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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All part and parcel of fab, everyone has a life outside meeting people for sex, and that's assuming it was a bona fide arrangement by a genuine person in the first place, which many aren't
Chalk it down, move on.  |
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"It happens. Poor form to cancel so late however, there could be a genuine reason.
I'm sure your next planned meet will be a success! "
Thanks ,I'm sure she had a good reason ,but was very vague & hadn't replied to me about another meet .
I was so looking fwd to it & now I'm left gagging!  |
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Possibly a genuine reason to cancel, it can happen.
More likely cold feet,but what can you do.
We've had similar late cancellations, and one charming couple ,verified, who just stopped chatting a couple of hours before we were to meet.We were scrubbed up, and shaved....everywhere lol. |
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"Possibly a genuine reason to cancel, it can happen.
More likely cold feet,but what can you do.
We've had similar late cancellations, and one charming couple ,verified, who just stopped chatting a couple of hours before we were to meet.We were scrubbed up, and shaved....everywhere lol.
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"Possibly a genuine reason to cancel, it can happen.
More likely cold feet,but what can you do.
We've had similar late cancellations, and one charming couple ,verified, who just stopped chatting a couple of hours before we were to meet.We were scrubbed up, and shaved....everywhere lol.
Well at least ye could have fun together !"
True,lol,we did. But still hugely disappointing. |
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"It happens. Poor form to cancel so late however, there could be a genuine reason.
I'm sure your next planned meet will be a success!
Thanks ,I'm sure she had a good reason ,but was very vague & hadn't replied to me about another meet .
I was so looking fwd to it & now I'm left gagging! "
She met me instead, she was an almighty ride  |
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It sucks but move on.
I've had a few friends who have been on pof on and off for years. All day the same thing... And that's the mount of people who not only cancel last meeting but with some serious lie like "my sister was rushed to hospital" is a joke lol.
It's a running gag at this point. 9/10 sick family relative. Always one hour before you're meant to meet lol. |
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"It happens. Poor form to cancel so late however, there could be a genuine reason.
I'm sure your next planned meet will be a success!
Thanks ,I'm sure she had a good reason ,but was very vague & hadn't replied to me about another meet .
I was so looking fwd to it & now I'm left gagging! "
If she's had to cancel at the last minute, it's likely something has cropped up (a family situation or maybe work) and is dealing with that... She might not even be in the right frame of mind to be thinking about rescheduling right now. Don't bother her, let her deal with whatever is going on and she'll likely be happy to get back to you and make it up to you when she can. Annoy her while she's trying to deal with a serious situation and you may end up alienating her (I'm not saying you are... Just cut her a little slack  ). I know I've ended up blocking someone in the past because they kept hounding me to reschedule after I'd told them I'd had a sudden bereavement.. They even kikked me dick pics as I was on my way to the funeral 2 days later... That was the last straw. We had gotten on really well beforehand and I'd been looking forward to meeting him (I was just as disappointed initially that we weren't meeting), but that kind of selfish, thoughtless behaviour just because he was horny and frustrated soon turned things sour and put me off meeting him ever.
People do have to cancel for good reason, and as someone else said... Whatever she's dealing with, at least she had the decency to cancel and let you know. |
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over a year ago
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Well at least you did not have a hotel booked or you had not driven for a couple of hours, has happened a few times to me and I have had life throw a spanner in the works on me also and had to cancel, if they disappeared off fab then it was probably someone just being a time waster but if they keep in contact they are probably genuine |
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"It happens. Poor form to cancel so late however, there could be a genuine reason.
I'm sure your next planned meet will be a success!
Thanks ,I'm sure she had a good reason ,but was very vague & hadn't replied to me about another meet .
I was so looking fwd to it & now I'm left gagging!
If she's had to cancel at the last minute, it's likely something has cropped up (a family situation or maybe work) and is dealing with that... She might not even be in the right frame of mind to be thinking about rescheduling right now. Don't bother her, let her deal with whatever is going on and she'll likely be happy to get back to you and make it up to you when she can. Annoy her while she's trying to deal with a serious situation and you may end up alienating her (I'm not saying you are... Just cut her a little slack ). I know I've ended up blocking someone in the past because they kept hounding me to reschedule after I'd told them I'd had a sudden bereavement.. They even kikked me dick pics as I was on my way to the funeral 2 days later... That was the last straw. We had gotten on really well beforehand and I'd been looking forward to meeting him (I was just as disappointed initially that we weren't meeting), but that kind of selfish, thoughtless behaviour just because he was horny and frustrated soon turned things sour and put me off meeting him ever.
People do have to cancel for good reason, and as someone else said... Whatever she's dealing with, at least she had the decency to cancel and let you know. "
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I had it happen 5 minutes before they were due to arrive.
Hopefully they'll get in contact to reschedule.