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Have single men become the new unicorns of fab. I can safely say over 3/4s of messages I have been receiving lately are from attached. I am in no way judging/attacking those that are(not my business) I'm just curious to see is it only my thinking. Or does my profile just simply attract attached men.
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"Have single men become the new unicorns of fab. I can safely say over 3/4s of messages I have been receiving lately are from attached. I am in no way judging/attacking those that are(not my business) I'm just curious to see is it only my thinking. Or does my profile just simply attract attached men.
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No we do exist  |
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I'm single but always wondered why it bothered people if someone Is attached or not. It's all fun, all discreet, you're probably not the only woman he's with so what's the issue? Is it that you picture yourself in his wife's situation and wouldn't like it? |
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"I'm single but always wondered why it bothered people if someone Is attached or not. It's all fun, all discreet, you're probably not the only woman he's with so what's the issue? Is it that you picture yourself in his wife's situation and wouldn't like it?"
If you read my post you would see I pointed out I dont judge it's not my business. Seen as you want to know my "issue" I'll tell you it's simple. The time they have to meet/play is very very limited. I'm my opinion more limited than that of a single person which in turn makes planning a meet much harder and thats it. My post was just a simple question on if single were the new unicorns but you continue to make whatever you will from that as I won't be replying to anything else you have to say
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"You have tits... You attract men.... End of! 
I think maybe men are just being more honest. I hadn't noticed any difference myself tbh in the type of guys mailing. "
Your probably right with them been more honest |
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I know that some profiles state specifically ‘no attached men’ so I think if a guy reads your profile and doesn’t see that it’s fair game. I know myself if I see that on a profile I will no contact them. Unless off course you happy to receive them just leave as is. |
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"I'm single but always wondered why it bothered people if someone Is attached or not. It's all fun, all discreet, you're probably not the only woman he's with so what's the issue? Is it that you picture yourself in his wife's situation and wouldn't like it?
If you read my post you would see I pointed out I dont judge it's not my business. Seen as you want to know my "issue" I'll tell you it's simple. The time they have to meet/play is very very limited. I'm my opinion more limited than that of a single person which in turn makes planning a meet much harder and thats it. My post was just a simple question on if single were the new unicorns but you continue to make whatever you will from that as I won't be replying to anything else you have to say
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I wasn't highlighting just you, if I was I'd of quoted you. The question was to anybody who won't meet people attached or married. |
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"I know that some profiles state specifically ‘no attached men’ so I think if a guy reads your profile and doesn’t see that it’s fair game. I know myself if I see that on a profile I will no contact them. Unless off course you happy to receive them just leave as is. "
I only asked if single men are the new unicorn that's all |
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"Have single men become the new unicorns of fab. I can safely say over 3/4s of messages I have been receiving lately are from attached. I am in no way judging/attacking those that are(not my business) I'm just curious to see is it only my thinking. Or does my profile just simply attract attached men.
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Short answer is no on both counts Id say just a random cluster of attached recently |
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Lots of single guys have children so maybe can't meet weekends cause their kids are staying or have them during weeknights. Add in work and life outside of fab there isn't that much time left |
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"I'm single but always wondered why it bothered people if someone Is attached or not. It's all fun, all discreet, you're probably not the only woman he's with so what's the issue? Is it that you picture yourself in his wife's situation and wouldn't like it?"
Cause most rather not mess around with other people's marriage. |
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"I know that some profiles state specifically ‘no attached men’ so I think if a guy reads your profile and doesn’t see that it’s fair game. I know myself if I see that on a profile I will no contact them. Unless off course you happy to receive them just leave as is.
I only asked if single men are the new unicorn that's all "
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Got to side with Thor’s hammer above some of us can only imagine how inundated with mails females are on this site  could be lack of effort on my part also though  but I don’t purposely go out of my way to torture folk, |
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"We’re all in hiding for fear of unsolicited pussy pics and horrible one liners "
You mean the would you like to wear my legs as ear muffs isn’t a good one  |
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"We're here just some of us don't mail first. Some of us understand the amount of mails ladies receive so we sit and wait. After all a Gentleman is just a patient wolf.
Ditto on this "
And how is the waiting going for you guys?? |
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"We're here just some of us don't mail first. Some of us understand the amount of mails ladies receive so we sit and wait. After all a Gentleman is just a patient wolf.
Ditto on this
And how is the waiting going for you guys??"
Actually really well. Pays not to be pushy. |
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"I'm single but always wondered why it bothered people if someone Is attached or not. It's all fun, all discreet, you're probably not the only woman he's with so what's the issue? Is it that you picture yourself in his wife's situation and wouldn't like it?"
1. I don't share food or men
2. I don't want drama
3. I don't want to enable someone cheating on their partner (full judgement, I think it's shitty behaviour)
4. I don't have the patience for unread texts after 6pm and weekend disappearances
5. I don't need to be waiting around for someone's wife to let them out so I can fuck them
6. My vibrator is 300% more enjoyable than "I can sneak away at 2pm for 30 mins" sex
7. Dick is plentiful - why compromise?
But yknow, each to their own I guess. |
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"I'm single but always wondered why it bothered people if someone Is attached or not. It's all fun, all discreet, you're probably not the only woman he's with so what's the issue? Is it that you picture yourself in his wife's situation and wouldn't like it?
1. I don't share food or men
2. I don't want drama
3. I don't want to enable someone cheating on their partner (full judgement, I think it's shitty behaviour)
4. I don't have the patience for unread texts after 6pm and weekend disappearances
5. I don't need to be waiting around for someone's wife to let them out so I can fuck them
6. My vibrator is 300% more enjoyable than "I can sneak away at 2pm for 30 mins" sex
7. Dick is plentiful - why compromise?
But yknow, each to their own I guess. "
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"I'm single but always wondered why it bothered people if someone Is attached or not. It's all fun, all discreet, you're probably not the only woman he's with so what's the issue? Is it that you picture yourself in his wife's situation and wouldn't like it?
Cause most rather not mess around with other people's marriage."
This. Life is hard enough without getting involved in other's drama.
Not too fond of cheaters either if I'm being honest. |
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"And they are their honest ones id give it a guts of over 70% are attched. And some girls are no angles to some are attached but that doesn't seem to be a problem? "
I assume if someone doesnt want to meet attached people that will gi for men or women I dont see how the gender of the person matters |
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"And they are their honest ones id give it a guts of over 70% are attched. And some girls are no angles to some are attached but that doesn't seem to be a problem?
I assume if someone doesnt want to meet attached people that will gi for men or women I dont see how the gender of the person matters"
well men are always getting slated for being attached. If they wanna screw up their lives thats there business. But no one lifts an eyelid on attached women gender wise it dont matter indeed it doesn't I agree but why slate one sex and not both? |
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"And they are their honest ones id give it a guts of over 70% are attched. And some girls are no angles to some are attached but that doesn't seem to be a problem?
I assume if someone doesnt want to meet attached people that will gi for men or women I dont see how the gender of the person matters well men are always getting slated for being attached. If they wanna screw up their lives thats there business. But no one lifts an eyelid on attached women gender wise it dont matter indeed it doesn't I agree but why slate one sex and not both? "
I dont think its just men that get it. But the answers might be swayed slightly by the fact its usually men posting looking for opinions. But even so alot of replies and posts state attached people and not just men |
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"And they are their honest ones id give it a guts of over 70% are attched. And some girls are no angles to some are attached but that doesn't seem to be a problem?
I assume if someone doesnt want to meet attached people that will gi for men or women I dont see how the gender of the person matters well men are always getting slated for being attached. If they wanna screw up their lives thats there business. But no one lifts an eyelid on attached women gender wise it dont matter indeed it doesn't I agree but why slate one sex and not both?
I dont think its just men that get it. But the answers might be swayed slightly by the fact its usually men posting looking for opinions. But even so alot of replies and posts state attached people and not just men"
by all means please please do direct me to the thread where it slates attached women. Because I am yet to see it.. |
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"And they are their honest ones id give it a guts of over 70% are attched. And some girls are no angles to some are attached but that doesn't seem to be a problem?
I assume if someone doesnt want to meet attached people that will gi for men or women I dont see how the gender of the person matters well men are always getting slated for being attached. If they wanna screw up their lives thats there business. But no one lifts an eyelid on attached women gender wise it dont matter indeed it doesn't I agree but why slate one sex and not both?
I dont think its just men that get it. But the answers might be swayed slightly by the fact its usually men posting looking for opinions. But even so alot of replies and posts state attached people and not just men by all means please please do direct me to the thread where it slates attached women. Because I am yet to see it.. "
Can you.point me to the one that specifically calls out only attached men to slate them |
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"And they are their honest ones id give it a guts of over 70% are attched. And some girls are no angles to some are attached but that doesn't seem to be a problem?
I assume if someone doesnt want to meet attached people that will gi for men or women I dont see how the gender of the person matters well men are always getting slated for being attached. If they wanna screw up their lives thats there business. But no one lifts an eyelid on attached women gender wise it dont matter indeed it doesn't I agree but why slate one sex and not both?
I dont think its just men that get it. But the answers might be swayed slightly by the fact its usually men posting looking for opinions. But even so alot of replies and posts state attached people and not just men by all means please please do direct me to the thread where it slates attached women. Because I am yet to see it..
Can you.point me to the one that specifically calls out only attached men to slate them"
No problem there you go their ruining the site apparently
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/626944 |
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"And they are their honest ones id give it a guts of over 70% are attched. And some girls are no angles to some are attached but that doesn't seem to be a problem?
I assume if someone doesnt want to meet attached people that will gi for men or women I dont see how the gender of the person matters well men are always getting slated for being attached. If they wanna screw up their lives thats there business. But no one lifts an eyelid on attached women gender wise it dont matter indeed it doesn't I agree but why slate one sex and not both?
I dont think its just men that get it. But the answers might be swayed slightly by the fact its usually men posting looking for opinions. But even so alot of replies and posts state attached people and not just men by all means please please do direct me to the thread where it slates attached women. Because I am yet to see it..
Can you.point me to the one that specifically calls out only attached men to slate them"
And another https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/200889 |
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"And plenty more
Two threads from over a year ago and not even on the Irish forum....
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and your point is?? Its still slating attached men now please show me the one slating women? Theres plenty more btw im just not arsed copying and pasting just for you...  |
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"And plenty more
Two threads from over a year ago and not even on the Irish forum....
and your point is?? Its still slating attached men now please show me the one slating women? Theres plenty more btw im just not arsed copying and pasting just for you... "
Have you actually read the threads they are.quite balanced and one is more about not respecting preferences.
No I cant see a devoted thread to cheating women prehaps you could start one |
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"Have single men become the new unicorns of fab. I can safely say over 3/4s of messages I have been receiving lately are from attached. I am in no way judging/attacking those that are(not my business) I'm just curious to see is it only my thinking. Or does my profile just simply attract attached men.
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They are defo the unicorns it’s rare to find a single man these days! And I have it on my profile |
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"And plenty more
Two threads from over a year ago and not even on the Irish forum....
and your point is?? Its still slating attached men now please show me the one slating women? Theres plenty more btw im just not arsed copying and pasting just for you...
Have you actually read the threads they are.quite balanced and one is more about not respecting preferences.
No I cant see a devoted thread to cheating women prehaps you could start one"
I rest my case see yaaa |
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"And plenty more
Two threads from over a year ago and not even on the Irish forum....
and your point is?? Its still slating attached men now please show me the one slating women? Theres plenty more btw im just not arsed copying and pasting just for you...
Have you actually read the threads they are.quite balanced and one is more about not respecting preferences.
No I cant see a devoted thread to cheating women prehaps you could start one I rest my case see yaaa "
No one is talking about cheating it’s that finding a single guy is rare |
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"Have single men become the new unicorns of fab. I can safely say over 3/4s of messages I have been receiving lately are from attached. I am in no way judging/attacking those that are(not my business) I'm just curious to see is it only my thinking. Or does my profile just simply attract attached men.
They are defo the unicorns it’s rare to find a single man these days! And I have it on my profile "
We do exist  |
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Truly single guys often don't have the balls to be out there, while attached guys maybe so. Anyway there's a big difference between attached guys who are cheating and attached guys whose partners are on here too |
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"And plenty more
Two threads from over a year ago and not even on the Irish forum....
and your point is?? Its still slating attached men now please show me the one slating women? Theres plenty more btw im just not arsed copying and pasting just for you...
Have you actually read the threads they are.quite balanced and one is more about not respecting preferences.
No I cant see a devoted thread to cheating women prehaps you could start one I rest my case see yaaa
No one is talking about cheating it’s that finding a single guy is rare "
well out of my last couple of meets 7 guys where single 4 from here the rest else where on another site. And they where 100% single. I dunno they could be really attracted to you to be fair you have stunning photos on your profile and your a good looking girl. But unfortunately most men look with their dicks instead of reading a profile with their eyes. Then you have chancers but there is singletons here you just gotta root around best of look with the search though |
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Eh, just looking around.
Oh yeah, its actually a swinging site.
One where one's marital status or sexual preference is meant to be kinda irrelevant.
We find who suits us, after a little social interaction, which determines our compatibility.
We meet without any preconceptions, the only goal being mutual satisfaction.
Has everyone forgotten the objective? |
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"Eh, just looking around.
Oh yeah, its actually a swinging site.
One where one's marital status or sexual preference is meant to be kinda irrelevant.
We find who suits us, after a little social interaction, which determines our compatibility.
We meet without any preconceptions, the only goal being mutual satisfaction.
Has everyone forgotten the objective? "
It’s not that at all John. I have decided not to meet attached any more as they are very restricted to when they can meet and can’t give me what I am looking for. I have no judgement to what others do I do not know what they have going on in their lives! Attached men are restricted to meeting when they can sneak away! That’s not what I want out of a meet |
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"Eh, just looking around.
Oh yeah, its actually a swinging site.
One where one's marital status or sexual preference is meant to be kinda irrelevant.
We find who suits us, after a little social interaction, which determines our compatibility.
We meet without any preconceptions, the only goal being mutual satisfaction.
Has everyone forgotten the objective?
It’s not that at all John. I have decided not to meet attached any more as they are very restricted to when they can meet and can’t give me what I am looking for. I have no judgement to what others do I do not know what they have going on in their lives! Attached men are restricted to meeting when they can sneak away! That’s not what I want out of a meet"
I completely understand your point of view Slips.
It doesn't work for you.
We do what works for us and need to be selfish about it.
I don't think that makes single males unicorns though, as many married guys might also have a schedule that fits with yours.
The single FWB who's on tap, as and when your libido demands him?
Yeah, first world problems and no, that doesn't happen, sorry. |
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Could I ask this if an attached male had permission and could meet you and stay for as long as you like would that still be a no no? Just curious i mean real permission by their partners. not the yeah she knows crap but I only have an hour lol |
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"Have single men become the new unicorns of fab. I can safely say over 3/4s of messages I have been receiving lately are from attached. I am in no way judging/attacking those that are(not my business) I'm just curious to see is it only my thinking. Or does my profile just simply attract attached men.
No we do exist "
But are u single ?? ???? |
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"Could I ask this if an attached male had permission and could meet you and stay for as long as you like would that still be a no no? Just curious i mean real permission by their partners. not the yeah she knows crap but I only have an hour lol"
Half an hour!
That's not a meet.
Wouldn't do one unless I had at least 3hrs free.
Sure the first 2hrs are discovery!
Last hour is capitalising on said discovery.
It am I weird?  |
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"Could I ask this if an attached male had permission and could meet you and stay for as long as you like would that still be a no no? Just curious i mean real permission by their partners. not the yeah she knows crap but I only have an hour lol"
Of he doesn't have 3hrs free, then it doesn't matter if he's single or married, it's not worth meeting |
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"Have single men become the new unicorns of fab. I can safely say over 3/4s of messages I have been receiving lately are from attached. I am in no way judging/attacking those that are(not my business) I'm just curious to see is it only my thinking. Or does my profile just simply attract attached men.
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Doesn't matter if we are single or not how someone says here is very hard to get in touch even if I'm single cuz one is the amount of text what a woman can get and second even if u are lucky enough to read your maybe she is not interested ) so is very hard to be a man on this site ) |
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"We’re all in hiding for fear of unsolicited pussy pics and horrible one liners
I know right. It's like bam..... How you like them apples. Not even a hello "
Sorry lads.... I just lose the run of myself when I start to copy and paste every man online. Then come 4am I think 'my foof looks magnificently sensational tonight... I simply must show it to as many people as possible!!' I'm amazed I'm not blocked by you all in fairness
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"Could I ask this if an attached male had permission and could meet you and stay for as long as you like would that still be a no no? Just curious i mean real permission by their partners. not the yeah she knows crap but I only have an hour lol
Of he doesn't have 3hrs free, then it doesn't matter if he's single or married, it's not worth meeting "
This |
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"Eh, just looking around.
Oh yeah, its actually a swinging site.
One where one's marital status or sexual preference is meant to be kinda irrelevant.
We find who suits us, after a little social interaction, which determines our compatibility.
We meet without any preconceptions, the only goal being mutual satisfaction.
Has everyone forgotten the objective? "
I am no swinger and far from an expert but I would always have thought trust and permission were cornerstones of swinging, that pointbis kind of void as this is more than just a swing site.
But to say peoples preferences should be irrelevant seems a little self serving here.
Dont get me wrong I would meet an attacted person if we clicked, the same way I would not rule someone out because of a body type or age bracket etc.... I just wouldnt be telling everyone else they are wrong for not doing the same |
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Ah jaysus this thread sank down to the judgement pits over night. I live in hope that some day these threads won't get so personal and judgmental I only asked were single guys the new unicorns jeez ppl learn to keep things light  |
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I'm single and have very little free time between work and activities outside of it. Some no strings fun locally suits me down to the ground unless of course, like this weekend I'm in dub land and who knows what might happen |
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"Ah jaysus this thread sank down to the judgement pits over night. I live in hope that some day these threads won't get so personal and judgmental I only asked were single guys the new unicorns jeez ppl learn to keep things light "
Some hope lol. |
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"Have single men become the new unicorns of fab. I can safely say over 3/4s of messages I have been receiving lately are from attached. I am in no way judging/attacking those that are(not my business) I'm just curious to see is it only my thinking. Or does my profile just simply attract attached men.
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I'm in the 25% , just outside your age preference. |
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