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"They want to know where I'm going, who I'm meeting, and what time I'll be home
Oh how the tide turns???"
Yeah... so that they know where the money will be, how much you're likely to spend, and how much youll have to give them when you get back..! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They want to know where I'm going, who I'm meeting, and what time I'll be home
Oh how the tide turns???
Yeah... so that they know where the money will be, how much you're likely to spend, and how much youll have to give them when you get back..!"
You may have a point! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"They want to know where I'm going, who I'm meeting, and what time I'll be home
Oh how the tide turns???
To see a man about a dog... The man selling the dog... And depends on negotiations! "
You have a dog? |
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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago
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"They want to know where I'm going, who I'm meeting, and what time I'll be home
Oh how the tide turns???
To see a man about a dog... The man selling the dog... And depends on negotiations!
You have a dog?"
No, but I've taken a loan of the neighbours Labrador... Told them he looks like he needs a walk... Geeeeesssse.... It's a tangled Web this swinging business! |
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They probably want to know as much information only because they want to know if you’ll be gone long enough for them to invite someone over to do exactly what your doing  think back to when you were their age. If you thought you had the house to yourself for the evening and you had someone on the go they’d be straight over for a good time before the parents get home. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh and who where you with ,any pics etc etc -ehhh yes love a few but not for home viewing  "
Who are you chatting to on your phone and what are you smiling about? |
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"They probably want to know as much information only because they want to know if you’ll be gone long enough for them to invite someone over to do exactly what your doing think back to when you were their age. If you thought you had the house to yourself for the evening and you had someone on the go they’d be straight over for a good time before the parents get home. "
No they bloody want to know everything!! |
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"They probably want to know as much information only because they want to know if you’ll be gone long enough for them to invite someone over to do exactly what your doing think back to when you were their age. If you thought you had the house to yourself for the evening and you had someone on the go they’d be straight over for a good time before the parents get home.
No they bloody want to know everything!!"
Haha you just raised nosey ones so haha |
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"They probably want to know as much information only because they want to know if you’ll be gone long enough for them to invite someone over to do exactly what your doing think back to when you were their age. If you thought you had the house to yourself for the evening and you had someone on the go they’d be straight over for a good time before the parents get home. "
This is a bit of me especially when I was with my ex!! If I got wind of my parents going out I'd get him over straight away lol |
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"They want to know where I'm going, who I'm meeting, and what time I'll be home
Oh how the tide turns???
To see a man about a dog... The man selling the dog... And depends on negotiations! "
Ah I remember that years ago when I was a kid.
Classic |
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It's not just adult children who present these issues. I've no kids and as far was my family are aware, was unattached.... So I'd get all those questions whenever I said I wouldn't be around, or wasn't around when they decided to just drop in  It was like an inquisition!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mammy's meeting strangers from the internet, ffs doing exactly the opposite what you have preached to them. So you can't blame them for beingll concerned.
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Ah no, I warned them years ago that I was more of a terrible warning than a good example |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's not just adult children who present these issues. I've no kids and as far was my family are aware, was unattached.... So I'd get all those questions whenever I said I wouldn't be around, or wasn't around when they decided to just drop in It was like an inquisition!! "
Didn't you know that you're meant to be at their beck and call 24/7? |
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"It's not just adult children who present these issues. I've no kids and as far was my family are aware, was unattached.... So I'd get all those questions whenever I said I wouldn't be around, or wasn't around when they decided to just drop in It was like an inquisition!!
Didn't you know that you're meant to be at their beck and call 24/7?"
I think that happens when you're the single sibling/daughter... 'ah sure Isolde will take the kids if we go out/water the plants and feed the pets while we're away/be there (and alone) if we feel like dropping in at any time'. There's an assumption that you have no life!! |
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"They probably want to know as much information only because they want to know if you’ll be gone long enough for them to invite someone over to do exactly what your doing think back to when you were their age. If you thought you had the house to yourself for the evening and you had someone on the go they’d be straight over for a good time before the parents get home.
This is a bit of me especially when I was with my ex!! If I got wind of my parents going out I'd get him over straight away lol"
I’m the same, if I hear they are gone for enough time to have some good fun I’m right on that. That’s why I thought of it as it’s me haha |
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"They probably want to know as much information only because they want to know if you’ll be gone long enough for them to invite someone over to do exactly what your doing think back to when you were their age. If you thought you had the house to yourself for the evening and you had someone on the go they’d be straight over for a good time before the parents get home.
Yes but these days, tech savvy parents have miniature wireless security cameras  "
Thank god they haven’t reached a certain generation yet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I went out a few weeks ago and forgot my house key I texted my daughter fairly early on in the night saying I forgot my key, she said its ok I'm sure I be up . So around 1 got home and I ring her phone not to wake others up by ringing doorbell. She opens the door staying "what time you call this" I apologise and go to bed . Next morning shes still pissed with me till I inform her hold on I'm the mother not you... her response "will your the one forgetting your key not me  
Pmsl, I left my keys in the door the other night and my son couldn't get in when he returned home at around 4 am, so he rang his sister who was asleep to come down and let him in. I apologised to her in the morning (he wasn't up yet) and she said it's cool, consider it part payback for all the sleepless nights we gave you.Haha well she was fine my daughter was a demon and for a split second I felt 18 and being told off by my mum "
I know what you mean!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are wondering when asking will start among our offspring and what to say if. Especially as swinging runs in Clyde's family for sometime... His parents, his brother, him. We are not sure about the grandparents but we are not ruling out either. It must be something in the genes. Only to wait when... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its worse when they leave and have kids of there own then look for you to mind them at a moments notice. They dont realise we have lifes if our own. "
That's why I've informed them that I will be selling up and emigrating after the youngest finishes her education. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Its worse when they leave and have kids of there own then look for you to mind them at a moments notice. They dont realise we have lifes if our own. "
U gota do what u gota do they probally got a last min meet with a hot cpl and dont want to miss the chance |
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By *p4itduoCouple
over a year ago
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Oh god and keeping straight where are ye going , what time will yous be back ,we said we were going to friends house for a few drinks one night, them particular friends tried to ring us ,we were to busy to answer, they rang our daughter instead saying they couldnt get through to us and to pass a message on ,well the next morning when under ad hoc questioning we said we were with them ,thinking we could shrug it off our daughter announced that them particular friends had kept in touch throughout the night ,Oh dear our faces i will never forget , which brings us to where we are now its nobody business but our own |
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