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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I presume this has being talked about before but do many ladies meet married men playing alone. And do married people playing alone let it be known. I have chatted a few women and some are married but playing alone. So I suppose the question is does it bother people or do they prefer someone that is married as discretion is that big higher. Thoughts folks from women and men |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am married, play alone and always been up front about it. Think it's only right to be up front. "
Same as. It’s on my profile and always put it on my messages. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some will care some wont.
Main thing is that people are upfront and honest, and dont just assume because someone is attached they will be more discreet."
Always upfront. Attached are not always more discreet but could be seen as more discreet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't meet attached people if their partner is unaware, if they are on board with it then it's all good. We don't judge people who are here unbeknownst to their partners, to each their own. It's just our personal choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a sex site ffs who gives a fuck if they are married or attached ..
It's not that I care, to each their own. I just would rather meet an unattached guy. It's a personal choice"
Yes I agree it's a personal choice but this site is a swingers site , if your looking for romance join a dating site |
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"It's a sex site ffs who gives a fuck if they are married or attached ..
It's not that I care, to each their own. I just would rather meet an unattached guy. It's a personal choice
Yes I agree it's a personal choice but this site is a swingers site , if your looking for romance join a dating site "
for me don't mind about attached or unattached.. most important is You like the person whos you spend time with..  |
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I generally don't meet attached people either. A small bit is for the feelings of the unaware partner, however if committed partners cared for each others sexual needs no one would stray so I don't judge. The main reason I don't meet attached men is self respect. Discreet and being dragged in the back door are two different things to me. And also we all know women cheated on always blame the other women... So I don't want some girl gone psycho cause her husband cheated with my phone number and pictures. Now I have met married men in clubs and there is doesn't bother me cause I don't ask. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a sex site ffs who gives a fuck if they are married or attached ..
It's not that I care, to each their own. I just would rather meet an unattached guy. It's a personal choice
Yes I agree it's a personal choice but this site is a swingers site , if your looking for romance join a dating site "
I dont see how romance comes into someones personal choice not to meet someone who is playong away?
Its a nonsense argument sure why have preferences its a sex site.
Think your straight? Na its a sex site.
If your looking for pure sex no personal preference join an escort site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a sex site ffs who gives a fuck if they are married or attached .."
It kinda matters to me anyway If their SO has no idea about it....it’s respect for others , sex site or not. Lola |
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"It's a sex site ffs who gives a fuck if they are married or attached ..
It's not that I care, to each their own. I just would rather meet an unattached guy. It's a personal choice
Yes I agree it's a personal choice but this site is a swingers site , if your looking for romance join a dating site "
I didn't mention romance. Romance has nothing to do with my choice in this matter. Swinging site or not, people can & do have preferences over who they choose to have sex with. And for me, one of those preferences is them being unattached. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a sex site ffs who gives a fuck if they are married or attached ..
It kinda matters to me anyway If their SO has no idea about it....it’s respect for others , sex site or not. Lola"
Well go on love Island .... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Everyone has their own reasons for being here. I have had some nasty messages for being married and playing alone. It doesn’t bother me but those people that send those messages should realize what site they are on. Let those who have not sinned throw the first stone. |
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"It's a sex site ffs who gives a fuck if they are married or attached ..
It kinda matters to me anyway If their SO has no idea about it....it’s respect for others , sex site or not. Lola
Well go on love Island ...."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone has their own reasons for being here. I have had some nasty messages for being married and playing alone. It doesn’t bother me but those people that send those messages should realize what site they are on. Let those who have not sinned throw the first stone. "
Well said .. |
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"Everyone has their own reasons for being here. I have had some nasty messages for being married and playing alone. It doesn’t bother me but those people that send those messages should realize what site they are on. Let those who have not sinned throw the first stone. "
While I don't meet attached people, I certainly don't judge attached people for being here. As you quite rightly put it, everyone has their own reasons for being here. |
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I don't meet attached. It's out of respect to the person being cheated on. I wouldn't like it done on me (again), so I won't do it to someone else. I wouldn't like to have to look over my shoulder all the time also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a sex site ffs who gives a fuck if they are married or attached ..
It kinda matters to me anyway If their SO has no idea about it....it’s respect for others , sex site or not. Lola
Well go on love Island ...."
Classy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone has their own reasons for being here. I have had some nasty messages for being married and playing alone. It doesn’t bother me but those people that send those messages should realize what site they are on. Let those who have not sinned throw the first stone. "
There is no excuse for nasty messages and that shouldnt happen, but what sin are people on the site commiting? |
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"It's a sex site ffs who gives a fuck if they are married or attached ..
It kinda matters to me anyway If their SO has no idea about it....it’s respect for others , sex site or not. Lola
Well go on love Island ....
Classy "
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"Everyone has their own reasons for being here. I have had some nasty messages for being married and playing alone. It doesn’t bother me but those people that send those messages should realize what site they are on. Let those who have not sinned throw the first stone. "
I don't know why someone would send nasty messages,your an adult do what you want. If the sin your talking about is adultery.....I can cast a stone. Don't get at people who don't play with attached because you're casting stones. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Everyone has their own reasons for being here. I have had some nasty messages for being married and playing alone. It doesn’t bother me but those people that send those messages should realize what site they are on. Let those who have not sinned throw the first stone.
There is no excuse for nasty messages and that shouldnt happen, but what sin are people on the site commiting?"
It a quote. In some people’s eyes swinging is as wrong as playing alone. In my option no one should judge but people do. I have also got some polite messages saying they don’t meet attached people playing alone.
If someone has nothing nice to say they should say nothing at all. But that is the world we live in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Everyone has their own reasons for being here. I have had some nasty messages for being married and playing alone. It doesn’t bother me but those people that send those messages should realize what site they are on. Let those who have not sinned throw the first stone.
I don't know why someone would send nasty messages,your an adult do what you want. If the sin your talking about is adultery.....I can cast a stone. Don't get at people who don't play with attached because you're casting stones."
The sin is not adultery. It’s said in the context of if anyone has never done anything wrong. And I am not getting at people who don’t play with attached. That is their choice and I respect that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And with all that I got a not nice private message about all this from a couple in the uk that wouldn’t even post it here.
This is a place to speak ones option and that is what we are doing. Only giving our option |
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"And with all that I got a not nice private message about all this from a couple in the uk that wouldn’t even post it here.
This is a place to speak ones option and that is what we are doing. Only giving our option "
If you post on an open forum you got to take the good and the bad. Time to put your big boy pants on.
Btw.....this forum is open to the general public, not just fab members. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Btw.....this forum is open to the general public, not just fab members.
Ah fuck that’s me out of here so lol"
Wait is this not where I get casted for next years Love Island? |
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Btw.....this forum is open to the general public, not just fab members.
Ah fuck that’s me out of here so lol
Wait is this not where I get casted for next years Love Island?"
That's Fab island to you. I heard you were short listed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And with all that I got a not nice private message about all this from a couple in the uk that wouldn’t even post it here.
This is a place to speak ones option and that is what we are doing. Only giving our option
If you post on an open forum you got to take the good and the bad. Time to put your big boy pants on.
Btw.....this forum is open to the general public, not just fab members. "
Exactly .. not everyone is going to agree.. so let's see your Willy lol |
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"And with all that I got a not nice private message about all this from a couple in the uk that wouldn’t even post it here.
This is a place to speak ones option and that is what we are doing. Only giving our option
If you post on an open forum you got to take the good and the bad. Time to put your big boy pants on.
Btw.....this forum is open to the general public, not just fab members.
Exactly .. not everyone is going to agree.. so let's see your Willy lol"
Louise if I had a Willy I'd definitely show you. I get lots of dick pics I can pass on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And with all that I got a not nice private message about all this from a couple in the uk that wouldn’t even post it here.
This is a place to speak ones option and that is what we are doing. Only giving our option
If you post on an open forum you got to take the good and the bad. Time to put your big boy pants on.
Btw.....this forum is open to the general public, not just fab members. "
It doesn’t bother me what people say.
It must bother that person from the uk to send it on private message and not here. I do take the good and bad and the Bigboy pants are on lol
Yes it is open to anyone who wishes to read and express their option |
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"And with all that I got a not nice private message about all this from a couple in the uk that wouldn’t even post it here.
This is a place to speak ones option and that is what we are doing. Only giving our option
If you post on an open forum you got to take the good and the bad. Time to put your big boy pants on.
Btw.....this forum is open to the general public, not just fab members.
Exactly .. not everyone is going to agree.. so let's see your Willy lol"
only got a tweety bird...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And with all that I got a not nice private message about all this from a couple in the uk that wouldn’t even post it here.
This is a place to speak ones option and that is what we are doing. Only giving our option
If you post on an open forum you got to take the good and the bad. Time to put your big boy pants on.
Btw.....this forum is open to the general public, not just fab members.
Exactly .. not everyone is going to agree.. so let's see your Willy lol
only got a tweety bird... "
Has it seen a puddy cat? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And with all that I got a not nice private message about all this from a couple in the uk that wouldn’t even post it here.
This is a place to speak ones option and that is what we are doing. Only giving our option
If you post on an open forum you got to take the good and the bad. Time to put your big boy pants on.
Btw.....this forum is open to the general public, not just fab members.
Exactly .. not everyone is going to agree.. so let's see your Willy lol"
Lol Louise now you have asked for it I think. Your in box will be flooded now lol |
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"And with all that I got a not nice private message about all this from a couple in the uk that wouldn’t even post it here.
This is a place to speak ones option and that is what we are doing. Only giving our option
If you post on an open forum you got to take the good and the bad. Time to put your big boy pants on.
Btw.....this forum is open to the general public, not just fab members.
Exactly .. not everyone is going to agree.. so let's see your Willy lol
only got a tweety bird...
Has it seen a puddy cat?"
not yet...but maybe soon... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And with all that I got a not nice private message about all this from a couple in the uk that wouldn’t even post it here.
This is a place to speak ones option and that is what we are doing. Only giving our option
If you post on an open forum you got to take the good and the bad. Time to put your big boy pants on.
Btw.....this forum is open to the general public, not just fab members.
Exactly .. not everyone is going to agree.. so let's see your Willy lol
Louise if I had a Willy I'd definitely show you. I get lots of dick pics I can pass on."
I know I was just trying to lift the spirts here ..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can I ask, have any of you married men actually had a conversation with your wives about swinging...? "
Personally I know she would not be into it. And yes you could say just talk about it but everyone knows they own partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And with all that I got a not nice private message about all this from a couple in the uk that wouldn’t even post it here.
This is a place to speak ones option and that is what we are doing. Only giving our option
If you post on an open forum you got to take the good and the bad. Time to put your big boy pants on.
Btw.....this forum is open to the general public, not just fab members.
Exactly .. not everyone is going to agree.. so let's see your Willy lol
only got a tweety bird... "
Your just trying to lay your eggs in my nest  |
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"And with all that I got a not nice private message about all this from a couple in the uk that wouldn’t even post it here.
This is a place to speak ones option and that is what we are doing. Only giving our option
If you post on an open forum you got to take the good and the bad. Time to put your big boy pants on.
Btw.....this forum is open to the general public, not just fab members.
Exactly .. not everyone is going to agree.. so let's see your Willy lol
only got a tweety bird...
Your just trying to lay your eggs in my nest "
when the tweety bird meet with louise it will become an eagle...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And with all that I got a not nice private message about all this from a couple in the uk that wouldn’t even post it here.
This is a place to speak ones option and that is what we are doing. Only giving our option
If you post on an open forum you got to take the good and the bad. Time to put your big boy pants on.
Btw.....this forum is open to the general public, not just fab members. "
Wut? |
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"For me if you can’t speak with your women about preference of sex is problem is just cheating nothing sexy"
Easy knowing you never had the problem, I speak to my wife all the time, iv asked her loads of time about joining a place like this, problem is she has a very low sex drive and she's not interested, but at the sametime she's not interested in my sexual desire. We have spoken at length about this subject but She is happy with sex once a month, at the same time does not want me having sex with anyone else. I have talked about a open marriage and about how I feel, not having a good sex life. I have a high sex drive and want sex more than once a month. So here I am. I wish it was not like this. I don't like doing this, but after been faithful for 20 years I have given in to my sexual desire's, because life is to short and you can judge me all you like but, untill you walked in my shoes don't judge. |
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"Can I ask, have any of you married men actually had a conversation with your wives about swinging...? "
Yes, about a million times. Tell her how I'd love to see her with other, asked to just go to a social or a club, just to experience it, would not have to play. I have tried everything possible but not a chance. She just has no interest. I can not force her, it has to be something she want to do, willing to try and after Trying for the last 16 years iv given up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if your here with your partner's permission or knowledge more power to you. if your here behind their back we would rather avoid the drama and not meet people like that. married folks playing behind their other halves backs are in our experience unreliable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dont mind and understand people have issues with married. Just think it rich for some to preach to those who are and playing alone. Reminds me of the modesty police.  |
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What does it matter everybody has a preference ppl are very quick to judge on here each to there own,as long as both ppl have attraction to each other and having safe sex who cares it’s amazing how people forget what kind of sire they are on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What does it matter everybody has a preference ppl are very quick to judge on here each to there own,as long as both ppl have attraction to each other and having safe sex who cares it’s amazing how people forget what kind of sire they are on "
You know its not Ashley Madison right? So the type of site has nothing to do with people attitudes to cheating.
Yes people shouldnt judge and shoukd keep their opinions to themselves unless asked.. like on a public forum for instance, bur dont confuse casual sex and/or swinging with playing away |
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I won't knowingly meet an attached person. I met someone awhile ago who told me on the meet that he was attached. We didn't have sex, thankfully. It didn't sit right with me and I wont be meeting him again. I don't care if I come off like a bitch for judging some people (I understand that not every situation is black and white and I have been sympathetic to some stories I have heard) but I won't pretend to be fine with something when morally I am not. I've also been the partner who was sitting at home seemingly unaware so I guess that's where my disdain comes from. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I presume this has being talked about before but do many ladies meet married men playing alone. And do married people playing alone let it be known. I have chatted a few women and some are married but playing alone. So I suppose the question is does it bother people or do they prefer someone that is married as discretion is that big higher. Thoughts folks from women and men "
I state it in my profile as I understand how rightly it could bother some people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am not here to judge the attached people playing away from home. It's their choice and who am I to criticize them. Everyone makes their own choices in life
But my issue is that I clearly state I won't meet attached people. I wish they would respect my stance on it. I get the will you make a exception for me line. Or worse still they totally lie about it. Two recent incidents involving attached people lying to me has put me off meeting any single guys from here.
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By *ussieGMan
over a year ago
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I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again . Everyone is here of their own free will and everyone is entitled to their own preference . I’m attached and she’s not aware I’m here .
Like a previous poster I’ve tried for years to talk to my other half, people have no idea how stressful it is , it’s almost as if there’s something wrong with you when indeed it’s not . That feeling worthless has sat with me too long and whilst it is not how I envisaged the direction of my sex life I find myself here , there’s some really great people here and I feel somewhat alive again.
It is something I will have to live with and I do not speak about my other half to any other party full stop . Until your in the situation it is very hard to explain . Endure a life of feeling frustrated , worthless and constant self pity or try feel alive again . It’s a short life and some recent life events have made me want to live my best one .
I will always be up front with my situation and am happy to move on if attached isn’t your thing . |
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We both meet solo with each others full knowledge. The best part is getting a run down on our meets afterwards.
Regarding attached guys without their partners knowledge that's something we tend to avoid. Not dissing anyone but it's not for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again . Everyone is here of their own free will and everyone is entitled to their own preference . I’m attached and she’s not aware I’m here .
Like a previous poster I’ve tried for years to talk to my other half, people have no idea how stressful it is , it’s almost as if there’s something wrong with you when indeed it’s not . That feeling worthless has sat with me too long and whilst it is not how I envisaged the direction of my sex life I find myself here , there’s some really great people here and I feel somewhat alive again.
It is something I will have to live with and I do not speak about my other half to any other party full stop . Until your in the situation it is very hard to explain . Endure a life of feeling frustrated , worthless and constant self pity or try feel alive again . It’s a short life and some recent life events have made me want to live my best one .
I will always be up front with my situation and am happy to move on if attached isn’t your thing . "
Snap. Exactly how I feel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a sex site ffs who gives a fuck if they are married or attached ..
100% !!!
Sin é "
Everyone has a reason to be here. Married people need a release also. Some couples are out of date in the bedroom. We should have sex for the pleasure of it. The personal circumstances of individuals shouldnt effect anything! |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I am not here to judge the attached people playing away from home. It's their choice and who am I to criticize them. Everyone makes their own choices in life
But my issue is that I clearly state I won't meet attached people. I wish they would respect my stance on it. I get the will you make a exception for me line. Or worse still they totally lie about it. Two recent incidents involving attached people lying to me has put me off meeting any single guys from here.
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I'm sure you've seen profiles stating 'if you're a time waster please pass me by'. It must work as good as a hancuffed giraffe trying to peal a banana.
The 'won't meet attached guys' on a profile is similarly contra productive, you might as well write on your profile 'please lie to me'. |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
Dublin |
"I am not here to judge the attached people playing away from home. It's their choice and who am I to criticize them. Everyone makes their own choices in life
But my issue is that I clearly state I won't meet attached people. I wish they would respect my stance on it. I get the will you make a exception for me line. Or worse still they totally lie about it. Two recent incidents involving attached people lying to me has put me off meeting any single guys from here.
I'm sure you've seen profiles stating 'if you're a time waster please pass me by'. It must work as good as a hancuffed giraffe trying to peal a banana.
The 'won't meet attached guys' on a profile is similarly contra productive, you might as well write on your profile 'please lie to me'. "
To be fair if you followed that line then why bother with any info in hour profile? I state my preferences and so on. If people need to lie to meet me that's on them. But I will be honest about what my preferences are in the hope the right person reads it. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I am not here to judge the attached people playing away from home. It's their choice and who am I to criticize them. Everyone makes their own choices in life
But my issue is that I clearly state I won't meet attached people. I wish they would respect my stance on it. I get the will you make a exception for me line. Or worse still they totally lie about it. Two recent incidents involving attached people lying to me has put me off meeting any single guys from here.
I'm sure you've seen profiles stating 'if you're a time waster please pass me by'. It must work as good as a hancuffed giraffe trying to peal a banana.
The 'won't meet attached guys' on a profile is similarly contra productive, you might as well write on your profile 'please lie to me'.
To be fair if you followed that line then why bother with any info in hour profile? I state my preferences and so on. If people need to lie to meet me that's on them. But I will be honest about what my preferences are in the hope the right person reads it. "
Nothing wrong with having preferences but to spell them all out on your profile might not achieve the effect you actually were hoping to get. I try to keep my profile positive and won't clutter it up with other people's circumstances that don't appeal to me. Just my 2penny. |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
Dublin |
"I am not here to judge the attached people playing away from home. It's their choice and who am I to criticize them. Everyone makes their own choices in life
But my issue is that I clearly state I won't meet attached people. I wish they would respect my stance on it. I get the will you make a exception for me line. Or worse still they totally lie about it. Two recent incidents involving attached people lying to me has put me off meeting any single guys from here.
I'm sure you've seen profiles stating 'if you're a time waster please pass me by'. It must work as good as a hancuffed giraffe trying to peal a banana.
The 'won't meet attached guys' on a profile is similarly contra productive, you might as well write on your profile 'please lie to me'.
To be fair if you followed that line then why bother with any info in hour profile? I state my preferences and so on. If people need to lie to meet me that's on them. But I will be honest about what my preferences are in the hope the right person reads it.
Nothing wrong with having preferences but to spell them all out on your profile might not achieve the effect you actually were hoping to get. I try to keep my profile positive and won't clutter it up with other people's circumstances that don't appeal to me. Just my 2penny."
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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago
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"I am not here to judge the attached people playing away from home. It's their choice and who am I to criticize them. Everyone makes their own choices in life
But my issue is that I clearly state I won't meet attached people. I wish they would respect my stance on it. I get the will you make a exception for me line. Or worse still they totally lie about it. Two recent incidents involving attached people lying to me has put me off meeting any single guys from here.
I'm sure you've seen profiles stating 'if you're a time waster please pass me by'. It must work as good as a hancuffed giraffe trying to peal a banana.
The 'won't meet attached guys' on a profile is similarly contra productive, you might as well write on your profile 'please lie to me'. "
Just as a bye the bye how would you handcuff a giraffe  |
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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago
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"I am not here to judge the attached people playing away from home. It's their choice and who am I to criticize them. Everyone makes their own choices in life
But my issue is that I clearly state I won't meet attached people. I wish they would respect my stance on it. I get the will you make a exception for me line. Or worse still they totally lie about it. Two recent incidents involving attached people lying to me has put me off meeting any single guys from here.
I'm sure you've seen profiles stating 'if you're a time waster please pass me by'. It must work as good as a hancuffed giraffe trying to peal a banana.
The 'won't meet attached guys' on a profile is similarly contra productive, you might as well write on your profile 'please lie to me'.
Just as a bye the bye how would you handcuff a giraffe "
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I am not here to judge the attached people playing away from home. It's their choice and who am I to criticize them. Everyone makes their own choices in life
But my issue is that I clearly state I won't meet attached people. I wish they would respect my stance on it. I get the will you make a exception for me line. Or worse still they totally lie about it. Two recent incidents involving attached people lying to me has put me off meeting any single guys from here.
I'm sure you've seen profiles stating 'if you're a time waster please pass me by'. It must work as good as a hancuffed giraffe trying to peal a banana.
The 'won't meet attached guys' on a profile is similarly contra productive, you might as well write on your profile 'please lie to me'.
Just as a bye the bye how would you handcuff a giraffe "
Kinky fook  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am not here to judge the attached people playing away from home. It's their choice and who am I to criticize them. Everyone makes their own choices in life
But my issue is that I clearly state I won't meet attached people. I wish they would respect my stance on it. I get the will you make a exception for me line. Or worse still they totally lie about it. Two recent incidents involving attached people lying to me has put me off meeting any single guys from here.
I'm sure you've seen profiles stating 'if you're a time waster please pass me by'. It must work as good as a hancuffed giraffe trying to peal a banana.
The 'won't meet attached guys' on a profile is similarly contra productive, you might as well write on your profile 'please lie to me'. "
I am well aware Fab is wall to wall liars cheats and douche bags. But by stating I don't meet attached people it filters out a certain amount of them. I have to use my detective skills on the rest of them. Amazing how much you can tell from a photo. Like the wife's pink fluffy slippers in the background |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I am not here to judge the attached people playing away from home. It's their choice and who am I to criticize them. Everyone makes their own choices in life
But my issue is that I clearly state I won't meet attached people. I wish they would respect my stance on it. I get the will you make a exception for me line. Or worse still they totally lie about it. Two recent incidents involving attached people lying to me has put me off meeting any single guys from here.
I'm sure you've seen profiles stating 'if you're a time waster please pass me by'. It must work as good as a hancuffed giraffe trying to peal a banana.
The 'won't meet attached guys' on a profile is similarly contra productive, you might as well write on your profile 'please lie to me'.
I am well aware Fab is wall to wall liars cheats and douche bags. But by stating I don't meet attached people it filters out a certain amount of them. I have to use my detective skills on the rest of them. Amazing how much you can tell from a photo. Like the wife's pink fluffy slippers in the background "
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I have knowingly met married or attached men. I am neither proud nor ashamed of it... I took each individual and their situation on their own merits and made my informed decision to meet them.
I meet people because I'm drawn to them... Physically, mentally and sexually... Not because they're single and available, not because they have a nice car, not because they can accommodate, not because they work in a particular sector, not because they'll buy me stuff, take me places or will look good on my arm or verifications.
Because I like them and want to spend some alone time with them.
Nothing else.  |
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"I have knowingly met married or attached men. I am neither proud nor ashamed of it... I took each individual and their situation on their own merits and made my informed decision to meet them.
I meet people because I'm drawn to them... Physically, mentally and sexually... Not because they're single and available, not because they have a nice car, not because they can accommodate, not because they work in a particular sector, not because they'll buy me stuff, take me places or will look good on my arm or verifications.
Because I like them and want to spend some alone time with them.
Nothing else. "
Couldn't have said it better myself
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I have knowingly met married or attached men. I am neither proud nor ashamed of it... I took each individual and their situation on their own merits and made my informed decision to meet them.
I meet people because I'm drawn to them... Physically, mentally and sexually... Not because they're single and available, not because they have a nice car, not because they can accommodate, not because they work in a particular sector, not because they'll buy me stuff, take me places or will look good on my arm or verifications.
Because I like them and want to spend some alone time with them.
Nothing else. "
So ud not mind my pink fluffly slippers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have knowingly met married or attached men. I am neither proud nor ashamed of it... I took each individual and their situation on their own merits and made my informed decision to meet them.
I meet people because I'm drawn to them... Physically, mentally and sexually... Not because they're single and available, not because they have a nice car, not because they can accommodate, not because they work in a particular sector, not because they'll buy me stuff, take me places or will look good on my arm or verifications.
Because I like them and want to spend some alone time with them.
Nothing else. "
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I have met attached but now have I won’t meet them. I changed because of personal reasons but also because I have found them to be very awkward to meet. Any I have spoken with want to meet at odd hours when I wouldn’t be available or just want a quick ride in a car. As much fun as that can be it gets boring when that’s all that is being asked of you! I am now sticking to single men I don’t judge anyone on here you don’t know what their real life is like everyone deserves to be happy and if they are comfortable living the way they do that’s for them to decide not for others here to judge them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have met attached but now have I won’t meet them. I changed because of personal reasons but also because I have found them to be very awkward to meet. Any I have spoken with want to meet at odd hours when I wouldn’t be available or just want a quick ride in a car. As much fun as that can be it gets boring when that’s all that is being asked of you! I am now sticking to single men I don’t judge anyone on here you don’t know what their real life is like everyone deserves to be happy and if they are comfortable living the way they do that’s for them to decide not for others here to judge them "
Not all married men are like that. It’s a pity you got messed around like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People play with permission, people play without permission.
Some people dont like people playing without permission, some people dont mind, some like it.
What else is there to know?"
what he said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a sex site ffs who gives a fuck if they are married or attached .."
I give a fuck and it actually really bothers me that lots of people on fab seem to think less of me for it.
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By *ltered EgoMan
over a year ago
not a million miles from the airport. |
I’m married.
Wife has no idea I’m here.
There is no romance at home.
I’d prefer to play with a woman in the same boat, as the need and expectation of discretion is mutual.
Plus, the excitement of secret is fantastic. |
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