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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not appreciate all women regardless of size "
Because it’s his thread. His appreciation. His perogative.
There’s always one negative troll isn’t there
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"Why not appreciate all women regardless of size
Because it’s his thread. His appreciation. His perogative.
There’s always one negative troll isn’t there
" my opinion regardless of his thread.... hardly a troll comment |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Why not appreciate all women regardless of size
Because it’s his thread. His appreciation. His perogative.
There’s always one negative troll isn’t there
my opinion regardless of his thread.... hardly a troll comment "
Agree it's not a troll comment, however it's often argued on here that it's ok to have preferences, and that is one. So why not having a thread about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not appreciate all women regardless of size
Because it’s his thread. His appreciation. His perogative.
There’s always one negative troll isn’t there
my opinion regardless of his thread.... hardly a troll comment
Agree it's not a troll comment, however it's often argued on here that it's ok to have preferences, and that is one. So why not having a thread about it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not appreciate all women regardless of size
I was just thinking the same. I dont get the need to single out bbws every one is Beautiful in their own way...."
I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t understand the need to categorize a woman as a “BBW” can’t she just be an attractive woman full stop
Men aren’t categorized in the same way unless it’s a bbc-which I don’t agree with either
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don’t understand ? You get all upset ? Ffs. So.... BBW, MILF, GILF, Dom , sub, daddy etc etc etc . These are all categories . This is a sex site. Some people have fantasy’s and preferences and when someone expresses it, the negative brigade get all upset and pompous because we’re not just simply saying men and women. Jeez. |
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"You don’t understand ? You get all upset ? Ffs. So.... BBW, MILF, GILF, Dom , sub, daddy etc etc etc . These are all categories . This is a sex site. Some people have fantasy’s and preferences and when someone expresses it, the negative brigade get all upset and pompous because we’re not just simply saying men and women. Jeez."
I don't think anyone was getting upset just like you we are allowed to voice our opinion. There is nothing wrong with that it's a public forum after all.
Opinions are not facts so why get so irritated by them. |
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Everyone had a preference which you can give in your own profile. As this is a public forum people can disagree or agree with the thread...it looks like people can't voice any opinion what's so ever.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You don’t understand ? You get all upset ? Ffs. So.... BBW, MILF, GILF, Dom , sub, daddy etc etc etc . These are all categories . This is a sex site. Some people have fantasy’s and preferences and when someone expresses it, the negative brigade get all upset and pompous because we’re not just simply saying men and women. Jeez."
Gilf Milf Dom Sub do not categorize people by their body shape it’s by their sexual preference so it’s completely different. I personally am voicing my opinion about the word BBW I feel so strongly about it that if I’m messaged and the mail contains that word I delete without reply |
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For some it is a complimentary term, but for others they see it as derogatory.
I understand where some are saying it's a persons preference, but I don't think any woman should be defined by her weight or lack of it.
Each and every woman is different as are men. End of the day we are people. Some people are body conscious and I know the OP was only trying to show his appreciation for the ladies, but the term does cause offense to some.
Before anyone says it. No I'm not white knighting anyone. I'm just stating an opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For some it is a complimentary term, but for others they see it as derogatory.
I understand where some are saying it's a persons preference, but I don't think any woman should be defined by her weight or lack of it.
Each and every woman is different as are men. End of the day we are people. Some people are body conscious and I know the OP was only trying to show his appreciation for the ladies, but the term does cause offense to some.
Before anyone says it. No I'm not white knighting anyone. I'm just stating an opinion. "
The people who use BBW the most ; by far and away the most ; are BBWs themselves. They label themselves as BBWs and are proud to call themselves BBWs. So come on the negative self righteous do- gooders- have a go at these women too.Go on. Message them. Tell them what you think of them . No?. Didn’t think so |
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"For some it is a complimentary term, but for others they see it as derogatory.
I understand where some are saying it's a persons preference, but I don't think any woman should be defined by her weight or lack of it.
Each and every woman is different as are men. End of the day we are people. Some people are body conscious and I know the OP was only trying to show his appreciation for the ladies, but the term does cause offense to some.
Before anyone says it. No I'm not white knighting anyone. I'm just stating an opinion.
The people who use BBW the most ; by far and away the most ; are BBWs themselves. They label themselves as BBWs and are proud to call themselves BBWs. So come on the negative self righteous do- gooders- have a go at these women too.Go on. Message them. Tell them what you think of them . No?. Didn’t think so"
Can you point out where I'm having a go?
I only stated that some like it, some don't, and the reasoning behind it? No? Still don't see how I'm having a go or putting anyone down in anyway.
I could say more about some irony in your comment, but I'll refrain. |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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You think there’d be negativity around a thread complimenting slim women but you can’t help but spread negativity to a thread about bbws?
If you don’t like the subject, there’s really no need to comment. The OP has his opinion, someone feeling down about themselves might see it and get a little boost. If you don’t like the term bbw that’s your opinion but there’s no need to express it in this way. |
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I've not stated the term causes me offense, it doesn't.
I just started that some women do find the term to be.
Not trying to be negative in anyway quiet the opposite infact.
I was just trying to defuse a situation with an explanation with both sides of the argument. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You think there’d be negativity around a thread complimenting slim women but you can’t help but spread negativity to a thread about bbws?
If you don’t like the subject, there’s really no need to comment. The OP has his opinion, someone feeling down about themselves might see it and get a little boost. If you don’t like the term bbw that’s your opinion but there’s no need to express it in this way. "
Just put BBW into the search box and you will see hundreds of women and couples who describe themselves as such. Do they deserve the vitriol of some negative holier than thou individuals on this thread who can’t see past their own intransigence? |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
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"I've not stated the term causes me offense, it doesn't.
I just started that some women do find the term to be.
Not trying to be negative in anyway quiet the opposite infact.
I was just trying to defuse a situation with an explanation with both sides of the argument."
I’m sure that if those women have a problem with the term, they can speak for themselves or they can just move on with their lives. |
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I dont think no one has said they don't appreciate bbw ladies,
I think all ladies and men no matter the size the gender the sexuality should all be appreciated... this has no reflection on the word what so ever.. if overs feel it has in this thread its there problem in the matter not mine. No one is running anyone down.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t understand the need to categorize a woman as a “BBW” can’t she just be an attractive woman full stop
Men aren’t categorized in the same way unless it’s a bbc-which I don’t agree with either
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I am assuming (maybe wrongly!) that the c in bbc stands for cock. How do you equate woman to cock and state any sort of equivalency? |
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"You think there’d be negativity around a thread complimenting slim women but you can’t help but spread negativity to a thread about bbws?
If you don’t like the subject, there’s really no need to comment. The OP has his opinion, someone feeling down about themselves might see it and get a little boost. If you don’t like the term bbw that’s your opinion but there’s no need to express it in this way.
Just put BBW into the search box and you will see hundreds of women and couples who describe themselves as such. Do they deserve the vitriol of some negative holier than thou individuals on this thread who can’t see past their own intransigence?"
But your the one that trying to make an issue where there wasn't one.. you don't need to speak on behalf of big girls I for one don't need you too I'm capable of doing so myself. All your comments bring is negativity as you try to talk down to ppl.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You think there’d be negativity around a thread complimenting slim women but you can’t help but spread negativity to a thread about bbws?
If you don’t like the subject, there’s really no need to comment. The OP has his opinion, someone feeling down about themselves might see it and get a little boost. If you don’t like the term bbw that’s your opinion but there’s no need to express it in this way.
Just put BBW into the search box and you will see hundreds of women and couples who describe themselves as such. Do they deserve the vitriol of some negative holier than thou individuals on this thread who can’t see past their own intransigence?
But your the one that trying to make an issue where there wasn't one.. you don't need to speak on behalf of big girls I for one don't need you too I'm capable of doing so myself. All your comments bring is negativity as you try to talk down to ppl.. "
Can you not read ?. Read your earlier comments and those of others. The thread was perfectly fine until you and others started going on about why people call women BBWs. Err- hello. Women call themselves BBWs. Don’t you get it yet. Yes I’m negative, negative about people like you who moan about threads like this which are praising women . But oh no, here you come along and pontificate about others |
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"You think there’d be negativity around a thread complimenting slim women but you can’t help but spread negativity to a thread about bbws?
If you don’t like the subject, there’s really no need to comment. The OP has his opinion, someone feeling down about themselves might see it and get a little boost. If you don’t like the term bbw that’s your opinion but there’s no need to express it in this way.
Just put BBW into the search box and you will see hundreds of women and couples who describe themselves as such. Do they deserve the vitriol of some negative holier than thou individuals on this thread who can’t see past their own intransigence?
But your the one that trying to make an issue where there wasn't one.. you don't need to speak on behalf of big girls I for one don't need you too I'm capable of doing so myself. All your comments bring is negativity as you try to talk down to ppl..
Can you not read ?. Read your earlier comments and those of others. The thread was perfectly fine until you and others started going on about why people call women BBWs. Err- hello. Women call themselves BBWs. Don’t you get it yet. Yes I’m negative, negative about people like you who moan about threads like this which are praising women . But oh no, here you come along and pontificate about others"
There was nothing pompous about my one little comment as i am a big girl i seen no harm in what I said . But you go right ahead and continue to make it much bigger than it is.. I dont feel the need to continue to interact with you any longer so I'll leave you go ahead and get another dig in. I know my earlier comment wasn't ment in any bad light but you make what you will of it . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not appreciate all women regardless of size
Because it’s his thread. His appreciation. His perogative.
There’s always one negative troll isn’t there
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Your definition of a troll must be very broad... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For some it is a complimentary term, but for others they see it as derogatory.
I understand where some are saying it's a persons preference, but I don't think any woman should be defined by her weight or lack of it.
Each and every woman is different as are men. End of the day we are people. Some people are body conscious and I know the OP was only trying to show his appreciation for the ladies, but the term does cause offense to some.
Before anyone says it. No I'm not white knighting anyone. I'm just stating an opinion.
The people who use BBW the most ; by far and away the most ; are BBWs themselves. They label themselves as BBWs and are proud to call themselves BBWs. So come on the negative self righteous do- gooders- have a go at these women too.Go on. Message them. Tell them what you think of them . No?. Didn’t think so"
That's funny. I'm "curvy" and I never say BBW. Neither do any of my "curvy" friends. In fact, I can't think of a single bigger gal who likes to use that term.
I think most women prefer to be called women actually.
And to be given a chance to speak for themselves rather than have some man do it for them and get it wrong.
Every woman is entitled to draw her own line and set her own boundaries with what she's comfortable with. They are also entitled to form their own opinions, and to express them.
Please leave that to the women. Thank u. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For some it is a complimentary term, but for others they see it as derogatory.
I understand where some are saying it's a persons preference, but I don't think any woman should be defined by her weight or lack of it.
Each and every woman is different as are men. End of the day we are people. Some people are body conscious and I know the OP was only trying to show his appreciation for the ladies, but the term does cause offense to some.
Before anyone says it. No I'm not white knighting anyone. I'm just stating an opinion.
The people who use BBW the most ; by far and away the most ; are BBWs themselves. They label themselves as BBWs and are proud to call themselves BBWs. So come on the negative self righteous do- gooders- have a go at these women too.Go on. Message them. Tell them what you think of them . No?. Didn’t think so
That's funny. I'm "curvy" and I never say BBW. Neither do any of my "curvy" friends. In fact, I can't think of a single bigger gal who likes to use that term.
I think most women prefer to be called women actually.
And to be given a chance to speak for themselves rather than have some man do it for them and get it wrong.
Every woman is entitled to draw her own line and set her own boundaries with what she's comfortable with. They are also entitled to form their own opinions, and to express them.
Please leave that to the women. Thank u. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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A man started this thread.
This is a sex site. You may not have any ‘friends’who call themselves BBWs but hundreds of women on here do. That’s a fact whether you like it or not. Of course you are entitled to your opinion. Just be aware that it is only an opinion that does not correlate with the hundreds of women on here who DO describe themselves as BBWs.
So yes OP, a big shout out to all the Big Beautiful Women on FAB. Long may they be appreciated by us MEN. Long may THEY be proud to describe THEMSELVES as BBW. If other women on here don’t like the term BBW, then tough luck. Jeez, some women need to wise up |
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"A man started this thread.
This is a sex site. You may not have any ‘friends’who call themselves BBWs but hundreds of women on here do. That’s a fact whether you like it or not. Of course you are entitled to your opinion. Just be aware that it is only an opinion that does not correlate with the hundreds of women on here who DO describe themselves as BBWs.
So yes OP, a big shout out to all the Big Beautiful Women on FAB. Long may they be appreciated by us MEN. Long may THEY be proud to describe THEMSELVES as BBW. If other women on here don’t like the term BBW, then tough luck. Jeez, some women need to wise up"
Yep. He did. And as a big girl, I'm delighted to see it. I don't think a single woman in this thread has given out to him for being into big girls. Nobody's doing that.
What u did was attempt to white Knight an entire group of women who no more want or need your help than a hole in the head, while also talking down to any woman who disagreed with you.
Women are well able to represent their own opinions on this, and a great many matters. We welcome your opinion too. We just ask that you don't try to speak for us. |
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