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What's your pet hate on fab?
My main one is 'discreet' non verified profiles with no photos demanding a face pic from the off. There is a long list after that too lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The word milf in general but specifically the people who usrle it as another word for mature.
The "how could anyone say no to you" type of comment from guys on threads.
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over a year ago
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"The word milf in general but specifically the people who usrle it as another word for mature.
The "how could anyone say no to you" type of comment from guys on threads.
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People who assume being old means you're mature |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The word milf in general but specifically the people who usrle it as another word for mature.
The "how could anyone say no to you" type of comment from guys on threads.
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The “say what the women want to hear men”  |
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That stupid disclaimer - nobody gives a shit about your nudes and even if they did that wouldn't stop them
"just ask" / "don't know what to write here" / "fill in later" / blank profiles - if you can't or won't put ten mins of effort in to writing a decent profile I sincerely doubt your ability or commitment to making me cum
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over a year ago
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"The word milf in general but specifically the people who usrle it as another word for mature.
The "how could anyone say no to you" type of comment from guys on threads.
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Thanks for that?? Bloody hate being called a milf...or mature lady or babe or any variation of that by people who dont know me. Just call me Cara ffs??
Txt language, meet now msgs, etc.. I have an endless list of pet hates on here |
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Trolls in their various forms. That's about it really.
I'm also a bit of a stickler for spelling, punctuation and grammar. Mainly because I'm dyslexic and have worked very hard to manage it all my life. So lazy typing, spelling, etc., tends to make my brain hurt  |
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"That stupid disclaimer - nobody gives a shit about your nudes and even if they did that wouldn't stop them
"just ask" / "don't know what to write here" / "fill in later" / blank profiles - if you can't or won't put ten mins of effort in to writing a decent profile I sincerely doubt your ability or commitment to making me cum
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I cant believe people still do that like even on new profiles. What does Sydney Uni want with peoples nude pics and why are they specifically singled out? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Peeple whu cnt spel. Its more common on the UK forum. "
100% agree...always tempted to step into my grammer nazi boots but I resist...spell check people..spell check |
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"Peeple whu cnt spel. Its more common on the UK forum.
100% agree...always tempted to step into my grammer nazi boots but I resist...spell check people..spell check"
Predictive text solves most of these issues. I can understand some words getting jumbled at times, particularly homophones, as predictive text often can't help there, but some words just completely defy reason, as they don't even sound like the word the person actually means... Like proberly instead of probably, defiantly instead of definitely, and so on...
Best not get me started... I'll only end up annoying myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Messages from hidden profiles. 
Empty profiles. What's the point?
Underhanded sly digs and subtle trolling in the forums. It's duly noted and in fairness it makes it easier to work out who to avoid.
The saying "rant over". Cop on
Thankfully the positives outweigh the little niggles. |
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Not much gets under my skin but the whinging either or forums or in status saying they are thinking of leaving because they're having no luck etc -Just go ffs and close the door behind you
Happy Friday Folks  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
People who make zero effort with their profiles and get abusive when you don't want to chat. Or when they cheat to get through your filters by making a friends pic public for a minute to get through then switching it back again so all that shows when you go to look is a blank profile. And the excuse that they won't put up any pic in case they get recognised at work etc but then want you to send them pics etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Peeple whu cnt spel. Its more common on the UK forum.
100% agree...always tempted to step into my grammer nazi boots but I resist...spell check people..spell check
Predictive text solves most of these issues. I can understand some words getting jumbled at times, particularly homophones, as predictive text often can't help there, but some words just completely defy reason, as they don't even sound like the word the person actually means... Like proberly instead of probably, defiantly instead of definitely, and so on...
Best not get me started... I'll only end up annoying myself "
Steady...go to a darkened room and rest dear heart |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People, although it tends to be more guts who put up the chiseled abs pic with the baby oil sheen and the shaved nut sac and ask.." I'm not sure if my pic is appealing enough "...  ..if you need attention..try something a little more imaginative. Over and out |
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"Messages from hidden profiles.
Empty profiles. What's the point?
Underhanded sly digs and subtle trolling in the forums. It's duly noted and in fairness it makes it easier to work out who to avoid.
The saying "rant over". Cop on
Thankfully the positives outweigh the little niggles. "
Rant over? |
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Fakes
Timewasters
War and peace profiles with pages and pages of do’s, donts, must haves, musnt haves
People with no pics who pompously demand a face pic in your first message otherwise no reply or block
People with an age limit that discounts me !! ( lol)
Up themselves couples |
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By *ipskyMan
over a year ago
: An Autumn Haze |
"The word milf in general but specifically the people who usrle it as another word for mature.
The "how could anyone say no to you" type of comment from guys on threads.
People who assume being old means you're mature "
Ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aggressive profiles:
“Do this and you’ll be BLOCKED. Do that and you’ll be BLOCKED. Message me between 2pm & 3pm on a Tuesday and you’ll be BLOCKED BLOCKED BLOCKED”. etc etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Messages from hidden profiles.
Empty profiles. What's the point?
Underhanded sly digs and subtle trolling in the forums. It's duly noted and in fairness it makes it easier to work out who to avoid.
The saying "rant over". Cop on
Thankfully the positives outweigh the little niggles.
Rant over? "
Rant over!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1. Friend requests from “straight guys”
2. Messages from “straight guys” who then get offended when you question it.
3. Messages in the middle of the night from people looking a meet and who then hide their profile (before you wake up) and disappear for weeks.
4. People who think that just cos you agree to a coffee that that’s it. Sex sex sex. No spark love it’s gonna end with the coffee.
Sorry. Other than that I love the place. |
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"1. Friend requests from “straight guys”
2. Messages from “straight guys” who then get offended when you question it.
3. Messages in the middle of the night from people looking a meet and who then hide their profile (before you wake up) and disappear for weeks.
4. People who think that just cos you agree to a coffee that that’s it. Sex sex sex. No spark love it’s gonna end with the coffee.
Sorry. Other than that I love the place. "
Yeah the Straight guys who mail saying "I'm not gay but I'd love to suck your cock" ehhhhh I've news for you buddy |
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"1. Friend requests from “straight guys”
2. Messages from “straight guys” who then get offended when you question it.
3. Messages in the middle of the night from people looking a meet and who then hide their profile (before you wake up) and disappear for weeks.
4. People who think that just cos you agree to a coffee that that’s it. Sex sex sex. No spark love it’s gonna end with the coffee.
Sorry. Other than that I love the place.
Yeah the Straight guys who mail saying "I'm not gay but I'd love to suck your cock" ehhhhh I've news for you buddy "
I'm straight, dont allude to being anything else and I still get emails from 'straight' guys offerings bjs and the like.
Then theres the grey area of straight men looking for TVs  |
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"1. Friend requests from “straight guys”
2. Messages from “straight guys” who then get offended when you question it.
3. Messages in the middle of the night from people looking a meet and who then hide their profile (before you wake up) and disappear for weeks.
4. People who think that just cos you agree to a coffee that that’s it. Sex sex sex. No spark love it’s gonna end with the coffee.
Sorry. Other than that I love the place.
Yeah the Straight guys who mail saying "I'm not gay but I'd love to suck your cock" ehhhhh I've news for you buddy
I'm straight, dont allude to being anything else and I still get emails from 'straight' guys offerings bjs and the like.
Then theres the grey area of straight men looking for TVs "
70%+ of guys who message me say they’re straight on their profile. Doesn’t bother me in the slightest though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Messages from hidden profiles.
Empty profiles. What's the point?
Underhanded sly digs and subtle trolling in the forums. It's duly noted and in fairness it makes it easier to work out who to avoid.
The saying "rant over". Cop on
Thankfully the positives outweigh the little niggles. "
the subtle trolling and smart commented digs do get very tiresome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being called Babe, Hun, Love etc
'I'm in belfast hotel, want to join me?'
'You want me!'
Best of all has to be 'I sent you a friend's invite'
All from guys I have never chatted to before.
Yip.....such tempting messages
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being called Babe, Hun, Love etc
'I'm in belfast hotel, want to join me?'
'You want me!'
Best of all has to be 'I sent you a friend's invite'
All from guys I have never chatted to before.
Yip.....such tempting messages
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Oh yes the magic friends request usually from a photoless profile. |
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"The guys who message saying “we chatted before, remind me what your kik is”. I can see we’ve never chatted you numpty!"
I think a lot of folk who have never subscribed don't realise that if you are a subscriber, when you click on a profile it tells you at the very top of the page if that profile has mailed you before, winked you before, if you've mailed them back, and how long ago it was since any of these things happened... And that in your mailbox itself it will show the previous messages they've sent... All those copy and paste ones over and over again... |
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over a year ago
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"The guys who message saying “we chatted before, remind me what your kik is”. I can see we’ve never chatted you numpty!
I think a lot of folk who have never subscribed don't realise that if you are a subscriber, when you click on a profile it tells you at the very top of the page if that profile has mailed you before, winked you before, if you've mailed them back, and how long ago it was since any of these things happened... And that in your mailbox itself it will show the previous messages they've sent... All those copy and paste ones over and over again... "
Hence our decision to block non-site supporters from messaging - cuts down significantly on the dross in our inbox |
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"The guys who message saying “we chatted before, remind me what your kik is”. I can see we’ve never chatted you numpty!
I think a lot of folk who have never subscribed don't realise that if you are a subscriber, when you click on a profile it tells you at the very top of the page if that profile has mailed you before, winked you before, if you've mailed them back, and how long ago it was since any of these things happened... And that in your mailbox itself it will show the previous messages they've sent... All those copy and paste ones over and over again...
Hence our decision to block non-site supporters from messaging - cuts down significantly on the dross in our inbox "
What has paying to use the site got to do with it? Serious question. |
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over a year ago
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"The guys who message saying “we chatted before, remind me what your kik is”. I can see we’ve never chatted you numpty!
I think a lot of folk who have never subscribed don't realise that if you are a subscriber, when you click on a profile it tells you at the very top of the page if that profile has mailed you before, winked you before, if you've mailed them back, and how long ago it was since any of these things happened... And that in your mailbox itself it will show the previous messages they've sent... All those copy and paste ones over and over again...
Hence our decision to block non-site supporters from messaging - cuts down significantly on the dross in our inbox What has paying to use the site got to do with it? Serious question. "
It's no guarantee of anything of course, especially given that it's peanuts but people paying seem to put that little bit more effort into getting a meet when they've bothered. Besides which it's simply another way of filtering so we don't get too many messages, nothing stopping us messaging a non-supporter we like the look of |
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"The guys who message saying “we chatted before, remind me what your kik is”. I can see we’ve never chatted you numpty!
I think a lot of folk who have never subscribed don't realise that if you are a subscriber, when you click on a profile it tells you at the very top of the page if that profile has mailed you before, winked you before, if you've mailed them back, and how long ago it was since any of these things happened... And that in your mailbox itself it will show the previous messages they've sent... All those copy and paste ones over and over again...
Hence our decision to block non-site supporters from messaging - cuts down significantly on the dross in our inbox What has paying to use the site got to do with it? Serious question.
It's no guarantee of anything of course, especially given that it's peanuts but people paying seem to put that little bit more effort into getting a meet when they've bothered. Besides which it's simply another way of filtering so we don't get too many messages, nothing stopping us messaging a non-supporter we like the look of"
I wonder who that may be... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More of wasted opportunities !!... getting well into a good chat, pic swapping etc even up to as far as agreeing to meet up and then nothing, not even a reply.....I just don’t get this, like most , if I get a message from somebody that doesn’t interest me I’ll reply and let them know or delete the message. At least be upfront |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More of wasted opportunities !!... getting well into a good chat, pic swapping etc even up to as far as agreeing to meet up and then nothing, not even a reply.....I just don’t get this, like most , if I get a message from somebody that doesn’t interest me I’ll reply and let them know or delete the message. At least be upfront "
Ghosting is never cool.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not much gets under my skin but the whinging either or forums or in status saying they are thinking of leaving because they're having no luck etc -Just go ffs and close the door behind you
Happy Friday Folks "
..in a nutshell... Absolutely true... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Where's my shopping list
....string a longers...when push comes to shove they don't meet simply because they never had any intention to in the first place ..
Monosyllabic answers ..fuck..how the fuck can one have any type of conversation when all the replies are just one word..
Ladies that want face pic with first message or instant block or no reply and not one photo of any discription anywhere in her own profile,even friends photos.
And continuing with the photo section..ladies that ask for a photo on the promise they will return one .they receive yours but nothing ever comes back from them ..
The drama kings/queens...who can't understand why people have certain criteria on their profile..which means they can't chat or engage with them ..
Then there's the good ol' " coffee machiners "....the ones that have umpteen " coffee meets " with guys who then proceed to verify the guys telling all the other ladies " do NOT let this guy slip through your hands ..so incredibly hot and sexy "..but NEVER have a play meet with them...
...Then there's the ones that are all " practised at the art of deception "...lead you on and lie to your face ...married is married...no matter what way you turn it around ..just don't say you're not if you are...
And what about the ones .. male or female..that think they can be condescending or arrogant in their replies on the forums ...who can take all the fun out of it for others .
The ones that send abusive texts to other members here simply because they did not feel like engaging in conversation...
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"Where's my shopping list
....string a longers...when push comes to shove they don't meet simply because they never had any intention to in the first place ..
Monosyllabic answers ..fuck..how the fuck can one have any type of conversation when all the replies are just one word..
Ladies that want face pic with first message or instant block or no reply and not one photo of any discription anywhere in her own profile,even friends photos.
And continuing with the photo section..ladies that ask for a photo on the promise they will return one .they receive yours but nothing ever comes back from them ..
The drama kings/queens...who can't understand why people have certain criteria on their profile..which means they can't chat or engage with them ..
Then there's the good ol' " coffee machiners "....the ones that have umpteen " coffee meets " with guys who then proceed to verify the guys telling all the other ladies " do NOT let this guy slip through your hands ..so incredibly hot and sexy "..but NEVER have a play meet with them...
...Then there's the ones that are all " practised at the art of deception "...lead you on and lie to your face ...married is married...no matter what way you turn it around ..just don't say you're not if you are...
And what about the ones .. male or female..that think they can be condescending or arrogant in their replies on the forums ...who can take all the fun out of it for others .
The ones that send abusive texts to other members here simply because they did not feel like engaging in conversation...
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Feel better now ? |
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"Where's my shopping list
....string a longers...when push comes to shove they don't meet simply because they never had any intention to in the first place ..
Monosyllabic answers ..fuck..how the fuck can one have any type of conversation when all the replies are just one word..
Ladies that want face pic with first message or instant block or no reply and not one photo of any discription anywhere in her own profile,even friends photos.
And continuing with the photo section..ladies that ask for a photo on the promise they will return one .they receive yours but nothing ever comes back from them ..
The drama kings/queens...who can't understand why people have certain criteria on their profile..which means they can't chat or engage with them ..
Then there's the good ol' " coffee machiners "....the ones that have umpteen " coffee meets " with guys who then proceed to verify the guys telling all the other ladies " do NOT let this guy slip through your hands ..so incredibly hot and sexy "..but NEVER have a play meet with them...
...Then there's the ones that are all " practised at the art of deception "...lead you on and lie to your face ...married is married...no matter what way you turn it around ..just don't say you're not if you are...
And what about the ones .. male or female..that think they can be condescending or arrogant in their replies on the forums ...who can take all the fun out of it for others .
The ones that send abusive texts to other members here simply because they did not feel like engaging in conversation...
Feel better now ? "
Other than that are ya having a good time? |
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Male part of a couple asking can I bang yeah..
Single guys who non stop send messages after a simple message or reply.
Not so keen on fuck buddy's because a lot of the time they have different agendas..
Pretentious single girls or "Single"girls who are single until you ask them to meet and suddenly a guy pops out the wood work..
The question what are you into.
People who don't turn up.
Over the top cocky/bull guys
The list goes on really |
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Single female profiles who want their "partner" to watch.
Couples who constantly tell you how sound they are and that they are worth driving hours to meet yet have no verifications and get pissy when you say youd prefer to meet through a party or social first because they want it to be in the intimate setting of their house ... ah yeah, I'm totally going to head off and meet 2 strangers on their territory, help them live out their fantasy and close the door quietly as I leave!
Oh those messages from blank profiles who assure you they've been here before and are well verified... prove it!
The list just goes onnnnnn and on |
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