FabSwingers.com > Forums > Ireland > Any good men left ??

Any good men left ??

Jump to: Newest in thread

By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP Woman over a year ago

Magical Forrest

So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Meeeeeee! Not in Donegal though

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d like to think I am and the people I’ve met would say the same about me

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP Woman over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Mmmmuaaaaa Kaizer

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mmmmuaaaaa Kaizer "

Thank you Miss Hood

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

Likewise, up to others to say one way or the other.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *iscuits8Man over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Ah I don't know... I can be a bit of a bollocks

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ah I don't know... I can be a bit of a bollocks

At least you admit it lol

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *iscuits8Man over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

"Ah I don't know... I can be a bit of a bollocks

At least you admit it lol "

See

too bloody honest is my problem!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ucky24Man over a year ago

Glasgow

To quote Burns, oh the gift to gie us,to see ourself as others see us.

So I hope that others see me as a good guy.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ommando4Man over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

[Removed by poster at 10/09/19 19:55:18]

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *elfastblondMan over a year ago

Belfast

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *elfastblondMan over a year ago

Belfast

[Removed by poster at 10/09/19 19:53:44]

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ommando4Man over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

There's a few good men (left)

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ommando4Man over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

You don't want the truth because deep down in places you don't talk about at parties, you want me on that wall -- you need me on that wall.

We use words like "honor," "code," "loyalty." We use these words as the backbone of a life spent defending something. You use them as a punch line.

I have neither the time nor the inclination to explain myself to a man who rises and sleeps under the blanket of the very freedom that I provide and then questions the manner in which I provide it.

I would rather that you just said "thank you" and went on your way. Otherwise, I suggest you pick up a weapon and stand the post. Either way, I don't give a DAMN what you think you're entitled to!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's a few good men (left)"

A "few"

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

There are decent guys on here I'd like to think a lot are but you do have to through the cockwombles to find them. It usually starts to show within a few messages if they are genuine or not I find.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Define good

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ackk25Man over a year ago

Kilkenny

Yeah I'm one of the good men... With the exception of painting... I'm shit at painting!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do my best and can say no fairer than that.

Some mornings yeah I might wake up and think I'm going to drive in the outside lane on the M50 and no matter what I'm not moving.

But I mean that's the height of my indecency

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *evil_u_knowMan over a year ago

city

Obviously me.

If you're not using me as the gold standard of nice, then you need a new gold standard.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to think i am 100% Genuine Man x

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yeah I'm one of the good men... With the exception of painting... I'm shit at painting!

Ah no and painting is high on the lists of requirements on so may profiles as well. Ah well can't win them all I guess

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *sa_curiousMan over a year ago

Waterford

Tá mo lámh suas

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I should get the woman because I'm great. In fact, I think I should get both women, in case one of them doesn't work! Guess the tv show

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Quite subjective and doubt any would admit otherwise, but ones good man may not be seen the same by another.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah I'm one of the good men... With the exception of painting... I'm shit at painting! "

Just as well I can do my own painting. Any good with a drill?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I try my best, like to think I'm good

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d imagine there are some A1 men on here, I’d consider myself one!

Just a couple of maniacs attempting to ruin it for the lot of us!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im lovely... because of the effort of raising my hand I now expect a ride thank you.....

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *inkyguyniMan over a year ago

"I do my best and can say no fairer than that.

Some mornings yeah I might wake up and think I'm going to drive in the outside lane on the M50 and no matter what I'm not moving.

But I mean that's the height of my indecency

pitch forks at the ready this is the man on the outside lane of the m50 driving at 30 kph lol

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP Woman over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Awk you guys ... alot of perving going on here...

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *eanbelfastMan over a year ago

Belfast

The trouble is a lot of the guys on here will say they are this and that, pretending to be something or someone they aren't in order to get exactly what they want. They say there is someone for everyone so be truthful, be yourself, be respectful. Its a question of that chemistry with who you are interested in to start. I don't mind being judged on who I am and am and hopefully those that know me smile and those that don't still smile and wonder

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *s LollyWoman over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"I’d imagine there are some A1 men on here, I’d consider myself one!

Just a couple of maniacs attempting to ruin it for the lot of us! "

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Id like to step forward also

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The trouble is a lot of the guys on here will say they are this and that, pretending to be something or someone they aren't in order to get exactly what they want. They say there is someone for everyone so be truthful, be yourself, be respectful. Its a question of that chemistry with who you are interested in to start. I don't mind being judged on who I am and am and hopefully those that know me smile and those that don't still smile and wonder

Those that have met and know you count, those that haven't can only speculate.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *immycorkhillMan over a year ago

Derry

I’m a nice dude, manners cost nothing.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would raise my hand as a good man , but to be honest I can't raise my hand ha ha

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

Well ,I've never sent a nasty Message or reply to any lady on this site ,100% respect to them always..so if that makes me a good guy ..well and good ...but thing is it's not really my decision that would confirm anything of the sort...that is ..like most things in this joint ,the decision of the lady .

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *P_80Man over a year ago

Waterford

I suppose I'm alright.

Maybe just a little too quiet

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 10/09/19 22:11:13]

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

Pity I'm in Dublin and not up home

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never sent a nasty message on here I respect others so I'm not that cruel. If I get a no it's a no or a non reply I ll leave them alone. Respect the other persons wishes no need to get nasty.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *owdyboy 890Man over a year ago

Country West

Did a Forrest Gump the majority of them x

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm waving both my hands in the air

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *inkyguyniMan over a year ago

"Awk you guys ... alot of perving going on here...

"
we can’t help it lol

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *cottybear74Man over a year ago

kilkenny

I'd like to think I'm one of the OK ones.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *asterIrelandMan over a year ago

Tipperary

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ork fellaMan over a year ago

Macroom

I try to be one of them anyway.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *antra MassageMan over a year ago

South Side.

"You don't want the truth because deep down in places you don't talk about at parties, you want me on that wall -- you need me on that wall.

We use words like "honor," "code," "loyalty." We use these words as the backbone of a life spent defending something. You use them as a punch line.

I have neither the time nor the inclination to explain myself to a man who rises and sleeps under the blanket of the very freedom that I provide and then questions the manner in which I provide it.

I would rather that you just said "thank you" and went on your way. Otherwise, I suggest you pick up a weapon and stand the post. Either way, I don't give a DAMN what you think you're entitled to!"

"you can't handle the truth!"

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh I'm one of the good ones. Why would anyone send nasty txt to people. Its childish

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a guy text me a bit over a two to three day period. I politely said no and ignored the next few messages. Then I was asked why not. I replied that I was not interested. His reply was sure you are just a slut so why not.

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *elfastDMan over a year ago

belfast

"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

I’m good

But only when you don’t make me do bad things

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

I’m good

But only when you don’t make me do bad things

Your bad

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *elfastDMan over a year ago

belfast

"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

I’m good

But only when you don’t make me do bad things

Your bad

You haven’t seen me at my worst .... yet

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hand is raised, me miss me miss

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always try to be a good/nice guy.. Manners make the man x

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do my best to try and be decent and respect....but it seems to count for little here

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *oathangerMan over a year ago

Dublin

"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *oathangerMan over a year ago

Dublin

"I had a guy text me a bit over a two to three day period. I politely said no and ignored the next few messages. Then I was asked why not. I replied that I was not interested. His reply was sure you are just a slut so why not.

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he? "

A lunatic

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can definitely be good for you

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh and I think there are a few good men on here.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan over a year ago

Tipperary

I'm good at what I do.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *hors.HammerMan over a year ago

Newbridge

A good man is not judged just by his words but by his actions.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A good man is not judged just by his words but by his actions.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he? "

He was d*unk definitely, next day read all the messages he sent and was brave enough to say "sorry".

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ohndunboyneMan over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I'd put my hand up but have to consider my visits to the Naughty Step, so most of the time I'm ok but not all of the time.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *an For YouMan over a year ago

belfast/holywood

Here

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *oghunter33Woman over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I haven't noticed any decline in 'good men' on here, but maybe I missed something....

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *irl4fucking18Woman over a year ago

city

I think your on the wrong site my dear. This site is full of bad an naughty ones

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im alright i guess

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *orethanenough73Man over a year ago

City centre

I'm good.... When I'm asleep

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *aughthycoupleCouple over a year ago

Ashbourne

Raised

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ransBoiTV/TS over a year ago

Somewhere

Raised

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *edro50Man over a year ago

enniskillen

I can be so hand raised!"present miss".lol

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP Woman over a year ago

Magical Forrest

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he? "

The way he reacted when you nicely rejected him says it all...

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Raised "

I've got a stiffy too.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *Sparkie.Man over a year ago

Ratoath

Hand high in the air......

Good with other tools too....not just my own lol

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *assionfruitfunCouple over a year ago

Dublin

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

The way he reacted when you nicely rejected him says it all..."

Yip agree with little Miss Red there, look out for inconsistent behaviour. He sounds very imbalanced. Anyone on a liberal sex site who calls a woman a slut for being in here (When it's not part of kinky role play that is lol ) is definately not the kinda guy you wanna be meeting, apology or not. Xx

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm here girls

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

The way he reacted when you nicely rejected him says it all...

I politely declined someone recently when he sent a wanna fuck message. His response was to say he was better off as I looked like a slut riddled with every disease going.

Thankfully though there is a lot of funny smart genuine and big ridey handsome men on here that make up for the douchebags

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *eelum1988Man over a year ago

Dublin

I'm always good and gentle to the ladies..

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *unnyfookMan over a year ago

Naas

hands up

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he? "

A better man than most. He recognised the errors and was big enough to both apologise and then respect your wishes. Both good qualities. We all without exception make split decision errors.

I always judge someone nor company by the way they deal and fix an issue, even if they created it in the first instance.

If one doesn't provide the option for them to sort it one never gets to know the real person inside. Well done for providing the chance. He's better for it because he knows he is capable of being bigger than the problem he caused and so are you for allowing it to happen.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he? "

He was the typical "nice guy" whose real personality came out when he didn't get what he wanted. All the apologies in the world don't change that.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hands up

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

He was the typical "nice guy" whose real personality came out when he didn't get what he wanted. All the apologies in the world don't change that. "

I agree. I would not touch off him with a barge pole but off all the nasties he was the only one man enough to apologise. Still does not change his personality in my opinion.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

He was the typical "nice guy" whose real personality came out when he didn't get what he wanted. All the apologies in the world don't change that.

I agree. I would not touch off him with a barge pole but off all the nasties he was the only one man enough to apologise. Still does not change his personality in my opinion. "

Manners is simply a facade for many people, they use it to get what they want and the mask quickly slips when they are thwarted. His reaction shows both his own lack of control over his ego and his true feelings towards women - two red flags.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

He was the typical "nice guy" whose real personality came out when he didn't get what he wanted. All the apologies in the world don't change that.

I agree. I would not touch off him with a barge pole but off all the nasties he was the only one man enough to apologise. Still does not change his personality in my opinion.

Hard to disagree with those two points ....one would get the vibe of " how dare you or who do you think you are to turn down my advances " coming from a guy like that.. rejection is something guys have to handle in this joint and if they find rejection hard to take ,then being honest, they shouldn't be here,yes the ladies here are looking for sex but they will ultimately decide who with and that is something no guy is ever gonna change and a guy getting all nasty about it ain't gonna help and only proves that the lady was right in her decision in the first place.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is the unforgiving nature of most, generally a generated by an inflated option of themselves over others a society dictated by the idea that the individual is more important than the collective and the I'd never do anything like that approach. There's not a single person here who hasn't some form of ego and succumbs to it. If we all to an approach of recognising and accepting we all make mistakes and focused on how they are rectified, all of us, fab and this country would be living in a very different light than we currently do.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

He was the typical "nice guy" whose real personality came out when he didn't get what he wanted. All the apologies in the world don't change that.

I agree. I would not touch off him with a barge pole but off all the nasties he was the only one man enough to apologise. Still does not change his personality in my opinion.

Very true

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *he MickMan over a year ago

southside

My hand is a loft

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can’t understand why people get nasty or aggressive on here or anywhere else. We are all deserving of basic respect. You give it, and certainly expect it. Rejection should be expected, it’s part of this life. Being a dick about it won’t get you any success, it’s not just guys though, I’ve come across some pretty obnoxious couples and females too. That said only a tiny minority

By and large Fabbers are Fab

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *angtasticallyMan over a year ago

Drogheda

No need for nasty stuff iam definitely genuine and not into insulting any lady

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ornyrepMan over a year ago

Wexford

Hey fabbers. Been away for a few days. What have I missed?

I'd definitely like to raise a hand here. Utter gentleman. If I do say so myself. I think were a dying breed.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It is the unforgiving nature of most, generally a generated by an inflated option of themselves over others a society dictated by the idea that the individual is more important than the collective and the I'd never do anything like that approach. There's not a single person here who hasn't some form of ego and succumbs to it. If we all to an approach of recognising and accepting we all make mistakes and focused on how they are rectified, all of us, fab and this country would be living in a very different light than we currently do."

And the forgiving approach, coupled with ignoring red flags and acceptance of faux apologies, is what lures people into, and traps them, in abusive situations.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Forgiving a person doesn't mean you return for more of the same behaviour.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I try my best to carry myself with respect at all times. Only people whom I interact with can agree or disagree. I’d love to know how people I interact with view me. A nice guy or not?

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *uxedoMan over a year ago

city

I'm holding my hand fully erect....

....woops, days not my hand

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

He was the typical "nice guy" whose real personality came out when he didn't get what he wanted. All the apologies in the world don't change that.

I agree. I would not touch off him with a barge pole but off all the nasties he was the only one man enough to apologise. Still does not change his personality in my opinion.

I have to agree with this once a guy is that rude I won't meet them it is a major red flag to me. I've been called so many names on here because I politely declined to meet some guys. Quite a few guys think the women especially single ones are sluts to be used for their pleasure when they want us. I'm here for mutual pleasure and fun.The guys who resort to name calling etc are people I have no interest in meeting. And I don't care if they apologise I won't meet them they have shown their true colours in that crap response and it would make me think if we had a social and I didn't want it to go farther how would he react then. It's too risky for me to chance that anyhow.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

And the forgiving approach, coupled with ignoring red flags and acceptance of faux apologies, is what lures people into, and traps them, in abusive situations.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *night999Man over a year ago

ffrd

I’m ere too

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good man here.. i even have a sense of humour.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *angero3aMan over a year ago

swords

plenty here one here.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ames in LaoisMan over a year ago

portloaise

I'd like to think I am and that my actions reflect that. Never sent a nasty message on here because I can't comprehend why anyone would do that, for any reason. Being respectful is something people believe in or they don't. Anyone who justifies not being respectful and blames others for their own behaviour does not have respect for others deep down, only when it suits them. You don't get to cherry-pick when you are or are not respectful.

Either you are or you aren't

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *scouple07Couple over a year ago

louth, Ireland

I'd class myself as a good man

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *otfuzz85Man over a year ago

Terenure

I’d consider myself a decent fella.. I always try and be respectful of everyone on here. Much love to all you sexy fabbers.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *hocko87Man over a year ago

dublin

Hello i consider myself a very respectfull guy easy going not shy type .

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ove2please44Man over a year ago

Dublin 12

Yo! Right here!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *assionfruitfunCouple over a year ago

Dublin

I ignored and unusually did not block. The following day I got an apology saying what he said was uncalled for and that he will never bother me again.

So in your opinion what kind of a man was he?

He was the typical "nice guy" whose real personality came out when he didn't get what he wanted. All the apologies in the world don't change that.

I agree. I would not touch off him with a barge pole but off all the nasties he was the only one man enough to apologise. Still does not change his personality in my opinion.

Fully agree there on the red flags.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And the forgiving approach, coupled with ignoring red flags and acceptance of faux apologies, is what lures people into, and traps them, in abusive situations. "

Catch 22 I guess.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *iss_dont_tellMan over a year ago

Clare

what accounts for a good man though? isn't that a matter of taste?

I mean im not talking about the people that are rude to others is never acceptable say abusive things! I do believe in here there are few nut jobs that think is press a button and instant fuck

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *wingme22Man over a year ago

Galway

I'd like to think I treat people the way I like to be treated. Manners and respect doest cost anyone a thing.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *avidc2019Man over a year ago

dublin

People take this site way to serious if they don’t float your boat rock on no harm done,rejection some people can’t take and then they get nasty but no all the men or women on here are the same well pointed by op not taring us all with the same brush,happy fabbing fabbers

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *pringbok95Couple over a year ago

Limavady

Hand raised. So come say Hi Pm anytime.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *osyMan over a year ago

athlone

I would count myself as a good guy non pushy and respect the other person decision whether they reply to my messages or not but some women on here are really up there own hole.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *osyMan over a year ago

athlone

I would count myself as a good guy non pushy and respect the other person decision whether they reply to my messages or not but some women on here are really up there own hole.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *oolguy4uMan over a year ago

Drogheda

Well I think I'm a great guy but you will never know until you try

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *icklowhornMan over a year ago

Dublin Wicklow

Ok then, I’ll admit I am one of the good ones. Don’t tell anybody though

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd like to think I treat people the way I like to be treated. Manners and respect doest cost anyone a thing."

Ah you're alright, I suppose

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ommando4Man over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Guess I'm bad but respectful

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All the good guys are taken...the fun guys are on Fab...unfortunately so too are the bad guys...its the bad gus giving the Fun guys a bad press...if you want good go to the vanilla world

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ickspring123Man over a year ago

kildare

Yep guitly x

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe not a good man but I'm alright

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not too bad

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

"
If you want a top class meal you go to a top class restaurant.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Me but I like to try to be a bad girl to

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *oody500Man over a year ago

Bray

I try my best to be good

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good men Good Women hmmmmm hard to know what side of the fence to stand on....

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *mazballs69Man over a year ago

Countryside

"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

There are still a few of us left believe it or not

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *rct4Man over a year ago

Manchester

I try

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

I'm usually very good, but then again, it's difficult to know for sure if you cannot get into a dialogue with who you message. Such is the nature of this place..

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *an For YouMan over a year ago

belfast/holywood

I’m the best there is on fab

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am good but i am right as well as left

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reckon I'm up there if you catch me on a good day!!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *oad tripperMan over a year ago

derry

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ohndunboyneMan over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Nah!

Stay away.

Trust me, I ain't worth it

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

Where have all the good men gone ??... holding out for a hero..is it that the song you're looking for...

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *cottybear74Man over a year ago

kilkenny

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah multi-tasking, the great challenge... trying to raise my hand and blow my own trumpet at the same time...

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *oftgentle123Man over a year ago

Letterkenny

Comolete and utter wanker here

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *lashamMan over a year ago

kildare

I don't want to be a good man

I don't want to find a good woman

So I'll just be a good man till a good woman wants me to be very very very bad

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

Meh

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *heRealDeal91Man over a year ago

Banbridge

I can be dead on sometimes lol

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *hechapMan over a year ago

Derry

Some bad men have learned all they know from bitter nasty woman.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can I raise my hand?;-)

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 26/09/19 22:17:58]

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *heHookyMonsterMan over a year ago

Coventry

Yep, but just as invisible as the rest. So much choice for the couples and single ladies means the vast majority will sink without trace, no matter what. Have to be philosophical about it, but you probably have to be lucky enough to find the good ones in a sea of messages - either that or reply to every good message. Of course there's always the novelty of actually of sending a single guy the first message........but that'll never happen. ????????

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ommando4Man over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Nope....don't think so

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *iggBadDaveMan over a year ago

Ards

We are all bas@a#ds , thought everyone new that by now.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *onathan kMan over a year ago

sligo ballymote

I am putting up my hand I am one of the good ones

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

"
Good men go where they can find a good woman and that an't here.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *atherjackhackettMan over a year ago

Tipperary

[Removed by poster at 17/10/19 20:07:16]

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I'm the very last one!

...so you'd better hurry before I'm snapped up!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *atherjackhackettMan over a year ago

Tipperary

[Removed by poster at 17/10/19 20:08:35]

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *atherjackhackettMan over a year ago

Tipperary

"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

What's a good man in today's world?

I'll put my hand up in any case

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *un man 13Man over a year ago

sligo

Loads of good men about but yes there is some nasty people on here but a diamond ?? will always shine

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *hilled sexy guyMan over a year ago

dublin

Putting my hand up. But unfortunately am outside your age range. Any chance of adding on a few years to your age limits. In Sligo for week from tomorrow. Only up the road to donegal. ??

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan over a year ago

Tipperary

I'm a good man and I'd say there is loads of good men on here and in life in general.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anseo!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP Woman over a year ago

Magical Forrest

"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

Good men go where they can find a good woman and that an't here. "

No they arent here

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *lowersMan over a year ago

Derry

"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

There are a few of us left yes!

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

I put my hand up..

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are so many messers on here it takes from the genuine lads and it's not easy to be taken as real with all the dopes

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are a lot of good guys out there . There are even some here

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For what it`s worth, I`ll raise my hand

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *reenfrogoMan over a year ago

nearby

"You don't want the truth because deep down in places you don't talk about at parties, you want me on that wall -- you need me on that wall.

We use words like "honor," "code," "loyalty." We use these words as the backbone of a life spent defending something. You use them as a punch line.

I have neither the time nor the inclination to explain myself to a man who rises and sleeps under the blanket of the very freedom that I provide and then questions the manner in which I provide it.

I would rather that you just said "thank you" and went on your way. Otherwise, I suggest you pick up a weapon and stand the post. Either way, I don't give a DAMN what you think you're entitled to!"

I see what you did there....nice!! ????

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My hand isn't the only thing raised up.... lol

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are a lot of good guys out there . There are even some here

There are some good guys here that I want to be bad for

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I try my best to be a nice guy

Get nothing outta being a dick tbh

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *avidc2019Man over a year ago

dublin

My hand is up I’d consider myself a nice guy

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)

By *ustin-SiderMan over a year ago

Belfast

"So.... with the few mails women get on here ... theres also a few who are pure nasty ...

So in the spirit of not painting all men with the same brush...

Will all the good men please raise your hand ...

I can't. My hands are busy.

Reply privately (closed, thread got too big)