"When you are at a cross road in your life and you dont know what you want. What do you do to help you make decisions?  "
Walk the Camino. It's a great way to clear the mind and slow everything down. |
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"When you are at a cross road in your life and you dont know what you want. What do you do to help you make decisions?
Walk the Camino. It's a great way to clear the mind and slow everything down. "
Agree I done it previous and it really does make you focus on what you want and clears the head |
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"When you are at a cross road in your life and you dont know what you want. What do you do to help you make decisions? "
Don't go with the way the wind is blowing because it could put you in the wrong direction..Stay with the flow and you'll be fine |
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"When you are at a cross road in your life and you dont know what you want. What do you do to help you make decisions? "
Sometimes, people say flip a a coin, and while the coin is in the air, you know what way you want the coin to land, and somewhat make the decision before it lands.......that depending on how serious the decision is, flipping a coin might not be the vest option |
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"Have mind blowing sex "
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Reality?
Make a list of pro's and con's of each, then decide.
Take 24hrs to make the list because you will think of stuff to add to either as you're going about your day.
Never make a major decision without doing this.
Then, once decided, go fully into your decision, don't look back and do NOT do the What If scenario crap afterwards.
It usually works out in the end  |
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"Have mind blowing sex
Best Fab answer
Reality?
Make a list of pro's and con's of each, then decide.
Take 24hrs to make the list because you will think of stuff to add to either as you're going about your day.
Never make a major decision without doing this.
Then, once decided, go fully into your decision, don't look back and do NOT do the What If scenario crap afterwards.
It usually works out in the end "
My life is full of what ifs right now. And I know I need to let that all go and start again. I am happy in my life I just dont know ia it enough |
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"When you are at a cross road in your life and you dont know what you want. What do you do to help you make decisions?
Sometimes, people say flip a a coin, and while the coin is in the air, you know what way you want the coin to land, and somewhat make the decision before it lands.......that depending on how serious the decision is, flipping a coin might not be the vest option"
I dont think mine is a flipping coin situation. I have mad many stupid choices of flipping coins |
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"Have mind blowing sex
Best Fab answer
Reality?
Make a list of pro's and con's of each, then decide.
Take 24hrs to make the list because you will think of stuff to add to either as you're going about your day.
Never make a major decision without doing this.
Then, once decided, go fully into your decision, don't look back and do NOT do the What If scenario crap afterwards.
It usually works out in the end
My life is full of what ifs right now. And I know I need to let that all go and start again. I am happy in my life I just dont know ia it enough "
You are happy but you don't know if it's enough?
If you are genuinely happy, then yes it is.
If you are kinda happy but think you're not completely fulfilled and fulfilling your potential, then it's clear.
Decide where you want to reach, that high point of your goals.
Map out what you need to do to get there, the steps it will take, how you will achieve them, what you'll have to give up to get there, what you'll have because you did get there and then plan how long you want to take to do it.
If it's more than two years then the plan doesn't need too many specifics beyond year one but revisit 3ach year and map out the next 12mths.
Hang on!
Should I be charging for this life coaching? |
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Get some paper and a pen
Write down at the top what the issue is or whatever it is you are thinking about
It might not be entirely appropriate but then write down further additional issues
Then possible courses of action
Pro’s and Cons
A timescale
Maybe chat to a very close friend if you feel you can do so who will give an impartial analysis . Sometimes when you are wedded to or are close to an issue it can be difficult to see a way forward. Two minds are better than one.
Make an interim decision and see how it goes. But don’t do nothing. Life’s too short |
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