet now is is? Also Sober guy. |
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"It's a turn-off for me for lots of reasons, but mostly because taking photos is the last thing on my mind when I'm having great sex with someone I really fancy, so it tends to make me think the person is just having sex for the photo op, rather than actually being completely lost in and enjoying the moment with someone they've made a connection with, someone they very likely will have had limited time with. For couples it's different I suppose, they've all the time and opportunity in the world, but if you're just spending a night or a few hours with someone amazing, it baffles me how 'hold it there... I'm just going to grab my phone and take a few snaps' even crosses anyone's mind.
Exactly this! and I just imagine how comic situation it might be
I've put up a status once saying that if it crosses ones mind to take a photo of them receiving a blow job, was that blowjob any good to begin with.
In result my inbox got quite flooded with offended blowjob receivers
I call Bullshit!
There's no such thing as offended blowjob receivers
Oh there is! They're not offended by receiving a blowjob. They're offended by me questioning their enjoyment...
Gobshites!
A gorgeous woman has taken your cock in her mouth and you can't communicate? Shows where their brains are "
I'm inclined to agree with missus. If you're really blissfully enjoying receiving a blow job from someone you've totally lusted after... Are in absolute exquisite ecstasy... Why would you want to break the spell by scrambling about for your phone? Or worse... imagine really enjoying it, being lost in that heavenly moment, and you hear this muffled 'can you take a pic of me blowing you for Fab, thanks?'... I think if I was a guy, that would be right up there with someone moaning 'this veri is going to be awesome!' when they cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found this thread really interesting.
I have to confess to a few action shots on my profile. All with the same regular partner. We often incorporate a bit of fun with the phone into our playdates.
Most replies on here say it is a turn off yet when I ask a man which of my pics is his favorite the response is often one from these meets.
Just saying  |
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"I've found this thread really interesting.
I have to confess to a few action shots on my profile. All with the same regular partner. We often incorporate a bit of fun with the phone into our playdates.
Most replies on here say it is a turn off yet when I ask a man which of my pics is his favorite the response is often one from these meets.
Just saying "
Totally different standards for men vs women though, as always on this site!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found this thread really interesting.
I have to confess to a few action shots on my profile. All with the same regular partner. We often incorporate a bit of fun with the phone into our playdates.
Most replies on here say it is a turn off yet when I ask a man which of my pics is his favorite the response is often one from these meets.
Just saying "
I have one action pic in my friends. Guys do seem to comment on it most once we become friends.
I don't mind people having action shots but please don't send them to me in a text as proof of your skills or whatever reason you are thinking when attaching |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found this thread really interesting.
I have to confess to a few action shots on my profile. All with the same regular partner. We often incorporate a bit of fun with the phone into our playdates.
Most replies on here say it is a turn off yet when I ask a man which of my pics is his favorite the response is often one from these meets.
Just saying "
Have to agree, it's been interesting to read the differing opinions.
I don't understand how it's totally normal and acceptable for a couple to be into taking photos and showing them on their profiles but a total turn off for singles to do so.
Could it be we would like to kid ourselves that they've never had a meet with anybody else and by putting pics up of past meets only reminds us they have? Is it more off putting if a single guy has these type of photos than the single fems?
One of my interests is taking photos. Not with everyone or just anyone, just those that I've connected with. It can be very erotic and can definitely add to playtime rather than impede or abruptly interfere with play.
Obviously we all have different tastes. But there are some very tastefully done pics on single profiles and I know, some not so.
Taking photos is in the fab list of interest and rightly so. If it's all consensual, it's all good. It doesn't put me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own I suppose? I have action shots on my friends only pics.. wouldn’t have them public for any length of time. They have all got plenty of fabs though and a lot of messages showing interest when they went up, so not sure how off putting they were. Other people’s action shots wouldn’t put me off, I quite like seeing them. Maybe it’s the exhibitionist in me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind how old or from what past those photos is as far if there is new as well not that profile has only photos year or more old..
But biggest turn off is Bareback photos.. And sure everyones excuse is that's my ex.. But some people has lots of them and can see its not the same person.. And I'm not talking only about men..
Each their own way I guess .. |
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By *aidbare5Couple
over a year ago
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Going to go against the general opinion here and say I love seeing pictures of past meets.
Can't beat a good tastefully taken photo. Everything here gets scrutinised to the last and generally in a negative way. It's just fun and if taking pictures is your thing keep doing it and if they are hot I will keep fabbing them.
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