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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just putting it out there to other fabbers do they have an average amount of people have sex with every week is it all organised or can some of it be random |
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It's going to be different for everyone OP. We all meet on our own terms. Some have busy lives and commitments and might only manage to meet or let their hair down once or twice a year, others live, eat, sleep and breathe swinging and might have several meets each week while chatting with and lining up their meets for the following week.... There is no average... Pretty much everyone fits somewhere between those two points. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's going to be different for everyone OP. We all meet on our own terms. Some have busy lives and commitments and might only manage to meet or let their hair down once or twice a year, others live, eat, sleep and breathe swinging and might have several meets each week while chatting with and lining up their meets for the following week.... There is no average... Pretty much everyone fits somewhere between those two points. "
I'd suggest stretching that spectrum well to the left, there's people who get as far as arranging meets but never show up, they probably get a kick out of it. People who have meets once or twice a year might actually be close to the mythical average OP is wondering about. It doesn't mean they're average people! (No such thing anyway) |
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"I'd suggest stretching that spectrum well to the left, there's people who get as far as arranging meets but never show up, they probably get a kick out of it. People who have meets once or twice a year might actually be close to the mythical average OP is wondering about. It doesn't mean they're average people! (No such thing anyway) "
True... There are plenty of fantasists who just like the chase but never or rarely meet... In a way I can understand it because real men and women are never going to live up to the perfectly constructed scenarios they've dreamed up in their heads down to the last detail (you can't control or dictate what a real person is going to say or do), so wanking to the fantasy of meeting that gorgeous body they've seen in pics and having it do exactly what they want, sound exactly as they want, and tell them how amazing they are, is of course going to eventually become the only way they can achieve sexual release... The fantasy will become more important and more fulfilling than any real connection. But are they the 'average swinger' or something completely different? The OP asked about actual meets... Do imaginary ones count? |
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"I'd suggest stretching that spectrum well to the left, there's people who get as far as arranging meets but never show up, they probably get a kick out of it. People who have meets once or twice a year might actually be close to the mythical average OP is wondering about. It doesn't mean they're average people! (No such thing anyway)
True... There are plenty of fantasists who just like the chase but never or rarely meet... In a way I can understand it because real men and women are never going to live up to the perfectly constructed scenarios they've dreamed up in their heads down to the last detail (you can't control or dictate what a real person is going to say or do), so wanking to the fantasy of meeting that gorgeous body they've seen in pics and having it do exactly what they want, sound exactly as they want, and tell them how amazing they are, is of course going to eventually become the only way they can achieve sexual release... The fantasy will become more important and more fulfilling than any real connection. But are they the 'average swinger' or something completely different? The OP asked about actual meets... Do imaginary ones count? "
True, I was just suggesting a zero reference point and struggling a bit with the OP's punctuation free question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I go through phases. Sometimes I won't play with anyone for 3 months. Other times it'll be 4 different guys in a week.
Sometimes you're a good girl. Sometimes you're a slut.   |
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