Just to point out... I don't think the 2 guys who mentioned you being straight/meeting a tv/ts were having a pop at you or anyone else OP... I think they were just pointing out that some ladies and couples might be put off by it, as many say they won't meet bi males. Yes... Your profile and your choices, but they were just making you aware that you might find it limiting

Perhaps ask the lady whom you also met with to verify you too?

I think this is also a reflection of why guys are reluctant to verify each other after Socials, etc., because at first glance, it may project the wrong impression.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to point out... I don't think the 2 guys who mentioned you being straight/meeting a tv/ts were having a pop at you or anyone else OP... I think they were just pointing out that some ladies and couples might be put off by it, as many say they won't meet bi males. Yes... Your profile and your choices, but they were just making you aware that you might find it limiting

Perhaps ask the lady whom you also met with to verify you too?

I think this is also a reflection of why guys are reluctant to verify each other after Socials, etc., because at first glance, it may project the wrong impression. "

You're so right!

I have noticed the pattern that even after m&g's guys don't verify each other at all

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By *eelum1988Man over a year ago

Dublin

Perhaps ask the lady whom you also met with to verify you too?

I think this is also a reflection of why guys are reluctant to verify each other after Socials, etc., because at first glance, it may project the wrong impression. "

for sure some of the women won't meet with whos has meet with tv/ts before...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can see how people night get put off by it, especially when they have a volume of messages to get through.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for yous are help

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By *cottybear74Man over a year ago

kilkenny

Perhaps ask the lady whom you also met with to verify you too?

I think this is also a reflection of why guys are reluctant to verify each other after Socials, etc., because at first glance, it may project the wrong impression. "

There was 30 guys at my social in July and not one verified me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well I changed my profile so hopefully some ladies will be interested

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

"There was 30 guys at my social in July and not one verified me. "

Did you verify them? Did they display your veri? Do they still display their summary?

People jump to conclusions on Fab. There are few of us who actually read veris. Snap judgements are unfortunately made... The way I look at it though is that those who make snap judgements aren't really those I want to meet anyway, so if the volume or sources of my veris put them off, they're doing me a favour

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By *reland8Man over a year ago

sandyford

Perhaps ask the lady whom you also met with to verify you too?

I think this is also a reflection of why guys are reluctant to verify each other after Socials, etc., because at first glance, it may project the wrong impression.

for sure some of the women won't meet with whos has meet with tv/ts before..."

So hide who you are to maybe get more meets?

If people don’t want to meet because ur bi or have have viri from ts or for whatever reason, then it’s just not meant to be....

Its not a reason to hide or morph what you are or you’ll end up with the wrong person and not having the type of fun you want.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

Perhaps ask the lady whom you also met with to verify you too?

I think this is also a reflection of why guys are reluctant to verify each other after Socials, etc., because at first glance, it may project the wrong impression.

for sure some of the women won't meet with whos has meet with tv/ts before...

So hide who you are to maybe get more meets?

If people don’t want to meet because ur bi or have have viri from ts or for whatever reason, then it’s just not meant to be....

Its not a reason to hide or morph what you are or you’ll end up with the wrong person and not having the type of fun you want."

This thread wasn't about hiding who anyone is. The OP wondered why he was having difficulties and people gave reasons. It was more about how he was being perceived than who he is... Which are not always the same thing

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By *reland8Man over a year ago

sandyford

Perhaps ask the lady whom you also met with to verify you too?

I think this is also a reflection of why guys are reluctant to verify each other after Socials, etc., because at first glance, it may project the wrong impression.

for sure some of the women won't meet with whos has meet with tv/ts before...

So hide who you are to maybe get more meets?

If people don’t want to meet because ur bi or have have viri from ts or for whatever reason, then it’s just not meant to be....

Its not a reason to hide or morph what you are or you’ll end up with the wrong person and not having the type of fun you want.

I know.... but someone said “you got ur first veri from a ts

” as if it’s a bad thing.

And “it’s a bit weird if ur profile has straight tho” as if he should label himself correctly!

All I’m saying if veri give an impression of who you are, and someone doesn’t like that impression then it’s not meant to be. Don’t hide viri , my opinion anyway.

I’ve thought about change bi to straight as I like women too obviously but some are turned off by bi... but won’t as I don’t want to meet those women. I’ve nothing against them, that’s their prerogative. But they aren’t into me really then.. or if we clicked and then down the line they realise I’d like a mmf threesome it would be a waste of time lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok I hear yis, anyhow I'm still available

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By *asterIrelandMan over a year ago

Tipperary

I have male verification on my profile and i left verifications on male profiles... Don't see the problem... As said already, if people wants to just assume... Well... Next please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You could state in your profile bio that you have veris from TV, male, whoever....but they aren't people you had fun with or have intention to, only women, MF couples etc. Just people you chatted to and had a laugh with at Socials....?

You shouldn't have to of course but seems only way around it cause as the previous have stated, they see verify from male/TV and won't read what it says, diriculous! Ha

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