Hi all
Just curious as to if there is such a thing as a best opening message to get a reply or is it all down to name / profile
Not all messages ‘Read’ match a profile view so guessing it’s message but what is best
Suspect the females on here sick of cock pics but what about a casual hi how’s things / funny (attempted funny) opener, compliment or just perv lol
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"Hi all
Just curious as to if there is such a thing as a best opening message to get a reply or is it all down to name / profile
Not all messages ‘Read’ match a profile view so guessing it’s message but what is best
Suspect the females on here sick of cock pics but what about a casual hi how’s things / funny (attempted funny) opener, compliment or just perv lol
C
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Well first of all not all profile views show up if the lady in question is in ninja mode so I wouldnt rule that out.....
As for a mail its hard to.sy what mail is best but the rule I always use is if I cant think of something I would find interesting or funny myself its probably not worth sending a mail, dont force it. |
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"Hi all
Just curious as to if there is such a thing as a best opening message to get a reply or is it all down to name / profile
Not all messages ‘Read’ match a profile view so guessing it’s message but what is best
Suspect the females on here sick of cock pics but what about a casual hi how’s things / funny (attempted funny) opener, compliment or just perv lol
C
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There isn't any magic tactic, everyone is different in what attracts them.
Personally, I like it when there's an indication the person has read my profile and has given me something to respond to in their message too.
This is in conjunction with a good (ie filled out, informative, attractive) profile, and pics that give me an idea of what they look like.
A good message without a good profile is a waste of time (for me). |
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Something that suggests they’ve taken the time to read my profile, a bit of humour to suggest they aren’t boring, a fun fact about themselves..
Basically no ‘hi’ ‘how’s you’ ‘wanna fuck’ messages. Also really not a fan of being bombarded with dick pics..they are probably already on your profile so if I like what I read, I’ll choose to view them!
I did receive a complete essay from someone recently, some of the snippets were that he wanted to fuck me ‘until the lions and tigers left the jungle’ and ‘so hard and deep’ that my sky tv ‘flips through all the channels’. Unfortunately for him I don’t have sky tv and there are no jungles nearby, so it’s not a match! |
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"Something that suggests they’ve taken the time to read my profile, a bit of humour to suggest they aren’t boring, a fun fact about themselves..
Basically no ‘hi’ ‘how’s you’ ‘wanna fuck’ messages. Also really not a fan of being bombarded with dick pics..they are probably already on your profile so if I like what I read, I’ll choose to view them!
I did receive a complete essay from someone recently, some of the snippets were that he wanted to fuck me ‘until the lions and tigers left the jungle’ and ‘so hard and deep’ that my sky tv ‘flips through all the channels’. Unfortunately for him I don’t have sky tv and there are no jungles nearby, so it’s not a match!"
You would have thought that they could have applied some local sayings and used fuck you ‘until the cows come home’ instead  |
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"Something that suggests they’ve taken the time to read my profile, a bit of humour to suggest they aren’t boring, a fun fact about themselves..
Basically no ‘hi’ ‘how’s you’ ‘wanna fuck’ messages. Also really not a fan of being bombarded with dick pics..they are probably already on your profile so if I like what I read, I’ll choose to view them!
I did receive a complete essay from someone recently, some of the snippets were that he wanted to fuck me ‘until the lions and tigers left the jungle’ and ‘so hard and deep’ that my sky tv ‘flips through all the channels’. Unfortunately for him I don’t have sky tv and there are no jungles nearby, so it’s not a match!"
I've had some of those fantasy 'essays' too. They really make me cringe, but at least they do show just how thoughtless and selfish someone would be in bed, because after all, without having ever spoken to you, their fantasy is 100% what they want and to their taste and has no regard whatsoever for your tastes or desires.
The worst opening texts start with 'I want to', because what they really want to do is give no thought at all as to what the person they're mailing may want. |
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I can tell you the ones that dont work.. lol
kidding I don't send many messages at the moment but I think a good start is read all the profile.. and always when you can refer to their bio or if there is a photo that catches your eye compliment.. oh and always ask a question.
if it's a one liner when I was part of a couple we would just delete..
so in one word lol...EFFORT |
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