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We've had the complaints about not being in the clique and being ignored by clique members... So let's corral up all these terrible clique members and give them their own thread so they're not bothering anyone!  
I'm a regular forum poster with a tendency to reply more to and flirt more with friends (how very dare I!! The cheek of it!!) than complete strangers or people I haven't already got a rapport with, so I'm guessing I'm viewed as being a clique member.
Anyone else feel that they may (rightly or wrongly) belong on this thread?
Do you suspect you may be in the clique? |
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"Don't think I am but would like to join. Is there an interview process? Can I have an application form please?  do you need friends?"
Did you start posting because you needed friends? Or because you follow posts and have an opinion to share? |
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"Don't think I am but would like to join. Is there an interview process? Can I have an application form please? "
I think we'd have to know who the head of the clique is in order to do that... Awkward!!! Maybe if we just wait here one of the senior clique members will explain the rules...? |
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"Don't think I am but would like to join. Is there an interview process? Can I have an application form please? do you need friends?
Did you start posting because you needed friends? Or because you follow posts and have an opinion to share?"
I most certainly don't need friends. Do the regular swingers and fab meeters have everyday life friends also? |
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"The only way to find out is to ask someone who isn't in it as they seem to decide who is. It's complicated.  "
But then how do you know who to ask?  It's a bit like a secret society... Is there a clique handshake? A code word?
Better yet... Is there a helpline??!!  |
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"The only way to find out is to ask someone who isn't in it as they seem to decide who is. It's complicated.
But then how do you know who to ask? It's a bit like a secret society... Is there a clique handshake? A code word?
Better yet... Is there a helpline??!! "
Or a support group? |
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"We completed form mfm4a bit haven't heard back yet - is the clique full?"
This is all a bit embarrassing really as we don't know who to submit forms to... There seems to be lots of people awkwardly milling about clutching paperwork and tentatively smiling at each other in the hope that someone will take charge...  |
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"Don't think I am but would like to join. Is there an interview process? Can I have an application form please? do you need friends?
Did you start posting because you needed friends? Or because you follow posts and have an opinion to share?I most certainly don't need friends. Do the regular swingers and fab meeters have everyday life friends also?"
Ofcourse not, we're all lonely weirdos with no real life social skills and come here to express opinions we're afraid to in the real world... Doormats  |
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"Don't think I am but would like to join. Is there an interview process? Can I have an application form please? do you need friends?
Did you start posting because you needed friends? Or because you follow posts and have an opinion to share?"
No need of friends. Its because at times I find the forums enjoyable and some people have a great sense of humour and funny stories. The antics some have gotten up too are hilarios. Like when Ashnbash when camping. She was a very very funny lady. Over the years have actually got a few meets from the forums too! Win win! |
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"Don't think I am but would like to join. Is there an interview process? Can I have an application form please? do you need friends?
Did you start posting because you needed friends? Or because you follow posts and have an opinion to share?I most certainly don't need friends. Do the regular swingers and fab meeters have everyday life friends also?
Ofcourse not, we're all lonely weirdos with no real life social skills and come here to express opinions we're afraid to in the real world... Doormats "
as I was thinking. |
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"We completed form mfm4a bit haven't heard back yet - is the clique full?
This is all a bit embarrassing really as we don't know who to submit forms to... There seems to be lots of people awkwardly milling about clutching paperwork and tentatively smiling at each other in the hope that someone will take charge... "
Nahh. I like it being a mystery. Like The Wizard Of Oz.  |
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"We completed form mfm4a bit haven't heard back yet - is the clique full?
This is all a bit embarrassing really as we don't know who to submit forms to... There seems to be lots of people awkwardly milling about clutching paperwork and tentatively smiling at each other in the hope that someone will take charge... "
Just wait for a couple to start cliqueing and everyone will relax into it  |
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"What this is great for Is seen the true swingers. Great thread
Happy to be of assistance... Although I'd have thought having a few veris would have identified them for you just as easily! "
no no. That's not near enough or what I'm talking about. Also, I don't read veris. |
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The thing about thread interaction is, it's necessary. Good or bad... If everyone was to wake up in the morning and say to themselves 'right, I'm going to post 1 thread. I will only interact with people who join me on my thread. I will not post on anyone else's threads. That way I can't possibly offend anybody.', that would be the end of the forums. Hundreds of threads started but nobody replying. If people don't get along... Just avoid interaction with each other (in fact if you're blocked by someone it's against site rules to circumvent a block by interacting on the forums). If people do get along they will gravitate towards each other and are more likely to reply to each other's comments.
As Michael already pointed out, it seems that the only people who know for sure who is in the clique are those who feel they are marginalised, for whatever reason. Like myself, I think most regular posters are never quite sure whether they're seen as being cliquish or not. |
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"The thing about thread interaction is, it's necessary. Good or bad... If everyone was to wake up in the morning and say to themselves 'right, I'm going to post 1 thread. I will only interact with people who join me on my thread. I will not post on anyone else's threads. That way I can't possibly offend anybody.', that would be the end of the forums. Hundreds of threads started but nobody replying. If people don't get along... Just avoid interaction with each other (in fact if you're blocked by someone it's against site rules to circumvent a block by interacting on the forums). If people do get along they will gravitate towards each other and are more likely to reply to each other's comments.
As Michael already pointed out, it seems that the only people who know for sure who is in the clique are those who feel they are marginalised, for whatever reason. Like myself, I think most regular posters are never quite sure whether they're seen as being cliquish or not. "
that's what makes the forums good. If everybody all got on the place would be very boring. People here as true swingers or just for no strings sex. Let them all interact and bounce off each other. |
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"We've had the complaints about not being in the clique and being ignored by clique members... So let's corral up all these terrible clique members and give them their own thread so they're not bothering anyone!
I'm a regular forum poster with a tendency to reply more to and flirt more with friends (how very dare I!! The cheek of it!!) than complete strangers or people I haven't already got a rapport with, so I'm guessing I'm viewed as being a clique member.
Anyone else feel that they may (rightly or wrongly) belong on this thread?
Do you suspect you may be in the clique? "
You’re definitely a member of something alright. Is it a clique? I don’t know  |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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Oh oh please please can I collect the application forms? I promise I won't share or laugh at the contents and I'll keep them safe until we find the founder of the clique. And yes shlong go have an MRI.  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"The thing about thread interaction is, it's necessary. Good or bad... If everyone was to wake up in the morning and say to themselves 'right, I'm going to post 1 thread. I will only interact with people who join me on my thread. I will not post on anyone else's threads. That way I can't possibly offend anybody.', that would be the end of the forums. Hundreds of threads started but nobody replying. If people don't get along... Just avoid interaction with each other (in fact if you're blocked by someone it's against site rules to circumvent a block by interacting on the forums). If people do get along they will gravitate towards each other and are more likely to reply to each other's comments.
As Michael already pointed out, it seems that the only people who know for sure who is in the clique are those who feel they are marginalised, for whatever reason. Like myself, I think most regular posters are never quite sure whether they're seen as being cliquish or not. "
U mean ask the anticlique clique who's in the clique thats a bit cliquish isnt it |
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"The thing about thread interaction is, it's necessary. Good or bad... If everyone was to wake up in the morning and say to themselves 'right, I'm going to post 1 thread. I will only interact with people who join me on my thread. I will not post on anyone else's threads. That way I can't possibly offend anybody.', that would be the end of the forums. Hundreds of threads started but nobody replying. If people don't get along... Just avoid interaction with each other (in fact if you're blocked by someone it's against site rules to circumvent a block by interacting on the forums). If people do get along they will gravitate towards each other and are more likely to reply to each other's comments.
As Michael already pointed out, it seems that the only people who know for sure who is in the clique are those who feel they are marginalised, for whatever reason. Like myself, I think most regular posters are never quite sure whether they're seen as being cliquish or not.
U mean ask the anticlique clique who's in the clique thats a bit cliquish isnt it "
More Clique's than a tap show. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"The thing about thread interaction is, it's necessary. Good or bad... If everyone was to wake up in the morning and say to themselves 'right, I'm going to post 1 thread. I will only interact with people who join me on my thread. I will not post on anyone else's threads. That way I can't possibly offend anybody.', that would be the end of the forums. Hundreds of threads started but nobody replying. If people don't get along... Just avoid interaction with each other (in fact if you're blocked by someone it's against site rules to circumvent a block by interacting on the forums). If people do get along they will gravitate towards each other and are more likely to reply to each other's comments.
As Michael already pointed out, it seems that the only people who know for sure who is in the clique are those who feel they are marginalised, for whatever reason. Like myself, I think most regular posters are never quite sure whether they're seen as being cliquish or not.
U mean ask the anticlique clique who's in the clique thats a bit cliquish isnt it
More Clique's than a tap show. "
Arent they a different breed of click |
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"The thing about thread interaction is, it's necessary. Good or bad... If everyone was to wake up in the morning and say to themselves 'right, I'm going to post 1 thread. I will only interact with people who join me on my thread. I will not post on anyone else's threads. That way I can't possibly offend anybody.', that would be the end of the forums. Hundreds of threads started but nobody replying. If people don't get along... Just avoid interaction with each other (in fact if you're blocked by someone it's against site rules to circumvent a block by interacting on the forums). If people do get along they will gravitate towards each other and are more likely to reply to each other's comments.
As Michael already pointed out, it seems that the only people who know for sure who is in the clique are those who feel they are marginalised, for whatever reason. Like myself, I think most regular posters are never quite sure whether they're seen as being cliquish or not.
U mean ask the anticlique clique who's in the clique thats a bit cliquish isnt it
More Clique's than a tap show.
Arent they a different breed of click "
Depends who you ask here. It's like politics. I can neither confirm nor deny the presents of a Clique, click, or click missing it's "c". |
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"My knee has recently started clicking....can I join ir should I just book an mri
We're still waiting for someone to explain the rules and membership process... I was hoping you knew? "
If ye are waiting on me to organise anything formal we are fooked..... |
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"Oh oh please please can I collect the application forms? I promise I won't share or laugh at the contents and I'll keep them safe until we find the founder of the clique. And yes shlong go have an MRI. "
Finally some solid medical advise what the forum is really for |
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The first rule of the CLIQUE is: You do not talk about the CLIQUE.
The second rule of the CLIQUE is: You do not talk about the CLIQUE.
Third rule of the CLIQUE: Someone yells "Stop!", goes limp, taps out, the play is over.
Fourth rule: Only CLIQUE members decide who joins the CLIQUE
TYLER (BIG DICK) DURDEN, founder of the (Irish) CLIQUE |
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Most of the fab people I have met in real life rarely if ever post on the forums. I think everyone is welcome to contribute, some just choose to get involved, some don’t. I don’t think there is a clique, if there is I amn’t a member which is fine, as to quote Groucho Marx “I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member!” |
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"We've had the complaints about not being in the clique and being ignored by clique members... So let's corral up all these terrible clique members and give them their own thread so they're not bothering anyone!
I'm a regular forum poster with a tendency to reply more to and flirt more with friends (how very dare I!! The cheek of it!!) than complete strangers or people I haven't already got a rapport with, so I'm guessing I'm viewed as being a clique member.
Anyone else feel that they may (rightly or wrongly) belong on this thread?
Do you suspect you may be in the clique?
You’re definitely a member of something alright. Is it a clique? I don’t know "
Fab... I'm a member of Fab... |
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"Oh oh please please can I collect the application forms? I promise I won't share or laugh at the contents and I'll keep them safe until we find the founder of the clique. And yes shlong go have an MRI. "
Cool... That's that sorted... Shall I boil the kettle and open the hobnobs (they seem like a vaguely cliquish snack)? |
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"The thing about thread interaction is, it's necessary. Good or bad... If everyone was to wake up in the morning and say to themselves 'right, I'm going to post 1 thread. I will only interact with people who join me on my thread. I will not post on anyone else's threads. That way I can't possibly offend anybody.', that would be the end of the forums. Hundreds of threads started but nobody replying. If people don't get along... Just avoid interaction with each other (in fact if you're blocked by someone it's against site rules to circumvent a block by interacting on the forums). If people do get along they will gravitate towards each other and are more likely to reply to each other's comments.
As Michael already pointed out, it seems that the only people who know for sure who is in the clique are those who feel they are marginalised, for whatever reason. Like myself, I think most regular posters are never quite sure whether they're seen as being cliquish or not.
U mean ask the anticlique clique who's in the clique thats a bit cliquish isnt it
More Clique's than a tap show.
Arent they a different breed of click
Depends who you ask here. It's like politics. I can neither confirm nor deny the presents of a Clique, click, or click missing it's "c"."
My head hurts.... |
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By *oseredWoman
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"Most of the fab people I have met in real life rarely if ever post on the forums. I think everyone is welcome to contribute, some just choose to get involved, some don’t. I don’t think there is a clique, if there is I amn’t a member which is fine, as to quote Groucho Marx “I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member!”"
But how do you know if you're in a clique or not. Apparently the people in it don't know they're in it. are you the secret leader and you're testing your members? |
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"My knee has recently started clicking....can I join ir should I just book an mri
We're still waiting for someone to explain the rules and membership process... I was hoping you knew?
If ye are waiting on me to organise anything formal we are fooked....."
Isn't that 'what we are all here for'? |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh oh please please can I collect the application forms? I promise I won't share or laugh at the contents and I'll keep them safe until we find the founder of the clique. And yes shlong go have an MRI.
Cool... That's that sorted... Shall I boil the kettle and open the hobnobs (they seem like a vaguely cliquish snack)? "
Love a cuppa now. I'll just have a banana though. Dieting ya know. |
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"Most of the fab people I have met in real life rarely if ever post on the forums. I think everyone is welcome to contribute, some just choose to get involved, some don’t. I don’t think there is a clique, if there is I amn’t a member which is fine, as to quote Groucho Marx “I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member!”"
I could probably count the people I've met who post on this particular Forum on one hand... Whereas in the Lounge I'd need to borrow several hands and feet to count digits... Or form a conga line... Maybe do Rock The Boat on the dance floor? There I go off on a tangent again... Anyway, point is I know feck all people on the Ireland Forum personally.. I chat to a few more with varying degrees of regularity... There's maybe 1 person I chat with in pm on a daily basis... But I know that I do tend to reply to those I chat with more often on the forums and have a little flirt.... So I admit that it's entirely possible I might seem cliquish... It's not intentional though. |
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"Most of the fab people I have met in real life rarely if ever post on the forums. I think everyone is welcome to contribute, some just choose to get involved, some don’t. I don’t think there is a clique, if there is I amn’t a member which is fine, as to quote Groucho Marx “I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member!”
But how do you know if you're in a clique or not. Apparently the people in it don't know they're in it. are you the secret leader and you're testing your members?"
Y'know... You could be right... I have my suspicions about that one (wink, wink) |
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"Most of the fab people I have met in real life rarely if ever post on the forums. I think everyone is welcome to contribute, some just choose to get involved, some don’t. I don’t think there is a clique, if there is I amn’t a member which is fine, as to quote Groucho Marx “I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member!”
I could probably count the people I've met who post on this particular Forum on one hand... Whereas in the Lounge I'd need to borrow several hands and feet to count digits... Or form a conga line... Maybe do Rock The Boat on the dance floor? There I go off on a tangent again... Anyway, point is I know feck all people on the Ireland Forum personally.. I chat to a few more with varying degrees of regularity... There's maybe 1 person I chat with in pm on a daily basis... But I know that I do tend to reply to those I chat with more often on the forums and have a little flirt.... So I admit that it's entirely possible I might seem cliquish... It's not intentional though. "
I don't meet forumites in general here or in the lounge, maybe two or three in 6 yrs. Have chatted with a few over the years but that's been the limit. Its those who mm at look on or read only that I tend to meet. |
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"Oh oh please please can I collect the application forms? I promise I won't share or laugh at the contents and I'll keep them safe until we find the founder of the clique. And yes shlong go have an MRI.
Cool... That's that sorted... Shall I boil the kettle and open the hobnobs (they seem like a vaguely cliquish snack)?
Love a cuppa now. I'll just have a banana though. Dieting ya know."
STOP!
There's way too much sugar in it. Have a few tasty nuts. |
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"Oh oh please please can I collect the application forms? I promise I won't share or laugh at the contents and I'll keep them safe until we find the founder of the clique. And yes shlong go have an MRI.
Cool... That's that sorted... Shall I boil the kettle and open the hobnobs (they seem like a vaguely cliquish snack)?
Love a cuppa now. I'll just have a banana though. Dieting ya know."
Can I get mine delievered to the MRI placey thing..... |
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"Interesting clichés used. I'm guessing some have a greater understanding than they wish to let on. "
No matter where you go or what you do in life there will always be the perception of cliques or inner circles... I've been told on numerous occasions that I'm a member of various cliques, and also been told that I'm not a member of the same cliques by other people... So I conclude that the perceptions of cliques exist with a kind of schroedinger's membership... Nobody can definitively tell you if you're in one or not, least of all yourself. |
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"Interesting clichés used. I'm guessing some have a greater understanding than they wish to let on.
No matter where you go or what you do in life there will always be the perception of cliques or inner circles... I've been told on numerous occasions that I'm a member of various cliques, and also been told that I'm not a member of the same cliques by other people... So I conclude that the perceptions of cliques exist with a kind of schroedinger's membership... Nobody can definitively tell you if you're in one or not, least of all yourself. "
One of the many dilemmas we gave here and in real life. |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh oh please please can I collect the application forms? I promise I won't share or laugh at the contents and I'll keep them safe until we find the founder of the clique. And yes shlong go have an MRI.
Cool... That's that sorted... Shall I boil the kettle and open the hobnobs (they seem like a vaguely cliquish snack)?
Love a cuppa now. I'll just have a banana though. Dieting ya know.
Can I get mine delievered to the MRI placey thing..... "
No they have a no hot drinks rule too. |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh oh please please can I collect the application forms? I promise I won't share or laugh at the contents and I'll keep them safe until we find the founder of the clique. And yes shlong go have an MRI.
Cool... That's that sorted... Shall I boil the kettle and open the hobnobs (they seem like a vaguely cliquish snack)?
Love a cuppa now. I'll just have a banana though. Dieting ya know.
STOP!
There's way too much sugar in it. Have a few tasty nuts. "
You said nuts! sorry ok, I didn't have the banana can you text me like that everytime I want the wrong food? |
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""In the clique"?
I am the clique "
See I knew that, but didn't like to say.... Can we all have fresh application forms please as I was collecting them for Red earlier but spilled mochacino on them...? |
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"Whats a schroedinger's ?
Google Schrodinger's Cat... Don't worry... For once I'm not sending you to look at some weird fetish "
Oh no, not Schrodinger's Pussy again!
There is a clique, I've been to a party in a big mansion with them. None of them are on Fab, it's a different world. Fab is grand though lads. |
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"Whats a schroedinger's ?
Google Schrodinger's Cat... Don't worry... For once I'm not sending you to look at some weird fetish
Oh no, not Schrodinger's Pussy again!
There is a clique, I've been to a party in a big mansion with them. None of them are on Fab, it's a different world. Fab is grand though lads. "
Ah ffs now I want to know all about this mysterious other clique that meets in mansions.... new thread!!! |
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"I'm more of a dirty little secret to a clique member.
How so? Oooo... Is there a dirty little secret clique?? That sounds positively salacious!!! "
There may well be. mmm if only it wasnt secret think of the stories it could tell. |
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