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over a year ago
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How do men/women feel about married men / woman on fab. I be honest when asked if I'm married. But some woman on here call me all sorts. Just wondering do woman find same when they be honest about being married..or is just wrong for the man |
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"How do men/women feel about married men / woman on fab. I be honest when asked if I'm married. But some woman on here call me all sorts. Just wondering do woman find same when they be honest about being married..or is just wrong for the man"
Wrong for both in our opinion. If your here behind your partners back or without their knowledge its not right regardless of their gender |
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By *ergalMan
over a year ago
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Alot of people here are in relationships/marriage, some say so on their profiles, others don't
Is it right or wrong? Who is to say! each adult person has their own reason to be here, if others choose not to meet those people, then fair enough that's their choice/right
Been a few threads on the topic previously |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't judge but rather meet people who are openly going outside of the marriage (as in both partners are aware and are allowed) otherwise it is too messy being with people that are looking for affairs.
That being said I think men get more flack for it as we're painted wihh the cheating wet shammy! Women cheat just as much as us guys but they're just a hell of a lot better at getting away with it and not being found out....those cheeky minxes! Haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was single - my username and me wearing rings on my ring fingers made it look like I'm married.
Result:
Frequent messages in my inbox calling me a cheating whore, who doesn't deserve to have a husband.
It was funny at the time, as I was never married in my life and not planning to get married all together.
Also yes, cheating is wrong on many levels.
When you get married- you make a choice to be commited to that person. Getting your dick wet/pussy tickled behind your partners back isn't a good way to "fix" the situation of unrewarding, unhappy or in some other ways dysfunctional relationship.
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"I don't judge but rather meet people who are openly going outside of the marriage (as in both partners are aware and are allowed) otherwise it is too messy being with people that are looking for affairs.
That being said I think men get more flack for it as we're painted wihh the cheating wet shammy! Women cheat just as much as us guys but they're just a hell of a lot better at getting away with it and not being found out....those cheeky minxes! Haha "
Those sneaky milfs at it again?? |
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I’m pretty new around here, but so far I have found the reaction is about 50/50, some women are attracted by the idea of a married man as they feel we are more discreet and safer to meet as less likely to be sleeping with half the world, the other 50% are quite offended that we are here at all....I’d be very interested to hear the experiences of a married woman here.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just putting it out there what if u were in a loveless marrage locked into a massive morguage had kids that u loved n knew with the bitterness n tension in the house u walked away the kids would be used as a weapon n felt trapped are u to have no fun n just suck it up n I'm sure there's women here that are attached to a controlling partener n yurn affection n other things are they to be denied a lil slice of happyness ..... not everything is black n white |
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"When I was single - my username and me wearing rings on my ring fingers made it look like I'm married.
Result:
Frequent messages in my inbox calling me a cheating whore, who doesn't deserve to have a husband.
It was funny at the time, as I was never married in my life and not planning to get married all together.
Also yes, cheating is wrong on many levels.
When you get married- you make a choice to be commited to that person. Getting your dick wet/pussy tickled behind your partners back isn't a good way to "fix" the situation of unrewarding, unhappy or in some other ways dysfunctional relationship.
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funny I've had that I'm not married but wear a ring that belonged to my late mother so it looks like a wedding band, also I a don't accommodate it's my kids home so for that reason it's a no no not anything to do with marital status. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Not every thing is black and white. People are on here for their own reasons and I don't judge. I find the judgemental side of a lot on here quite hard to take at times. Yes some people on here are just being asses by paying away others like the post farther up have genuine reasons and there are a lot of genuine reasons. It's fine for people in happy marriages to judge or those that have found a partner who swings etc but I've seen with friends in real life how an unhappy marriage can make people so miserable and no one deserves to spend their life like that.And I've been in unhappy relationships and its a lonely miserable place.
And before I get slated no I'm not married or attached I'm single. I just don't accommodate because I house share and even if I didn't I wouldn't bring anyone I didn't know and trust to my home anyhow.
I think on here it's best to be upfront though if you are attached and let people make up their own minds if they want to meet you or not. If they don't they shouldn't be handing out abuse either tho. |
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"Sure according to some almost all the single guys here must be married and cheating
All the single ladies who can’t accommodate are married too..... damn sneaky milfs "
Them damn sneaky milfs always up to no good. With their damned packed lunches and a pat on the head for a job well done. Some even give you a sticker |
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"Sure according to some almost all the single guys here must be married and cheating
All the single ladies who can’t accommodate are married too..... damn sneaky milfs
Them damn sneaky milfs always up to no good. With their damned packed lunches and a pat on the head for a job well done. Some even give you a sticker "
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"Sure according to some almost all the single guys here must be married and cheating
All the single ladies who can’t accommodate are married too..... damn sneaky milfs
Them damn sneaky milfs always up to no good. With their damned packed lunches and a pat on the head for a job well done. Some even give you a sticker
Gold medals here if the job is done well "
Do I get two if I do an extra good one?  |
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"Sure according to some almost all the single guys here must be married and cheating
All the single ladies who can’t accommodate are married too..... damn sneaky milfs
Them damn sneaky milfs always up to no good. With their damned packed lunches and a pat on the head for a job well done. Some even give you a sticker
Gold medals here if the job is done well
Do I get two if I do an extra good one? "
Hang on till I ask the audience |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Sure according to some almost all the single guys here must be married and cheating
All the single ladies who can’t accommodate are married too..... damn sneaky milfs
Them damn sneaky milfs always up to no good. With their damned packed lunches and a pat on the head for a job well done. Some even give you a sticker
Gold medals here if the job is done well
Do I get two if I do an extra good one?
Hang on till I ask the audience
I vote for 2 |
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"Sure according to some almost all the single guys here must be married and cheating
All the single ladies who can’t accommodate are married too..... damn sneaky milfs
Them damn sneaky milfs always up to no good. With their damned packed lunches and a pat on the head for a job well done. Some even give you a sticker
Gold medals here if the job is done well
Do I get two if I do an extra good one?
Hang on till I ask the audience
I vote for 2 "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not every thing is black and white. People are on here for their own reasons and I don't judge. I find the judgemental side of a lot on here quite hard to take at times. Yes some people on here are just being asses by paying away others like the post farther up have genuine reasons and there are a lot of genuine reasons. It's fine for people in happy marriages to judge or those that have found a partner who swings etc but I've seen with friends in real life how an unhappy marriage can make people so miserable and no one deserves to spend their life like that.And I've been in unhappy relationships and its a lonely miserable place.
And before I get slated no I'm not married or attached I'm single. I just don't accommodate because I house share and even if I didn't I wouldn't bring anyone I didn't know and trust to my home anyhow.
I think on here it's best to be upfront though if you are attached and let people make up their own minds if they want to meet you or not. If they don't they shouldn't be handing out abuse either tho. "
Agree with all of the above.
Marriage is far more than sex you have a shared history, life, family and finances together. Nobody knows anyone's personal circumstances. I appreciate and respect people may not wish to meet married so just state it. Most who don't wish to meet married will just by pass you. The ones that give you grief you would not want to meet anyway so just ignore. They are just strangers on the Internet.
After all only you can deal with your own conscience and know your own circumstances. Nobody here is due an explanation. |
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"Not every thing is black and white. People are on here for their own reasons and I don't judge. I find the judgemental side of a lot on here quite hard to take at times. Yes some people on here are just being asses by paying away others like the post farther up have genuine reasons and there are a lot of genuine reasons. It's fine for people in happy marriages to judge or those that have found a partner who swings etc but I've seen with friends in real life how an unhappy marriage can make people so miserable and no one deserves to spend their life like that.And I've been in unhappy relationships and its a lonely miserable place.
And before I get slated no I'm not married or attached I'm single. I just don't accommodate because I house share and even if I didn't I wouldn't bring anyone I didn't know and trust to my home anyhow.
I think on here it's best to be upfront though if you are attached and let people make up their own minds if they want to meet you or not. If they don't they shouldn't be handing out abuse either tho.
Agree with all of the above.
Marriage is far more than sex you have a shared history, life, family and finances together. Nobody knows anyone's personal circumstances. I appreciate and respect people may not wish to meet married so just state it. Most who don't wish to meet married will just by pass you. The ones that give you grief you would not want to meet anyway so just ignore. They are just strangers on the Internet.
After all only you can deal with your own conscience and know your own circumstances. Nobody here is due an explanation. "
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"Not every thing is black and white. People are on here for their own reasons and I don't judge. I find the judgemental side of a lot on here quite hard to take at times. Yes some people on here are just being asses by paying away others like the post farther up have genuine reasons and there are a lot of genuine reasons. It's fine for people in happy marriages to judge or those that have found a partner who swings etc but I've seen with friends in real life how an unhappy marriage can make people so miserable and no one deserves to spend their life like that.And I've been in unhappy relationships and its a lonely miserable place.
And before I get slated no I'm not married or attached I'm single. I just don't accommodate because I house share and even if I didn't I wouldn't bring anyone I didn't know and trust to my home anyhow.
I think on here it's best to be upfront though if you are attached and let people make up their own minds if they want to meet you or not. If they don't they shouldn't be handing out abuse either tho. "
I gotta say I never see loads of judgemental comments on these threads.
People state they domt agree with it and choose not to meet or wjat ever but it rarely turns into a slatting session.
I cant speak to the private mails people get but the ones that send them are the same ones who semd abusive messages about anything they can....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We don't meet attached people if their partner is unaware, it's just our choice. We don't judge people for it, to each their own. We say it on our profile but we get messages from guys with wedding rings on and when we ask they vanish. |
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"Not every thing is black and white. People are on here for their own reasons and I don't judge. I find the judgemental side of a lot on here quite hard to take at times. Yes some people on here are just being asses by paying away others like the post farther up have genuine reasons and there are a lot of genuine reasons. It's fine for people in happy marriages to judge or those that have found a partner who swings etc but I've seen with friends in real life how an unhappy marriage can make people so miserable and no one deserves to spend their life like that.And I've been in unhappy relationships and its a lonely miserable place.
And before I get slated no I'm not married or attached I'm single. I just don't accommodate because I house share and even if I didn't I wouldn't bring anyone I didn't know and trust to my home anyhow.
I think on here it's best to be upfront though if you are attached and let people make up their own minds if they want to meet you or not. If they don't they shouldn't be handing out abuse either tho.
Agree with all of the above.
Marriage is far more than sex you have a shared history, life, family and finances together. Nobody knows anyone's personal circumstances. I appreciate and respect people may not wish to meet married so just state it. Most who don't wish to meet married will just by pass you. The ones that give you grief you would not want to meet anyway so just ignore. They are just strangers on the Internet.
After all only you can deal with your own conscience and know your own circumstances. Nobody here is due an explanation. giddy up "
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"Not every thing is black and white. People are on here for their own reasons and I don't judge. I find the judgemental side of a lot on here quite hard to take at times. Yes some people on here are just being asses by paying away others like the post farther up have genuine reasons and there are a lot of genuine reasons. It's fine for people in happy marriages to judge or those that have found a partner who swings etc but I've seen with friends in real life how an unhappy marriage can make people so miserable and no one deserves to spend their life like that.And I've been in unhappy relationships and its a lonely miserable place.
And before I get slated no I'm not married or attached I'm single. I just don't accommodate because I house share and even if I didn't I wouldn't bring anyone I didn't know and trust to my home anyhow.
I think on here it's best to be upfront though if you are attached and let people make up their own minds if they want to meet you or not. If they don't they shouldn't be handing out abuse either tho.
Agree with all of the above.
Marriage is far more than sex you have a shared history, life, family and finances together. Nobody knows anyone's personal circumstances. I appreciate and respect people may not wish to meet married so just state it. Most who don't wish to meet married will just by pass you. The ones that give you grief you would not want to meet anyway so just ignore. They are just strangers on the Internet.
After all only you can deal with your own conscience and know your own circumstances. Nobody here is due an explanation. "
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I am not here to judge.
Everyone is here for their own reasons.
I always ask if the person I am talking to is single.
Its my rule I dont meet attached individuals.
I dont judge so dont judge me.
Enough drama in real life without having more drama on a swinger site.  |
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"How do men/women feel about married men / woman on fab. I be honest when asked if I'm married. But some woman on here call me all sorts. Just wondering do woman find same when they be honest about being married..or is just wrong for the man"
I am married and have nothing to hide from anyone. But I too get abusive messages about being here.The most recent from a well verified couple who think that they have the right to judge me and my marriage. What makes them think that they are better than me, what makes them think that they lead such a perfect life and can afford to be so nasty and judgemental. Of course being as brave as they were in sending me the message they unfortunately were cowardly enough to block me so I could not even respond to their vile message. I would love to name and shame them but I'd only end up with a forum Ban for speaking out about them and they will get nothing and can continue to send their nasty messages to the next person they decide to pick on. |
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Ugh. Lots of judgmental folk on here. Don't mind people not meeting me because I'm married. But not looking for a lecture. No one has any idea what goes on in other people's lives. Even when you think you do, you don't! |
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"How do men/women feel about married men / woman on fab. I be honest when asked if I'm married. But some woman on here call me all sorts. Just wondering do woman find same when they be honest about being married..or is just wrong for the man
I am married and have nothing to hide from anyone. But I too get abusive messages about being here.The most recent from a well verified couple who think that they have the right to judge me and my marriage. What makes them think that they are better than me, what makes them think that they lead such a perfect life and can afford to be so nasty and judgemental. Of course being as brave as they were in sending me the message they unfortunately were cowardly enough to block me so I could not even respond to their vile message. I would love to name and shame them but I'd only end up with a forum Ban for speaking out about them and they will get nothing and can continue to send their nasty messages to the next person they decide to pick on."
this is a classic example of how this place has gone was only talking about this last night on another similar subject,people are very rude and childish on here and also very judgmental I’d ignore the negative Nancy’s and the keep board warriors and move on,I’m all for every having there fun weather the are married gay/bi or otherwise if your having clean fun and nobody is getting hurt who cares,grow up  |
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Strangely some peoples comments would lead you to believe that you have to be in a dead end marriage or having a terrible time with the other half to end up on here. That's is not the case in every situation i would think. Just because a married guy or girl is on here does not immediately mean they are unhappy with their choices in life or unhappily married. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Strangely some peoples comments would lead you to believe that you have to be in a dead end marriage or having a terrible time with the other half to end up on here. That's is not the case in every situation i would think. Just because a married guy or girl is on here does not immediately mean they are unhappy with their choices in life or unhappily married.
No it doesn't and I didn't mean my comment to come across as that. Everyone has their own reasons for being on here. I know a few people on here who are happy being married to their partner but are still on here and they don't want it to effect their home life. That's fine as well like I said I don't judge at all everyone has their own reasons for being on here and people can either meet them or not. That is their choice but giving abuse to them for being on here is not right either. |
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"Maybe we should have a married morning social!? 
Lol yeah after the school runs
Say 10.30am.. A few G&Ts can then be consumed "
Haha why not! Let's make it happen |
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"Haha. I'm in. I'll bring the flask if it's a cold one. Irish up those coffees
Ha, love an irish coffee.. minus the coffee!"
Lads ffs focus.... ye had a lady lined up |
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"Haha. I'm in. I'll bring the flask if it's a cold one. Irish up those coffees
Ha, love an irish coffee.. minus the coffee!
Lads ffs focus.... ye had a lady lined up "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe we should have a married morning social!?
Lol yeah after the school runs
Say 10.30am.. A few G&Ts can then be consumed
10.30 it is... you take ice with that "
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"Not everyone works 9 - 5 so maybe!
Married only social in the curragh after school run... G & T's with ice optional lol
That’s me out so  "
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"Not everyone works 9 - 5 so maybe!
Married only social in the curragh after school run... G & T's with ice optional lol
That’s me out so
Ah ok new rules... married and those who are ok to mingle with married guys and girls "
Na feck off we are having a singles only social now with Champange in Cheltenham |
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"Not everyone works 9 - 5 so maybe!
Married only social in the curragh after school run... G & T's with ice optional lol
That’s me out so
Ah ok new rules... married and those who are ok to mingle with married guys and girls
Na feck off we are having a singles only social now with Champange in Cheltenham"
Top hat and tails is it? |
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"Not everyone works 9 - 5 so maybe!
Married only social in the curragh after school run... G & T's with ice optional lol
That’s me out so
Ah ok new rules... married and those who are ok to mingle with married guys and girls
Na feck off we are having a singles only social now with Champange in Cheltenham
Top hat and tails is it? "
JUST Top hat and tails |
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"Not everyone works 9 - 5 so maybe!
Married only social in the curragh after school run... G & T's with ice optional lol
That’s me out so
Ah ok new rules... married and those who are ok to mingle with married guys and girls
Na feck off we are having a singles only social now with Champange in Cheltenham"
All two of you? |
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"Not everyone works 9 - 5 so maybe!
Married only social in the curragh after school run... G & T's with ice optional lol
That’s me out so
Ah ok new rules... married and those who are ok to mingle with married guys and girls
Na feck off we are having a singles only social now with Champange in Cheltenham
All two of you? "
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Married only social in the curragh after school run... G & T's with ice optional lol
That’s me out so
Ah ok new rules... married and those who are ok to mingle with married guys and girls
Na feck off we are having a singles only social now with Champange in Cheltenham"
Room for one more on this singles trip?  |
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"Na feck off we are having a singles only social now with Champange in Cheltenham
Room for one more on this singles trip? "
Oh naughty.glint how easily you are swayed singles... married ...married ...singles its all good! |
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A feck it say nothing.. It will be grand, as long as the grass is cut, dishes washed, clothes on the line, kids in bed early.. Make her cup of tea all is forgiven |
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Room for one more on this singles trip?
Oh naughty.glint how easily you are swayed singles... married ...married ...singles its all good! "
Cheltenham and Champagne and SSS in Top hat and tails or The curragh with Irish coffee....... no competition soz |
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"Na feck off we are having a singles only social now with Champange in Cheltenham
Room for one more on this singles trip?
Oh naughty.glint how easily you are swayed singles... married ...married ...singles its all good!
Cheltenham and Champagne and SSS in Top hat and tails or The curragh with Irish coffee....... no competition soz "
Off with ya naughty.glint... ya can borrow my riding boots and whip |
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"Na feck off we are having a singles only social now with Champange in Cheltenham
Room for one more on this singles trip?
Oh naughty.glint how easily you are swayed singles... married ...married ...singles its all good!
Cheltenham and Champagne and SSS in Top hat and tails or The curragh with Irish coffee....... no competition soz
Off with ya naughty.glint... ya can borrow my riding boots and whip "
I have my own but cheers |
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"How do men/women feel about married men / woman on fab. I be honest when asked if I'm married. But some woman on here call me all sorts. Just wondering do woman find same when they be honest about being married..or is just wrong for the man
Wrong for both in our opinion. If your here behind your partners back or without their knowledge its not right regardless of their gender"
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Do married men not carry condoms, in case their wife finds them?
Do married men have hairy sweaty ballsacks cause if they shave them the wife will be like "Ho you having your hairy ballsack for?"?
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"Do married men not carry condoms, in case their wife finds them?
Do married men have hairy sweaty ballsacks cause if they shave them the wife will be like "Ho you having your hairy ballsack for?"?
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Just coz a guy is married does not mean he lets himself go to sh1t... seriously we do keep ourselves even tho we are married |
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"Do married men not carry condoms, in case their wife finds them?
Do married men have hairy sweaty ballsacks cause if they shave them the wife will be like "Ho you having your hairy ballsack for?"?
Just coz a guy is married does not mean he lets himself go to sh1t... seriously we do keep ourselves even tho we are married"
So you don't carry condoms but shave your balls?
If i was married and I was shaving my balls and not having sex with my wife, she would know I was dipping them in someone elses mouth.
When I was not having sex with my girlfriend I caught her with a shaved pussy, I knew then and there it was over, that she was cheating on me. |
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"So you don't carry condoms but shave your balls?
If i was married and I was shaving my balls and not having sex with my wife, she would know I was dipping them in someone elses mouth.
When I was not having sex with my girlfriend I caught her with a shaved pussy, I knew then and there it was over, that she was cheating on me."
 kerping yourself well groomed as a married guy does not necessarily mean you are playing away you know. And yes i do carry condoms as well. |
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"Do married men not carry condoms, in case their wife finds them?
Do married men have hairy sweaty ballsacks cause if they shave them the wife will be like "Ho you having your hairy ballsack for?"?
Just coz a guy is married does not mean he lets himself go to sh1t... seriously we do keep ourselves even tho we are married
So you don't carry condoms but shave your balls?
If i was married and I was shaving my balls and not having sex with my wife, she would know I was dipping them in someone elses mouth.
When I was not having sex with my girlfriend I caught her with a shaved pussy, I knew then and there it was over, that she was cheating on me."
Where did he say he didn’t carry condoms? Not everyone who continues to groom is cheating!! |
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"Do married men not carry condoms, in case their wife finds them?
Do married men have hairy sweaty ballsacks cause if they shave them the wife will be like "Ho you having your hairy ballsack for?"?
Just coz a guy is married does not mean he lets himself go to sh1t... seriously we do keep ourselves even tho we are married
So you don't carry condoms but shave your balls?
If i was married and I was shaving my balls and not having sex with my wife, she would know I was dipping them in someone elses mouth.
When I was not having sex with my girlfriend I caught her with a shaved pussy, I knew then and there it was over, that she was cheating on me.
Where did he say he didn’t carry condoms? Not everyone who continues to groom is cheating!! "
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"Do married men not carry condoms, in case their wife finds them?
Do married men have hairy sweaty ballsacks cause if they shave them the wife will be like "Ho you having your hairy ballsack for?"?
Just coz a guy is married does not mean he lets himself go to sh1t... seriously we do keep ourselves even tho we are married
So you don't carry condoms but shave your balls?
If i was married and I was shaving my balls and not having sex with my wife, she would know I was dipping them in someone elses mouth.
When I was not having sex with my girlfriend I caught her with a shaved pussy, I knew then and there it was over, that she was cheating on me.
Where did he say he didn’t carry condoms? Not everyone who continues to groom is cheating!!
Logic prevails... finally!! Thank you "
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"So you don't carry condoms but shave your balls?
If i was married and I was shaving my balls and not having sex with my wife, she would know I was dipping them in someone elses mouth.
When I was not having sex with my girlfriend I caught her with a shaved pussy, I knew then and there it was over, that she was cheating on me.
kerping yourself well groomed as a married guy does not necessarily mean you are playing away you know. And yes i do carry condoms as well. "
but you are playing away? so how do you know what men who dont play away do? |
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"When I was single - my username and me wearing rings on my ring fingers made it look like I'm married.
Result:
Frequent messages in my inbox calling me a cheating whore, who doesn't deserve to have a husband.
It was funny at the time, as I was never married in my life and not planning to get married all together.
Also yes, cheating is wrong on many levels.
When you get married- you make a choice to be commited to that person. Getting your dick wet/pussy tickled behind your partners back isn't a good way to "fix" the situation of unrewarding, unhappy or in some other ways dysfunctional relationship.
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"Where did he say he didn’t carry condoms? Not everyone who continues to groom is cheating!! "
he didn't say it, I said it, and then he didn't refute it, only refuted the grooming part, which implied he didn't carry condoms, so I asked for clarification.
I don't really believe married men go around with condoms in their pockets. I also don't believe people continue to groom if they are not at least hopeful of sex. |
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"Where did he say he didn’t carry condoms? Not everyone who continues to groom is cheating!!
he didn't say it, I said it, and then he didn't refute it, only refuted the grooming part, which implied he didn't carry condoms, so I asked for clarification.
I don't really believe married men go around with condoms in their pockets. I also don't believe people continue to groom if they are not at least hopeful of sex."
Yeah ok... we'll just leave it there so |
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"Where did he say he didn’t carry condoms? Not everyone who continues to groom is cheating!!
he didn't say it, I said it, and then he didn't refute it, only refuted the grooming part, which implied he didn't carry condoms, so I asked for clarification.
I don't really believe married men go around with condoms in their pockets. I also don't believe people continue to groom if they are not at least hopeful of sex.
Yeah ok... we'll just leave it there so "
Well its the truth. Everyone knows this surely? Search online, if youre caught with a condom youre found out so you dont carry them.
What would you say if your wife found a condom? |
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We would say that if your partner doesn't know then you are a disrespectful dishonest cheat.
That's just one reply I got sent to my mail box after posting on forum. |
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"We would say that if your partner doesn't know then you are a disrespectful dishonest cheat.
That's just one reply I got sent to my mail box after posting on forum. "
You asked for people thoughts and you got them whats the issue? |
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"Where did he say he didn’t carry condoms? Not everyone who continues to groom is cheating!!
he didn't say it, I said it, and then he didn't refute it, only refuted the grooming part, which implied he didn't carry condoms, so I asked for clarification.
I don't really believe married men go around with condoms in their pockets. I also don't believe people continue to groom if they are not at least hopeful of sex."
Really? You really think that? |
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"I don't really believe married men go around with condoms in their pockets. I also don't believe people continue to groom if they are not at least hopeful of sex.
Really? You really think that?"
Its not really a belief, its a statistical fact that they don't carry protection.
For example, in HIV awareness websites, the gay community are warned to take care with men married to women, cheating due to the statistical fact that they are less common to have protection.
Its a fact, its your opinion that the fact is wrong, which is fine.
As for grooming, that is opinion based on what women have told me. It's nothing to do with being married its to do with being sexually active. A girlfriend of mine told me "If my pussy is shaved and I am not having sex with you, I am having it with someone else, cause thats the only reason for me to shave it".
I have asked other women since, they agreed.
So I will ask you. You have decided you wont have sex for a year, you wont be seen naked by anyone, You are going to live on your own in a science facility in the artic. Would you still end up with a bit of a bush, or would you still groom? |
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"I don't really believe married men go around with condoms in their pockets. I also don't believe people continue to groom if they are not at least hopeful of sex.
Really? You really think that?
Its not really a belief, its a statistical fact that they don't carry protection.
For example, in HIV awareness websites, the gay community are warned to take care with men married to women, cheating due to the statistical fact that they are less common to have protection.
Its a fact, its your opinion that the fact is wrong, which is fine.
As for grooming, that is opinion based on what women have told me. It's nothing to do with being married its to do with being sexually active. A girlfriend of mine told me "If my pussy is shaved and I am not having sex with you, I am having it with someone else, cause thats the only reason for me to shave it".
I have asked other women since, they agreed.
So I will ask you. You have decided you wont have sex for a year, you wont be seen naked by anyone, You are going to live on your own in a science facility in the artic. Would you still end up with a bit of a bush, or would you still groom?"
Well if it was the Artic a bush would help with the central heating...
But in general grooming public hair, waxing legs, shaving armpit hair all becomes part of routine and doesn't imply anything other than a person's preference. Some see hair in certain places as lending to extra sweat build up or body odour.
No different to someone having their eyebrows or lip waxed regularly..
As for carrying condoms... Surely they're either purchased before a meet, on route or organised between the parties.
And I'm referring to a Fab meet and not a casual hookup in a bar or something where again condoms can be purchased.. I don't know anyone who keeps one in a wallet/purse of a normal day should they stumble across an opportunity for sex, married or not!! |
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By *ergalMan
over a year ago
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"I don't really believe married men go around with condoms in their pockets. I also don't believe people continue to groom if they are not at least hopeful of sex.
Really? You really think that?
Its not really a belief, its a statistical fact that they don't carry protection.
For example, in HIV awareness websites, the gay community are warned to take care with men married to women, cheating due to the statistical fact that they are less common to have protection.
Its a fact, its your opinion that the fact is wrong, which is fine.
As for grooming, that is opinion based on what women have told me. It's nothing to do with being married its to do with being sexually active. A girlfriend of mine told me "If my pussy is shaved and I am not having sex with you, I am having it with someone else, cause thats the only reason for me to shave it".
I have asked other women since, they agreed.
So I will ask you. You have decided you wont have sex for a year, you wont be seen naked by anyone, You are going to live on your own in a science facility in the artic. Would you still end up with a bit of a bush, or would you still groom?"
Since before I was married I looked after myself & still do, for hygiene/self respect among other reasons.
I don't carry condoms in my pocket daily, as I don't think I'll be walking down the Street and get dragged in to have sex there and then. If it will happen it will be planned and not a "wham bam thank you mam" scenario.
Just because a few women told you they shave only because they are playing around, don't take it as gospel!
If I was in the artic, I'd still groom.
Each to their own, I ain't bothered if someone wants to be involved with a married person or not. It's a choice! No one should dictate to anyone else who is right or wrong in this situation, it's an individual choice
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"No different to someone having their eyebrows or lip waxed regularly.."
It is different though, the women who wax their lips or eyebrows are usually sexually active or open to being sexually active. You have zero evidence to suggest otherwise.
Next you will expect me to believe that women clean the inside of their anal cavity out of habit. That it does not mean they are expecting to be rimmed and have anal sex. |
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By *ergalMan
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"If I was in the artic, I'd still groom
You would be in the minority, look at photos of men who visited the place for research, they all end up wild haired with unkempt beards.
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That's more to do with the weather to be fair! |
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"No different to someone having their eyebrows or lip waxed regularly..
It is different though, the women who wax their lips or eyebrows are usually sexually active or open to being sexually active. You have zero evidence to suggest otherwise.
Next you will expect me to believe that women clean the inside of their anal cavity out of habit. That it does not mean they are expecting to be rimmed and have anal sex."
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"I don't really believe married men go around with condoms in their pockets. I also don't believe people continue to groom if they are not at least hopeful of sex.
Really? You really think that?
Its not really a belief, its a statistical fact that they don't carry protection.
For example, in HIV awareness websites, the gay community are warned to take care with men married to women, cheating due to the statistical fact that they are less common to have protection.
Its a fact, its your opinion that the fact is wrong, which is fine.
As for grooming, that is opinion based on what women have told me. It's nothing to do with being married its to do with being sexually active. A girlfriend of mine told me "If my pussy is shaved and I am not having sex with you, I am having it with someone else, cause thats the only reason for me to shave it".
I have asked other women since, they agreed.
So I will ask you. You have decided you wont have sex for a year, you wont be seen naked by anyone, You are going to live on your own in a science facility in the artic. Would you still end up with a bit of a bush, or would you still groom?"
Still groom. It’s my preference. |
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