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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any genuine ladies out there that are interested in meeting up and not a time waster?? "
You've only been on 8 weeks and you have three veris, I wouldn't say you're doing too bad. |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
Dublin |
You've been on 8 weeks, 3 verifications, 5 meets and a female friend you also have to share fun with. How many meets are you expecting to have that you think women on here are time wasters? I'm genuinely curious, or was this a ploy to get women looking at your profile. If so well played.  |
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You have me figured ha ha. Ah no yeah I have had some meets but I seem to be finding a lot of women that seem to be grand .orginse to meet up and then it’s just some lame excuse that they can’t make it or just completely blank me like why do they even bother in the first place. It’s very disheartening |
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"You have me figured ha ha. Ah no yeah I have had some meets but I seem to be finding a lot of women that seem to be grand .orginse to meet up and then it’s just some lame excuse that they can’t make it or just completely blank me like why do they even bother in the first place. It’s very disheartening "
I feel like for the vast majority of people, casual sex meets aren't high on the priority list in life. If literally anything else comes up, it's gonna take precedence over a ride with a stranger. This is completely normal and sane in my book. |
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"Basic manners costs nothing tho. Why go though the hassle in the first place "
Because they intended to meet and changed their minds. Agreeing to meet someone isn't a binding contract, nobody owes you anything because you've spent a few hours or days chatting with them.
It's not rude to decide you don't want to have sex with someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any genuine ladies out there that are interested in meeting up and not a time waster?? "
You mean the three you met weren't genuine?
Perhaps admin should investigate your verifications and their authenticity |
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"I think you’re missing what I’m talking about completely here. "
You're talking about people who agree to meet and then don't. They have 100% every right to do that. It's irritating, sure, but it doesn't make them rude or wrong or fake. It's part and parcel of using this site, and hookup culture. If it bothers you, maybe casual sex isn't for you. |
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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago
Waterford City |
I’m assuming you would class me as one of these time wasters you speak of because we had arranged to meet and I had to cancel. Like another poster said. Sometimes life gets in the way of our fun and there is nothing we can do about it. You need to learn to dust yourself off and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No not at all because I know she is a honest and genuine lady "
Once the clique decided your in the wrong they hound you until you give in or you stop posting on threads.
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"No not at all because I know she is a honest and genuine lady Once the clique decided your in the wrong they hound you until you give in or you stop posting on threads. "
This is a favourite of mine too.. the old "clique" that anyone who disagrees with someone must be in.
Boo hoo more than 1 person on the internet disagrees with me. Lol. |
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"No sense of entitlement at all. I don’t set out or go out of my way to waste anyone’s time so I just like the same in return. Not much to ask for really "
No I totally agree. It's not too much to expect a woman to prioritize your meet over anything and everything else happening in her life. You and your blue balls should be absolute top of her priority list. Absolutely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it was a woman that started a thread about male timwasters she would be kissed,licked,congratulated,and told how right she was.But when a male says anything about timwasters they are in the wrong. |
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"If it was a woman that started a thread about male timwasters she would be kissed,licked,congratulated,and told how right she was.But when a male says anything about timwasters they are in the wrong. "
Both sexes and couples ALL have to deal with real life getting in the way of meets. It happens. I've had to cancel meets before for good reasons, and I've been cancelled on. The REAL timewasters are the ones who just disappear/block/unlos on people after arranging a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No sense of entitlement at all. I don’t set out or go out of my way to waste anyone’s time so I just like the same in return. Not much to ask for really
No I totally agree. It's not too much to expect a woman to prioritize your meet over anything and everything else happening in her life. You and your blue balls should be absolute top of her priority list. Absolutely. "
Hmmmm ..I think there's a small bit of sarcasm in the mix there with that reply...   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it was a woman that started a thread about male timwasters she would be kissed,licked,congratulated,and told how right she was.But when a male says anything about timwasters they are in the wrong.
Both sexes and couples ALL have to deal with real life getting in the way of meets. It happens. I've had to cancel meets before for good reasons, and I've been cancelled on. The REAL timewasters are the ones who just disappear/block/unlos on people after arranging a meet. "
Watch the next thread that a woman starts about male timwasters and the different response it will get. |
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Show me a forum thread. There is a good search function here. Should be easy if they are so common. One where a female gets "kissed, licked, congratulated" for complaining that a man gave her notice that he was no longer able meet her. Bonus points are available for females who have had a number of meets immediate preceding the complaint. |
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It’s all about basic manners at the end of the day... real life takes precedence over sex to be fair... had people cancel last minute and I had to cancel too but did I start complaining?? Ha no that’s what I have a right hand for....??if they wanted to meet any ways one chance are they might like to rearrange...? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Show me a forum thread. There is a good search function here. Should be easy if they are so common. One where a female gets "kissed, licked, congratulated" for complaining that a man gave her notice that he was no longer able meet her. Bonus points are available for females who have had a number of meets immediate preceding the complaint."
I did say next time a woman starts a thread about male timwasters watch the response.
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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago
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These posts are getting very boring and childish at this stage. There seems to be a few new ones every day slagging off men/women/couples, and people getting hot and bothered for no apparent reason |
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