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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How many women on here have to search and message men for meets...I know the lads that join and for a while after joining pretty much have to graft and message women constantly for meets but is it as hard for any women on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many women on here have to search and message men for meets...I know the lads that join and for a while after joining pretty much have to graft and message women constantly for meets but is it as hard for any women on here? "
Wouldn't imagine it's hard for ladies here but what do l know.. I'd imagine they're swamped with Messages every day ...a big yellow wall every day so they'd have a way easier job of getting meets and of course at their discretion.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have often sent the first message if I like the profile. I am confident enough in myself to know what I want and I am not shy in asking. It's like I am a Hr Manager and I am Head Hunting for hard working employees  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have often sent the first message if I like the profile. I am confident enough in myself to know what I want and I am not shy in asking. It's like I am a Hr Manager and I am Head Hunting for hard working employees "
Were you ever rejected after sending a message? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have often sent the first message if I like the profile. I am confident enough in myself to know what I want and I am not shy in asking. It's like I am a Hr Manager and I am Head Hunting for hard working employees
Were you ever rejected after sending a message?"
No I don't recall ever being rejected. I think they were delighted I messaged them first for a change |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Ye I have sent first messages if it's someone who has interested me by their profile or something they said on here etc. It's not a big deal the worst thing that can happen is it gets ignored or the chat fizzles out. |
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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago
Dublin/westmeath/kildare |
I (ms R) send 1st message quite often. My email settings were quiet strict as inbox filling with junk.
No i seek profiles i like & that tie in with current interest or event or itch.
Ive had meets from those meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive had meets resulting from being messaged first and also some great chats.
I dont think it was from them finding it hard on here.....or at least thats what I tell myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would also send a first message if I seen a profile i liked the look of.. Shouldn't always have to be a man that messages first   We all know what we want from here xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive had meets resulting from being messaged first and also some great chats.
I dont think it was from them finding it hard on here.....or at least thats what I tell myself"
Good for you...you must have the charmmm  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive had meets resulting from being messaged first and also some great chats.
I dont think it was from them finding it hard on here.....or at least thats what I tell myself"
Probably took pity on you.lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive had meets resulting from being messaged first and also some great chats.
I dont think it was from them finding it hard on here.....or at least thats what I tell myself Probably took pity on you.lol "
Ah a pity ride is still a ride |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I search men but very rarely message them first, the recent speed dating thread messaged all my matches. So maybe I'll get brave and start messaging first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I imagine a Fab lady is probably more confident in seeking out what they want.
Having said that I am not there yet and never messaged first if interested in someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've messaged guys first quite a few times. Wouldnt phase me at all. When I had a couple profile with my ex I sought out guys all the time.
Ah here who's gonna turn you down!!!  "
Plenty. I cant be everyone's type. |
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I have in the past, and sometimes use wink (like a hypocrite cos I hate it when dudes just wink me)
I don't mind messaging first, it's just rare that I'm bothered to! I've definitely been "rejected" this way, aka no replies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I send messages..
I enjoy seeking out men, can't be letting the guy's do all the work. "
That's the kind of woman that's needed of fab not afraid to send first message.  |
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I rarely mail anyone first unless it's to do with something off the forums. If someone is interested they are free to mail me.
I know it may seem counter productive to be that way but, the ladies have messages coming in all day from loads of guys. It's easy for one to get lost in the chaos of "wanna fuck" mails.
Plus in the days of equality nothing wrong with a woman making the first move. I'm not everyone's cup of tea anyway so the option is there. I don't bite |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have in the past, and sometimes use wink (like a hypocrite cos I hate it when dudes just wink me)
I don't mind messaging first, it's just rare that I'm bothered to! I've definitely been "rejected" this way, aka no replies. "
Can't see why...I'd definitely reply so hit me up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since im here obviously I've sent a multiple more of messages than I've received, but it's not uncommon for me to receive a hey message from time to time, and I'm the name of single men I take great pride in deleting that message |
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So many women on here have absolutely zero intention of meeting. They already have a FB and god knows why they are on here except to pretend they want to meet but never do. They still message me but I know it’s going nowhere so I string them along and play their stupid fucking game. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've never messaged someone first but I have shown my interest in one or two by sending a wink and I now meet them regularly "
OK that's just rubbing it in lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I message first if I see something I like about a profile, or I send a wink to show interest.
I often meet after a chat.. But I find its the single guys that bottle it when it comes to the actual coffee... I'm not that scary.. Am I?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have to say I’m the same never had to ask for meets women on here normally don’t theres about 30 to 1 so kinda spoiled for choice "
Yep ye are.tell all your female friends to sign up try and even out the numbers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I message first if I see something I like about a profile, or I send a wink to show interest.
I often meet after a chat.. But I find its the single guys that bottle it when it comes to the actual coffee... I'm not that scary.. Am I? "
nah, you’re lovely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the length of time I've been on here I've had 2 winks from women. When I'd send a mail thanking them for the wink there was no reply. I know I'm no oil painting but it's the obvious the women have more men to choose from so they don't really need to mail men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only ever sent a first message once that was completely random and not related to any forum post. It was my only time ever. "
You never know where a first message can take you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only ever sent a first message once that was completely random and not related to any forum post. It was my only time ever.
You never know where a first message can take you "
It took me no where ha ha |
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"I only ever sent a first message once that was completely random and not related to any forum post. It was my only time ever.
You never know where a first message can take you
It took me no where ha ha "
Ah don't let that stop ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I only ever sent a first message once that was completely random and not related to any forum post. It was my only time ever.
You never know where a first message can take you
It took me no where ha ha
Ah don't let that stop ya "
I'll pluck the courage up again sometime |
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"I only ever sent a first message once that was completely random and not related to any forum post. It was my only time ever.
You never know where a first message can take you
It took me no where ha ha
Ah don't let that stop ya
I'll pluck the courage up again sometime "
No courage needed to message me. Give it a go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I only ever sent a first message once that was completely random and not related to any forum post. It was my only time ever.
You never know where a first message can take you
It took me no where ha ha
Ah don't let that stop ya
I'll pluck the courage up again sometime "
Please do  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I only ever sent a first message once that was completely random and not related to any forum post. It was my only time ever.
You never know where a first message can take you
It took me no where ha ha "
Was he that bad? |
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I get messages from women and couples without even ever going to their profile..  But doesn’t mean an automatic meet.. No op I still have to do the wooing after that to get them to the bedroom 
Then sometimes I don’t even get a peep at profile haha even after messaging for a week 
Just saying as a single guy it’s all down to your profile, charm and most importantly a bit of luck because what u think  you have ? 50+ other guys have it on this site. Big competition but the reward is Fabulous.
Put the effort guys ! |
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