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over a year ago
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Including the ladies??"
Well the majority of single profiles are male, but there are definitely female profiles also - equality is all the rage |
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over a year ago
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Any single male who wont show their face is cheating I would guess."
I wouldn't, some people just like privacy. |
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Any single male who wont show their face is cheating I would guess."
Might have a point. My face isn’t on my profile. Would you say the same for the ladies? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm attached but am on here alone, am upfront about it in my bio. Not too many want to get involved with attached guys I find, which is understandable. My reasons are my own, some agree with me, some don't. Other people, i'm not sure what their story is but I think it's better to be upfront here if it's discretion desired? |
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Any single male who wont show their face is cheating I would guess."
No that's not the case. Maybe some of us just don't want others who are likely to cause trouble in our personal life causing it. |
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"I'm attached but am on here alone, am upfront about it in my bio. Not too many want to get involved with attached guys I find, which is understandable. My reasons are my own, some agree with me, some don't. Other people, i'm not sure what their story is but I think it's better to be upfront here if it's discretion desired? "
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Any single male who wont show their face is cheating I would guess.
Might have a point. My face isn’t on my profile. Would you say the same for the ladies?"
Yes but to a lesser degree. Women often dont feel equal to men and are afraid to show their faces. |
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Any single male who wont show their face is cheating I would guess.
No that's not the case. Maybe some of us just don't want others who are likely to cause trouble in our personal life causing it. "
Personal trouble such as? Can you give me an example? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Any single male who wont show their face is cheating I would guess.
No that's not the case. Maybe some of us just don't want others who are likely to cause trouble in our personal life causing it.
Personal trouble such as? Can you give me an example?"
Know what's wrong with some people, being nosey and judgemental....each and to there own I say, married, attached and single.
People join fab for fun, far to many treat it like Facebook, its becoming tiresome |
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Any single male who wont show their face is cheating I would guess.
No that's not the case. Maybe some of us just don't want others who are likely to cause trouble in our personal life causing it.
Personal trouble such as? Can you give me an example?"
Outting to family and such. I actually don't think you deserve more of an answer than that. The reasons for ones anonymity shouldn't be up to question, as each has their own reason be it personal or for work reasons. My personal life is my business, and not up for discussion on a public forum.
I share my face picture privately. This doesn't mean I'm attached.
Same reason I don't display my tattoos on the site, this is for my own personal reasons.
By all means show your face publicly, that is your personal choice. Same way it is my personal choice not to. ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Any single male who wont show their face is cheating I would guess."
Some people would rather have a bit of privacy. But anyone who's over 25, single and cant accom... I mean why would accomodating when youre single be a problem unless youre still living with your parents. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Any single male who wont show their face is cheating I would guess.
Some people would rather have a bit of privacy. But anyone who's over 25, single and cant accom... I mean why would accomodating when youre single be a problem unless youre still living with your parents."
Houseshare? Single parent? Don't want random strangers on the internet knowing where they live? |
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Any single male who wont show their face is cheating I would guess.
No that's not the case. Maybe some of us just don't want others who are likely to cause trouble in our personal life causing it.
Personal trouble such as? Can you give me an example?
Outting to family and such. I actually don't think you deserve more of an answer than that. The reasons for ones anonymity shouldn't be up to question, as each has their own reason be it personal or for work reasons. My personal life is my business, and not up for discussion on a public forum.
I share my face picture privately. This doesn't mean I'm attached.
Same reason I don't display my tattoos on the site, this is for my own personal reasons.
By all means show your face publicly, that is your personal choice. Same way it is my personal choice not to. "
You're the one who brought it up not me, I said single men would show their face, you said they wouldnt for personal reasons, so I asked what personal reasons, and then you tell me I dont deserve an answer to that as its private.
Which is fair enough, but it does not help prove your point, it just diminishes it. |
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I had been on here as a couple with my ex.Set up a single profile when we split up. Met my current girlfriend after that. Told her about my Fab profile more or less straight away. We often log on here together to perve all you sexy folks. Less judging please and for fuck sake just enjoy fab for what it is. Fun between consenting adults. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Any single male who wont show their face is cheating I would guess.
No that's not the case. Maybe some of us just don't want others who are likely to cause trouble in our personal life causing it.
Personal trouble such as? Can you give me an example?
Outting to family and such. I actually don't think you deserve more of an answer than that. The reasons for ones anonymity shouldn't be up to question, as each has their own reason be it personal or for work reasons. My personal life is my business, and not up for discussion on a public forum.
I share my face picture privately. This doesn't mean I'm attached.
Same reason I don't display my tattoos on the site, this is for my own personal reasons.
By all means show your face publicly, that is your personal choice. Same way it is my personal choice not to.
You're the one who brought it up not me, I said single men would show their face, you said they wouldnt for personal reasons, so I asked what personal reasons, and then you tell me I dont deserve an answer to that as its private.
Which is fair enough, but it does not help prove your point, it just diminishes it."
I dont show my face publically... its probably small mindedness, but I personally think if it became known on here then some friends, family and mostly people I work with would look at me/treat me a bit differently.
I should be braver but alas I am not.
To be fair very few profile do show faces, married couples here together included |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reading this thread has made me laugh. I dont stand a chance
1. I dont have a face pic ( so I'm married).
2. I dont accommodate ( so I just live with my parents)
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You have a vajayjay your grand ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Reading this thread has made me laugh. I dont stand a chance
1. I dont have a face pic ( so I'm married).
2. I dont accommodate ( so I just live with my parents)
You have a vajayjay your grand "
Are you sure? I may not be a real woman ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Any single male who wont show their face is cheating I would guess.
Some people would rather have a bit of privacy. But anyone who's over 25, single and cant accom... I mean why would accomodating when youre single be a problem unless youre still living with your parents.
Houseshare? Single parent? Don't want random strangers on the internet knowing where they live?"
I was probably thinking more about the guys than the girls because if the comment I was replying to.
Generally, though not always, its not the guy who has full custody and while a girl might not want her housemates to see a lot of guys cumming and going I dont think Ive ever heard of a guy in a houseshare getting laid alot and having that be a problem. Tinders been around for years, we all know that people will sometimes just meet up for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jesus some of the responses on here are ridiculous.
I’m single Deffo not attached I don’t have my face pic up because I like to be private I’m happy that people don’t know everything I do doesn’t mean I’m ashamed or have something to hide.
Just because you choose to show your face doesn’t mean you have any less of an agenda |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Any single male who wont show their face is cheating I would guess.
Some people would rather have a bit of privacy. But anyone who's over 25, single and cant accom... I mean why would accomodating when youre single be a problem unless youre still living with your parents.
Houseshare? Single parent? Don't want random strangers on the internet knowing where they live?"
Exactly that...... ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So if you don't show your face your married or taken? Very odd statement I find very untrue. Most people like to come on here say and do what they want without being identified. It creates a space to be more open. Lots on here pretending to be single. |
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Any single male who wont show their face is cheating I would guess.
Might have a point. My face isn’t on my profile. Would you say the same for the ladies?
Yes but to a lesser degree. Women often dont feel equal to men and are afraid to show their faces."
Nothing to do with equality and everything to do with privacy |
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By *ergalMan
over a year ago
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Im upfront on my profile. Neither my wife, friends, family know...
We all gave our reasons for no public face pic...privacy, business dealings, staff seeing a boss on here, house shares, family, relations, friends if friends seeing and outing someone either on purpose or by accident.
If you want to put up a public pic, work away, just don't go assuming everyone without one is attached |
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"I'm attached but am on here alone, am upfront about it in my bio. Not too many want to get involved with attached guys I find, which is understandable. My reasons are my own, some agree with me, some don't. Other people, i'm not sure what their story is but I think it's better to be upfront here if it's discretion
desired?
Everyone has their own reason for being here. It’s not our place to judge anyone "
This |
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Any single male who wont show their face is cheating I would guess.
No that's not the case. Maybe some of us just don't want others who are likely to cause trouble in our personal life causing it.
Personal trouble such as? Can you give me an example?
Know what's wrong with some people, being nosey and judgemental....each and to there own I say, married, attached and single.
People join fab for fun, far to many treat it like Facebook, its becoming tiresome "
This also |
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By *osyMan
over a year ago
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Im also married and I always state that early in the conversation that must be why I've no meets yet.im only here for sex that why it's called a sex site I'm not here to judge nor do I judge anyone here. |
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Any single male who wont show their face is cheating I would guess."
Id say you guess very wrong then. Why would you even assume that. Do you think that same about single women too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess"
Would tend to disagree... Its not just singles that don't show their faces ... We are married so technically have nothing to hide but do I want everyone knowing my business certainly not. Just because someone doesn't share their face pic does not mean that they are secretly married with 10 kids. They are fully entitled to their privacy imo ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Would tend to disagree... Its not just singles that don't show their faces ... We are married so technically have nothing to hide but do I want everyone knowing my business certainly not. Just because someone doesn't share their face pic does not mean that they are secretly married with 10 kids. They are fully entitled to their privacy imo "
Same married Cpl that enjoy three privacy and naughtiness the lifestyle has to over. We would say maybe only 1 single guy weve played with has not been married or attached. They're business not ours. Each to there own. |
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By *ipskyMan
over a year ago
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When I was still married, I had a look around Fab and suggested joining up to my wife to meet other couples and singles of both sexes, but she didn't go for it. I think we would have done ok as she is very pretty. I never did anything here on my own when we were together.
Now I am back here solo and keen - but it's a whole different scenario for a single male. |
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By *ipskyMan
over a year ago
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"When I was still married, I had a look around Fab and suggested joining up to my wife to meet other couples and singles of both sexes, but she didn't go for it. I think we would have done ok as she is very pretty. I never did anything here on my own when we were together.
Now I am back here solo and keen - but it's a whole different scenario for a single male."
I should have added, my face privacy is because I got messed about by someone previously after sending them a face pic. I will meet anybody via kik cam which will show my face real and live with the plus of a voice. And it only needs to be for 20 seconds. |
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By *ipskyMan
over a year ago
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"The majority of single profiles I would guess
Would tend to disagree... Its not just singles that don't show their faces ... We are married so technically have nothing to hide but do I want everyone knowing my business certainly not. Just because someone doesn't share their face pic does not mean that they are secretly married with 10 kids. They are fully entitled to their privacy imo "
I got messed about by someone previously after sending them a face pic, so now I'm reluctant to send. So it's not all about someone being sneaky, privacy is important for different reasons. I will meet anybody via kik cam though, which will show my face real and live with the plus of a voice. And it only needs to be for 20 seconds. |
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