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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am just after being chatting to my brothers wife here
Only found out when she sent me her picture she is looking for a picture of me
What should I do
She has plenty of verified meets
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am just after being chatting to my brothers wife here
Only found out when she sent me her picture she is looking for a picture of me
What should I do
She has plenty of verified meets
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Tell her who you are and don't tell your brother. You don't know what there relationship is like behind closed doors and he could know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am just after being chatting to my brothers wife here
Only found out when she sent me her picture she is looking for a picture of me
What should I do
She has plenty of verified meets
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If it was me and he was my brother and she doesn't mention anything about a partner, then ask, do you have a partner?
If she doesn't respond then he more than likely doesn't know then go to your brother sit him down and show him what you've seen online and in case she shuts down the profile take screen shots of it long with a shot of the message with her face pic. Now if it's a case of that she's afraid you know her and doesn't want personal and Fab life mixing and if it's a case of that your brother knows all about it, then no harm no foul but I'd want my brother to tell me of it was the other way round. If I had a wife that is, ha. Now he'll never know you seen it if you never say but it's up to you in the end.
On the other hand, if she's hot, send your face pic and see what happens, haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Walk away, while you cannot unsee what you have seen, it is her life & it is unlikely you know the basis of her relationship with your brother.. & ask yourself what she would think of you being on here. |
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"I am just after being chatting to my brothers wife here
Only found out when she sent me her picture she is looking for a picture of me
What should I do
She has plenty of verified meets
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Oh dear. Christmas will be fun in your house.  |
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"I am just after being chatting to my brothers wife here
Only found out when she sent me her picture she is looking for a picture of me
What should I do
She has plenty of verified meets
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is she hot? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can not accommodate because I moved back in with my mother after my father died "
Block and move on. No one even you knows what goes on behind closed doors. Do you want to be responsible for their marriage ending? Do they have kids? Just walk away, it could totally blow up in your face. What if your brother accused you of trying to break up his marriage and fell out with you? Honestly think hard before you do or say anything
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"I am just after being chatting to my brothers wife here
Only found out when she sent me her picture she is looking for a picture of me
What should I do
She has plenty of verified meets
is she hot?"
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Hey man, that's Ops sister in law
you're talking about. How dare you! 
Seriously though...
In that situation,
Myself, I would set up for a coffee meet
and confront her about the situation
providing I'm single myself or in an open relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can not accommodate because I moved back in with my mother after my father died
Block and move on. No one even you knows what goes on behind closed doors. Do you want to be responsible for their marriage ending? Do they have kids? Just walk away, it could totally blow up in your face. What if your brother accused you of trying to break up his marriage and fell out with you? Honestly think hard before you do or say anything
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That’s good advice . Well said .
Less said easy mended .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people here have no respect for themselves or others
A little cop on would make it s better site . Then ye wonder why ye don’t get replied to or meets.
Seriously Guys CTFO |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I can not accommodate because I moved back in with my mother after my father died
Block and move on. No one even you knows what goes on behind closed doors. Do you want to be responsible for their marriage ending? Do they have kids? Just walk away, it could totally blow up in your face. What if your brother accused you of trying to break up his marriage and fell out with you? Honestly think hard before you do or say anything
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am just after being chatting to my brothers wife here
Only found out when she sent me her picture she is looking for a picture of me
What should I do
She has plenty of verified meets
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Tell her who you are and tell her you are going to tell your brother. Then tell your brother and don't talk to her again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am just after being chatting to my brothers wife here
Only found out when she sent me her picture she is looking for a picture of me
What should I do
She has plenty of verified meets
If it was me and he was my brother and she doesn't mention anything about a partner, then ask, do you have a partner?
If she doesn't respond then he more than likely doesn't know then go to your brother sit him down and show him what you've seen online and in case she shuts down the profile take screen shots of it long with a shot of the message with her face pic. Now if it's a case of that she's afraid you know her and doesn't want personal and Fab life mixing and if it's a case of that your brother knows all about it, then no harm no foul but I'd want my brother to tell me of it was the other way round. If I had a wife that is, ha. Now he'll never know you seen it if you never say but it's up to you in the end.
On the other hand, if she's hot, send your face pic and see what happens, haha"
You for real? Stitch her up or
go for it depending on the situation? Firstly what happens
on fab stays on fab, secondly what makes you think the OP doesn't have a partner and need discretion too and last NEVER mix personal friends/acquaintances with Fab, walk away a control alt delete from your brain!
People spot people they know all the time here even family members, don't go there don't get involved just move on, it never happened you
Would you play with an attached female you didn't know and met on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am just after being chatting to my brothers wife here
Only found out when she sent me her picture she is looking for a picture of me
What should I do
She has plenty of verified meets
If it was me and he was my brother and she doesn't mention anything about a partner, then ask, do you have a partner?
If she doesn't respond then he more than likely doesn't know then go to your brother sit him down and show him what you've seen online and in case she shuts down the profile take screen shots of it long with a shot of the message with her face pic. Now if it's a case of that she's afraid you know her and doesn't want personal and Fab life mixing and if it's a case of that your brother knows all about it, then no harm no foul but I'd want my brother to tell me of it was the other way round. If I had a wife that is, ha. Now he'll never know you seen it if you never say but it's up to you in the end.
On the other hand, if she's hot, send your face pic and see what happens, haha
You for real? Stitch her up or
go for it depending on the situation? Firstly what happens
on fab stays on fab, secondly what makes you think the OP doesn't have a partner and need discretion too and last NEVER mix personal friends/acquaintances with Fab, walk away a control alt delete from your brain!
People spot people they know all the time here even family members, don't go there don't get involved just move on, it never happened you
Would you play with an attached female you didn't know and met on here? "
Yeah but how do you REALLY feel about it Flashback.....? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow!
Easy said non of your business. If that would be a friend or a cousin...maybe. We are talking about the brother here. Blood from blood! Hard decision.
Don't make assumptions, talking to her is the only way for you to find out what's the situation like between them and if you are in same situation you will both hold a secret between. Sleeping with her will definitely make it more complicated.
Good luck, man. Tough nut to bite you have for sure! |
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"if it was me i would forget about her move on dont entertain her. Dont say anything to your brother either . Its between both of them . You most likely will come out the worst in this . "
Must be nice having you as a sibling, how many people hurting your family did you keep secret? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if it was me i would forget about her move on dont entertain her. Dont say anything to your brother either . Its between both of them . You most likely will come out the worst in this . "
I don't get that, if it was my brother that found it out and he never told me and I found out he didn't say, I'd never speak to him again. Unlike Spartans, I don't kick messengers down a bottomless pits...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you like your brother even a little bit?
This exactly! Ffs where’s your loyalty "
Clearly fab comes first... you cant break the code...
Its only your family after all they have to love you  |
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"Do you like your brother even a little bit?
This exactly! Ffs where’s your loyalty
Clearly fab comes first... you cant break the code...
Its only your family after all they have to love you "
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Very true
Sure things did work out well
in the end for the Giggs family  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you like your brother even a little bit?
This exactly! Ffs where’s your loyalty
Clearly fab comes first... you cant break the code...
Its only your family after all they have to love you
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Very true
Sure things did work out well
in the end for the Giggs family "
Paddy power ads in the making |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am just after being chatting to my brothers wife here
Only found out when she sent me her picture she is looking for a picture of me
What should I do
She has plenty of verified meets
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If what you say is true it's not you that's braking up a family it's your brothers wife.But people overlook that because she a woman and woman can do no wrong on fab. |
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What in the actual fuck are people replying with on here.
"What happens on fab stays on fab"
This is HIS BROTHER we're talking about.
"He might know" "You dont know what happens behind closed doors"
So? If he knows then its end of conversation, nothing to worry about. If he doesnt know then he deserves to know the situation and make his own mind up.
Really makes me wonder how many of the "single" people who replied advising OP to say nothing are actually single.
Its one thing if its a stranger involved, but if its family then you speak up, at some point in your life you have to have some loyalty to someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What if he found his brother on here? And the excuse was the brother "wasn't getting any at home" would he tell the wife? So what's the difference if the same applies to the wife? What if the brother can't get it up or he's cheated on the wife and this is her way of getting him back??
People are always going to bump into people on fab they know in real life. If you can't deal with it, you shouldn't be on fab
Nothing to do with what happens on fab stays on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if he found his brother on here? And the excuse was the brother "wasn't getting any at home" would he tell the wife? So what's the difference if the same applies to the wife? What if the brother can't get it up or he's cheated on the wife and this is her way of getting him back??
People are always going to bump into people on fab they know in real life. If you can't deal with it, you shouldn't be on fab
Nothing to do with what happens on fab stays on fab."
Big difference between people you know and your brothers wife don't you think. |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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Tell your brother, end of story!!
And/Or if you really want to, tell her that you are going to tell him she might come clean to him and they may be able to salvage their relationship.
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"What if he found his brother on here? And the excuse was the brother "wasn't getting any at home" would he tell the wife? So what's the difference if the same applies to the wife? What if the brother can't get it up or he's cheated on the wife and this is her way of getting him back??
People are always going to bump into people on fab they know in real life. If you can't deal with it, you shouldn't be on fab
Nothing to do with what happens on fab stays on fab."
Unless he's from Wales then his sister in law is unlikely to be a blood relative.
If he cant get it up then theres a little blue pill to resolve that, if he cheated then two wrongs dont make a right. Even if one or both of these are true then its still not an excuse to betray your partner.
Recognising someone you know on fab is one thing, finding out that someone is possibly cheating ON A FAMILY MEMBER is a completely different set of circumstances.
I mean at no point in your post did you give a valid reason not to tell the brother. If you cant be honest with your family, then can anyone trust you to ever be honest? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What if he found his brother on here? And the excuse was the brother "wasn't getting any at home" would he tell the wife? So what's the difference if the same applies to the wife? What if the brother can't get it up or he's cheated on the wife and this is her way of getting him back??
People are always going to bump into people on fab they know in real life. If you can't deal with it, you shouldn't be on fab
Nothing to do with what happens on fab stays on fab.
Unless he's from Wales then his sister in law is unlikely to be a blood relative.
If he cant get it up then theres a little blue pill to resolve that, if he cheated then two wrongs dont make a right. Even if one or both of these are true then its still not an excuse to betray your partner.
Recognising someone you know on fab is one thing, finding out that someone is possibly cheating ON A FAMILY MEMBER is a completely different set of circumstances.
I mean at no point in your post did you give a valid reason not to tell the brother. If you cant be honest with your family, then can anyone trust you to ever be honest?"
If a husband and wife can't be honest with each other, that's their problem. It doesn't mean as a family member you can stick their oar in. But whatever you decide OP think long and hard (no pun intended) of the repercussions for everyone, including kids if there is any |
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The question is if it was in the real world and seen the sis in law cheating would you tell your brother? It’s no different on here except you can see how many they have been with!
For me if I saw my bro in law on here I would call him out and I would tell my sis. It’s not on my head that I’ve broken up the relationship the person who has chosen to cheat is the one who has broken the trust. If they decide to work it out again that’s between them.
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My brothers wife is cheating on him.
You better not say anything, he might not be able to get it up and you might embarrass him.
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The attitude that you ignore people doing bad things to your family is a deep one in Ireland, its not one I prescribe to but its obviously something thats deeply ingrained in some people. |
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"If you cannot accommodate are you married too ?
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Thank God! The ill informed moral police have joined this thread so that they can add their outrageously stupid and erroneous comments which bear no relevance whatsoever to the original post |
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"What if he found his brother on here? And the excuse was the brother "wasn't getting any at home" would he tell the wife? So what's the difference if the same applies to the wife? What if the brother can't get it up or he's cheated on the wife and this is her way of getting him back??
People are always going to bump into people on fab they know in real life. If you can't deal with it, you shouldn't be on fab
Nothing to do with what happens on fab stays on fab.
Unless he's from Wales then his sister in law is unlikely to be a blood relative.
If he cant get it up then theres a little blue pill to resolve that, if he cheated then two wrongs dont make a right. Even if one or both of these are true then its still not an excuse to betray your partner.
Recognising someone you know on fab is one thing, finding out that someone is possibly cheating ON A FAMILY MEMBER is a completely different set of circumstances.
I mean at no point in your post did you give a valid reason not to tell the brother. If you cant be honest with your family, then can anyone trust you to ever be honest?
If a husband and wife can't be honest with each other, that's their problem. It doesn't mean as a family member you can stick their oar in. But whatever you decide OP think long and hard (no pun intended) of the repercussions for everyone, including kids if there is any"
Its not up to OP to think about the repercussions, its up to the person who cheated (if thats what they did). OPs done nothing wrong if he tells except be truthful. If the truth gets you in trouble thats your own fault.
If you betrayed your partner in some way would you blame the person who let them know or would it be your own fault for betraying them in the first place? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Answer to this dilemma is to mind your own business . Peoples private lives are just that ...private. If your conscience doesn’t allow for silence on the matter , then you should speak to her , tell her you’ve seen her here and your loyalty to your brother has created a dilemma . If a good enough excuse is not given to you then tell her your telling your brother , but be prepared to put a wrecking ball through their marriage and consider the fall out and devastation for any children involved. Then go back to your own smug life and carry on knowing you’ve “done the right thing “ whatever that means ,,,,in the scheme of other people’s lives . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Answer to this dilemma is to mind your own business . Peoples private lives are just that ...private. If your conscience doesn’t allow for silence on the matter , then you should speak to her , tell her you’ve seen her here and your loyalty to your brother has created a dilemma . If a good enough excuse is not given to you then tell her your telling your brother , but be prepared to put a wrecking ball through their marriage and consider the fall out and devastation for any children involved. Then go back to your own smug life and carry on knowing you’ve “done the right thing “ whatever that means ,,,,in the scheme of other people’s lives ."
Smug? Really for telling hos Brother his wife is cheating on him he would be smug?
A break up of a marrage is not the end of the world people go through it all the time and come out happier.
How could you look your own sibling in the face knowing their partner is cheating and keeping it to yourself?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Answer to this dilemma is to mind your own business . Peoples private lives are just that ...private. If your conscience doesn’t allow for silence on the matter , then you should speak to her , tell her you’ve seen her here and your loyalty to your brother has created a dilemma . If a good enough excuse is not given to you then tell her your telling your brother , but be prepared to put a wrecking ball through their marriage and consider the fall out and devastation for any children involved. Then go back to your own smug life and carry on knowing you’ve “done the right thing “ whatever that means ,,,,in the scheme of other people’s lives .
Smug? Really for telling hos Brother his wife is cheating on him he would be smug?
A break up of a marrage is not the end of the world people go through it all the time and come out happier.
How could you look your own sibling in the face knowing their partner is cheating and keeping it to yourself?
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Yes smug ! In a country of rising rents and property prices where people are finding it harder and harder to feed their families you are suggesting breaking up marriages is a minor happening , no one knows what goes on in anyone else’s life , I would have imagined that people on a swinging site who themselves enjoy recreational sex with others would not have such a narrow mindset to begin with ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes smug ! In a country of rising rents and property prices where people are finding it harder and harder to feed their families you are suggesting breaking up marriages is a minor happening , no one knows what goes on in anyone else’s life , I would have imagined that people on a swinging site who themselves enjoy recreational sex with others would not have such a narrow mindset to begin with ! "
Not a minor happening but not the end of the world!
It can often be much healthier than living in a decitful unhappy home.
Are you suggesting in better economic conditions it would be ok to tell him?
Also I dont see honesty and loyalty as narrow mindsets and I would say most of the actual swingers on this site dont lie to their partners, |
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Yes smug ! In a country of rising rents and property prices where people are finding it harder and harder to feed their families you are suggesting breaking up marriages is a minor happening , no one knows what goes on in anyone else’s life , I would have imagined that people on a swinging site who themselves enjoy recreational sex with others would not have such a narrow mindset to begin with !
Not a minor happening but not the end of the world!
It can often be much healthier than living in a decitful unhappy home.
Are you suggesting in better economic conditions it would be ok to tell him?
Also I dont see honesty and loyalty as narrow mindsets and I would say most of the actual swingers on this site dont lie to their partners,"
I’d say the majority of married people on the site with the exception of legit couples profiles are not being honest with their partners |
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"Some people here have no respect for themselves or others
A little cop on would make it s better site . Then ye wonder why ye don’t get replied to or meets.
Seriously Guys CTFO "
An equal opportunity galahad I see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you like your brother even a little bit?
This exactly! Ffs where’s your loyalty
Clearly fab comes first... you cant break the code...
Its only your family after all they have to love you "
But sure it's not the op that's cheating. |
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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago
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How many men and and women are on here cheating on there partners then give the op advice to tell his brother why don't ye go and tell your own partners first just saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am just after being chatting to my brothers wife here
Only found out when she sent me her picture she is looking for a picture of me
What should I do
She has plenty of verified meets
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Go for it!! |
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"I am just after being chatting to my brothers wife here
Only found out when she sent me her picture she is looking for a picture of me
What should I do
She has plenty of verified meets
Go for it!!"
Typical man thinking with his dick!
Well OP what is more important - getting your dick wet or family?
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Yes smug ! In a country of rising rents and property prices where people are finding it harder and harder to feed their families you are suggesting breaking up marriages is a minor happening , no one knows what goes on in anyone else’s life , I would have imagined that people on a swinging site who themselves enjoy recreational sex with others would not have such a narrow mindset to begin with ! "
Rents have nothing to do with this.
And being on a swinging site has nothing to do with it, nor having an open mind. Anyone who's in a swinging site isnt absolved from hurting people that trust them and are close to them.
Only the wife (if she's actually cheating) is putting her marriage and family at risk. A swinging lifestyle, or recreational sex doesnt give you a passport to treat people badly.
People here enjoy NSA sex, or swinging or whatever it is that brought them here. I'd like to lie in every monday, eat pizza everyday and not have to clean the house. But thats not how life is.
If you want to swing then you talk to your partner about it with an open, honest, adult conversation. If its a choice between the relationship and swinging, be an adult with some bit of integrity and make the choice. Dont betray someone who's put their trust in you and leave them devastated because you wanted to get laid.
Honestly cant believe the mental gymnastics people are pulling here. Theoretical kids, imagined sexual dysfunction, revenge plots, the rent crisis. Any excuse to tell OP to smile and nod the next time his brother says his wife is out with friends with the knowledge shes probably cheating on him.
Discretion is important, but this is the mans family, theres not even a discussion to be had. If you can look your sibling in the eye, knowing their spouse is cheating, and say nothing then youve got a serious issue, bordering on an empathy disorder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes smug ! In a country of rising rents and property prices where people are finding it harder and harder to feed their families you are suggesting breaking up marriages is a minor happening , no one knows what goes on in anyone else’s life , I would have imagined that people on a swinging site who themselves enjoy recreational sex with others would not have such a narrow mindset to begin with !
Rents have nothing to do with this.
And being on a swinging site has nothing to do with it, nor having an open mind. Anyone who's in a swinging site isnt absolved from hurting people that trust them and are close to them.
Only the wife (if she's actually cheating) is putting her marriage and family at risk. A swinging lifestyle, or recreational sex doesnt give you a passport to treat people badly.
People here enjoy NSA sex, or swinging or whatever it is that brought them here. I'd like to lie in every monday, eat pizza everyday and not have to clean the house. But thats not how life is.
If you want to swing then you talk to your partner about it with an open, honest, adult conversation. If its a choice between the relationship and swinging, be an adult with some bit of integrity and make the choice. Dont betray someone who's put their trust in you and leave them devastated because you wanted to get laid.
Honestly cant believe the mental gymnastics people are pulling here. Theoretical kids, imagined sexual dysfunction, revenge plots, the rent crisis. Any excuse to tell OP to smile and nod the next time his brother says his wife is out with friends with the knowledge shes probably cheating on him.
Discretion is important, but this is the mans family, theres not even a discussion to be had. If you can look your sibling in the eye, knowing their spouse is cheating, and say nothing then youve got a serious issue, bordering on an empathy disorder."
Couldn't say it better! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people here have no respect for themselves or others
A little cop on would make it s better site . Then ye wonder why ye don’t get replied to or meets.
Seriously Guys CTFO "
Well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fictional scenario or not, the rationales from the Say Nothing team are really interesting to read. I can imagine turning a blind eye if it was a friend or a neighbour etc but a brother or sister, no way!... Except the brother who used to eat all the biscuits, I'd need to give him more thought... |
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I think you should meet her for a coffee Op
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