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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Mine is couples profiles and there’s zero pics of him
I’m bi so gonna be interested in both! Therefore want to see both in pics
What’s your fab pet hate? |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
Dublin |
"People who don't respond or read your initial message or your last message.
A polite no thank you would make it plain what the situation is."
No reply is a response. It means not interested. It's in the rules. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women who send me pics of their vagina’s. Some of them are like they’ve been played with by a bulldog for a few hours and then some are beautiful and I’d love to have a little taste but I’d rather see their face first. |
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By *ucky24Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"People who don't respond or read your initial message or your last message.
A polite no thank you would make it plain what the situation is.
No reply is a response. It means not interested. It's in the rules. "
Sorry didn't see that rule as technically not a member.
The point I was making is that if a conversation ensues it is the not responding to the last message which leaves the doubt.
Simple courtesy is all. Difficult enough being a single guy on here. |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
Dublin |
"People who don't respond or read your initial message or your last message.
A polite no thank you would make it plain what the situation is.
No reply is a response. It means not interested. It's in the rules.
Sorry didn't see that rule as technically not a member.
The point I was making is that if a conversation ensues it is the not responding to the last message which leaves the doubt.
Simple courtesy is all. Difficult enough being a single guy on here."
Leaving a conversation mid chat is totally different, but depends how it stopped. Some conversations just die off naturally. But hard to say without knowing the conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who don't respond or read your initial message or your last message.
A polite no thank you would make it plain what the situation is.
No reply is a response. It means not interested. It's in the rules.
Sorry didn't see that rule as technically not a member.
The point I was making is that if a conversation ensues it is the not responding to the last message which leaves the doubt.
Simple courtesy is all. Difficult enough being a single guy on here."
That last paragraph is one of mine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine is couples profiles and there’s zero pics of him
I’m bi so gonna be interested in both! Therefore want to see both in pics
What’s your fab pet hate?"
We leave Mr s pics in friends only his chouce |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mine is couples profiles and there’s zero pics of him
I’m bi so gonna be interested in both! Therefore want to see both in pics
What’s your fab pet hate?
We leave Mr s pics in friends only his chouce"
I’m all for personal choice may I ask if you message a bi woman looking for potential meet do you send pics of you both? |
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By *ucky24Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"People who don't respond or read your initial message or your last message.
A polite no thank you would make it plain what the situation is.
No reply is a response. It means not interested. It's in the rules.
Sorry didn't see that rule as technically not a member.
The point I was making is that if a conversation ensues it is the not responding to the last message which leaves the doubt.
Simple courtesy is all. Difficult enough being a single guy on here.
Leaving a conversation mid chat is totally different, but depends how it stopped. Some conversations just die off naturally. But hard to say without knowing the conversation. "
Fully understand but the sender is left wondering did he go in too strong or direct or went in too light or more direct enough.
Previously on this forum women have asked guys to up their game, well how do we do that if we don't know how to play?
Oh please spare the witty banter lol |
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By *ucky24Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"People who don't respond or read your initial message or your last message.
A polite no thank you would make it plain what the situation is.
No reply is a response. It means not interested. It's in the rules.
Sorry didn't see that rule as technically not a member.
The point I was making is that if a conversation ensues it is the not responding to the last message which leaves the doubt.
Simple courtesy is all. Difficult enough being a single guy on here.
That last paragraph is one of mine "
Short , no chance on claiming that one, that is part of my code.
There is a saying where I'm from "manners cost nothing"
But glad to see that someone else thinks the same way regards manners. |
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"People who cannot read profiles or read and choose to ignore what it says.
Especially the ones who ignore that pop-up that this person is not looking to meet people of this gender."
That's a little annoying alright, or when you know someone has messaged you before but you didn't reply, and they keep on messaging despite getting a pop up warning to 'stop and think' each time they do, because you hadn't replied previously. I think ignoring warnings like that says a lot about someone's attitude. |
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"People who don't respond or read your initial message or your last message.
A polite no thank you would make it plain what the situation is.
No reply is a response. It means not interested. It's in the rules.
Sorry didn't see that rule as technically not a member.
The point I was making is that if a conversation ensues it is the not responding to the last message which leaves the doubt.
Simple courtesy is all. Difficult enough being a single guy on here.
Leaving a conversation mid chat is totally different, but depends how it stopped. Some conversations just die off naturally. But hard to say without knowing the conversation.
Fully understand but the sender is left wondering did he go in too strong or direct or went in too light or more direct enough.
Previously on this forum women have asked guys to up their game, well how do we do that if we don't know how to play?
Oh please spare the witty banter lol"
It's not as if you can ask them to fill out a feedback form.
Was I
A: Coming on too strong.
B: You found me Boring
C: Someone else caught your attention.
D: Other (please fill in below)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Simple courtesy is all. Difficult enough being a single guy on here.
That last paragraph is one of mine
Short , no chance on claiming that one, that is part of my code.
There is a saying where I'm from "manners cost nothing"
But glad to see that someone else thinks the same way regards manners."
Sorry I ment the assumption that anyone owes anyone else a reply.
And also that its difficult on hete for reasons beyond your own control |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When they send you a message with a load of question marks because you didnt reply!!!  "
I figured this out if they aren’t a site supporter or use emojis from keyboards it comes up as ?? |
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"People who cannot read profiles or read and choose to ignore what it says.
Especially the ones who ignore that pop-up that this person is not looking to meet people of this gender.
That's a little annoying alright, or when you know someone has messaged you before but you didn't reply, and they keep on messaging despite getting a pop up warning to 'stop and think' each time they do, because you hadn't replied previously. I think ignoring warnings like that says a lot about someone's attitude. "
It does. I get mails from guys and it's like did you not see the warning before you told me you'd like to suck my dick? Also a sure fire way to know they can't read profiles either. |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
Dublin |
"People who don't respond or read your initial message or your last message.
A polite no thank you would make it plain what the situation is.
No reply is a response. It means not interested. It's in the rules.
Sorry didn't see that rule as technically not a member.
The point I was making is that if a conversation ensues it is the not responding to the last message which leaves the doubt.
Simple courtesy is all. Difficult enough being a single guy on here.
Leaving a conversation mid chat is totally different, but depends how it stopped. Some conversations just die off naturally. But hard to say without knowing the conversation.
Fully understand but the sender is left wondering did he go in too strong or direct or went in too light or more direct enough.
Previously on this forum women have asked guys to up their game, well how do we do that if we don't know how to play?
Oh please spare the witty banter lol"
I understand and that sounds fair in theory, but if one had to do that for every message from people they weren't interested in it would be a full time job for some. |
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"Fab pet hate has to b the 99% of mail that addresses the lady as if she’s on a single profile.....
Sure fire way to a quick block "
Same here! It’s so annoying
We just auto delete those messages, as well as the ones who just say “Hi”
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"People who don't respond or read your initial message or your last message.
A polite no thank you would make it plain what the situation is.
No reply is a response. It means not interested. It's in the rules.
Sorry didn't see that rule as technically not a member.
The point I was making is that if a conversation ensues it is the not responding to the last message which leaves the doubt.
Simple courtesy is all. Difficult enough being a single guy on here.
Leaving a conversation mid chat is totally different, but depends how it stopped. Some conversations just die off naturally. But hard to say without knowing the conversation.
Fully understand but the sender is left wondering did he go in too strong or direct or went in too light or more direct enough.
Previously on this forum women have asked guys to up their game, well how do we do that if we don't know how to play?
Oh please spare the witty banter lol
I understand and that sounds fair in theory, but if one had to do that for every message from people they weren't interested in it would be a full time job for some. "
Yup 
Frankly I'm getting tired of seeing threads and status messages about how rude it is not to reply to every single mail. As previously stated, I have over 200 unopened messages in my inbox right now requesting meets... Even though my profile clearly states that I'm not meeting. Why should I feel obliged to reply to any of them?? I read and reply to friends, to forum mail and to mail pertaining to Socials... That's plenty!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think my biggest pet hate is a guy sending pics of him having sex with another woman .
It's good to know you have had sex but no interest in seeing the pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People not reading profiles or just blatantly ignoring my choices, pushy guys. And people who end every single forum post with 
Not sure why it irritates me it just does.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think my biggest pet hate is a guy sending pics of him having sex with another woman .
It's good to know you have had sex but no interest in seeing the pics"
Deffo don’t need to see 10 pics of them having their cock sucked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seeing a profile you really like and then read "not looking for single guys" it's devastating haha
Where are all the people who want me lol
Ha ha "
It's devastating like, haha  |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
People complaining about unwanted mails, pics, friend requests etc. The delete and block buttons are very accessible, not to mention filters. Plus friend requests go into a separate area so you don’t even need to look at them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Know it alls. No matter what the topic, there they are dishing out the advise. Particularly see it on any thread involving D/s or similar topics. They know it all while casually dropping in a 'wannabe Dom' comment as if they're the only ones that knows anything and everyone else doesn't have a clue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate when we get mails off people and they're only addressed to Gary. Especially ones that just refer to me as "the slut" or some other wonderful derogatory term. Grinds my gears something fierce! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hate when we get mails off people and they're only addressed to Gary. Especially ones that just refer to me as "the slut" or some other wonderful derogatory term. Grinds my gears something fierce!"
Wow not surprising! |
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"Know it alls. No matter what the topic, there they are dishing out the advise. Particularly see it on any thread involving D/s or similar topics. They know it all while casually dropping in a 'wannabe Dom' comment as if they're the only ones that knows anything and everyone else doesn't have a clue."
In fairness the amount of "wannabe" doms on here is staggering. I blame 50 shades. If you have had any experience in BDSM you can spot them a mile away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate when we get mails off people and they're only addressed to Gary. Especially ones that just refer to me as "the slut" or some other wonderful derogatory term. Grinds my gears something fierce!"
Or mails saying what they'd like to do to her !! Yuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Know it alls. No matter what the topic, there they are dishing out the advise. Particularly see it on any thread involving D/s or similar topics. They know it all while casually dropping in a 'wannabe Dom' comment as if they're the only ones that knows anything and everyone else doesn't have a clue.
In fairness the amount of "wannabe" doms on here is staggering. I blame 50 shades. If you have had any experience in BDSM you can spot them a mile away. "
Was it when I told.you I was gonna spank you while hanging you out the edge of my helicopter? |
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"Know it alls. No matter what the topic, there they are dishing out the advise. Particularly see it on any thread involving D/s or similar topics. They know it all while casually dropping in a 'wannabe Dom' comment as if they're the only ones that knows anything and everyone else doesn't have a clue.
In fairness the amount of "wannabe" doms on here is staggering. I blame 50 shades. If you have had any experience in BDSM you can spot them a mile away.
Was it when I told.you I was gonna spank you while hanging you out the edge of my helicopter?"
Yes. But Stop calling your cock a helicopter. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Know it alls. No matter what the topic, there they are dishing out the advise. Particularly see it on any thread involving D/s or similar topics. They know it all while casually dropping in a 'wannabe Dom' comment as if they're the only ones that knows anything and everyone else doesn't have a clue.
In fairness the amount of "wannabe" doms on here is staggering. I blame 50 shades. If you have had any experience in BDSM you can spot them a mile away. "
100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Know it alls. No matter what the topic, there they are dishing out the advise. Particularly see it on any thread involving D/s or similar topics. They know it all while casually dropping in a 'wannabe Dom' comment as if they're the only ones that knows anything and everyone else doesn't have a clue.
In fairness the amount of "wannabe" doms on here is staggering. I blame 50 shades. If you have had any experience in BDSM you can spot them a mile away.
Was it when I told.you I was gonna spank you while hanging you out the edge of my helicopter?
Yes. But Stop calling your cock a helicopter. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who describe themselves as "experienced in sex" - yes Peter, you're 37, I'm sure you have had sex by now.
"Genuine, nice guys" - let me decide that.
"I want you to fuck my husband/boyfriend" - no photos, no interaction, not a clue who you and your husband/boyfriend are.
"We chatter before..." - no we didn't. It shows you that I've previously replied. I was being nice, saying no thank you.
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A few
Lads where their fine chests an big cocks out hmmmm hell ya. then with silly socks on up to their knees. You where doing so well till that.
Hi messages. Grrrr
I dont like couples however a couple in my eyes is two people how come theres only the female in the photos?
Winks winks winks winks a lazy way of messaging someone I could get 20 winks a day no thanks I ain't going true all of that.
Single male or female profiles but say I only play as part of a couple (this is our username) wtf?
Liers I hate them be honest if your attached so be it.
Guys meeting other guys/tvs/cds then they say I am 100 percent straight emmm dont think so.
Verifications from the same people over an over an over again seeing each other at socials why the need for the repeat of the same verifications. Doesnt make sense to me.
The subject of of bareback threads why the need for them!! And why the need to judge others an have dig at them. Every BB thread its the same digging in the face type thing. Thats their thing I aint gonna stop up I'll avoid them though block move on..
Ohh an the meet now in a hotel or meet now in the car an so on yup hang on there I'll jump to your needs lol.
And guys constantly putting up threads how can I get verified how can I meet someone what can I do to my profile. Honest guys its not a knider garden your in.
Probably more to add to that list but there definitely the ones that stand out the most. I may seem a little angry but its fact. Saying that not having the best of days to be fair |
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All the Fab members who don't join in or know that the forums are here.
Also, that anyone who doesn't pay Membership can do so much on here. They should only be allowed look but don't touch/ contact. |
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"All the Fab members who don't join in or know that the forums are here.
Also, that anyone who doesn't pay Membership can do so much on here. They should only be allowed look but don't touch/ contact."
why I dont pay for the membership I only use this for hook ups. I dont want the benefits that you may get. And I am not comfortable handing over my credit card details online. I have never used my credit card online I'm not going to start either. Just saying |
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"All the Fab members who don't join in or know that the forums are here.
Also, that anyone who doesn't pay Membership can do so much on here. They should only be allowed look but don't touch/ contact. why I dont pay for the membership I only use this for hook ups. I dont want the benefits that you may get. And I am not comfortable handing over my credit card details online. I have never used my credit card online I'm not going to start either. Just saying "
Get one of the free temporary credit cards you top up like a mobile |
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"All the Fab members who don't join in or know that the forums are here.
Also, that anyone who doesn't pay Membership can do so much on here. They should only be allowed look but don't touch/ contact. why I dont pay for the membership I only use this for hook ups. I dont want the benefits that you may get. And I am not comfortable handing over my credit card details online. I have never used my credit card online I'm not going to start either. Just saying
Get one of the free temporary credit cards you top up like a mobile "
I pay once a year.
Much cheaper and it's my crimbo present to myself.
Shows up as expos or something. 30squids, not noticed.
Spirit in the Sky in Nova now |
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"All the Fab members who don't join in or know that the forums are here.
Also, that anyone who doesn't pay Membership can do so much on here. They should only be allowed look but don't touch/ contact. why I dont pay for the membership I only use this for hook ups. I dont want the benefits that you may get. And I am not comfortable handing over my credit card details online. I have never used my credit card online I'm not going to start either. Just saying
Get one of the free temporary credit cards you top up like a mobile
I pay once a year.
Much cheaper and it's my crimbo present to myself.
Shows up as expos or something. 30squids, not noticed.
Spirit in the Sky in Nova now "
well thats you others like myself dont trust online payments plus I wouldn't pay for something I dont use in everyday life this is just a cherry in the ice cream for me. For you could be different and your getting your moneys worth for me nope. |
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"All the Fab members who don't join in or know that the forums are here.
Also, that anyone who doesn't pay Membership can do so much on here. They should only be allowed look but don't touch/ contact. why I dont pay for the membership I only use this for hook ups. I dont want the benefits that you may get. And I am not comfortable handing over my credit card details online. I have never used my credit card online I'm not going to start either. Just saying
Get one of the free temporary credit cards you top up like a mobile
I pay once a year.
Much cheaper and it's my crimbo present to myself.
Shows up as expos or something. 30squids, not noticed.
Spirit in the Sky in Nova now well thats you others like myself dont trust online payments plus I wouldn't pay for something I dont use in everyday life this is just a cherry in the ice cream for me. For you could be different and your getting your moneys worth for me nope. "
You have a mobile?
That you top up at a counter?
These cards are the same |
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"All the Fab members who don't join in or know that the forums are here.
Also, that anyone who doesn't pay Membership can do so much on here. They should only be allowed look but don't touch/ contact. why I dont pay for the membership I only use this for hook ups. I dont want the benefits that you may get. And I am not comfortable handing over my credit card details online. I have never used my credit card online I'm not going to start either. Just saying
Get one of the free temporary credit cards you top up like a mobile
I pay once a year.
Much cheaper and it's my crimbo present to myself.
Shows up as expos or something. 30squids, not noticed.
Spirit in the Sky in Nova now well thats you others like myself dont trust online payments plus I wouldn't pay for something I dont use in everyday life this is just a cherry in the ice cream for me. For you could be different and your getting your moneys worth for me nope.
You have a mobile?
That you top up at a counter?
These cards are the same "
you must have missed the part that I said (I only use this for hookups) noting more noting less something I wont pay for. Thats basically saying I am paying for sex! Im not here for socials im a single girl looking for an odd fuck every now an again I dont see the need or be made to pay for it... and thats just effort of going to the post office fill it out getting it up and running then coming home then putting it true here just for an odd fuck. Seems a bit extreme if you ask me.. what has my mobile got to do with it im a bill pay costumer with my home phone tv an broadband just so you know |
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"All the Fab members who don't join in or know that the forums are here.
Also, that anyone who doesn't pay Membership can do so much on here. They should only be allowed look but don't touch/ contact. why I dont pay for the membership I only use this for hook ups. I dont want the benefits that you may get. And I am not comfortable handing over my credit card details online. I have never used my credit card online I'm not going to start either. Just saying
Get one of the free temporary credit cards you top up like a mobile
I pay once a year.
Much cheaper and it's my crimbo present to myself.
Shows up as expos or something. 30squids, not noticed.
Spirit in the Sky in Nova now well thats you others like myself dont trust online payments plus I wouldn't pay for something I dont use in everyday life this is just a cherry in the ice cream for me. For you could be different and your getting your moneys worth for me nope.
You have a mobile?
That you top up at a counter?
These cards are the same you must have missed the part that I said (I only use this for hookups) noting more noting less something I wont pay for. Thats basically saying I am paying for sex! Im not here for socials im a single girl looking for an odd fuck every now an again I dont see the need or be made to pay for it... and thats just effort of going to the post office fill it out getting it up and running then coming home then putting it true here just for an odd fuck. Seems a bit extreme if you ask me.. what has my mobile got to do with it im a bill pay costumer with my home phone tv an broadband just so you know "
Got ya
I understand your perspective |
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"All the Fab members who don't join in or know that the forums are here.
Also, that anyone who doesn't pay Membership can do so much on here. They should only be allowed look but don't touch/ contact. why I dont pay for the membership I only use this for hook ups. I dont want the benefits that you may get. And I am not comfortable handing over my credit card details online. I have never used my credit card online I'm not going to start either. Just saying
Get one of the free temporary credit cards you top up like a mobile
I pay once a year.
Much cheaper and it's my crimbo present to myself.
Shows up as expos or something. 30squids, not noticed.
Spirit in the Sky in Nova now well thats you others like myself dont trust online payments plus I wouldn't pay for something I dont use in everyday life this is just a cherry in the ice cream for me. For you could be different and your getting your moneys worth for me nope.
You have a mobile?
That you top up at a counter?
These cards are the same you must have missed the part that I said (I only use this for hookups) noting more noting less something I wont pay for. Thats basically saying I am paying for sex! Im not here for socials im a single girl looking for an odd fuck every now an again I dont see the need or be made to pay for it... and thats just effort of going to the post office fill it out getting it up and running then coming home then putting it true here just for an odd fuck. Seems a bit extreme if you ask me.. what has my mobile got to do with it im a bill pay costumer with my home phone tv an broadband just so you know
Got ya
I understand your perspective "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People that send messages asking what were into!
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Oh my God so annoying. How do you even answer that? Eh well look at my what I'm into section and go from there :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh and what are u on fab for....seriously what to you think few.. my reply to this is always the same...live marriage commitment with the hope of children one day....like seriously why you think we are on fab..to explore our sexual side and get rode to death
That's just me tho lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the Fab members who don't join in or know that the forums are here.
Also, that anyone who doesn't pay Membership can do so much on here. They should only be allowed look but don't touch/ contact."
So basically turn it into every other swinging/adult site on the internet? Goes against why the site was set up in the first place |
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"Mine is couples profiles and there’s zero pics of him
I’m bi so gonna be interested in both! Therefore want to see both in pics
What’s your fab pet hate?"
Yes!! Totally agree. Kinna quilty of it ourselbes, I know. But often the clinger in a potential meet. Need more male couple pics. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mine is couples profiles and there’s zero pics of him
I’m bi so gonna be interested in both! Therefore want to see both in pics
What’s your fab pet hate?
Yes!! Totally agree. Kinna quilty of it ourselbes, I know. But often the clinger in a potential meet. Need more male couple pics. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The need to put the word Genuine in a profile ....
if your a fake your probably not going to have fake single lady ,when your infact a hairy ass brickie called dave "
Or the need to use the word NSA  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Copy and paste messages!!! God they do my head in. Half of them where sent to couples previously and not edited properly
And the hate mail you get cos you don’t fancy someone ( yeah ok I asked for a face pic but I’m not going to send mine back if I don’t fancy you)
Some men on here as old as they are need to grow up!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Profiles saying make an effort in a first message, then get a smart ass short reply when you do. Probably fake profiles to start with anyway ?? "
People who "make effort" by being rude and completely disregard one's listed out preferences, then get a rude response and moan about it (not you, personally. I don't know you) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the Fab members who don't join in or know that the forums are here.
Also, that anyone who doesn't pay Membership can do so much on here. They should only be allowed look but don't touch/ contact."
An awful lot of Fab member do try and use the forums and the Ireland chat room but are generally ignored so they give up and rarely bother again.
Just saying |
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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago
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"People that send messages asking what were into!
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I agree....it's always a strange question to which I normally reply just normal passionate sex with gorgeous women.... obvious really...no need to ask.....if I was into fet or BDSM I'm sure I'd state it on my profile. |
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I have a new peeve today.... Cowards who set up a fake profile just to send a nasty message and then delete again. Grow a pair and tell me I'm an ugly gee bag cunt without running away and hiding again next time... Oh and also I took pig in lipstick as a compliment by the way... Pigs are quite intelligent you know |
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"I have a new peeve today.... Cowards who set up a fake profile just to send a nasty message and then delete again. Grow a pair and tell me I'm an ugly gee bag cunt without running away and hiding again next time... Oh and also I took pig in lipstick as a compliment by the way... Pigs are quite intelligent you know "
Pathetic, I had a guy (said with hesitancy I may add) in the last two weeks send me nasty messages from 3 separate profiles, each time I blocked he came back with another profile...seriously! Wasters!!!! |
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"I have a new peeve today.... Cowards who set up a fake profile just to send a nasty message and then delete again. Grow a pair and tell me I'm an ugly gee bag cunt without running away and hiding again next time... Oh and also I took pig in lipstick as a compliment by the way... Pigs are quite intelligent you know
Pathetic, I had a guy (said with hesitancy I may add) in the last two weeks send me nasty messages from 3 separate profiles, each time I blocked he came back with another profile...seriously! Wasters!!!! "
Nasty people and no need for it  |
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"I have a new peeve today.... Cowards who set up a fake profile just to send a nasty message and then delete again. Grow a pair and tell me I'm an ugly gee bag cunt without running away and hiding again next time... Oh and also I took pig in lipstick as a compliment by the way... Pigs are quite intelligent you know
Pathetic, I had a guy (said with hesitancy I may add) in the last two weeks send me nasty messages from 3 separate profiles, each time I blocked he came back with another profile...seriously! Wasters!!!!
Nasty people and no need for it "
Seems she mailed other people about me too... I've just had a message from someone I've never met or even spoken to before who was just as bewildered as I am to get a message about me |
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"People who don't respond or read your initial message or your last message.
A polite no thank you would make it plain what the situation is.
No reply is a response. It means not interested. It's in the rules. "
Well then the rules are wrong and should be changed.
Most of us are better then that and could acknowledge someone if even to say “thank you but am not interested”
I think particularly having chatted to or met someone and then no response is especially brutal, and again I would think most people are better than that and the rules are wrong and people should have their own code of decent behavior and respond if even just to say “thanks but no thanks”
I think it’s a measure of how meaningless some people consider the perspective of another person that they think these rules are ok.
Obviously I appreciate if some women, couples or men for that matter are so hot and sought after that they are are overwhelmed by the amount of messages they receive and couldn’t possibly read or reply to all the hundreds of interested people messaging them.. but everyone else not responding is questionable and to rationalise that by saying “ it’s the rules” doesn’t make it right..  |
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"People who don't respond or read your initial message or your last message.
A polite no thank you would make it plain what the situation is.
No reply is a response. It means not interested. It's in the rules.
Well then the rules are wrong and should be changed.
Most of us are better then that and could acknowledge someone if even to say “thank you but am not interested”
I think particularly having chatted to or met someone and then no response is especially brutal, and again I would think most people are better than that and the rules are wrong and people should have their own code of decent behavior and respond if even just to say “thanks but no thanks”
I think it’s a measure of how meaningless some people consider the perspective of another person that they think these rules are ok.
Obviously I appreciate if some women, couples or men for that matter are so hot and sought after that they are are overwhelmed by the amount of messages they receive and couldn’t possibly read or reply to all the hundreds of interested people messaging them.. but everyone else not responding is questionable and to rationalise that by saying “ it’s the rules” doesn’t make it right.. "
So its alright for the popular guys on here not to answer everyone but not so for the ones that are not
How do you decide which rule applies to you
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"People who don't respond or read your initial message or your last message.
A polite no thank you would make it plain what the situation is.
No reply is a response. It means not interested. It's in the rules.
Well then the rules are wrong and should be changed.
Most of us are better then that and could acknowledge someone if even to say “thank you but am not interested”
I think particularly having chatted to or met someone and then no response is especially brutal, and again I would think most people are better than that and the rules are wrong and people should have their own code of decent behavior and respond if even just to say “thanks but no thanks”
I think it’s a measure of how meaningless some people consider the perspective of another person that they think these rules are ok.
Obviously I appreciate if some women, couples or men for that matter are so hot and sought after that they are are overwhelmed by the amount of messages they receive and couldn’t possibly read or reply to all the hundreds of interested people messaging them.. but everyone else not responding is questionable and to rationalise that by saying “ it’s the rules” doesn’t make it right.. "
So who decides who is so hot that it's acceptable for them not to have to respond, and who should have to? |
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"People who don't respond or read your initial message or your last message.
A polite no thank you would make it plain what the situation is.
No reply is a response. It means not interested. It's in the rules.
Well then the rules are wrong and should be changed.
Most of us are better then that and could acknowledge someone if even to say “thank you but am not interested”
I think particularly having chatted to or met someone and then no response is especially brutal, and again I would think most people are better than that and the rules are wrong and people should have their own code of decent behavior and respond if even just to say “thanks but no thanks”
I think it’s a measure of how meaningless some people consider the perspective of another person that they think these rules are ok.
Obviously I appreciate if some women, couples or men for that matter are so hot and sought after that they are are overwhelmed by the amount of messages they receive and couldn’t possibly read or reply to all the hundreds of interested people messaging them.. but everyone else not responding is questionable and to rationalise that by saying “ it’s the rules” doesn’t make it right..
So who decides who is so hot that it's acceptable for them not to have to respond, and who should have to? "
It’s the individual or couple themselves who decide obviously how hot or important they are...and hence the need or not to respond to the masses messaging them. |
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the peeps on here that wouldn't warrant a second glance on the street yet other peeps go on like they are stunners and the over Inflated egos that result from it. Then there's the dudes who are part of couples that see the female as a master key to get what they want but scoff at single males. Finally there's the fact I'm on here but hey I'm fucking amazing so anyone doesn't appreciate it can suck my balls. |
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"All the Fab members who don't join in or know that the forums are here.
Also, that anyone who doesn't pay Membership can do so much on here. They should only be allowed look but don't touch/ contact.
An awful lot of Fab member do try and use the forums and the Ireland chat room but are generally ignored so they give up and rarely bother again.
Just saying "
You are not being ignored.
All views have same importance but may not get responded to directly.
A lot of forumites don't use the Reply and Comment button, annoyingly |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
Dublin |
"People who don't respond or read your initial message or your last message.
A polite no thank you would make it plain what the situation is.
No reply is a response. It means not interested. It's in the rules.
Well then the rules are wrong and should be changed.
Most of us are better then that and could acknowledge someone if even to say “thank you but am not interested”
I think particularly having chatted to or met someone and then no response is especially brutal, and again I would think most people are better than that and the rules are wrong and people should have their own code of decent behavior and respond if even just to say “thanks but no thanks”
I think it’s a measure of how meaningless some people consider the perspective of another person that they think these rules are ok.
Obviously I appreciate if some women, couples or men for that matter are so hot and sought after that they are are overwhelmed by the amount of messages they receive and couldn’t possibly read or reply to all the hundreds of interested people messaging them.. but everyone else not responding is questionable and to rationalise that by saying “ it’s the rules” doesn’t make it right.. "
Unfortunately this is an old complaint and one that is addressed regularly. It is not about manners or one thinking they are better, hotter or more popuplar than anyone else. It's actually practical. Unfortunately a common occurence here is that a thanks but no thanks generally results in numerous other messages and in some cases results in a barrage of insults. I don't read or respond to messages where the sender clearly has not read my profile. I have no illusions about myself and just because I don't turn heads in real life doesn't mean I should be grateful or thankful for any and all attention I get here. Yes we are people behind the keyboards but still strangers. We don't have to talk to everyone in a bar or club, we don't read and respond to all the unsolisited mail that comes through our doors or spam our emails either, why would here be different. You don't have to like the rules but you do have to accept and respect them. Peace people. |
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"People who don't respond or read your initial message or your last message.
A polite no thank you would make it plain what the situation is.
No reply is a response. It means not interested. It's in the rules.
Well then the rules are wrong and should be changed.
Most of us are better then that and could acknowledge someone if even to say “thank you but am not interested”
I think particularly having chatted to or met someone and then no response is especially brutal, and again I would think most people are better than that and the rules are wrong and people should have their own code of decent behavior and respond if even just to say “thanks but no thanks”
I think it’s a measure of how meaningless some people consider the perspective of another person that they think these rules are ok.
Obviously I appreciate if some women, couples or men for that matter are so hot and sought after that they are are overwhelmed by the amount of messages they receive and couldn’t possibly read or reply to all the hundreds of interested people messaging them.. but everyone else not responding is questionable and to rationalise that by saying “ it’s the rules” doesn’t make it right..
Unfortunately this is an old complaint and one that is addressed regularly. It is not about manners or one thinking they are better, hotter or more popuplar than anyone else. It's actually practical. Unfortunately a common occurence here is that a thanks but no thanks generally results in numerous other messages and in some cases results in a barrage of insults. I don't read or respond to messages where the sender clearly has not read my profile. I have no illusions about myself and just because I don't turn heads in real life doesn't mean I should be grateful or thankful for any and all attention I get here. Yes we are people behind the keyboards but still strangers. We don't have to talk to everyone in a bar or club, we don't read and respond to all the unsolisited mail that comes through our doors or spam our emails either, why would here be different. You don't have to like the rules but you do have to accept and respect them. Peace people. "
Good response and Yes, the rules are the rules.
There for a reason and anyone feeling like debating them should be commenting on the Fabswingers Site thread, not here |
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"People who don't respond or read your initial message or your last message.
A polite no thank you would make it plain what the situation is.
No reply is a response. It means not interested. It's in the rules.
Well then the rules are wrong and should be changed.
Most of us are better then that and could acknowledge someone if even to say “thank you but am not interested”
I think particularly having chatted to or met someone and then no response is especially brutal, and again I would think most people are better than that and the rules are wrong and people should have their own code of decent behavior and respond if even just to say “thanks but no thanks”
I think it’s a measure of how meaningless some people consider the perspective of another person that they think these rules are ok.
Obviously I appreciate if some women, couples or men for that matter are so hot and sought after that they are are overwhelmed by the amount of messages they receive and couldn’t possibly read or reply to all the hundreds of interested people messaging them.. but everyone else not responding is questionable and to rationalise that by saying “ it’s the rules” doesn’t make it right..
Unfortunately this is an old complaint and one that is addressed regularly. It is not about manners or one thinking they are better, hotter or more popuplar than anyone else. It's actually practical. Unfortunately a common occurence here is that a thanks but no thanks generally results in numerous other messages and in some cases results in a barrage of insults. I don't read or respond to messages where the sender clearly has not read my profile. I have no illusions about myself and just because I don't turn heads in real life doesn't mean I should be grateful or thankful for any and all attention I get here. Yes we are people behind the keyboards but still strangers. We don't have to talk to everyone in a bar or club, we don't read and respond to all the unsolisited mail that comes through our doors or spam our emails either, why would here be different. You don't have to like the rules but you do have to accept and respect them. Peace people.
Good response and Yes, the rules are the rules.
There for a reason and anyone feeling like debating them should be commenting on the Fabswingers Site thread, not here "
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Negative threads, negative people, people who feel the need to nitpick people's profile while proclaiming how non judgemental they are, people who feel the need to hijack threads so they can get their attention fix |
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"People who add ?? to the end of each sentence. If it's not a question then it doesn't need a question mark! If it is a question then it needs only one! "
Could be emojis......if they are not paid up members and they try to use them they come up as question marks |
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over a year ago
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-liars
-forum snowflakes
-anyone being here before and knowing what the score is. What does that even mean?
-folk thinking they are some sort of sex god or authority on sex because they've been fingered, proded, lubed up, fucked, fisted, spanked, tied up, spat on, drawn on, pissed on, shat on and more, by every other person on the site.
-50,000,000 photos on the profile
-verifications.....more specifically the descriptive ones. You are verifying the genuinity (should be a word!) Of the user. Ie: they are who they portray themselves as on their profile. Simple concept really. Not for the majority! Lol. Just no need for the majority of bollocks written in these verifications.
Think that's it. |
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"-liars
-forum snowflakes
-anyone being here before and knowing what the score is. What does that even mean?
-folk thinking they are some sort of sex god or authority on sex because they've been fingered, proded, lubed up, fucked, fisted, spanked, tied up, spat on, drawn on, pissed on, shat on and more, by every other person on the site.
-50,000,000 photos on the profile
-verifications.....more specifically the descriptive ones. You are verifying the genuinity (should be a word!) Of the user. Ie: they are who they portray themselves as on their profile. Simple concept really. Not for the majority! Lol. Just no need for the majority of bollocks written in these verifications.
Think that's it. "
Have a Snickers |
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"-liars
-forum snowflakes
-anyone being here before and knowing what the score is. What does that even mean?
-folk thinking they are some sort of sex god or authority on sex because they've been fingered, proded, lubed up, fucked, fisted, spanked, tied up, spat on, drawn on, pissed on, shat on and more, by every other person on the site.
-50,000,000 photos on the profile
-verifications.....more specifically the descriptive ones. You are verifying the genuinity (should be a word!) Of the user. Ie: they are who they portray themselves as on their profile. Simple concept really. Not for the majority! Lol. Just no need for the majority of bollocks written in these verifications.
Think that's it.
Have a Snickers "
Opted for a Kitkat instead. Nom nom!  |
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"-liars
-forum snowflakes
-anyone being here before and knowing what the score is. What does that even mean?
-folk thinking they are some sort of sex god or authority on sex because they've been fingered, proded, lubed up, fucked, fisted, spanked, tied up, spat on, drawn on, pissed on, shat on and more, by every other person on the site.
-50,000,000 photos on the profile
-verifications.....more specifically the descriptive ones. You are verifying the genuinity (should be a word!) Of the user. Ie: they are who they portray themselves as on their profile. Simple concept really. Not for the majority! Lol. Just no need for the majority of bollocks written in these verifications.
Think that's it. "
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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago
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I got no specific pet hate , FAB is good for what it is and a good moan and groan will not make it better . Everyone comes with his/her own expectation , everyone has it’s on way to place oneself to market and sure as hell it doesn’t sell to everyone .
Just treat it the old way of “ If you don’t have to say anything nice then just keep your mouth shut
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"All the Fab members who don't join in or know that the forums are here.
Also, that anyone who doesn't pay Membership can do so much on here. They should only be allowed look but don't touch/ contact."
Get ta fuck outa that garden. I've paid in the past and it's not worth the fee just to see who looked at you or the ability to post a few extra photos. If you're unhappy that us cheapskates are on the site and getting meets etc then simply go to a site where only paid members get to have fun. It really is that simple x x x x x |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"All the Fab members who don't join in or know that the forums are here.
Also, that anyone who doesn't pay Membership can do so much on here. They should only be allowed look but don't touch/ contact.
Get ta fuck outa that garden. I've paid in the past and it's not worth the fee just to see who looked at you or the ability to post a few extra photos. If you're unhappy that us cheapskates are on the site and getting meets etc then simply go to a site where only paid members get to have fun. It really is that simple x x x x x"
I agree, maybe could be worded less harsh, I might add it's missing the point of the site, namely a open welcoming scene not restricted to members only. |
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"All the Fab members who don't join in or know that the forums are here.
Also, that anyone who doesn't pay Membership can do so much on here. They should only be allowed look but don't touch/ contact.
Get ta fuck outa that garden. I've paid in the past and it's not worth the fee just to see who looked at you or the ability to post a few extra photos. If you're unhappy that us cheapskates are on the site and getting meets etc then simply go to a site where only paid members get to have fun. It really is that simple x x x x x
I agree, maybe could be worded less harsh, I might add it's missing the point of the site, namely a open welcoming scene not restricted to members only. "
I really on't do any less harsh than that that was me at my politest |
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