So we have been discussing something as a couple and we were looking to get the fab perspective
on things.
How do couples or singles react when a play meet does not end in penetrative sex?
Over the years
we have been on fab some of our best experiences have been in the giving and receiving of pleasure
but without penetration as a result of either it not going that way or something standing down.
And it has had us wondering would people consider a meet without
penetration, a waste of time.
Personally we are at the point where as long as all parties have had fun it doesn’t really matter how we get there, but we are nosey and want to know what does the world of fab think? |
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Some of my best meets have only involved oral and foreplay. I love the build up and teasing anyway. In general I never take play as given on meets so if something happens, great. If not, I just enjoy the chats and have a laugh. Win win |
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over a year ago
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As a couple that does soft swing, penetrative sex isn't the be all and end all for us. We like to play alot and give pleasure in other ways. When playing with a couple, it's normally sex with our respective partners and others can join as they see fit. But not penetrative in the full swap sense. This seems to be satisfactory for all included in our opinion. And we haven't had a problem with a couple that is full swap playing with us in a soft swap situation, contrary to other people's opinions. For instance telling us that we are gonna find it hard to get a couple just to do soft swap. These kind of statements can really discourage people just trying to have fun. We all have a choice and should be respected for that choice.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So long as everyone knows what is expected of a meet, why should it be a problem?
Soft play wouldn't really be our choice, C adores penetrative sex  ,although we understand that sometimes men may have trouble rising to the occasion, whether through nerves or other factors. We would expect someone to tell us beforehand though if it was an ongoing issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well all I can say is that if l were to partake in anything with a couple ,l suppose l would be going to it with the assumption that penetration would be a part of the meet...as in ,isn't that the idea of it ?? |
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I dont know why lots of couples only do soft swap . Cos its the horniest scenario looking at your partner getting fucked bye another guy. My lady friend gave another guy a blow job but he could not fuck her but i was very turned on watching her suck him off and then i kissed her. I was never so horny in all my life . |
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It's not something I've ever encountered, and personally speaking as a single I think I might have found it a bit frustrating if I did, but lots of couples seem to enjoy soft swinging (play without penetration), and as a couple, you still have your partner for penetration when you want it, so I can't see why soft swing couldn't work for all concerned   |
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"It's not something I've ever encountered, and personally speaking as a single I think I might have found it a bit frustrating if I did, but lots of couples seem to enjoy soft swinging (play without penetration), and as a couple, you still have your partner for penetration when you want it, so I can't see why soft swing couldn't work for all concerned "
Yeah I suspect people who get sex in other ways, like couples, or men or women who can get sex on a night out will be less fussed about it.
And people who use this as their main way of getting sex, ie married men and women, or people who cant get sex in clubs and are a bit desperate, would be looking for mainly penetration and would see anything less as not for them. |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"We would consider non penetration as a form of soft swinging, which is not for us. We always ask before meets what won't you do, what do you like to do, and that works very well for us."
Yes all about asking and respecting everyone wishes it's a bit Voyeuristic and that could be a good time in itself |
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