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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are there any married women in a similar position to me on this site? I'm attached, looking for some sexual contact as I don't get that at all. I don't want to get too much into detail here but my wife has no interest and I'm told to get my fun elsewhere.
It seems no single ladies here want to get involved in any kind of meet, or even chat, with someone in my circumstances, and that's completely acceptable and understandable.
What I'm asking, is are there any attached ladies that are willing to play, knowing we both would have rules etc, or should I be looking at a different site?
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"Are there any married women in a similar position to me on this site? I'm attached, looking for some sexual contact as I don't get that at all. I don't want to get too much into detail here but my wife has no interest and I'm told to get my fun elsewhere.
It seems no single ladies here want to get involved in any kind of meet, or even chat, with someone in my circumstances, and that's completely acceptable and understandable.
What I'm asking, is are there any attached ladies that are willing to play, knowing we both would have rules etc, or should I be looking at a different site?
Never know til you ask, right?"
There's loads on here and plenty more not on here but the bigger question is why is there no sex in your relationship. I know that's judgemental but I come at it from experience not judgement
The old adage, sex is the symptom not the problem. ...It's the male of the couple speaking here. |
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"Are there any married women in a similar position to me on this site? I'm attached, looking for some sexual contact as I don't get that at all. I don't want to get too much into detail here but my wife has no interest and I'm told to get my fun elsewhere.
It seems no single ladies here want to get involved in any kind of meet, or even chat, with someone in my circumstances, and that's completely acceptable and understandable.
What I'm asking, is are there any attached ladies that are willing to play, knowing we both would have rules etc, or should I be looking at a different site?
Never know til you ask, right?
There's loads on here and plenty more not on here but the bigger question is why is there no sex in your relationship. I know that's judgemental but I come at it from experience not judgement
The old adage, sex is the symptom not the problem. ...It's the male of the couple speaking here. "
 this is the question people don’t tend to ask or at least don’t try to find the root cause |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there any married women in a similar position to me on this site? I'm attached, looking for some sexual contact as I don't get that at all. I don't want to get too much into detail here but my wife has no interest and I'm told to get my fun elsewhere.
It seems no single ladies here want to get involved in any kind of meet, or even chat, with someone in my circumstances, and that's completely acceptable and understandable.
What I'm asking, is are there any attached ladies that are willing to play, knowing we both would have rules etc, or should I be looking at a different site?
Never know til you ask, right?
There's loads on here and plenty more not on here but the bigger question is why is there no sex in your relationship. I know that's judgemental but I come at it from experience not judgement
The old adage, sex is the symptom not the problem. ...It's the male of the couple speaking here.
this is the question people don’t tend to ask or at least don’t try to find the root cause "
Ya to be fair its not the questio the OP asked though. What ever the reason he is just looking for someone in the same situation.
OP there are a good few attatched women on here and there are plenty singles who will happily meet also.
Just be honest with them and if its not their thing move on.
Most will have it stated in their profiles of attatched is a no go so make sure you read before mailing |
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No you're not alone. Married men cheating can do amazing on here. They can be the top fabbed photos, they can go on two or three meets a week, they can be some of the most popular men on here.
Single women do meet them, and so do other married women cheating, even couples meet them.
Me.. I'm single and I would be happy with the limited attention their wives give them, cause I don't do any better on here. But they do just fine, in general way better than me. |
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A lot of women whose profiles scream “No married or attached men!!!!” then go on and meet married men . Apparently they prefer single guys but get bombarded with messages from married men who have far less opportunity to meet in the evenings or weekends so say they are not looking married men. But if an opportunity comes along, they will meet married men . |
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"A lot of women whose profiles scream “No married or attached men!!!!” then go on and meet married men . Apparently they prefer single guys but get bombarded with messages from married men who have far less opportunity to meet in the evenings or weekends so say they are not looking married men. But if an opportunity comes along, they will meet married men . "
Yes, loads of them who write in threads that they won't, or have it written on their profile, or even respond to a first message saying they won't.. do in fact meet married men cheating. Married men in their veris. lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are there any married women in a similar position to me on this site? I'm attached, looking for some sexual contact as I don't get that at all. I don't want to get too much into detail here but my wife has no interest and I'm told to get my fun elsewhere.
It seems no single ladies here want to get involved in any kind of meet, or even chat, with someone in my circumstances, and that's completely acceptable and understandable.
What I'm asking, is are there any attached ladies that are willing to play, knowing we both would have rules etc, or should I be looking at a different site?
Never know til you ask, right?
There's loads on here and plenty more not on here but the bigger question is why is there no sex in your relationship. I know that's judgemental but I come at it from experience not judgement
The old adage, sex is the symptom not the problem. ...It's the male of the couple speaking here. "
That question can be answered privately, no problem at all. Just don't like airing it in public. It might sound odd, but out of respect I would never bad mouth or disclose publicly her decisions. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are there any married women in a similar position to me on this site? I'm attached, looking for some sexual contact as I don't get that at all. I don't want to get too much into detail here but my wife has no interest and I'm told to get my fun elsewhere.
It seems no single ladies here want to get involved in any kind of meet, or even chat, with someone in my circumstances, and that's completely acceptable and understandable.
What I'm asking, is are there any attached ladies that are willing to play, knowing we both would have rules etc, or should I be looking at a different site?
Never know til you ask, right?
There's loads on here and plenty more not on here but the bigger question is why is there no sex in your relationship. I know that's judgemental but I come at it from experience not judgement
The old adage, sex is the symptom not the problem. ...It's the male of the couple speaking here.
this is the question people don’t tend to ask or at least don’t try to find the root cause
Ya to be fair its not the questio the OP asked though. What ever the reason he is just looking for someone in the same situation.
OP there are a good few attatched women on here and there are plenty singles who will happily meet also.
Just be honest with them and if its not their thing move on.
Most will have it stated in their profiles of attatched is a no go so make sure you read before mailing "
Cheers, yea I'm upfront in my profile to save any time wasting. So hopefully one of these days I'll receive a message from a like minded lady  |
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Cheers, yea I'm upfront in my profile to save any time wasting. So hopefully one of these days I'll receive a message from a like minded lady "
Hate to break it to you, but whether you're single or married, if you're male on here if you're waiting for a lady to message you first you may be in for a long wait...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cheers, yea I'm upfront in my profile to save any time wasting. So hopefully one of these days I'll receive a message from a like minded lady
Hate to break it to you, but whether you're single or married, if you're male on here if you're waiting for a lady to message you first you may be in for a long wait... "
Some ladies do message first, especially if the like what they see  |
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Cheers, yea I'm upfront in my profile to save any time wasting. So hopefully one of these days I'll receive a message from a like minded lady
Hate to break it to you, but whether you're single or married, if you're male on here if you're waiting for a lady to message you first you may be in for a long wait...
Some ladies do message first, especially if the like what they see "
Yep - I got a very nice message from a sexy woman out of the blue today so it does happen  |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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Cheers, yea I'm upfront in my profile to save any time wasting. So hopefully one of these days I'll receive a message from a like minded lady
Hate to break it to you, but whether you're single or married, if you're male on here if you're waiting for a lady to message you first you may be in for a long wait... "
I'll always message first if the profile interests me or I'll wink and see what happens |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Cheers, yea I'm upfront in my profile to save any time wasting. So hopefully one of these days I'll receive a message from a like minded lady
Hate to break it to you, but whether you're single or married, if you're male on here if you're waiting for a lady to message you first you may be in for a long wait...
I'll always message first if the profile interests me or I'll wink and see what happens "
Most of my meets the women mailed first |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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I'm in a similar situation to the OP and make it quite clear from the start what my situation is. Doesn't seem to put many off as most are willing to meet interesting, well mannered verified men regardless. |
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"I'm in a similar situation to the OP and make it quite clear from the start what my situation is. Doesn't seem to put many off as most are willing to meet interesting, well mannered verified men regardless."
You don't think much of yourself do you? |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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"I'm in a similar situation to the OP and make it quite clear from the start what my situation is. Doesn't seem to put many off as most are willing to meet interesting, well mannered verified men regardless.
You don't think much of yourself do you?"
quite the contrary but only stating the reality. |
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"I'm in a similar situation to the OP and make it quite clear from the start what my situation is. Doesn't seem to put many off as most are willing to meet interesting, well mannered verified men regardless.
You don't think much of yourself do you? quite the contrary but only stating the reality."
So the converse would be reality to you too, that people lets say me, I have difficulty because I am rude and uninteresting? |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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"I'm in a similar situation to the OP and make it quite clear from the start what my situation is. Doesn't seem to put many off as most are willing to meet interesting, well mannered verified men regardless.
You don't think much of yourself do you? quite the contrary but only stating the reality.
So the converse would be reality to you too, that people lets say me, I have difficulty because I am rude and uninteresting?"
I'm certainly not saying that as I don't know you and generally don't judge people. I don't follow the forums that closely so have caught one or two of your posts but certainly not enough to formulate any opinion. |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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I think people of both sexes are attracted to positive minded glass half full type people as nobody wants a fun meet to turn into a moan session. Always amazes me how many posts there are on the forum complaining about how hard it is to meet or woww is me as ask yourself would you be inclined to meet someone with that very attitude ? |
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"I'm certainly not saying that as I don't know you and generally don't judge people. I don't follow the forums that closely so have caught one or two of your posts but certainly not enough to formulate any opinion."
I'm just fucking with you, I'm knee deep in putang. |
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" I'm just fucking with you, I'm knee deep in putang. I'm happy for you as that is exactly why most of us are here on the site. "
Thank God all that got sorted out before it got public and awkward...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think people of both sexes are attracted to positive minded glass half full type people as nobody wants a fun meet to turn into a moan session. Always amazes me how many posts there are on the forum complaining about how hard it is to meet or woww is me as ask yourself would you be inclined to meet someone with that very attitude ?"
Moaning will get you absolutely nowhere, gents bit of patience, fun positive personality will get you everywhere, but but then again it's good for me there's loads of moaning wanna fuck types here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm certainly not saying that as I don't know you and generally don't judge people. I don't follow the forums that closely so have caught one or two of your posts but certainly not enough to formulate any opinion.
I'm just fucking with you, I'm knee deep in putang."
Stop using your foot ffs.... |
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"I'm in a similar situation to the OP and make it quite clear from the start what my situation is. Doesn't seem to put many off as most are willing to meet interesting, well mannered verified men regardless."
You can add patient and tolerant to that list too. |
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