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By *ugs Bunny OP Couple
over a year ago
south Dublin |
This morning I picked up the courage to message a couple whose profile I've been admiring for a long time with the hope of meeting this wkend. That didnt work out but they mentioned that we're on their hotlist. Nice one  But that got me thinking wouldn't it be handy if fab notified you if you had eachother on your hotlists? Who agrees?? Maybe they'll do it if enough ask!! |
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That is a good idea.
There was a post a few weeks ago where you could tell other posters on the thread if you were on theirs. I was very pleasantly surprised to find that I was on the HLs of a few people, who I always thought were out of my league! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That is a good idea.
There was a post a few weeks ago where you could tell other posters on the thread if you were on theirs. I was very pleasantly surprised to find that I was on the HLs of a few people, who I always thought were out of my league!"
You're on mine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just checked mine , 6 guys on mine, two couples cause their pics are unreal.
I prefer that can't tell at least than I can imagine I'm on a few of mines hot list |
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"That is a good idea.
There was a post a few weeks ago where you could tell other posters on the thread if you were on theirs. I was very pleasantly surprised to find that I was on the HLs of a few people, who I always thought were out of my league!
You're on mine "
That was another pleasant surprise, lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That is a good idea.
There was a post a few weeks ago where you could tell other posters on the thread if you were on theirs. I was very pleasantly surprised to find that I was on the HLs of a few people, who I always thought were out of my league!
You're on mine
That was another pleasant surprise, lol"
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By *ugs Bunny OP Couple
over a year ago
south Dublin |
"I think it would be a great idea, it could be an opt-in thing. Good luck trying to get Fab to innovate though Mrs. bugs! Never happens."
Ah you never know Jay! The website cud do with a bit of updating really. Hope you and Mrs knots are keeping well xx |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I prefer that they don't know unless I tell them that is lol
I always tell myself that all women think like you and just don't want to tell me!
Well I guess you'll never know  |
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"I prefer that they don't know unless I tell them that is lol
I always tell myself that all women think like you and just don't want to tell me!
Well I guess you'll never know "
That's not entirely negative |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I prefer that they don't know unless I tell them that is lol
I always tell myself that all women think like you and just don't want to tell me!
Well I guess you'll never know
That's not entirely negative
You're right it's not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure one of those three-letter-abbreviation competing websites had that feature when we were on them years ago, it was pretty cool... I mean you just had to say Hi once you knew you were eyeing each other up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are like yea and use the hotlist for couples we would love to meet but waiting for the day when the winds blow right and we have the courage to message them but an opt in feature would be fun and could throw up some interesting matches, maybe it only notifies you if bot have each other on the hotlist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely fabbing peoples pics serves in a similar fashion? "
Not rwally becuse it's easy to get lost in the crowd especially with some of the hotter couples, like yea for example, when yea put up a pic I bet it gets loads of likes very quickly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely fabbing peoples pics serves in a similar fashion?
Not rwally becuse it's easy to get lost in the crowd especially with some of the hotter couples, like yea for example, when yea put up a pic I bet it gets loads of likes very quickly "
Believe me, we don't get so many fab's that we can't keep track!! But thanks for the generous compliment anyway.
But anyway, back to the subject of hotlists, why wouldn't you just message someone that appeals? Somebody has to make the first move. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely fabbing peoples pics serves in a similar fashion?
Not rwally becuse it's easy to get lost in the crowd especially with some of the hotter couples, like yea for example, when yea put up a pic I bet it gets loads of likes very quickly
Believe me, we don't get so many fab's that we can't keep track!! But thanks for the generous compliment anyway.
But anyway, back to the subject of hotlists, why wouldn't you just message someone that appeals? Somebody has to make the first move. "
Easyer said than done, we used to be like that but got stood up one to many times so now a bit more nervous about mailing couples, we will look for signs, like flirting on forums, viewing our profile a few times and so on, we don't have many couples on our hot list but when the time is right we will message them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't like to know if I am on anyones hotlist and can genuinely say to guys that they aren't on mine.....cause its empty atm! Lol
Need to get browsing me thinks |
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By *ugs Bunny OP Couple
over a year ago
south Dublin |
I was thinking that if someone on your hotlist put you on their hotlist you'd get a notification. Ie so and so from your hotlist just hotlisted you. So no one sees your list and you only know if theres a match. Simple really. I just think itd be handy.
I guess fabbing pics etc kinda does the same job in a roundabout way, though i do fab pics of people ive no interest in meeting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was thinking that if someone on your hotlist put you on their hotlist you'd get a notification. Ie so and so from your hotlist just hotlisted you. So no one sees your list and you only know if theres a match. Simple really. I just think itd be handy.
I guess fabbing pics etc kinda does the same job in a roundabout way, though i do fab pics of people ive no interest in meeting "
If only there was someway to contact someone you liked the look of directly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah that would be good  i doubt they would change anything though no matter how many ask hahaha , if it’s not broke don’t fix it seems be their attitude  unless you mention a different app then they find you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was thinking that if someone on your hotlist put you on their hotlist you'd get a notification. Ie so and so from your hotlist just hotlisted you. So no one sees your list and you only know if theres a match. Simple really. I just think itd be handy.
I guess fabbing pics etc kinda does the same job in a roundabout way, though i do fab pics of people ive no interest in meeting
If only there was someway to contact someone you liked the look of directly "
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By *ugs Bunny OP Couple
over a year ago
south Dublin |
"I was thinking that if someone on your hotlist put you on their hotlist you'd get a notification. Ie so and so from your hotlist just hotlisted you. So no one sees your list and you only know if theres a match. Simple really. I just think itd be handy.
I guess fabbing pics etc kinda does the same job in a roundabout way, though i do fab pics of people ive no interest in meeting
If only there was someway to contact someone you liked the look of directly "
Lol hee hee yeah i could be more like a lot of the single men on here and send out shit loads of copy and paste messages to everyone, not even caring whether or not they might return the interested  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We think it's a great idea .was something we also said many moons ago.will it get you any more meets?
Probably not but might get the conversation started quicker which could lead to more.
We have many on our hot list for different reasons so would need to remove a lot to keep only the ones we would like to take it further |
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"This morning I picked up the courage to message a couple whose profile I've been admiring for a long time with the hope of meeting this wkend. That didnt work out but they mentioned that we're on their hotlist. Nice one But that got me thinking wouldn't it be handy if fab notified you if you had eachother on your hotlists? Who agrees?? Maybe they'll do it if enough ask!! "
Kinda agree and kinda disagree.
1. I like the mystery when eople on my hotlist views my profile.
2. It would be kinda cool to have a match feature like Tinder if both profiles have the other on their hotlist. |
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"If it was known people would soon use it like another way of winking or a desperate attempted at getting someone's attention without mailing.
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That's a fair point... Some folk might just hotlist everyone in the hope of making a match. |
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"If it was known people would soon use it like another way of winking or a desperate attempted at getting someone's attention without mailing.
That's a fair point... Some folk might just hotlist everyone in the hope of making a match. "
Yup. It's probably why it is the way it is already. To stop that |
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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago
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"If it was known people would soon use it like another way of winking or a desperate attempted at getting someone's attention without mailing.
That's a fair point... Some folk might just hotlist everyone in the hope of making a match. "
But it wouldn't matter if the other person didn't hot list them.. only when both put each other on the list would you get a notification. |
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"Surely fabbing peoples pics serves in a similar fashion?
Not rwally becuse it's easy to get lost in the crowd especially with some of the hotter couples, like yea for example, when yea put up a pic I bet it gets loads of likes very quickly
Believe me, we don't get so many fab's that we can't keep track!! But thanks for the generous compliment anyway.
But anyway, back to the subject of hotlists, why wouldn't you just message someone that appeals? Somebody has to make the first move.
Easyer said than done, we used to be like that but got stood up one to many times so now a bit more nervous about mailing couples, we will look for signs, like flirting on forums, viewing our profile a few times and so on, we don't have many couples on our hot list but when the time is right we will message them "
Thanks for the message |
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