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Winks, yay or nay??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send them to show interest. If you get one back maybe open up with a mail."
Exactly this but sometimes we come across a profile and notice that we have winked each other 10 months previous - oops. 
Then it’s the apology message to them.
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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago
louth, Ireland |
We like getting winks, we find it a a good way to see if we are interacting to others.
We send winks out too as it's a way of breaking the ice and seeing if the other Cpl or single is interested before sending a message to get ignored |
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Fabbing pictures can be done to show you appreciation the picture. A wink to me is a sign that you appreciate the person and are interested to know more so use as an ice breaker. I’d respond to a wink though not a fabbed picture. That said I never send them first as am sure women are inundated with them and much prefer an original message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They work.better for women than guys for obvious reasons.
I dont send them, it rare enough I send a first mail but when I do I put in a bit more effort than just a wink or a hi.
For that reason I dont really reply to winks either unless I really like the look of thrle persons profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bar participating in a forum game I think I only ever sent one wink.
I look at them and may pop into profile but would not message. I never message first. Must get working on that  |
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I like to get them and tend to respond but, as someone else said, very often I'll reply to a wink with a message, but get no message back in returning. Tends to be a bit frustrating.
I don't often send them myself, as my experience is that most women prefer to get a message than a wink. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to get them and tend to respond but, as someone else said, very often I'll reply to a wink with a message, but get no message back in returning. Tends to be a bit frustrating.
I don't often send them myself, as my experience is that most women prefer to get a message than a wink."
Wink and a friend request I definitely ignore. I do forget to check winks but I try to reply to all messages even if just thanks but no thanks. |
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"I like to get them and tend to respond but, as someone else said, very often I'll reply to a wink with a message, but get no message back in returning. Tends to be a bit frustrating.
I don't often send them myself, as my experience is that most women prefer to get a message than a wink.
Wink and a friend request I definitely ignore. I do forget to check winks but I try to reply to all messages even if just thanks but no thanks."
I would never send a FR until I've been chatting to someone for a while. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to get them and tend to respond but, as someone else said, very often I'll reply to a wink with a message, but get no message back in returning. Tends to be a bit frustrating.
I don't often send them myself, as my experience is that most women prefer to get a message than a wink.
Wink and a friend request I definitely ignore. I do forget to check winks but I try to reply to all messages even if just thanks but no thanks.
I would never send a FR until I've been chatting to someone for a while."
The amount of guys who do though |
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"Bar participating in a forum game I think I only ever sent one wink.
I look at them and may pop into profile but would not message. I never message first. Must get working on that "
I must have been the lucky one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bar participating in a forum game I think I only ever sent one wink.
I look at them and may pop into profile but would not message. I never message first. Must get working on that
I must have been the lucky one "
or maybe I sent more than I thought Of course you were  |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
Waterford |
When I receive a wink from a random woman I see it as just an acknowledgement that she liked my profile and not an invitation to chat.
If I receive one from a woman I had been chatting to but not for a while, I see it as a sort of 'hello again' thing so I may start a new conversation.
I probably sent a few when I started on here but I don't send them anymore.
If I'm gonna make contact I send a message. |
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"Bar participating in a forum game I think I only ever sent one wink.
I look at them and may pop into profile but would not message. I never message first. Must get working on that
I must have been the lucky one or maybe I sent more than I thought Of course you were "
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"We ignore them, if someone wants to chat to us, a coherent message is the best way to get a response "
Pretty much this... Unless it's someone I'm already interacting with or have met... Then I might send a cheeky 'have you got something in your eye?' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We ignore them, if someone wants to chat to us, a coherent message is the best way to get a response
Pretty much this... Unless it's someone I'm already interacting with or have met... Then I might send a cheeky 'have you got something in your eye?' "
Haha good one
Ye personally I dont pay attention to them. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Winks have lead to some interesting chats on here and the odd meet as well. I'll sometimes send a wink if I like a profile if he winks back one of us usually message. I check mine regularly too for anyone who I might like. |
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"The option is there but does anybody pay attention to winks or is it a waste of time expressing initial interest that way?
I personally love opening Fab to see a cheeky wink waiting for me lol"
We prefer a wink saves time. If not interested ignore no bad feeling if interested wink back, it is better than ignoring peoples messages! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we use as an icebreaker or way to contact something if we can't think of something. only pay attention to them if it's a profile that strikes our interest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wink its a yay , got sick of trying to type "interesting" first approach messages without reply , then found out that winks actually work better ha ha go figure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usually it's a lady's post or replies to topics on the forums that catch my eye, one can always guage the type of person they are by their replies or thoughts on a subject and would reply to it on the forum itself or privately, l think it's way easier to get a lady's attention rather than sending a message as they get 100's per day and it could just end up " another brick in her yellow wall " ..I've never sent a wink and don't think I will.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only got winks from guys, dont tend to send them unless I knew the people, I think women think your lazy if you send them, maybe I'm wrong, I tend to compose a message hoping to grab attention"
I would agree with you. I rarely pay attention and never respond to winks. Maybe I am remiss in that but I think if someone is interested enough they'll message. |
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I'll give one here and there if I'm just aimlessly btowsing around but not very often...
