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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

When I was part of a couple here we had a guy turn up two hours late at the hotel room. very d*unk.. it was very awkward to get rid of him

I wouldn't mind but we met him for coffee and such a nice guy..

anyone here been let down or meet was well below expectations

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By *hors.HammerMan  over a year ago

Newbridge

Yup. More than once.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Been let down soooooo many times

Most awkward was meeting a guy for coffee and he seemed quiet but still chatted away to us both so our next meet was for fun.... He had said he was used to 3sums but emmmm I don't think so he didn't speak the whole time, pure silence for a few hours, was scared to touch me or even kiss me it was very awkward!!! He still messages telling me it was the best meet he's ever had maybe he had us mixed up with someone else

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Been stood up a few times. Worst let down was agreed to meet an unverified single guy. He walked into Costa I stood up to say hello. He looks me up and down says " no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and left me standing in middle of coffee shop.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. "

Extremely poor form

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. "

That actually put a knot in my tummy.

sickening. not only a horrible feeling.. lots of effort too I bet but the bill on top is the icing on the cake..

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By *ustin-SiderMan  over a year ago

Belfast


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. "

See this is what has I have found so frustrating in the past. Being out of pocket is bad enough on it's own but what really ires me is having a busy full time routine with very little free time, then when something is arranged people don't respect your time.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here.

That actually put a knot in my tummy.

sickening. not only a horrible feeling.. lots of effort too I bet but the bill on top is the icing on the cake.."

The second time I was in the Honey suite as I knew the manager. I had the Four poster bed to myself. That was kind sickening to go to all that effort to look amazing and they cancel. It was even more annoying to later find out that this "single male" lied and was very much married.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. "

It is very disheartening when this happens but its also one of the reasons why I would rather get the room so I'm not left standing if/when they don't turn up , it's awful to even have to think that way.

Don't get me wrong I've had men book the rooms but we got let down badly once by someone who asked me to arrive at his room door(after months of chatting) with my boobs out... For a very unexpected mother and her kids to answer!! Luckily my boobs weren't out but I was certainly not dressed appropriately

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By *cottybear74Man  over a year ago

kilkenny


"Been stood up a few times. Worst let down was agreed to meet an unverified single guy. He walked into Costa I stood up to say hello. He looks me up and down says " no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and left me standing in middle of coffee shop. "

That guy needs a firm slapping.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Omfg all of these are horror stories

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By *un WifeWoman  over a year ago

City


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here.

See this is what has I have found so frustrating in the past. Being out of pocket is bad enough on it's own but what really ires me is having a busy full time routine with very little free time, then when something is arranged people don't respect your time."

This

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By *ateniteCouple  over a year ago

Youghal

We've never been out of pocket thank god. That really does sound sickening.

Nothing drastic that we couldn't get over but we have gone to alot of effort to be let down last minute. One night we were all dressed and sat waiting on the taxi only to be ghosted. Another time we had a hotel booked(we were staying anyway regardless of the meet so we weren't out of pocket) only to be informed that the guy was attached and couldn't get out from the wife .

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By *andyman.snrMan  over a year ago

leixlip

Is it bad if it makes me happier hearing it's not just me who gets let down? Lol

To the point I really don't bother anymore .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here.

See this is what has I have found so frustrating in the past. Being out of pocket is bad enough on it's own but what really ires me is having a busy full time routine with very little free time, then when something is arranged people don't respect your time."

It's the most frustrating part of being on Fab. People that don't consider other peoples time and effort as being as valuable as theirs. To get my night away I have to call in so many babysitting favours and subsequently owe babysitting favours!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Cant believe someone would be foolish enough to stand you up, you're absolutely gorgeous,

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By *heelofTimeCouple  over a year ago

Two Rivers


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. "

We’ve a rule when meeting single men in hotels - we get them to book and pay initial costs! However when we meet we then pay our 2/3rds removes loss of money. Worst that can occur is drive to hotel with no one there lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here.

It is very disheartening when this happens but its also one of the reasons why I would rather get the room so I'm not left standing if/when they don't turn up , it's awful to even have to think that way.

Don't get me wrong I've had men book the rooms but we got let down badly once by someone who asked me to arrive at his room door(after months of chatting) with my boobs out... For a very unexpected mother and her kids to answer!! Luckily my boobs weren't out but I was certainly not dressed appropriately "

Funny guy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

tried to organise a gb for herself. had four guys including two we know sorted. week before the two we knew pulled out (work reasons. fair enough plenty of notice) so off we go sorting out two more. by the time of the meet all four had pulled out or ignored the kik messages we had sent from the night before. that was shit but we fucked like rabbits anyways

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By *he MickMan  over a year ago

southside

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By *he MickMan  over a year ago

southside


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. "

If I was lucky enough to get a date with someone as hot and as beautiful as you , I sure as hell wouldn't cancel .

They must have been fools , their loss I'm sure .

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By *arbiegirl19Woman  over a year ago

Hollymount

This one of the reasons I dont do hotel meets...

Wld rather do the social side and see what comes out of meeting people at that....

Coffee meets yes I will do to help out people to get verified..

Some very sad people here that doesnt realise the effort and time thats put in to organising a nite away and that cost on top of it ..

For someone to cancel last min..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When I was part of a couple here we had a guy turn up two hours late at the hotel room. very d*unk.. it was very awkward to get rid of him

I wouldn't mind but we met him for coffee and such a nice guy..

anyone here been let down or meet was well below expectations "

Had this myself not the d*unk part but rocks up 4 hrs late.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No never

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By *hors.HammerMan  over a year ago

Newbridge

I've been stood up 3 times by 3 different verified women. One wanted me to book a hotel and I just had a bad feeling so I didn't but I was right not to as she was a no show. Also had one to ghost me on the day we were to meet. Live and learn.

Made me very sceptical of people on here. Decided to see if someone was genuinely interested in me last week and I didn't text them first like I usually do party to do with a family member being close to death and also due to me not being well. And well 4 days gone now and I've not heard from them so that answers that question. . Oh well.

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By *osmicGateMan  over a year ago

louth

Its all a let down

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We've been ghosted recently by a guy who was very keen to meet until Lee joined in the kik conversation - he always knew I don't meet alone. Just as well really, if the male partner spooks him on kik, what would it do to him in an actual hotel room?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here.

That actually put a knot in my tummy.

sickening. not only a horrible feeling.. lots of effort too I bet but the bill on top is the icing on the cake..

The second time I was in the Honey suite as I knew the manager. I had the Four poster bed to myself. That was kind sickening to go to all that effort to look amazing and they cancel. It was even more annoying to later find out that this "single male" lied and was very much married. "

Happened to me lately too. Absolutely horrible feeling and felt gutted only being told after 9pm after sitting there waiting like an idiot. So I know how you feel.

There's definitely a feeling that time and effort is their precious commodity and not yours on fab with some.

I wasn't going to be stung for the cost so I asked him to cover the cost and he did. It was something I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here.

That actually put a knot in my tummy.

sickening. not only a horrible feeling.. lots of effort too I bet but the bill on top is the icing on the cake..

The second time I was in the Honey suite as I knew the manager. I had the Four poster bed to myself. That was kind sickening to go to all that effort to look amazing and they cancel. It was even more annoying to later find out that this "single male" lied and was very much married.

Happened to me lately too. Absolutely horrible feeling and felt gutted only being told after 9pm after sitting there waiting like an idiot. So I know how you feel.

There's definitely a feeling that time and effort is their precious commodity and not yours on fab with some.

I wasn't going to be stung for the cost so I asked him to cover the cost and he did. It was something I guess."

Tiny who in their right mind would leave you waiting. The world's gone mad.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some awful stories here, , thank god I've never been left waiting in a hotel. Not yet anyway

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here.

That actually put a knot in my tummy.

sickening. not only a horrible feeling.. lots of effort too I bet but the bill on top is the icing on the cake..

The second time I was in the Honey suite as I knew the manager. I had the Four poster bed to myself. That was kind sickening to go to all that effort to look amazing and they cancel. It was even more annoying to later find out that this "single male" lied and was very much married.

Happened to me lately too. Absolutely horrible feeling and felt gutted only being told after 9pm after sitting there waiting like an idiot. So I know how you feel.

There's definitely a feeling that time and effort is their precious commodity and not yours on fab with some.

I wasn't going to be stung for the cost so I asked him to cover the cost and he did. It was something I guess.

Tiny who in their right mind would leave you waiting. The world's gone mad."

Yep, he had a momentary lapse into madness

Ah sure it's the same as you Rosey. Who in their right mind would do that to you.

I reckon me and you would have had a wilder sexier night

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

After lots of messages, kik chat etc i arrived on time at a meet with a couple to be told ... oh your older & shorter than we thought ... so i didnt split the room cost with them & left ... they are still awaiting their 1st Fab verification.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here.

That actually put a knot in my tummy.

sickening. not only a horrible feeling.. lots of effort too I bet but the bill on top is the icing on the cake..

The second time I was in the Honey suite as I knew the manager. I had the Four poster bed to myself. That was kind sickening to go to all that effort to look amazing and they cancel. It was even more annoying to later find out that this "single male" lied and was very much married.

Happened to me lately too. Absolutely horrible feeling and felt gutted only being told after 9pm after sitting there waiting like an idiot. So I know how you feel.

There's definitely a feeling that time and effort is their precious commodity and not yours on fab with some.

I wasn't going to be stung for the cost so I asked him to cover the cost and he did. It was something I guess.

Tiny who in their right mind would leave you waiting. The world's gone mad.

Yep, he had a momentary lapse into madness

Ah sure it's the same as you Rosey. Who in their right mind would do that to you.

I reckon me and you would have had a wilder sexier night "

Ah we would definitely have a wilder and wetter night

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think we've all been stung a few times but as many have said you live in learn

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

got let down by a couple who were to meet us in a hotel, they were late so we sent a message and they replied that they were just having their tea, an hour later we asked if they were on the way replied with "just waiting for babysitter" then they blocked us..

another meet we turned up and the guy was steaming d*unk, called us pikeys and fenian bastards, very eratic behaviour and in an area of Belfast that our car stood out in, told us we could go to the local pub but probably wouldn't get out alive... feckin charming character, hence we dont go north

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By *hocko87Man  over a year ago

dublin

I went to meet a woman 3 times i should have told her where to go after not showeing on the first time . You need as phone number to meet people . I was due to meet a couple but they just dosapeard off the site .

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman  over a year ago

Dublin


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here.

That actually put a knot in my tummy.

sickening. not only a horrible feeling.. lots of effort too I bet but the bill on top is the icing on the cake..

The second time I was in the Honey suite as I knew the manager. I had the Four poster bed to myself. That was kind sickening to go to all that effort to look amazing and they cancel. It was even more annoying to later find out that this "single male" lied and was very much married.

Happened to me lately too. Absolutely horrible feeling and felt gutted only being told after 9pm after sitting there waiting like an idiot. So I know how you feel.

There's definitely a feeling that time and effort is their precious commodity and not yours on fab with some.

I wasn't going to be stung for the cost so I asked him to cover the cost and he did. It was something I guess."

Why didnt you call me! Could have had a night on the mini bar tab!

Lunatic messing you around missy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been stood up a few times. Worst let down was agreed to meet an unverified single guy. He walked into Costa I stood up to say hello. He looks me up and down says " no thanks your not for me" turned on his heels and left me standing in middle of coffee shop. "

Huni that is absolutely disgusting behaviour. Can't believe some people xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wouldn’t inspire a single lady to arrange a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here.

That actually put a knot in my tummy.

sickening. not only a horrible feeling.. lots of effort too I bet but the bill on top is the icing on the cake..

The second time I was in the Honey suite as I knew the manager. I had the Four poster bed to myself. That was kind sickening to go to all that effort to look amazing and they cancel. It was even more annoying to later find out that this "single male" lied and was very much married.

Happened to me lately too. Absolutely horrible feeling and felt gutted only being told after 9pm after sitting there waiting like an idiot. So I know how you feel.

There's definitely a feeling that time and effort is their precious commodity and not yours on fab with some.

I wasn't going to be stung for the cost so I asked him to cover the cost and he did. It was something I guess.

Why didnt you call me! Could have had a night on the mini bar tab!

Lunatic messing you around missy"

I don't think the mini bar would be sufficient for us.

I didn't touch the red wine, gin or the mini original Pringles, everything else was pretty much drank.

Oh kitty, imagine the carnage of us together.

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman  over a year ago

Dublin


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here.

That actually put a knot in my tummy.

sickening. not only a horrible feeling.. lots of effort too I bet but the bill on top is the icing on the cake..

The second time I was in the Honey suite as I knew the manager. I had the Four poster bed to myself. That was kind sickening to go to all that effort to look amazing and they cancel. It was even more annoying to later find out that this "single male" lied and was very much married.

Happened to me lately too. Absolutely horrible feeling and felt gutted only being told after 9pm after sitting there waiting like an idiot. So I know how you feel.

There's definitely a feeling that time and effort is their precious commodity and not yours on fab with some.

I wasn't going to be stung for the cost so I asked him to cover the cost and he did. It was something I guess.

Why didnt you call me! Could have had a night on the mini bar tab!

Lunatic messing you around missy

I don't think the mini bar would be sufficient for us.

I didn't touch the red wine, gin or the mini original Pringles, everything else was pretty much drank.

Oh kitty, imagine the carnage of us together. "

Some day Tiny! We'll roll into town like hells angels

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By *onnrodMan  over a year ago

moira

I arranged a meet with someone here, booked the room and all. 3 days before, she stopped returning messages or calls. I was telling a mate who's also on here and it turns out she arranged to meet him in the room I'd booked. Told him I'd backed out on her.

Never messaged me back to even offer an apology or explaination

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick

A few years back I had a regular meet that got invited to a party by a guy i convinced her to go she would have a ball

However on the night I became free and put up a meet of my own a lady replied and lets say wanted no messing no coffee lets get down and duirty

So I showered and shaved drove over an hr and a quarter and met this lady we headed to the hotel i booked and went straight to the room exciting every thing going well so it seemed

Opening the door I pinned her to the wall and started kissing her at which point she asked if I'd be her sugar daddy now as I was only a few years older i explained I couldn't be her daddy anything knowing full well what she was asking for

After a conversation around the change in circumstance i decided no I aint paying for a shag and i escorted the lady from the room checked out of the hotel and started my way home. On the way i mailed my fb and told her of the bust of meet to which she replied that the single guys who were invited to the party didn't show up and they were looking a few guys

The fooking party was in cork and I was in tuam

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By *an For YouMan  over a year ago

belfast/holywood


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here.

If I was lucky enough to get a date with someone as hot and as beautiful as you , I sure as hell wouldn't cancel .

They must have been fools , their loss I'm sure .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wouldn’t inspire a single lady to arrange a meet!"

Or anyone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dont think drink and fab go well at all...no probs a person or persons having a drink for nerves or what ever but after that it's a no no...

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By *easingTimMan  over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Articlulate woman online with some nice photos...

Went to meet her only to be "welcomed" by a grunting scruffy greasy hairy being who chewed a giant wad of gum and smelt of B.O..

She grunted out a few mono syllables of English to the best of my understanding but am not sure

This was on another site btw and no am not exaggerating

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By *icole FanningTV/TS  over a year ago

Navan

My worst let down ..... Alton Towers.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Articlulate woman online with some nice photos...

Went to meet her only to be "welcomed" by a grunting scruffy greasy hairy being who chewed a giant wad of gum and smelt of B.O..

She grunted out a few mono syllables of English to the best of my understanding but am not sure

This was on another site btw and no am not exaggerating "

Oh what a waste of your talent. You do seem quite the cunning linguistic!

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By *easingTimMan  over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"

Articlulate woman online with some nice photos...

Went to meet her only to be "welcomed" by a grunting scruffy greasy hairy being who chewed a giant wad of gum and smelt of B.O..

She grunted out a few mono syllables of English to the best of my understanding but am not sure

This was on another site btw and no am not exaggerating

Oh what a waste of your talent. You do seem quite the cunning linguistic!"

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Well, there wasn't going to be any fancy

cunning linguistics that night I can tell you

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By *orguyMan  over a year ago

Tuam


"A few years back I had a regular meet that got invited to a party by a guy i convinced her to go she would have a ball

However on the night I became free and put up a meet of my own a lady replied and lets say wanted no messing no coffee lets get down and duirty

So I showered and shaved drove over an hr and a quarter and met this lady we headed to the hotel i booked and went straight to the room exciting every thing going well so it seemed

Opening the door I pinned her to the wall and started kissing her at which point she asked if I'd be her sugar daddy now as I was only a few years older i explained I couldn't be her daddy anything knowing full well what she was asking for

After a conversation around the change in circumstance i decided no I aint paying for a shag and i escorted the lady from the room checked out of the hotel and started my way home. On the way i mailed my fb and told her of the bust of meet to which she replied that the single guys who were invited to the party didn't show up and they were looking a few guys

The fooking party was in cork and I was in tuam "

Those Tuam shams are the worst CJ

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By *an For YouMan  over a year ago

belfast/holywood

Articulate female fabber online. Some tasteful pics - curvy/ BBW type. A real honey to talk to.

So when she opened the door I was somewhat taken aback . Had made zero attempt at make up , wash hair , dress remotely nice and the house was the set from Hoarders. Don’t get me wrong, she was a pleasant , nice friendly woman but she was straight off My 600 lb life. Trackie bottoms and tent top came and she flopped onto the bed. Once there she was pretty much marooned and my mountaineering /caving / potholing skills weren’t up to the challenge. Even my detective skills had trouble finding her front door . Did my best but had to give up.

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I've never been stood up so far, fingers crossed it won't happen in the future, but I've experienced some poor performances, but thankfully due to some rearrangements respectively advanced planning never had to go home without a smile.

Walked out on one meet, still feel bad about it but only take 50% of responsibility because of misleading information. You learn as you go along.

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By *Sparkie.Man  over a year ago

Ratoath

I'm going to be honest and admit to being on both giving and receiving end of this problem.

I'll start with my excuses, twice I had to let someone down, both times the other people were already in the hotel, I knew them well, I paid for the rooms to soften the blow, sent up a Btl of bubbles and chocolates, why did I cancel? Last minute problems in work, I'm self employed, several staff and shit happens, I've a 24/7/365 business customers reply on, I try and make up for it. I understand the planning, effort, time and money that can go into a meet, hair makeup outfit etc, so I dont cancel likely. I've been doing this since 2006 so in the early days it was common for people to let you down.

I've had a couple turn up merry, pull a bottle of wine from her bag, get plastered, then have a full blown domestic in my hotel room because he reckoned I got more attention.

Another female turned up, completely different person to picturess, used her cousins pictures as she was afraid someone might recognise her, wasnt because her cousin was a model and she wasnt.

Another female had black and white pics, I thought maybe a filter, nope....it was her 20 years ago and she lied about her age, she was 60, claiming 41 lol.

Looking back I laugh, at the time I didnt

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By *ransBoiTV/TS  over a year ago

Somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some of these stories are just so awful! I’m lucky so far, 3 meets and they’ve all been perfect. As I’m rather new, my nerves really got me the first two times, but I was very quickly put at ease.

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By *ocogreyTV/TS  over a year ago

secret

Been chatting to a guy for months. Up to the day we meeting. Told him the hotel I’m gonna b staying. Took me almost 5 hours on the train. Once I reached the hotel. I txted him and he replied he’s not coming coz he broke his back.

Another time was with a guy I’ve met few times. He txted me on the day I was checking out. Told him yeah come over. He came over covered in grease and said his car broke down. We had our fun and then he asked if he could borrow money. I went to meet him near the garage. Gave him the money. Txt few times to ask for my money back and he asked who’s this? And he said oh yeah ok. Next week. Or the following or next pay.

Should I contact debt collector? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

God I actually forgot about one meet so bad I must have blanked it out.

He was suffering from whiskey dick so he said he would get me again in the morning. These things happen I was very understanding. Next morning at 6am he makes another feeble attempt. He makes his excuse to use my bathroom. Next thing I hear a car reversing out at high speed never to be seen again. I had just presumed he had gone to the shop! Tried to message him after a hour had placed but he had blocked me. That was the closest I ever felt to being treated like a unpaid sex worker. I can laugh about it now but at the time I did shed a tear or two to be treated with that little respect. I know he was probably insecure about his performance and thought the best way to deal with it was to exit stage right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"When I was part of a couple here we had a guy turn up two hours late at the hotel room. very d*unk.. it was very awkward to get rid of him

I wouldn't mind but we met him for coffee and such a nice guy..

anyone here been let down or meet was well below expectations

Had this myself not the d*unk part but rocks up 4 hrs late."

Hotsy toasty please tell me you didn't wait

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"God I actually forgot about one meet so bad I must have blanked it out.

He was suffering from whiskey dick so he said he would get me again in the morning. These things happen I was very

understanding. Next morning at 6am he makes another feeble attempt. He makes his excuse to use my bathroom. Next thing I hear a car reversing out at high speed never to be seen again. I had just presumed he had gone to the shop! Tried to message him after a hour had placed but he had blocked me. That was the closest I ever felt to being treated like a unpaid sex worker. I can laugh about it now but at the time I did shed a tear or two to be treated with that little respect. I know he was probably insecure about his performance and thought the best way to deal with it was to exit stage right."

ooooopppppsssss sorry for bringing back that memory.

guess he took the easy way out and the pressure got to him.

shame he didn't just talk about it in the morning and take it slow...I bet it would have been a different out CUM

it's good you can laugh now.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Was my photo shoot with hello magazine cunts

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Was my photo shoot with hello magazine cunts "

like that

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By *illium_cobblersMan  over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

I guess we all had our share of evenings where there was an issue living up to the advertising but discretion being the better part of valour I guess its just part of the recruitment process. If it we fantastic every time i guess we would all be horizontal all the time and what would that do for the economy ??

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman  over a year ago

your imagination


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. "

I hear ya lady. I've only had that happen once, but it was for an entire weekend and I got stuck with the bill. He later claimed to have had sudden onset pneumonia

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some awful experiences here my god

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By *heilsWoman  over a year ago

Midlands

Have had a few disaster meets...unfortunately younger guys who were all talk beforehand...

One was all about the amazing oral he'd give etc...yet went straight into trying to fuck then dropped with a leg cramp and that was it...no attempt to continue or give me anything...

Another guy, same thing - all talk before, a few kisses, one touch of his cock and boom... followed by...hands behind the head and jeez i dont think i can go again! Luckily I hadn't paid for the room so a few choice words and seeya!!!!

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By *asterIrelandMan  over a year ago

Tipperary

I got few cancellations, but I have never cancelled a meet and left someone with the bill... Was left with it thought when it was too late to cancel and ealry to travel.. So the hotel got just paid without using the room.

Maybe it's me but I rarely let a woman paying or booking.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman  over a year ago

your imagination


"Have had a few disaster meets...unfortunately younger guys who were all talk beforehand...

One was all about the amazing oral he'd give etc...yet went straight into trying to fuck then dropped with a leg cramp and that was it...no attempt to continue or give me anything...

Another guy, same thing - all talk before, a few kisses, one touch of his cock and boom... followed by...hands behind the head and jeez i dont think i can go again! Luckily I hadn't paid for the room so a few choice words and seeya!!!!"

Ohhh.... Until you said that, I'd completely forgotten about the guy (from another site) who spunked his jeans when I took my dress off. We had made it to the bedroom with some very intense and passionate snogging... But one glimpse of lingerie, stockings and bare skin and the poor fecker was done for. I was quite sympathetic, even told him it was a little flattering, but he was mortified and couldn't continue.

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By *oxic1998Woman  over a year ago

Belfast

Never had a bad meet......and never ended up paying for a hotel room by myself. Even the ones that were not my type on coffee meets were pleasant

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By *ichael McCarthyMan  over a year ago

Lucan


"Never had a bad meet......and never ended up paying for a hotel room by myself. Even the ones that were not my type on coffee meets were pleasant "

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By *etergemmaCouple  over a year ago

South Dublin Area

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By *etergemmaCouple  over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Have had a few disaster meets...unfortunately younger guys who were all talk beforehand...

One was all about the amazing oral he'd give etc...yet went straight into trying to fuck then dropped with a leg cramp and that was it...no attempt to continue or give me anything...

Another guy, same thing - all talk before, a few kisses, one touch of his cock and boom... followed by...hands behind the head and jeez i dont think i can go again! Luckily I hadn't paid for the room so a few choice words and seeya!!!!

Ohhh.... Until you said that, I'd completely forgotten about the guy (from another site) who spunked his jeans when I took my dress off. We had made it to the bedroom with some very intense and passionate snogging... But one glimpse of lingerie, stockings and bare skin and the poor fecker was done for. I was quite sympathetic, even told him it was a little flattering, but he was mortified and couldn't continue. "

In fairness thats a compliment though right? You got him so excited

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By *oreignaffairKKMan  over a year ago

Between CW and KK

We were texting for a few weeks, arranged a coffee meet, she picked a place for that, it was in her area, but about 45 minutes drive for me. I've got organised everything, and as I turned out of my street, I've got the message that said I'm too young lol.

I'm 40, she is 42, well that's what she said, but looked valid.

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By *oreignaffairKKMan  over a year ago

Between CW and KK


"The fooking party was in cork and I was in tuam "

It's a no brainer

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman  over a year ago

your imagination


"Have had a few disaster meets...unfortunately younger guys who were all talk beforehand...

One was all about the amazing oral he'd give etc...yet went straight into trying to fuck then dropped with a leg cramp and that was it...no attempt to continue or give me anything...

Another guy, same thing - all talk before, a few kisses, one touch of his cock and boom... followed by...hands behind the head and jeez i dont think i can go again! Luckily I hadn't paid for the room so a few choice words and seeya!!!!

Ohhh.... Until you said that, I'd completely forgotten about the guy (from another site) who spunked his jeans when I took my dress off. We had made it to the bedroom with some very intense and passionate snogging... But one glimpse of lingerie, stockings and bare skin and the poor fecker was done for. I was quite sympathetic, even told him it was a little flattering, but he was mortified and couldn't continue.

In fairness thats a compliment though right? You got him so excited "

I did try to explain that I saw it that way, but I don't think he was able to recover from that and he just wanted to leave ASAP. So I was left high and (not so) dry...

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By *evil_u_knowMan  over a year ago

city

I dont meet often from here so they were all good. I have obviously had bad dates and stuff though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some amazing stories to read above but some make me angry. The people that don’t show up are selfish pricks, when people have kids and time is restricted and they don’t bother their ass to text and cancel not to mention the cost of hotel is a joke.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ye got stood up twice waiting on ppl in hotel rooms...ended up utilising toys I brought with me and ordering a big fat burger via roomservice accompanied by a bottle of vino

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ye got stood up twice waiting on ppl in hotel rooms...ended up utilising toys I brought with me and ordering a big fat burger via roomservice accompanied by a bottle of vino "

Jesus, no need for us mere mortals so

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ye got stood up twice waiting on ppl in hotel rooms...ended up utilising toys I brought with me and ordering a big fat burger via roomservice accompanied by a bottle of vino "

Haha exactly what I did. Sure if you want a job done right do it yourself

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By *ndrew1972Man  over a year ago

Roscrea

Over the, erm, many years, I've been on the swinging scene I've had a few no shows & ghosts, but I am amazed at the amount of couples and ladies who have had similar experiences.

Regardless of who you are or what you do time is precious to everyone and while life does sometimes get in the way of plans it doesn't take a lot to send a message saying so.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been let down soooooo many times

Most awkward was meeting a guy for coffee and he seemed quiet but still chatted away to us both so our next meet was for fun.... He had said he was used to 3sums but emmmm I don't think so he didn't speak the whole time, pure silence for a few hours, was scared to touch me or even kiss me it was very awkward!!! He still messages telling me it was the best meet he's ever had maybe he had us mixed up with someone else

Mrs "

An it went on for two hours?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. "
surely its only right for the man to pay..or am I thinking wrong here?

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By *affa31Woman  over a year ago

Galway


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. surely its only right for the man to pay..or am I thinking wrong here?"

Why would the man pay? It’s a hotel room for mutual pleasure (you’d hope) so it should be split equally.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. surely its only right for the man to pay..or am I thinking wrong here?"
Oh definitely the man should pay he is going to get his oats after all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. surely its only right for the man to pay..or am I thinking wrong here? Oh definitely the man should pay he is going to get his oats after all."

So is the lady?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. surely its only right for the man to pay..or am I thinking wrong here? Oh definitely the man should pay he is going to get his oats after all.

So is the lady?"

Maybe but he will probably cum first.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. surely its only right for the man to pay..or am I thinking wrong here?

Why would the man pay? It’s a hotel room for mutual pleasure (you’d hope) so it should be split equally. "

I agree. I always offer to pay half.

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By *oserMan  over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. surely its only right for the man to pay..or am I thinking wrong here? Oh definitely the man should pay he is going to get his oats after all.

So is the lady? Maybe but he will probably cum first. "

Ah here,,, can you imagine, 1st to cum pays

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By *exytvlegsTV/TS  over a year ago

North co dublin Ireland

I drove from Dublin to Donegal was I the hotel dressed and full make up I messaged the lady she said she on the way then blocked me

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By *ommando4Man  over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

We've probably all been let down at some stage or other sometimes even by the well verified. Best to go with your gut and check out veris in detail. While many are over complimentary at least they give you an indication of whether the meet will show up.

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By *hilled sexy guyMan  over a year ago

dublin

Wow would make one very wary and careful reading these posts.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. surely its only right for the man to pay..or am I thinking wrong here?

Why would the man pay? It’s a hotel room for mutual pleasure (you’d hope) so it should be split equally.

I agree. I always offer to pay half. "

If it's a regular meet then I take turns paying for the hotel. But I am always happy to pay half. I would never ask or expect anyone to pay for hotel. Hence why I keep getting left with the bill as I always book.

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By *hors.HammerMan  over a year ago

Newbridge


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. surely its only right for the man to pay..or am I thinking wrong here?

Why would the man pay? It’s a hotel room for mutual pleasure (you’d hope) so it should be split equally.

I agree. I always offer to pay half.

If it's a regular meet then I take turns paying for the hotel. But I am always happy to pay half. I would never ask or expect anyone to pay for hotel. Hence why I keep getting left with the bill as I always book. "

Satisfaction guaranteed or your money back

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. surely its only right for the man to pay..or am I thinking wrong here?

Why would the man pay? It’s a hotel room for mutual pleasure (you’d hope) so it should be split equally.

I agree. I always offer to pay half.

If it's a regular meet then I take turns paying for the hotel. But I am always happy to pay half. I would never ask or expect anyone to pay for hotel. Hence why I keep getting left with the bill as I always book.

Satisfaction guaranteed or your money back "

I satisfied myself instead

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By *anon17Man  over a year ago

mayo

Had a arranged to meet and stay with a chick at a meet and greet and we were getting on grand, till I meet her and she was at least 20 years plus from the age she told me, let’s just say her photo was very old.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Had a arranged to meet and stay with a chick at a meet and greet and we were getting on grand, till I meet her and she was at least 20 years plus from the age she told me, let’s just say her photo was very old. "

She thought it's inside her you were talking about. Inside she only feels twenty

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By *ohndunboyneMan  over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. surely its only right for the man to pay..or am I thinking wrong here?

Why would the man pay? It’s a hotel room for mutual pleasure (you’d hope) so it should be split equally.

I agree. I always offer to pay half.

If it's a regular meet then I take turns paying for the hotel. But I am always happy to pay half. I would never ask or expect anyone to pay for hotel. Hence why I keep getting left with the bill as I always book.

Satisfaction guaranteed or your money back

I satisfied myself instead "

Good for you. Not a complete waste then

Just a point folks.

I'm not familiar with them myself but aren't ther now friend paying options type things?

Where one person pays and then you can split the bill through your phone, by however many people are there?

Not sure how they work and I'm fairly sure it wouldn't work through Kik but possibly an option, so you only get stung for half the cost, if they don't turn up.

Just a thought.

I'll let the techies debate the details of implementation.

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By *hors.HammerMan  over a year ago

Newbridge


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here. surely its only right for the man to pay..or am I thinking wrong here?

Why would the man pay? It’s a hotel room for mutual pleasure (you’d hope) so it should be split equally.

I agree. I always offer to pay half.

If it's a regular meet then I take turns paying for the hotel. But I am always happy to pay half. I would never ask or expect anyone to pay for hotel. Hence why I keep getting left with the bill as I always book.

Satisfaction guaranteed or your money back

I satisfied myself instead

Good for you. Not a complete waste then

Just a point folks.

I'm not familiar with them myself but aren't ther now friend paying options type things?

Where one person pays and then you can split the bill through your phone, by however many people are there?

Not sure how they work and I'm fairly sure it wouldn't work through Kik but possibly an option, so you only get stung for half the cost, if they don't turn up.

Just a thought.

I'll let the techies debate the details of implementation. "

There is but I'm not sure they work in Ireland. But you can always transfer using PayPal on your phone using NFC but not everyone would have that set up. think some banks offer the same transfer with NFC for friends. So might be like what you're talking about.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was chatting to a girl and decided to meet after a week texts and exchanging pics. So I went to collect her from her work which was more than hour drive from my place, and after sitting in my car, she said I don't meet guts from your race, (I am not white) and told me to drop to her place. I was so disappointed and it was worst meet so far.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a single Mammy with small kids and a ex who won't take kid's I don't get a night away very often. So a night away is a rare and expensive treat. I had two hotel meets in the space of a month not turn up and leave me with the bill. They both waited until I had checked in before they cancelled with very feeble excuses. It's put me right off meeting single men from here.

That actually put a knot in my tummy.

sickening. not only a horrible feeling.. lots of effort too I bet but the bill on top is the icing on the cake..

The second time I was in the Honey suite as I knew the manager. I had the Four poster bed to myself. That was kind sickening to go to all that effort to look amazing and they cancel. It was even more annoying to later find out that this "single male" lied and was very much married.

Happened to me lately too. Absolutely horrible feeling and felt gutted only being told after 9pm after sitting there waiting like an idiot. So I know how you feel.

There's definitely a feeling that time and effort is their precious commodity and not yours on fab with some.

I wasn't going to be stung for the cost so I asked him to cover the cost and he did. It was something I guess."

Seriously ??? Sweet Lord ...that is something that is definitely hard to phatom out ...even if he did cover the cost ..just not on that a lady goes through all the effort for a meet for that to happen ..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Took time off work to meet ,as a morning meet was the best scenario that suited the lady .. drove for over an hour to destination..she confirmed through Kik before l left ... got there ...no show... Sent Kik to see if everything was ok ..no reply .. timewasters...just no class,they do what they do to people and think it's ok to do so .

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By *owdyBoobyMan  over a year ago

limerick

Always assume they wont turn up and you'll never be disappointed. Rule of thumb don't pre book hotels. Book only after meeting in person. Saves alot of hassle.

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