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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve been getting with the same girl a few times over the last while but everytime she gives me a blowjob it just isn’t great how do I tell her to do something different without offending her or what should I say to her? I am really appreciative of them so don’t want to come across as a dick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talk to her the best sex comes when people arent to proud to listen to what their partners wants or likes.
Communicating what you like ismt a critisisim of the other person just make sure thats clear.
If she is on fab maybe give her the heads up this thread is here |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Talking to her might help especially if she is a regular. Maybe point out what you like more than what she's doing wrong. I'd prefer to be told if I wasn't doing something right and the guy was bored. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Talking to her might help especially if she is a regular. Maybe point out what you like more than what she's doing wrong. I'd prefer to be told if I wasn't doing something right and the guy was bored. Lol "
Yeah that is a good way of putting things! Thanks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have a chat and ask if you can improve on anything I'm sure your not shit hot either and then have a chat about what makes yous both happy.
It takes two baby  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Tell her straight that u love whas t she's doing but she's going to have to improve her technic if she's going to continue to give u bj's 
Simples really
Pointers are always good as bash says a little direction can help and if she's appericiative of it you never know it may open another avenue of sexy fun for u both |
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I think you can definitely communicate with someone about this without being a dick, as long as you frame it as "I love it when you xyz" or "I'd love it if you abc" instead of "ur BJs are boring". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sexting. Having the conversation in the moment can ruin the energy and could make her feel insecure. In my experience, it's better to initiate some sexting and tell her exactly what you want her to do. Chances are she'll be delighted to have some instructions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Change positions too for her to perform in ...there are different positions a lady can be in to perform orally...and even if you think your oral is boring atm..always pay the lady compliments..always ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair the girl.. I assume she doesn't have a dick.. not all us girls do ! Lol
In her defence..and my experience giving head loads of guys like different ways of giving head.. she may have been told by previous guys she was olympian deep throater and could make them orgasm on demand..
People appreciate the truth and I'm hopeful if you were eating her pussy like an all you can eat buffet but she wanted you to treat it like a michelin star meal that you'd oblige .
Things are often misconstued in the heat of the moment so if you can say it to her in a vanilla way I'm sure she will be admire your honesty.
Wishing you lots of good head x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Communication is the answer, talking to each other...be honest and open and the sex will improve, Is your good Lady happy with your technique when you`re performing oral for her? Hope things work out for you both.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had my fair share of depression brought on by some circumstances, it's horrle, talking to people is great. But the best thing that happened for me is I came to the conclusion that what was getting me down I couldn't change ,and if you can change it, there's not point getting down. You need to find the root of the problem, that's the only way you can break it. |
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