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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How many is too many..?? How many is enough..?? And do people actually read them, or are they assuming your just fucking everyone you see..  personally 70% of mine have been literally social meets or people I've chatted with or met at parties or socials or clubs..should we have to hide this, as it tells people what kind of character you are..why should we hide have to anything really..I'm an open book..  |
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Sometimes I have a little play with myself reading them.
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Your own or someone else's veris? 
Other peoples, not gonna sit here wanking over my own veris, am not a weirdo."
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Well done mate, you failed Question 1. of the FAB Narcissists test   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many is too many..?? How many is enough..?? And do people actually read them, or are they assuming your just fucking everyone you see.. personally 70% of mine have been literally social meets or people I've chatted with or met at parties or socials or clubs..should we have to hide this, as it tells people what kind of character you are..why should we hide have to anything really..I'm an open book.. "
When I see alot of veris I usually scan to see if there is a bunch from a party or social. It doesn't put me off as it lets me know the person is really into this and not just another browser.
If in doubt just display a selection. |
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I think I've about 40 or so on display at the moment, as I'm attending a regularly run UK event later this month... they're basically on display to remind folk I may have met at it before of who I am, as I've missed the last 3.
I generally keep my veris to myself, and just pop a few relevant ones on display when attending events as a reminder for folk when they see my name on the guestlist.
I'm not actually sure how many I have tbh.. Between this and my other profile, probably 100 or thereabouts... I tend not to display my summary though as folk judge on quantity, not on their quality. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How many is too many..?? How many is enough..?? And do people actually read them, or are they assuming your just fucking everyone you see.. personally 70% of mine have been literally social meets or people I've chatted with or met at parties or socials or clubs..should we have to hide this, as it tells people what kind of character you are..why should we hide have to anything really..I'm an open book..
When I see alot of veris I usually scan to see if there is a bunch from a party or social. It doesn't put me off as it lets me know the person is really into this and not just another browser.
If in doubt just display a selection."
Thanks for that
I just dont want to offend people by selecting a few if you get me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think I've about 40 or so on display at the moment, as I'm attending a regularly run UK event later this month... they're basically on display to remind folk I may have met at it before of who I am, as I've missed the last 3.
I generally keep my veris to myself, and just pop a few relevant ones on display when attending events as a reminder for folk when they see my name on the guestlist.
I'm not actually sure how many I have tbh.. Between this and my other profile, probably 100 or thereabouts... I tend not to display my summary though as folk judge on quantity, not on their quality. "
Ya that makes perfect sense thanks as a woman it's not a critical for verifications I would imagine lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many is too many..?? How many is enough..?? And do people actually read them, or are they assuming your just fucking everyone you see.. personally 70% of mine have been literally social meets or people I've chatted with or met at parties or socials or clubs..should we have to hide this, as it tells people what kind of character you are..why should we hide have to anything really..I'm an open book..
When I see alot of veris I usually scan to see if there is a bunch from a party or social. It doesn't put me off as it lets me know the person is really into this and not just another browser.
If in doubt just display a selection.
Thanks for that
I just dont want to offend people by selecting a few if you get me "
Pick most recent than. You won't please everyone. I've displayed mine and now just leave hidden and the summary is visible.
When it comes to veris on a guys profile it's good to know he is real lol, but also what type of women a guy has met so I know they are actually interested in meeting me. |
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I met a lady last week for coffee. We got on great. Had a little kiss outside and then sat in her car and it got a bit heavier and steamier. Arranged to definitely meet up again and we chatted since on kik. I verified her and nothing back from her end. Said it to her on Saturday in a joking way but being serious and she said she hadn’t been on Fab much but would do it. She’s been on several times a day. Fu**ed if I know why she won’t do it back and that’s her business if she doesn’t want to but to me a verification tells you about a person and what they are like. Having lots doesn’t mean anything at all as they could get ten of them at a social. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We do look at verifications if someone messages us, it doesn't tell you everything about them but you can get an idea of the person..
As for too many, some people have been on here for years so they are bound to have quite a few. The only time we wouldn't interested was if the profile was new and they were racking up meets left and right |
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"I met a lady last week for coffee. We got on great. Had a little kiss outside and then sat in her car and it got a bit heavier and steamier. Arranged to definitely meet up again and we chatted since on kik. I verified her and nothing back from her end. Said it to her on Saturday in a joking way but being serious and she said she hadn’t been on Fab much but would do it. She’s been on several times a day. Fu**ed if I know why she won’t do it back and that’s her business if she doesn’t want to but to me a verification tells you about a person and what they are like. Having lots doesn’t mean anything at all as they could get ten of them at a social. "
OMG She should verify you, insist that she does, I see you're not verified yet, she's a proper B if she doesn't.
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"I met a lady last week for coffee. We got on great. Had a little kiss outside and then sat in her car and it got a bit heavier and steamier. Arranged to definitely meet up again and we chatted since on kik. I verified her and nothing back from her end. Said it to her on Saturday in a joking way but being serious and she said she hadn’t been on Fab much but would do it. She’s been on several times a day. Fu**ed if I know why she won’t do it back and that’s her business if she doesn’t want to but to me a verification tells you about a person and what they are like. Having lots doesn’t mean anything at all as they could get ten of them at a social.
OMG She should verify you, insist that she does, I see you're not verified yet, she's a proper B if she doesn't.
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I asked already was she doing it. I don’t ask for anything a second time. She obviously has her reasons. |
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"I met a lady last week for coffee. We got on great. Had a little kiss outside and then sat in her car and it got a bit heavier and steamier. Arranged to definitely meet up again and we chatted since on kik. I verified her and nothing back from her end. Said it to her on Saturday in a joking way but being serious and she said she hadn’t been on Fab much but would do it. She’s been on several times a day. Fu**ed if I know why she won’t do it back and that’s her business if she doesn’t want to but to me a verification tells you about a person and what they are like. Having lots doesn’t mean anything at all as they could get ten of them at a social.
OMG She should verify you, insist that she does, I see you're not verified yet, she's a proper B if she doesn't.
I asked already was she doing it. I don’t ask for anything a second time. She obviously has her reasons. "
I'd ask until I receive LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met a lady last week for coffee. We got on great. Had a little kiss outside and then sat in her car and it got a bit heavier and steamier. Arranged to definitely meet up again and we chatted since on kik. I verified her and nothing back from her end. Said it to her on Saturday in a joking way but being serious and she said she hadn’t been on Fab much but would do it. She’s been on several times a day. Fu**ed if I know why she won’t do it back and that’s her business if she doesn’t want to but to me a verification tells you about a person and what they are like. Having lots doesn’t mean anything at all as they could get ten of them at a social.
OMG She should verify you, insist that she does, I see you're not verified yet, she's a proper B if she doesn't.
I asked already was she doing it. I don’t ask for anything a second time. She obviously has her reasons.
I'd ask until I receive LOL"
I couldn’t be arsed. |
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I don't display my Veris just the summary. As I've see threads over the years pointing out that people won't meet someone based on someone else they met based purely on the ground that they dislike that other person. |
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Also I don't believe some veris as you offen see a new profile being verified as having a meet an hour after joining and I'm not talking about the people coming back. Some lads seem to verify new members when they run out if allotted messages. |
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"I met a lady last week for coffee. We got on great. Had a little kiss outside and then sat in her car and it got a bit heavier and steamier. Arranged to definitely meet up again and we chatted since on kik. I verified her and nothing back from her end. Said it to her on Saturday in a joking way but being serious and she said she hadn’t been on Fab much but would do it. She’s been on several times a day. Fu**ed if I know why she won’t do it back and that’s her business if she doesn’t want to but to me a verification tells you about a person and what they are like. Having lots doesn’t mean anything at all as they could get ten of them at a social. "
I log into Fab by accident fairly often  I hit the wrong icon or without thinking, and I've been in your meet's situation. I've had someone get annoyed with me because I wasn't 'quick enough' verifying them back or replying to a message. If your meet is anything like me, she will want to sit down in a quiet moment and think about what to write without being distracted. Believe it or not, it's out of consideration for you (men) that we often do take our time writing veris or replies... Would you rather be fobbed off with a generic one-line veri or a reply that just says 'cool '? |
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"Why are people so preoccupied with pointing out that most of their veris are from socials? Does it matter? Are you openminded or not?  "
exactly... alot of people have issues with the veris, personally doesn't matter to me, we all have different likes etcetc |
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By *ipskyMan
over a year ago
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I'm on Fab just a couple of weeks, had a really good, strong cam session with a specific niche/theme, with a girl after a couple of days. She seemed to really get off on it (unless she was a brilliant actress), as did I. And she said she would veri me. A short while later her profile was gone as was her kik presence. Needless to say the veri never arrived, not sure what that was all about - bar a sexy cam session |
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"I met a lady last week for coffee. We got on great. Had a little kiss outside and then sat in her car and it got a bit heavier and steamier. Arranged to definitely meet up again and we chatted since on kik. I verified her and nothing back from her end. Said it to her on Saturday in a joking way but being serious and she said she hadn’t been on Fab much but would do it. She’s been on several times a day. Fu**ed if I know why she won’t do it back and that’s her business if she doesn’t want to but to me a verification tells you about a person and what they are like. Having lots doesn’t mean anything at all as they could get ten of them at a social.
OMG She should verify you, insist that she does, I see you're not verified yet, she's a proper B if she doesn't.
I asked already was she doing it. I don’t ask for anything a second time. She obviously has her reasons. "
I’ve seen some women who won’t veri till they’ve had sex and some even who won’t for a car meet  |
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