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Birth of a Hotwife
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By *etergemma OP Couple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
Hi,
I just wanted to post this here, its Gemma's description of her first proper Hotwife experience. I would like to think that it might help some of the single lads on here realize that you don't need to be scared or nervous to do this but also show that it can be an incredibly erotic experience for not just the couple but also for you and maybe show how valued the reliable/sane single men are here after all.
Also, for couples considering this, I hope it can show you that it can be an amazing experience for you. Its probably the best thing we have ever done on the scene.
I posted the first two paragraphs below, I didn't want to post a link as it might get removed, so the rest is available on the EnvyNights Website.
Thanks,
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Hotwifing ....
Settling into the Swinging scene in Ireland, we ran some meet and greets and we were regulars at the swinging club in Dublin and occasionally Cork. We had made a name for ourselves for the social side of swinging. A place I was far more comfortable in then actually swinging. We went to some up market swinging events but generally only played together in the end.
Fast forward to August 2018 and a conversation at our kitchen table about one half of another couple. She's gorgeous and petite and flirty and genuinely lovely. Someone my hubby was definitely interested in and so I told him he could have free reign there, no issues, carte blanche for a solo meet should he wish to. I'm not a jealous person in that I'm not jealous OF anyone or their possessions or their looks etc.. but I have come to realise I'm quite insecure when it comes to my husband meeting on his own but that's ok, it's not for everyone. He is far more comfortable with the idea of it and I think to be honest it stems from guys having these fantasies about their wives or girlfriends for a long time before raising it as a scenario with you.................. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks for sharing op, really honest and very helpful some possibly don't realise that this is something couples go through as a journey, and it was thoroughly rewarding to read yours  |
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Excellent post Sexies,
you both have so fulfilled one of our fantasies and it's a venture we have embraced with open arms and legs..lol. We understand that it doesn't suit all couples and people on the scene, but because of our work and family commitments we find it hard to arrange to be off together for a normal husband/wife date not to mind a swing meet. So we have taken to hotwife and (is the word) stag meets which we both have enjoyed. The fun for us is the pre-meet nerves and the "reclaim"..
Really can't wait to catch up again soon with you PeterGemma..
Lots of love xxx
EireCpl |
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Only thing we haven't done is me out with a guy on my own, hubby is happy enough I find it difficult though have had plenty of snogging and gropes but always stop there, it is def on the cards though, and like you I get a bit jealous of him as we used to be full swap but he prefers seeing me or even knowing what I am at or intending to be xxx
Stacey
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Nice post Gemma.
Having helped a few couples/hot wives with that fantasy, I can confirm that once all parties have the due respect for each other, it can be a truly enjoying experience for all involved. |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
South Co. Dublin |
I've really enjoyed quite a few hotwife meets the vast majority with the husband participating. They are without doubt amongst the best sexual experiences....the sexual tension and energy in the room is normally out of this world. Thanks Gemma for sharing your experiences and the journey as to how you got there. Makes for very interesting reading and hopefully will give other couples the courage to give it a go.  |
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By *etergemma OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Excellent post Sexies,
you both have so fulfilled one of our fantasies and it's a venture we have embraced with open arms and legs..lol. We understand that it doesn't suit all couples and people on the scene, but because of our work and family commitments we find it hard to arrange to be off together for a normal husband/wife date not to mind a swing meet. So we have taken to hotwife and (is the word) stag meets which we both have enjoyed. The fun for us is the pre-meet nerves and the "reclaim"..
Really can't wait to catch up again soon with you PeterGemma..
Lots of love xxx
EireCpl "
Only cause you two are such rides. It was an amazing experience for me but glad i could help.
Get up to dublin soon Ffs
Pete x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow amazing. Pity a list of reliable hot guys can't be put together for us single womem"
I think there’s plenty of well verified, reliable guys out there. You just have to look hard enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow amazing. Pity a list of reliable hot guys can't be put together for us single womem
I think there’s plenty of well verified, reliable guys out there. You just have to look hard enough "
I have |
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By *etergemma OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Wow amazing. Pity a list of reliable hot guys can't be put together for us single womem
I think there’s plenty of well verified, reliable guys out there. You just have to look hard enough "
I beg to differ Mike, they are rare enough |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
South Co. Dublin |
"Wow amazing. Pity a list of reliable hot guys can't be put together for us single womem
I think there’s plenty of well verified, reliable guys out there. You just have to look hard enough I beg to differ Mike, they are rare enough "
I know quite a few that are reliable and that I've met before on meets. Feel free to PM me if your stuck for names. |
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By *etergemma OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Wow amazing. Pity a list of reliable hot guys can't be put together for us single womem
I think there’s plenty of well verified, reliable guys out there. You just have to look hard enough I beg to differ Mike, they are rare enough I know quite a few that are reliable and that I've met before on meets. Feel free to PM me if your stuck for names."
Well if thats the case, they shouldnt have a p_oblem showing interest in the next social we attend.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow amazing. Pity a list of reliable hot guys can't be put together for us single womem
I think there’s plenty of well verified, reliable guys out there. You just have to look hard enough I beg to differ Mike, they are rare enough I know quite a few that are reliable and that I've met before on meets. Feel free to PM me if your stuck for names."
Can send a few my way |
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"What an excellent insight into the making of a hot Wife. Thanks for sharing Gem When are we gonna get to see you sexy feckers again?? "
I swear to god we are gagging to get back at it but one little p_oblem is holding us back. Trust me we are laying plans to get over this hurdle . |
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great read I'm gonna have to find me one of these hot wife thingys 
Xx