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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I am always respectful no matter how sexually explicit a profile I am respondingto is or isn't but 100% I'd say a sexually explicit profile is a magnet for people who objectify people or who loose the run of themselves with a race profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
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I think you may be correct. Absolutely sexy profile.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well I don't consider my profile sexuality explicit and my veris definitely aren't and yet every now and than I get a cracker of a message  "
Every now and Then, yes but definitely not on an hourly basis as some claim it to be... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I don't consider my profile sexuality explicit and my veris definitely aren't and yet every now and than I get a cracker of a message
Every now and Then, yes but definitely not on an hourly basis as some claim it to be... "
Yes definitely not every hour but than I also have my filters set very tight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
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What are the "wrong things" to show? Sounds contradictory to your opinion on non-judgement and "It's a dress, not a yes" mindset..
And I don't think women and couples are the only "us" on the site. I'm sure single men profiles have been subject to derogatory terms, reduced to physical attributes only and approached in a less than acceptable manner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
What are the "wrong things" to show? Sounds contradictory to your opinion on non-judgement and "It's a dress, not a yes" mindset..
And I don't think women and couples are the only "us" on the site. I'm sure single men profiles have been subject to derogatory terms, reduced to physical attributes only and approached in a less than acceptable manner. "
I don't think it matters what you show or dont show. People can just be nasty and that's males and females. I know one guy had up that he was a single parent and one of the messages he got of a woman was shocking.
There will always be nasty people in every situation and especially online. Some of the comments I've had made to me here would love to see the guy say it in person. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
What are the "wrong things" to show? Sounds contradictory to your opinion on non-judgement and "It's a dress, not a yes" mindset..
And I don't think women and couples are the only "us" on the site. I'm sure single men profiles have been subject to derogatory terms, reduced to physical attributes only and approached in a less than acceptable manner. "
"It's a dress, not a yes" - should work in an ideal world.
Unfortunately in real world it simply doesn't. Fact.
By "us" I mean myself as a woman and a part of a couple.
I am not a single man hence I can't include single man's point of view into my own personal observations. Altough yes, they are subjected to a lot of abuse and demands.
I've expressed my opinion on unfair treatment of fab single men in various topics in the past.
Few of them mentioning how some people invite them to their bed then are too ashamed to even a knowledge their existence if accidentally bump into them in real world.
How some people degrade them to sub human level with sayings like "fab men should never be trusted to enter someone's home".
How single men have no rights to have their own preferences.
You could search one of my forum threads praising single men. That's what it's called - "single men".
All I've done was just pointing out my own observations of progression of my own fab profile and inbox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
What are the "wrong things" to show? Sounds contradictory to your opinion on non-judgement and "It's a dress, not a yes" mindset..
And I don't think women and couples are the only "us" on the site. I'm sure single men profiles have been subject to derogatory terms, reduced to physical attributes only and approached in a less than acceptable manner.
"It's a dress, not a yes" - should work in an ideal world.
Unfortunately in real world it simply doesn't. Fact.
By "us" I mean myself as a woman and a part of a couple.
I am not a single man hence I can't include single man's point of view into my own personal observations. Altough yes, they are subjected to a lot of abuse and demands.
I've expressed my opinion on unfair treatment of fab single men in various topics in the past.
Few of them mentioning how some people invite them to their bed then are too ashamed to even a knowledge their existence if accidentally bump into them in real world.
How some people degrade them to sub human level with sayings like "fab men should never be trusted to enter someone's home".
How single men have no rights to have their own preferences.
You could search one of my forum threads praising single men. That's what it's called - "single men".
All I've done was just pointing out my own observations of progression of my own fab profile and inbox. "
Have to say on the whole most single guys I've chatted to are sound. Just the odd twat but you have that on a night out lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
What are the "wrong things" to show? Sounds contradictory to your opinion on non-judgement and "It's a dress, not a yes" mindset..
And I don't think women and couples are the only "us" on the site. I'm sure single men profiles have been subject to derogatory terms, reduced to physical attributes only and approached in a less than acceptable manner.
"It's a dress, not a yes" - should work in an ideal world.
Unfortunately in real world it simply doesn't. Fact.
By "us" I mean myself as a woman and a part of a couple.
I am not a single man hence I can't include single man's point of view into my own personal observations. Altough yes, they are subjected to a lot of abuse and demands.
I've expressed my opinion on unfair treatment of fab single men in various topics in the past.
Few of them mentioning how some people invite them to their bed then are too ashamed to even a knowledge their existence if accidentally bump into them in real world.
How some people degrade them to sub human level with sayings like "fab men should never be trusted to enter someone's home".
How single men have no rights to have their own preferences.
You could search one of my forum threads praising single men. That's what it's called - "single men".
All I've done was just pointing out my own observations of progression of my own fab profile and inbox.
Have to say on the whole most single guys I've chatted to are sound. Just the odd twat but you have that on a night out lol"
Exactly. But your own profile isn't vulgar either. You respect yourself, don't show random cocks penetrating you from sixteen different angles, don't have veris describing how your suction performance beats all dysons... that's what I mean about portraying yourself the way you want to be seen in others eyes... |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
What are the "wrong things" to show? Sounds contradictory to your opinion on non-judgement and "It's a dress, not a yes" mindset..
And I don't think women and couples are the only "us" on the site. I'm sure single men profiles have been subject to derogatory terms, reduced to physical attributes only and approached in a less than acceptable manner.
"It's a dress, not a yes" - should work in an ideal world.
Unfortunately in real world it simply doesn't. Fact.
By "us" I mean myself as a woman and a part of a couple.
I am not a single man hence I can't include single man's point of view into my own personal observations. Altough yes, they are subjected to a lot of abuse and demands.
I've expressed my opinion on unfair treatment of fab single men in various topics in the past.
Few of them mentioning how some people invite them to their bed then are too ashamed to even a knowledge their existence if accidentally bump into them in real world.
How some people degrade them to sub human level with sayings like "fab men should never be trusted to enter someone's home".
How single men have no rights to have their own preferences.
You could search one of my forum threads praising single men. That's what it's called - "single men".
All I've done was just pointing out my own observations of progression of my own fab profile and inbox.
Have to say on the whole most single guys I've chatted to are sound. Just the odd twat but you have that on a night out lol
Exactly. But your own profile isn't vulgar either. You respect yourself, don't show random cocks penetrating you from sixteen different angles, don't have veris describing how your suction performance beats all dysons... that's what I mean about portraying yourself the way you want to be seen in others eyes..."
While i find myself nodding my head on agreement with nearly all u are saying "the dress is not a yes" remains steadfast, on a site like this u could expect a little more openmindedness however theres always a nettle amongst the roses |
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By *adeenoMan
over a year ago
Athlone |
"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
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Tbh i who in thr right mind would give you abuse based on what they see on your profile?? Not too many cause you are a real hottie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
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If you dress like slut you get treated like slut that's just the ways of life. |
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"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
If you dress like slut you get treated like slut that's just the ways of life. "
 Wow just wow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
If you dress like slut you get treated like slut that's just the ways of life.
Wow just wow."
You seem little surprised by what I say. |
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"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
If you dress like slut you get treated like slut that's just the ways of life.
Wow just wow. You seem little surprised by what I say."
More than a little. |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
If you dress like slut you get treated like slut that's just the ways of life. "
What do sluts dress like? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
If you dress like slut you get treated like slut that's just the ways of life. "
Theres always one  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
If you dress like slut you get treated like slut that's just the ways of life. "
Is that u ralph |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
north and south |
"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
If you dress like slut you get treated like slut that's just the ways of life.
Is that u ralph "
Thats why I like pictures as the age restriction on Mrs account stops me from saying complimentary things , love little spanked bottoml ,So I like the pictures instead and I respect that she doesn't want to meet all the man that's cool I think |
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When I joined I had a different name and undie pics on public plus all my veris. Since I changed my name and only post simple snapshots and mostly have social veris posted, the messaging has changed!
Not saying I don’t get the stupid messages but compared to two years ago it’s more bearable! |
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"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
If you dress like slut you get treated like slut that's just the ways of life. "
If one acts like an ignorant pr**k then they get treated like an ignorant pr**k. That's also the way of life.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
If you dress like slut you get treated like slut that's just the ways of life.
If one acts like an ignorant pr**k then they get treated like an ignorant pr**k. That's also the way of life. "
No one's arguing with you there.But never be afraid to say what you think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
If you dress like slut you get treated like slut that's just the ways of life.
If one acts like an ignorant pr**k then they get treated like an ignorant pr**k. That's also the way of life. No one's arguing with you there.But never be afraid to say what you think. "
you do realise this is a sex site and not the herold post |
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By *onnrodMan
over a year ago
moira |
"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
If you dress like slut you get treated like slut that's just the ways of life. "
Sorry mate, you seem to have stumbled into fabswingers forum.
Sadneanderthals forum is down the street a bit... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
If you dress like slut you get treated like slut that's just the ways of life.
If one acts like an ignorant pr**k then they get treated like an ignorant pr**k. That's also the way of life. No one's arguing with you there.But never be afraid to say what you think. you do realise this is a sex site and not the herold post "
It no matter sex site or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
If you dress like slut you get treated like slut that's just the ways of life.
Sorry mate, you seem to have stumbled into fabswingers forum.
Sadneanderthals forum is down the street a bit... "
No I not stumble into it.I just give my honest answer.But as usual people don't like truth. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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Of course how you portray yourself says it on a fab profile, on the forum, in your pms etc. will have an impact how you will be treated. However I don't think the sexual explicity on a profile makes much of a difference, we're all here for sexual encounters. Imo a positive worded profile that portrays self-confidence, openmindedness, approachability and some sense of humour underlined with some classy pics will most likely get you a much more positive response in general.
It's a kinda wider application of the principle 'treat others the way you like to be treated'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
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I feel it helps your profile is ABSOLUTELY STUNNING |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Of course how you portray yourself says it on a fab profile, on the forum, in your pms etc. will have an impact how you will be treated. However I don't think the sexual explicity on a profile makes much of a difference, we're all here for sexual encounters. Imo a positive worded profile that portrays self-confidence, openmindedness, approachability and some sense of humour underlined with some classy pics will most likely get you a much more positive response in general.
It's a kinda wider application of the principle 'treat others the way you like to be treated'. "
Exactly. There's two types of sexy tho.
Classy sexy and pure filth.
Classy sexy seems to be getting less dickwads contacting them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course how you portray yourself says it on a fab profile, on the forum, in your pms etc. will have an impact how you will be treated. However I don't think the sexual explicity on a profile makes much of a difference, we're all here for sexual encounters. Imo a positive worded profile that portrays self-confidence, openmindedness, approachability and some sense of humour underlined with some classy pics will most likely get you a much more positive response in general.
It's a kinda wider application of the principle 'treat others the way you like to be treated'.
Exactly. There's two types of sexy tho.
Classy sexy and pure filth.
Classy sexy seems to be getting less dickwads contacting them "
Stay classy Missus  |
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"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
If you dress like slut you get treated like slut that's just the ways of life.
Sorry mate, you seem to have stumbled into fabswingers forum.
Sadneanderthals forum is down the street a bit... No I not stumble into it.I just give my honest answer.But as usual people don't like truth."
Some of us as are still waiting for you to explain what way a slut dresses. Please enlighten us. |
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"Of course how you portray yourself says it on a fab profile, on the forum, in your pms etc. will have an impact how you will be treated. However I don't think the sexual explicity on a profile makes much of a difference, we're all here for sexual encounters. Imo a positive worded profile that portrays self-confidence, openmindedness, approachability and some sense of humour underlined with some classy pics will most likely get you a much more positive response in general.
It's a kinda wider application of the principle 'treat others the way you like to be treated'.
Exactly. There's two types of sexy tho.
Classy sexy and pure filth.
Classy sexy seems to be getting less dickwads contacting them "
you are so classy sexy I would say I’m sure all the men agree you have nothing only stunning look and a beautiful body but you have a wicked witty funny sense of humor and that’s only judging you by profile tread topics etc  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
If you dress like slut you get treated like slut that's just the ways of life.
Sorry mate, you seem to have stumbled into fabswingers forum.
Sadneanderthals forum is down the street a bit... No I not stumble into it.I just give my honest answer.But as usual people don't like truth.
Some of us as are still waiting for you to explain what way a slut dresses. Please enlighten us."
I not here to explain my opinion take what I said or leave it.You don't have to agree with me but on the other I do not have to explain every comment I make. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saw a massive hole in the distance.. went over to check it out and it was just the one nufogils was digging
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I can't see how you come to that conclusion I said what I think and i stand by it so where exactly I'm I digging a this hole. |
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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago
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Your posts just repeatedly scream WAH WAH MY OPINION... but you won't actually explain yourself when challenged on that opinion.
You posted "Never be afraid to say what you think" a few posts back and let's be honest, that means you want justification for being a knob to people. |
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"Your posts just repeatedly scream WAH WAH MY OPINION... but you won't actually explain yourself when challenged on that opinion.
You posted "Never be afraid to say what you think" a few posts back and let's be honest, that means you want justification for being a knob to people."
I give my opinion I'm not asking people to like it or agree with it.If I want to say more or the subject I will but it won't be forced out of me by the white knights on the forums. |
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"Of course how you portray yourself says it on a fab profile, on the forum, in your pms etc. will have an impact how you will be treated. However I don't think the sexual explicity on a profile makes much of a difference, we're all here for sexual encounters. Imo a positive worded profile that portrays self-confidence, openmindedness, approachability and some sense of humour underlined with some classy pics will most likely get you a much more positive response in general.
It's a kinda wider application of the principle 'treat others the way you like to be treated'.
Exactly. There's two types of sexy tho.
Classy sexy and pure filth.
Classy sexy seems to be getting less dickwads contacting them "
i like the pure filth sexy... just sayin  |
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"Your posts just repeatedly scream WAH WAH MY OPINION... but you won't actually explain yourself when challenged on that opinion.
You posted "Never be afraid to say what you think" a few posts back and let's be honest, that means you want justification for being a knob to people. I give my opinion I'm not asking people to like it or agree with it.If I want to say more or the subject I will but it won't be forced out of me by the white knights on the forums. "
I don't see him white knighting. I just see him forming an opinion of you based on your posts. Must say my opinion would be similar to his. Manners cost nothing you'd think a man of your years would have some.
The way a woman dresses does not define her same as the way a man dress. But the way a person behaves defines them and we'll the less said about yours the better. |
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"Your posts just repeatedly scream WAH WAH MY OPINION... but you won't actually explain yourself when challenged on that opinion.
You posted "Never be afraid to say what you think" a few posts back and let's be honest, that means you want justification for being a knob to people. I give my opinion I'm not asking people to like it or agree with it.If I want to say more or the subject I will but it won't be forced out of me by the white knights on the forums.
I don't see him white knighting. I just see him forming an opinion of you based on your posts. Must say my opinion would be similar to his. Manners cost nothing you'd think a man of your years would have some.
The way a woman dresses does not define her same as the way a man dress. But the way a person behaves defines them and we'll the less said about yours the better. "
Couldn't have worded it better myself. |
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"Was going to reply to OPs original post. The bickering is turning me off the forums. I heard they were good. Maybe il just read them a while"
The forums are usually great fun. Reason I came back to the site originally. Hang around see what they are like. They aren't always this bad. Most of us here are a Friendly sort |
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"Your posts just repeatedly scream WAH WAH MY OPINION... but you won't actually explain yourself when challenged on that opinion.
You posted "Never be afraid to say what you think" a few posts back and let's be honest, that means you want justification for being a knob to people. I give my opinion I'm not asking people to like it or agree with it.If I want to say more or the subject I will but it won't be forced out of me by the white knights on the forums.
I don't see him white knighting. I just see him forming an opinion of you based on your posts. Must say my opinion would be similar to his. Manners cost nothing you'd think a man of your years would have some.
The way a woman dresses does not define her same as the way a man dress. But the way a person behaves defines them and we'll the less said about yours the better. "
I give my opinion but I'm been questioned on it.Dont know why after all everyone has opinions and I stick by mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah, white knighting = calling out a bloke labelling women as sluts based on their clothing. Good stuff, glad that's all cleared up."
What is your problem man I give my opinion on a thread get over yourself.
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"Your posts just repeatedly scream WAH WAH MY OPINION... but you won't actually explain yourself when challenged on that opinion.
You posted "Never be afraid to say what you think" a few posts back and let's be honest, that means you want justification for being a knob to people. I give my opinion I'm not asking people to like it or agree with it.If I want to say more or the subject I will but it won't be forced out of me by the white knights on the forums.
I don't see him white knighting. I just see him forming an opinion of you based on your posts. Must say my opinion would be similar to his. Manners cost nothing you'd think a man of your years would have some.
The way a woman dresses does not define her same as the way a man dress. But the way a person behaves defines them and we'll the less said about yours the better. "
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By *ucky24Man
over a year ago
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"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
Smile to myself - nice one. Then think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
If you dress like slut you get treated like slut that's just the ways of life.
What do sluts dress like?"
Any way they please and depending on their mood or degree of slutiness they are feeling or wish to project lol. |
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"Was going to reply to OPs original post. The bickering is turning me off the forums. I heard they were good. Maybe il just read them a while
The forums are usually great fun. Reason I came back to the site originally. Hang around see what they are like. They aren't always this bad. Most of us here are a Friendly sort "
Well I've only recently been able to post on forums. I intend hanging around.
Most are friendly. I'm interacting with the few so |
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"Was going to reply to OPs original post. The bickering is turning me off the forums. I heard they were good. Maybe il just read them a while
The forums are usually great fun. Reason I came back to the site originally. Hang around see what they are like. They aren't always this bad. Most of us here are a Friendly sort
Well I've only recently been able to post on forums. I intend hanging around.
Most are friendly. I'm interacting with the few so"
Be careful not upset anyone they very demanding here. |
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Well done Missus
You ignited the forums again 
I'm not commenting, or engaging in the debate, as it's a loaded scenario/ question.
I'll just say DogHunters response was the best and mirrors my thoughts |
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"Well done Missus
You ignited the forums again
I'm not commenting, or engaging in the debate, as it's a loaded scenario/ question.
I'll just say DogHunters response was the best and mirrors my thoughts "
You not need debate just give your honest opinion. If people don't like that not you problem. |
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"Here's me be browsing the jungle of fab nothing out of norm...
See 6 new messages in my inbox. Open them one by one... and.. every single one of them are nice, respectful and genuinely kind.
Four of them complement my profile saying that that's exactly how they feel about the site and the swinging scene.
think... wait a minute - I haven't received a single shitty message in over two weeks now. Also changed my profile around two weeks ago.
Here's me thinks - when us (women and couples) sexualize ourselves a little too much in our profiles, maybe then some lose the plot and go by their primal instincts and start treating us purely as sex objects?
Is it our profiles that make some people disrespect us?
Is it some of our veris?
Maybe it's us that attract wrong attention by showing others the wrong things?
I'm a strong believer that a human being shouldn't be treated differently judging by the clothes they're wearing. I.E. "it's a dress, not a yes" kind of sayings and all. But... in a real practical world time and time again I just keep noticing that you do get treated differently depending purely on the way you present yourself.
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Its so nice to get a pleasantly written complementary mail to both of you. We got one last night and all it said was "hello thundertits" a little funny yes, and yes it's a sex site yes my boobs and ass ok and pussy is there to see but come on guys. |
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