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You sign up, everybody Is probably different but I'd guess the reality for most is some no strings sex. I'd say very few single men want to be going to meet and greets. You start mailing women, you're getting no replies, you change your approach, concentrate on profile specifics, you're still getting nowhere, you add a bit extra to your own profile, still makes no difference. The 3 things I have said there apply to alot of single men. Then there is questions. The supply for women is enormous compared to men. Does this give women an ego boost? Swell the head? Get them on a pedestal? Do women read all messages in their inbox? Are women expecting to much from men for eg, the slightest thing puts them off? You then have women who won't reply to men without veris, simply forgetting we were all new here once and needed a start. I personally maintain that sex, in no strings format, mentaily is alot different for most women to men. Succeeding on here shouldn't be rocket science unless you look like something from outer Mars and or are completely disrespectful. I think women like a more drawn out approach where as men would like it sooner and more active so the question is. Do men complain to much or is what they say in general the truth? and are alot of women to overdrawn on many aspects before a chat and potential meet are even considered? |
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"Men complain all the time. But hang in there. As you said with the enormous supply of women probably means they just haven't got to you yet.  lol so there is no truth in what men say at all?"
Apparently the lie too.  |
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"Men complain all the time. But hang in there. As you said with the enormous supply of women probably means they just haven't got to you yet. lol so there is no truth in what men say at all?
Apparently the lie too. "
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
You sign up, everybody Is probably different but I'd guess the reality for most is some no strings sex. I'd say very few single men want to be going to meet and greets. You start mailing women, you're getting no replies, you change your approach, concentrate on profile specifics, you're still getting nowhere, you add a bit extra to your own profile, still makes no difference. The 3 things I have said there apply to alot of single men. Then there is questions. The supply for women is enormous compared to men. Does this give women an ego boost? Swell the head? Get them on a pedestal? Do women read all messages in their inbox? Are women expecting to much from men for eg, the slightest thing puts them off? You then have women who won't reply to men without veris, simply forgetting we were all new here once and needed a start. I personally maintain that sex, in no strings format, mentaily is alot different for most women to men. Succeeding on here shouldn't be rocket science unless you look like something from outer Mars and or are completely disrespectful. I think women like a more drawn out approach where as men would like it sooner and more active so the question is. Do men complain to much or is what they say in general the truth? and are alot of women to overdrawn on many aspects before a chat and potential meet are even considered?
I don't believe it gives women an ego. I know I take all the 'compliments' I get on here with a big pinch of salt. I know what I am and I know that a lot of the compliments are just trying to butter me up for sex. I try and answer most messages sometimes especially at weekends it's almost impossible especially when you are chatting to people already. I had 27 new messages this morning that's not counting the ones I speak to all ready on here. Yes I tend to talk for a while before I meet because the one time I changed that and met a guy quickly off here the meet turned scary fast so I'll no longer agree unless I have chatted for a bit. My safety comes first if a guy can't wait and consider that then he's not someone I want to meet. And of course women want no strings sex as well most of the women I chat to on here want that. I certainly am not looking a relationship if I was I'd be on a dating site not a swinging one. But just because I am on here does not mean I am willing to have sex with just anyone either. And yes sometimes when you chat someone will say something that puts you off them.As for veris I don't care if someone has them or not I've met a couple of guys who had none.I always check a profile out before I answer as well a blank profile I won't chat to.Its why I have my filters up to stop no profile pics from messaging me not that they work that often. |
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"Fuck me you really do struggle to get a reply eh? not specifically highlight myself. I think it occurs to a large % of men"
But you can only really sum fab up from your own experiance.
If I was summing it uo it would read a little differently.
I have no doubt it happens to a large % of men, they need to realise that they are the problem not eveyone else, the ratios or the "overly inflated egos" |
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"Fuck me you really do struggle to get a reply eh? not specifically highlight myself. I think it occurs to a large % of men
But you can only really sum fab up from your own experiance.
If I was summing it uo it would read a little differently.
I have no doubt it happens to a large % of men, they need to realise that they are the problem not eveyone else, the ratios or the "overly inflated egos""
how are all those men the problem? Interested in the response to that one. |
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I actually get lots of attention. Every girl I have messaged has replied, even the top fabbed girls on the whole site.
That does not translate to meets though.
For me, its more typical in not just fab but my whole life, that I have lots of options, pick one and then that one option never pans out like I hoped.
Something along the lines of the girl that wants to meet me tomorrow does not say and does not get to meet me, and the girl I was looking at and wanted to meet tomorrow does not meet me, kinda thing. |
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"Fuck me you really do struggle to get a reply eh? not specifically highlight myself. I think it occurs to a large % of men
But you can only really sum fab up from your own experiance.
If I was summing it uo it would read a little differently.
I have no doubt it happens to a large % of men, they need to realise that they are the problem not eveyone else, the ratios or the "overly inflated egos"how are all those men the problem? Interested in the response to that one. "
Because if they werent we wpuld all have the same struggles... |
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I have did something recently that I never have before, use the hotlist to keep who I'm genuinely interested in. I have 2 at present on it and one of those 2 is not meeting anybody new. Thats probably another issue with lots of men here, the excessive fussiness. With things already how they are, that added fussiness makes things even harder. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I have did something recently that I never have before, use the hotlist to keep who I'm genuinely interested in. I have 2 at present on it and one of those 2 is not meeting anybody new. Thats probably another issue with lots of men here, the excessive fussiness. With things already how they are, that added fussiness makes things even harder.
Lol.Why is them not meeting being fussy. They are probably meeting others and not doing new meets. There's only so many anyone can meet at a given time. It is not being fussy it's having a free will and using the site as they want. And really all you seem to do on here is give out about the women on here. Most of your posts are the same did you ever think that could be an issue as well. That would be a big turn off for most women. |
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"I have did something recently that I never have before, use the hotlist to keep who I'm genuinely interested in. I have 2 at present on it and one of those 2 is not meeting anybody new. Thats probably another issue with lots of men here, the excessive fussiness. With things already how they are, that added fussiness makes things even harder.
Lol.Why is them not meeting being fussy. They are probably meeting others and not doing new meets. There's only so many anyone can meet at a given time. It is not being fussy it's having a free will and using the site as they want. And really all you seem to do on here is give out about the women on here. Most of your posts are the same did you ever think that could be an issue as well. That would be a big turn off for most women. "
I didn't say anything about them not meeting is them been fussy |
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"I have did something recently that I never have before, use the hotlist to keep who I'm genuinely interested in. I have 2 at present on it and one of those 2 is not meeting anybody new. Thats probably another issue with lots of men here, the excessive fussiness. With things already how they are, that added fussiness makes things even harder.
Lol.Why is them not meeting being fussy. They are probably meeting others and not doing new meets. There's only so many anyone can meet at a given time. It is not being fussy it's having a free will and using the site as they want. And really all you seem to do on here is give out about the women on here. Most of your posts are the same did you ever think that could be an issue as well. That would be a big turn off for most women. "
I said the excessive fussiness of men. I'm one of them. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I have did something recently that I never have before, use the hotlist to keep who I'm genuinely interested in. I have 2 at present on it and one of those 2 is not meeting anybody new. Thats probably another issue with lots of men here, the excessive fussiness. With things already how they are, that added fussiness makes things even harder.
Lol.Why is them not meeting being fussy. They are probably meeting others and not doing new meets. There's only so many anyone can meet at a given time. It is not being fussy it's having a free will and using the site as they want. And really all you seem to do on here is give out about the women on here. Most of your posts are the same did you ever think that could be an issue as well. That would be a big turn off for most women. I said the excessive fussiness of men. I'm one of them. Sorry I read it as that was a problem that men found on here, the fussiness of women.
Being fussy about who you meet anyhow shouldn't be a problem. Everyone has the right to be fussy no one should be settling for anything less just because it's a swinging site. |
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"Fuck me you really do struggle to get a reply eh? not specifically highlight myself. I think it occurs to a large % of men
But you can only really sum fab up from your own experiance.
If I was summing it uo it would read a little differently.
I have no doubt it happens to a large % of men, they need to realise that they are the problem not eveyone else, the ratios or the "overly inflated egos""
Says the man with no published verifications.
When I clicked on your profile I expected 50 verifications... In fact why not 100?
Take your garbage of "it don't happen to me" talk and get stuffed. I know you're selling yourself but you're also bs'ing |
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"Fuck me you really do struggle to get a reply eh? not specifically highlight myself. I think it occurs to a large % of men
But you can only really sum fab up from your own experiance.
If I was summing it uo it would read a little differently.
I have no doubt it happens to a large % of men, they need to realise that they are the problem not eveyone else, the ratios or the "overly inflated egos"
Says the man with no published verifications.
When I clicked on your profile I expected 50 verifications... In fact why not 100?
Take your garbage of "it don't happen to me" talk and get stuffed. I know you're selling yourself but you're also bs'ing "
I really dont need to sell myself lad, not acting like a jilted 14 year old does that all by itsself.
Veris are to show your real not to advertise how many times you can get your dick wet.
Lets not take me as the examole then wjat about all the other men who can manage to get meets without it being an ordeal? |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
"You sign up, everybody Is probably different but I'd guess the reality for most is some no strings sex. I'd say very few single men want to be going to meet and greets. You start mailing women, you're getting no replies, you change your approach, concentrate on profile specifics, you're still getting nowhere, you add a bit extra to your own profile, still makes no difference. The 3 things I have said there apply to alot of single men. Then there is questions. The supply for women is enormous compared to men. Does this give women an ego boost? Swell the head? Get them on a pedestal? Do women read all messages in their inbox? Are women expecting to much from men for eg, the slightest thing puts them off? You then have women who won't reply to men without veris, simply forgetting we were all new here once and needed a start. I personally maintain that sex, in no strings format, mentaily is alot different for most women to men. Succeeding on here shouldn't be rocket science unless you look like something from outer Mars and or are completely disrespectful. I think women like a more drawn out approach where as men would like it sooner and more active so the question is. Do men complain to much or is what they say in general the truth? and are alot of women to overdrawn on many aspects before a chat and potential meet are even considered? "
Verifications are simple, make an effort and attend the social side of fabs if you're bothered to be here. Having veris of course doesn't equate to being normal or sane but it can help be a decider for potential meets. We've often met newbies to establish themselves with a veri but usually only if they're serious about swinging...
This is a swingers site but many singles sign up to meet singles? |
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"You sign up, everybody Is probably different but I'd guess the reality for most is some no strings sex. I'd say very few single men want to be going to meet and greets. You start mailing women, you're getting no replies, you change your approach, concentrate on profile specifics, you're still getting nowhere, you add a bit extra to your own profile, still makes no difference. The 3 things I have said there apply to alot of single men. Then there is questions. The supply for women is enormous compared to men. Does this give women an ego boost? Swell the head? Get them on a pedestal? Do women read all messages in their inbox? Are women expecting to much from men for eg, the slightest thing puts them off? You then have women who won't reply to men without veris, simply forgetting we were all new here once and needed a start. I personally maintain that sex, in no strings format, mentaily is alot different for most women to men. Succeeding on here shouldn't be rocket science unless you look like something from outer Mars and or are completely disrespectful. I think women like a more drawn out approach where as men would like it sooner and more active so the question is. Do men complain to much or is what they say in general the truth? and are alot of women to overdrawn on many aspects before a chat and potential meet are even considered?
Verifications are simple, make an effort and attend the social side of fabs if you're bothered to be here. Having veris of course doesn't equate to being normal or sane but it can help be a decider for potential meets. We've often met newbies to establish themselves with a veri but usually only if they're serious about swinging...
This is a swingers site but many singles sign up to meet singles? "
it's not solely a swingers site, see. Plenty of single on single here and you also shouldn't be olgied to attend meet and greets. A social can be a chat over a coffee. It doesn't have to be a meet and greet. |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"You sign up, everybody Is probably different but I'd guess the reality for most is some no strings sex. I'd say very few single men want to be going to meet and greets. You start mailing women, you're getting no replies, you change your approach, concentrate on profile specifics, you're still getting nowhere, you add a bit extra to your own profile, still makes no difference. The 3 things I have said there apply to alot of single men. Then there is questions. The supply for women is enormous compared to men. Does this give women an ego boost? Swell the head? Get them on a pedestal? Do women read all messages in their inbox? Are women expecting to much from men for eg, the slightest thing puts them off? You then have women who won't reply to men without veris, simply forgetting we were all new here once and needed a start. I personally maintain that sex, in no strings format, mentaily is alot different for most women to men. Succeeding on here shouldn't be rocket science unless you look like something from outer Mars and or are completely disrespectful. I think women like a more drawn out approach where as men would like it sooner and more active so the question is. Do men complain to much or is what they say in general the truth? and are alot of women to overdrawn on many aspects before a chat and potential meet are even considered?
Verifications are simple, make an effort and attend the social side of fabs if you're bothered to be here. Having veris of course doesn't equate to being normal or sane but it can help be a decider for potential meets. We've often met newbies to establish themselves with a veri but usually only if they're serious about swinging...
This is a swingers site but many singles sign up to meet singles? it's not solely a swingers site, see. Plenty of single on single here and you also shouldn't be olgied to attend meet and greets. A social can be a chat over a coffee. It doesn't have to be a meet and greet. "
No obligation to attend m&g's no and of course a social meet can include coffee but there are far more m&g's on offer rather than social coffees, that was my point.
My understanding of a site called fabswingers was for that purpose. But thanks for clarifying! |
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"I have did something recently that I never have before, use the hotlist to keep who I'm genuinely interested in. I have 2 at present on it and one of those 2 is not meeting anybody new. Thats probably another issue with lots of men here, the excessive fussiness. With things already how they are, that added fussiness makes things even harder.
Lol.Why is them not meeting being fussy. They are probably meeting others and not doing new meets. There's only so many anyone can meet at a given time. It is not being fussy it's having a free will and using the site as they want. And really all you seem to do on here is give out about the women on here. Most of your posts are the same did you ever think that could be an issue as well. That would be a big turn off for most women. I didn't say anything about them not meeting is them been fussy"
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"Fuck me you really do struggle to get a reply eh? not specifically highlight myself. I think it occurs to a large % of men
But you can only really sum fab up from your own experiance.
If I was summing it uo it would read a little differently.
I have no doubt it happens to a large % of men, they need to realise that they are the problem not eveyone else, the ratios or the "overly inflated egos"
Says the man with no published verifications.
When I clicked on your profile I expected 50 verifications... In fact why not 100?
Take your garbage of "it don't happen to me" talk and get stuffed. I know you're selling yourself but you're also bs'ing
I really dont need to sell myself lad, not acting like a jilted 14 year old does that all by itsself.
Veris are to show your real not to advertise how many times you can get your dick wet.
Lets not take me as the examole then wjat about all the other men who can manage to get meets without it being an ordeal?"
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Jesus mate. Can you spell. |
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"Fuck me you really do struggle to get a reply eh? not specifically highlight myself. I think it occurs to a large % of men
But you can only really sum fab up from your own experiance.
If I was summing it uo it would read a little differently.
I have no doubt it happens to a large % of men, they need to realise that they are the problem not eveyone else, the ratios or the "overly inflated egos"
Says the man with no published verifications.
When I clicked on your profile I expected 50 verifications... In fact why not 100?
Take your garbage of "it don't happen to me" talk and get stuffed. I know you're selling yourself but you're also bs'ing
I really dont need to sell myself lad, not acting like a jilted 14 year old does that all by itsself.
Veris are to show your real not to advertise how many times you can get your dick wet.
Lets not take me as the examole then wjat about all the other men who can manage to get meets without it being an ordeal?.
Jesus mate. Can you spell. "
No not never well, I usually take longer to spell check sorry about that. Back to the point? |
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"You sign up, everybody Is probably different but I'd guess the reality for most is some no strings sex. I'd say very few single men want to be going to meet and greets. You start mailing women, you're getting no replies, you change your approach, concentrate on profile specifics, you're still getting nowhere, you add a bit extra to your own profile, still makes no difference. The 3 things I have said there apply to alot of single men. Then there is questions. The supply for women is enormous compared to men. Does this give women an ego boost? Swell the head? Get them on a pedestal? Do women read all messages in their inbox? Are women expecting to much from men for eg, the slightest thing puts them off? You then have women who won't reply to men without veris, simply forgetting we were all new here once and needed a start. I personally maintain that sex, in no strings format, mentaily is alot different for most women to men. Succeeding on here shouldn't be rocket science unless you look like something from outer Mars and or are completely disrespectful. I think women like a more drawn out approach where as men would like it sooner and more active so the question is. Do men complain to much or is what they say in general the truth? and are alot of women to overdrawn on many aspects before a chat and potential meet are even considered?
Verifications are simple, make an effort and attend the social side of fabs if you're bothered to be here. Having veris of course doesn't equate to being normal or sane but it can help be a decider for potential meets. We've often met newbies to establish themselves with a veri but usually only if they're serious about swinging...
This is a swingers site but many singles sign up to meet singles? it's not solely a swingers site, see. Plenty of single on single here and you also shouldn't be olgied to attend meet and greets. A social can be a chat over a coffee. It doesn't have to be a meet and greet.
No obligation to attend m&g's no and of course a social meet can include coffee but there are far more m&g's on offer rather than social coffees, that was my point.
My understanding of a site called fabswingers was for that purpose. But thanks for clarifying!"
I think the benefit of an organised group social over a 1-to-1 coffee social is an obvious one. In a 1-to-1 situation, there is often a pretty hefty risk that either party won't fancy the other (or even neither party!). Whereas at a group social you get to chat and mingle with lots of people and your chances of making connections that may lead to play afterwards or at another time is increased. Both ways work well for me, although unless I've been thoroughly swept off my feet in chatting to someone (extremely rare), I don't tend to go into either situation with any hopes or expectations. Suddenly finding yourself clicking with someone (or someones!) totally unexpected at a social event is pretty damn fabulous though, as you come away from the event already knowing they're definitely real, what they look, sound and smell like, and that they definitely fancy you too... It's only a matter of arranging a follow-up play date after that  |
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"I actually get lots of attention. Every girl I have messaged has replied, even the top fabbed girls on the whole site.
That does not translate to meets though.
For me, its more typical in not just fab but my whole life, that I have lots of options, pick one and then that one option never pans out like I hoped.
Something along the lines of the girl that wants to meet me tomorrow does not say and does not get to meet me, and the girl I was looking at and wanted to meet tomorrow does not meet me, kinda thing."
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"Fuck me you really do struggle to get a reply eh? not specifically highlight myself. I think it occurs to a large % of men
But you can only really sum fab up from your own experiance.
If I was summing it uo it would read a little differently.
I have no doubt it happens to a large % of men, they need to realise that they are the problem not eveyone else, the ratios or the "overly inflated egos"
Says the man with no published verifications.
When I clicked on your profile I expected 50 verifications... In fact why not 100?
Take your garbage of "it don't happen to me" talk and get stuffed. I know you're selling yourself but you're also bs'ing
I really dont need to sell myself lad, not acting like a jilted 14 year old does that all by itsself.
Veris are to show your real not to advertise how many times you can get your dick wet.
Lets not take me as the examole then wjat about all the other men who can manage to get meets without it being an ordeal?.
Jesus mate. Can you spell. "
It's just those damn big strong hands of his... They mash the keys! Obviously slippy-finger typos rather than actual bad spelling... and he even remembered to use a question mark when posing his question  |
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Socials and meet and greets are important; even more so for us ladies. Sex is so much better when u click. Plus it’s easier to excuse yourself at a group social. This doesn’t make us fussy, it means we want to make the sex better. And it will be if we r attracted both on a personal and a physical side.
The numbers are another great issue. Click the near me now button and do a count ... I just found 40 gents 7 couples 2 ladies & 1TV.
You also have to factor in that the ladies r both bi. And the couples are also looking for single ladies to join them. Plus, most ladies can also go to a bar on a night and easily pick up someone with little effort.
Boys, the competition is high. But then again, couples need to make an effort too to find that unicorn. But if You do work hard for it, the rewards are worth it
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Jesus mate. Can you spell.
It's just those damn big strong hands of his... They mash the keys! Obviously slippy-finger typos rather than actual bad spelling... and he even remembered to use a question mark when posing his question "
To be fair I can't fucking spell either |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"You sign up, everybody Is probably different but I'd guess the reality for most is some no strings sex. I'd say very few single men want to be going to meet and greets. You start mailing women, you're getting no replies, you change your approach, concentrate on profile specifics, you're still getting nowhere, you add a bit extra to your own profile, still makes no difference. The 3 things I have said there apply to alot of single men. Then there is questions. The supply for women is enormous compared to men. Does this give women an ego boost? Swell the head? Get them on a pedestal? Do women read all messages in their inbox? Are women expecting to much from men for eg, the slightest thing puts them off? You then have women who won't reply to men without veris, simply forgetting we were all new here once and needed a start. I personally maintain that sex, in no strings format, mentaily is alot different for most women to men. Succeeding on here shouldn't be rocket science unless you look like something from outer Mars and or are completely disrespectful. I think women like a more drawn out approach where as men would like it sooner and more active so the question is. Do men complain to much or is what they say in general the truth? and are alot of women to overdrawn on many aspects before a chat and potential meet are even considered? "
You're right it isn't rocket science my approach works and has worked well for years. It's simple
1 be normal
2 don't start of talking about wanting to fuck them ( it's kind of a given anyways)
3 be respectful
4 be fun and have fun |
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"You sign up, everybody Is probably different but I'd guess the reality for most is some no strings sex. I'd say very few single men want to be going to meet and greets. You start mailing women, you're getting no replies, you change your approach, concentrate on profile specifics, you're still getting nowhere, you add a bit extra to your own profile, still makes no difference. The 3 things I have said there apply to alot of single men. Then there is questions. The supply for women is enormous compared to men. Does this give women an ego boost? Swell the head? Get them on a pedestal? Do women read all messages in their inbox? Are women expecting to much from men for eg, the slightest thing puts them off? You then have women who won't reply to men without veris, simply forgetting we were all new here once and needed a start. I personally maintain that sex, in no strings format, mentaily is alot different for most women to men. Succeeding on here shouldn't be rocket science unless you look like something from outer Mars and or are completely disrespectful. I think women like a more drawn out approach where as men would like it sooner and more active so the question is. Do men complain to much or is what they say in general the truth? and are alot of women to overdrawn on many aspects before a chat and potential meet are even considered?
You're right it isn't rocket science my approach works and has worked well for years. It's simple
1 be normal
2 don't start of talking about wanting to fuck them ( it's kind of a given anyways)
3 be respectful
4 be fun and have fun"
if it was as easy as that large % of men on the site would be succesfull. I was out last night, only came home this morning, great night was had. I think that's the way most younger men should be. Don't leave here but don't use it as your main outlet for fun. if you do, you're going to be left highly frustrated. |
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"I have did something recently that I never have before, use the hotlist to keep who I'm genuinely interested in. I have 2 at present on it and one of those 2 is not meeting anybody new. Thats probably another issue with lots of men here, the excessive fussiness. With things already how they are, that added fussiness makes things even harder.
Lol.Why is them not meeting being fussy. They are probably meeting others and not doing new meets. There's only so many anyone can meet at a given time. It is not being fussy it's having a free will and using the site as they want. And really all you seem to do on here is give out about the women on here. Most of your posts are the same did you ever think that could be an issue as well. That would be a big turn off for most women. "
And there was me thinking I was on ur hotlist lol ;-(( |
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"You sign up, everybody Is probably different but I'd guess the reality for most is some no strings sex. I'd say very few single men want to be going to meet and greets. You start mailing women, you're getting no replies, you change your approach, concentrate on profile specifics, you're still getting nowhere, you add a bit extra to your own profile, still makes no difference. The 3 things I have said there apply to alot of single men. Then there is questions. The supply for women is enormous compared to men. Does this give women an ego boost? Swell the head? Get them on a pedestal? Do women read all messages in their inbox? Are women expecting to much from men for eg, the slightest thing puts them off? You then have women who won't reply to men without veris, simply forgetting we were all new here once and needed a start. I personally maintain that sex, in no strings format, mentaily is alot different for most women to men. Succeeding on here shouldn't be rocket science unless you look like something from outer Mars and or are completely disrespectful. I think women like a more drawn out approach where as men would like it sooner and more active so the question is. Do men complain to much or is what they say in general the truth? and are alot of women to overdrawn on many aspects before a chat and potential meet are even considered?
You're right it isn't rocket science my approach works and has worked well for years. It's simple
1 be normal
2 don't start of talking about wanting to fuck them ( it's kind of a given anyways)
3 be respectful
4 be fun and have funif it was as easy as that large % of men on the site would be succesfull. I was out last night, only came home this morning, great night was had. I think that's the way most younger men should be. Don't leave here but don't use it as your main outlet for fun. if you do, you're going to be left highly frustrated. "
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"You sign up, everybody Is probably different but I'd guess the reality for most is some no strings sex. I'd say very few single men want to be going to meet and greets. You start mailing women, you're getting no replies, you change your approach, concentrate on profile specifics, you're still getting nowhere, you add a bit extra to your own profile, still makes no difference. The 3 things I have said there apply to alot of single men. Then there is questions. The supply for women is enormous compared to men. Does this give women an ego boost? Swell the head? Get them on a pedestal? Do women read all messages in their inbox? Are women expecting to much from men for eg, the slightest thing puts them off? You then have women who won't reply to men without veris, simply forgetting we were all new here once and needed a start. I personally maintain that sex, in no strings format, mentaily is alot different for most women to men. Succeeding on here shouldn't be rocket science unless you look like something from outer Mars and or are completely disrespectful. I think women like a more drawn out approach where as men would like it sooner and more active so the question is. Do men complain to much or is what they say in general the truth? and are alot of women to overdrawn on many aspects before a chat and potential meet are even considered?
You're right it isn't rocket science my approach works and has worked well for years. It's simple
1 be normal
2 don't start of talking about wanting to fuck them ( it's kind of a given anyways)
3 be respectful
4 be fun and have funif it was as easy as that large % of men on the site would be succesfull. I was out last night, only came home this morning, great night was had. I think that's the way most younger men should be. Don't leave here but don't use it as your main outlet for fun. if you do, you're going to be left highly frustrated.
That's true if you can't go out and pull them you probably won't pull here either"
my point been it's alot more straightforward when you're out. |
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Very few ladies worth meeting here and that's the opinion of an old codger like me so you young bucks should be looking for something fresh not over used over grown xxxx. |
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"Very few ladies worth meeting here and that's the opinion of an old codger like me so you young bucks should be looking for something fresh not over used over grown xxxx. "
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if your having no luck here go out your door and chat to a girl 100% easier than this site trust me 90% faster response and you can tell by there face if thy like you non of this waiting for a reply seeing it was deleted don't let a woman control the situation here you control it most don't like it sends of pushy vibes but sometimes thy forget that we're men most look for a cum dump go some want it and to chill with that person talk sex isn't there so more reason to talk to the girl without the hassle of talking then getting nervous coming upto sex just remember if you need help hit me up i'll grab you a girl in a church faster than here ?? haha no offence to woman here all unreal just trying to help a bro out :D |
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Here is my opinion.... I love fab, I get meets and I get replies to messages. The reason I think it is is that I don't flop my cock around everywhere thinking I'm gonna get a ride whenever I get a wink. Too many treat this a dial a ride. Genuine swinger's who embrace the whole scene and culture of it besides the play side will always get on better as other real swinger's can spot them. There is easier ways to get a quick fuck if that all you want but for me anyway that's not what swinging is about. If your serious put the effort in, there is some great people here |
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"Here is my opinion.... I love fab, I get meets and I get replies to messages. The reason I think it is is that I don't flop my cock around everywhere thinking I'm gonna get a ride whenever I get a wink. Too many treat this a dial a ride. Genuine swinger's who embrace the whole scene and culture of it besides the play side will always get on better as other real swinger's can spot them. There is easier ways to get a quick fuck if that all you want but for me anyway that's not what swinging is about. If your serious put the effort in, there is some great people here "
I would say with confidence there is an awful lot of people here who are not true swingers.
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Reality is there's more women than men  meaning that when a woman logs onto Fab... she is faced with sifting through 50+ new messages and a man with 0-5 new massages...
So, while women have a quality problem in sorting the troglodytes  and time wasters from the men who are genuinely up for fun and meets
...the men simply have to up their game to chat, get a coffee meet, etc. Imagine that 
So, there's really two men on Fab...
1. Men who make the effort and get verifications and meets and...
2. guys who come onto the forums, whinge about their predicament for attention, get 50+ thread replies with advice and then do nothing to their pics and profile...
Fab is not rocket science 
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"Reality is there's more women than men meaning that when a woman logs onto Fab... she is faced with sifting through 50+ new messages and a man with 0-5 new massages...
So, while women have a quality problem in sorting the troglodytes and time wasters from the men who are genuinely up for fun and meets
...the men simply have to up their game to chat, get a coffee meet, etc. Imagine that
So, there's really two men on Fab...
1. Men who make the effort and get verifications and meets and...
2. guys who come onto the forums, whinge about their predicament for attention, get 50+ thread replies with advice and then do nothing to their pics and profile...
Fab is not rocket science
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you could be one of those 50 plus message and your message might not even be seen. the reality is if you use this site as your main outlet for fun, it's like a job interview to get a reward. If you sign up here thinking it's going to be easy your in for a rude awakening. |
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Here's my experience as a CD from my old profile (obviously not the same as a woman but a similar experience).
I log in. I have somewhere between 5-20 messages mostly from men I specified I'm not interested in. They butter me up with fake compliments to get in my pants... they ignore my profile/wishea and force their fantasy onto me.
For the ones I am interested in. I give them my kik because messaging on this website is a joke. Sometimes I meet them if they're serious about it. Sometimes they ask for pictures and videos so they can wank over them. Like I'm supposed to be their wank material.
Don't get me started with the sensitive men who can't comprehend why I wouldn't reply to them (because I'm not interested). When you have 10 messages every day it's a waste of time replying to them all especially when these men ignore your profile. Ex: I said on my profile I wanted to meet clean shaved lads. I had men resembling big foot try and message me.
I understand it from the other side of being a man too. But I'd rather be ignored then be harassed. |
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"So many guys just send the same messages.
"Wanna fuck?"
"Let's meet"
"Lemme lick your pussy"
Do these messages really work?!"
Sorry about that. You didn't reply to the first one so I figured there was a glitch in the matrix that prevented it from showing in your inbox and sent another fifty just to be sure.  |
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"So many guys just send the same messages.
"Wanna fuck?"
"Let's meet"
"Lemme lick your pussy"
Do these messages really work?!"
Ah don't forget
Love 2 fuck dat ass
Heah hun how ru xx
Free to meet?? |
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"So many guys just send the same messages.
"Wanna fuck?"
"Let's meet"
"Lemme lick your pussy"
Do these messages really work?!
Ah don't forget
Love 2 fuck dat ass
Heah hun how ru xx
Free to meet??"
So your telling me this is the wrong approach? Ffs I’ve wasted a year |
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"So many guys just send the same messages.
"Wanna fuck?"
"Let's meet"
"Lemme lick your pussy"
Do these messages really work?!
Ah don't forget
Love 2 fuck dat ass
Heah hun how ru xx
Free to meet??"
Or, as a couple, "mrs is hot luv to ride her wile u watch" |
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"So many guys just send the same messages.
"Wanna fuck?"
"Let's meet"
"Lemme lick your pussy"
Do these messages really work?!"
would you prefer a "hey how're you? Did you have an enjoyable weekend"? |
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"Here's my experience as a CD from my old profile (obviously not the same as a woman but a similar experience).
I log in. I have somewhere between 5-20 messages mostly from men I specified I'm not interested in. They butter me up with fake compliments to get in my pants... they ignore my profile/wishea and force their fantasy onto me.
For the ones I am interested in. I give them my kik because messaging on this website is a joke. Sometimes I meet them if they're serious about it. Sometimes they ask for pictures and videos so they can wank over them. Like I'm supposed to be their wank material.
Don't get me started with the sensitive men who can't comprehend why I wouldn't reply to them (because I'm not interested). When you have 10 messages every day it's a waste of time replying to them all especially when these men ignore your profile. Ex: I said on my profile I wanted to meet clean shaved lads. I had men resembling big foot try and message me.
I understand it from the other side of being a man too. But I'd rather be ignored then be harassed."
You hit the nail on the head right there in the last line of your second paragraph with 'force their fantasy onto me'. This is the biggest issue most women face on here. Men frequently forget that their fantasy may not be everyone's fantasy, and will plough on messaging, saying what they want to do regardless of lack of feedback or even negative responses from the person they're messaging. There's nothing makes you realise someone just sees you as a piece of meat quite as quickly as someone who sends an explicit message right away, and continues to send them either having been ignored or having been asked to stop.... And while many guys on the forums will cry out that 'we are not all like that', sadly our mailboxes show that the majority of you are... The old line of 'a few bad ones spoiling it for the rest of us' isn't even true... It's the majority who are spoiling it for the few with this kind of behaviour.
While I'm sorry to read that you've had this experience, I'm sure there are many women who will read your post and think 'finally, there's a man who has experienced the female fabber's perspective...' |
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Fab works really well for me. Let's do the statistics. How many women can you possibly have sex with in a month? You might hope for someone new every day.. Well that's a fab fantasy, as both you and your fab hopeful have busy lives. So, to have sex just once a month, might involve, a number of consistently interesting forum posts, leading to a few exchanged messages, leading to one or two meets, and after that it's up to you. And that one sexual encounter could lead to a few repeat meets (but NEVER leading to romance of course). It's a simple formula. |
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"So many guys just send the same messages.
"Wanna fuck?"
"Let's meet"
"Lemme lick your pussy"
Do these messages really work?!
Ah don't forget
Love 2 fuck dat ass
Heah hun how ru xx
Free to meet??
Or, as a couple, "mrs is hot luv to ride her wile u watch""
You're lucky. Guys just message the couple profile I'm on talking to or referring to J as if it's a single woman profile and I don't exist. Lol |
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"So many guys just send the same messages.
"Wanna fuck?"
"Let's meet"
"Lemme lick your pussy"
Do these messages really work?!
Ah don't forget
Love 2 fuck dat ass
Heah hun how ru xx
Free to meet??
Or, as a couple, "mrs is hot luv to ride her wile u watch"
You're lucky. Guys just message the couple profile I'm on talking to or referring to J as if it's a single woman profile and I don't exist. Lol"
Oh that's most of them with us too! I go heavy on the use of plural pronouns |
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"So many guys just send the same messages.
"Wanna fuck?"
"Let's meet"
"Lemme lick your pussy"
Do these messages really work?!
Ah don't forget
Love 2 fuck dat ass
Heah hun how ru xx
Free to meet??
Or, as a couple, "mrs is hot luv to ride her wile u watch"
You're lucky. Guys just message the couple profile I'm on talking to or referring to J as if it's a single woman profile and I don't exist. Lol
Oh that's most of them with us too! I go heavy on the use of plural pronouns"
Some guy messaged our couple profile at 4.30am this morning asking if I was horny. I said I was. He asked to meet and then was disappointed to discover that it was actually me messaging and J was asleep.
It's terrible when the male half of a couple actually exists. 
He asked if I'd wake her and send her round for him to 'use'.  |
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"So many guys just send the same messages.
"Wanna fuck?"
"Let's meet"
"Lemme lick your pussy"
Do these messages really work?!
Ah don't forget
Love 2 fuck dat ass
Heah hun how ru xx
Free to meet??
Or, as a couple, "mrs is hot luv to ride her wile u watch"
You're lucky. Guys just message the couple profile I'm on talking to or referring to J as if it's a single woman profile and I don't exist. Lol
Oh that's most of them with us too! I go heavy on the use of plural pronouns
Some guy messaged our couple profile at 4.30am this morning asking if I was horny. I said I was. He asked to meet and then was disappointed to discover that it was actually me messaging and J was asleep.
It's terrible when the male half of a couple actually exists.
He asked if I'd wake her and send her round for him to 'use'. "
What? He wasn't even willing to get out of bed and call over? The lazy git!! |
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Some women are just here to collect messages in their inbox, though, maybe because we're not so prefect, I think some women here are looking for princes in white horses |
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"Some women are just here to collect messages in their inbox, though, maybe because we're not so prefect, I think some women here are looking for princes in white horses"
Ah it's not messages they want in their box . It's just ladies choice. |
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"While I'm sorry to read that you've had this experience"
That's okay... nothing I couldn't handle. I've had bad experiences with women on here too, but I won't get into.
"I'm sure there are many women who will read your post and think 'finally, there's a man who has experienced the female fabber's perspective...'"
My inbox is open for whoever wants to chat or more. (:
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Let's not forget the guys who do turn up and they "seem" normal until after and then go mental with messages and stalking.. the male half of our profile was single for years and never had a problem but he attended all the party's and just sat back and waited until someone came to him.its rough for a single guy in the swinger world and it really is more for couples |
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"Some women are just here to collect messages in their inbox, though, maybe because we're not so prefect, I think some women here are looking for princes in white horses"
I'm actually not that fussy about the colour of the horse. |
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"Let's not forget the guys who do turn up and they "seem" normal until after and then go mental with messages and stalking.. the male half of our profile was single for years and never had a problem but he attended all the party's and just sat back and waited until someone came to him.its rough for a single guy in the swinger world and it really is more for couples "
I think the same single guys who have trouble in the swinging world can have the same problems in real life.. Not all but quite a few I'd say |
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"Some women are just here to collect messages in their inbox, though, maybe because we're not so prefect, I think some women here are looking for princes in white horses
I'm actually not that fussy about the colour of the horse. "
So long as it's not a little boy on a pony. Lol |
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I find it great here, I get plenty of fun, I've fucked 6 different women on here and had my first married couple fuck, and I've only ever been extremely rude on here, my belief here is, if you're good be good, if you're a prick be a prick, don't try to be something you're not, even the thickest woman on here can smell a pretender! |
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"I find it great here, I get plenty of fun, I've fucked 6 different women on here and had my first married couple fuck, and I've only ever been extremely rude on here, my belief here is, if you're good be good, if you're a prick be a prick, don't try to be something you're not, even the thickest woman on here can smell a pretender! "
Says it all really |
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"I find it great here, I get plenty of fun, I've fucked 6 different women on here and had my first married couple fuck, and I've only ever been extremely rude on here, my belief here is, if you're good be good, if you're a prick be a prick, don't try to be something you're not, even the thickest woman on here can smell a pretender!
Says it all really "
Thanks, why don't you private message me, well only if you want a real man to make you wet and sore!! |
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"I find it great here, I get plenty of fun, I've fucked 6 different women on here and had my first married couple fuck, and I've only ever been extremely rude on here, my belief here is, if you're good be good, if you're a prick be a prick, don't try to be something you're not, even the thickest woman on here can smell a pretender!
Says it all really
Thanks, why don't you private message me, well only if you want a real man to make you wet and sore!!"
If I wanted a real man it wouldn't be a big fat ignoramus like you |
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"I find it great here, I get plenty of fun, I've fucked 6 different women on here and had my first married couple fuck, and I've only ever been extremely rude on here, my belief here is, if you're good be good, if you're a prick be a prick, don't try to be something you're not, even the thickest woman on here can smell a pretender!
Says it all really
Thanks, why don't you private message me, well only if you want a real man to make you wet and sore!!
If I wanted a real man it wouldn't be a big fat ignoramus like you "
Excuse me, I'm not fat!! That's just extra blood supplies to fill my big cock for you to sit on!! So I'm quite slim when hard! Go on say something nice to me xx |
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"Long time since I heard the word ignoramus. Interesting word
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It means she loves me, needs me, and she will more than likely have me! It's not easy being me I'll tell ya! |
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It's not a secret that this place is abit harder for single men.... But if something is not working, change it!! Look at the messages you are sending, your profile and the pics you have up.
My opinion for what it's worth.... Most can get a ride easier in real life (I said most! , if you can't pull in real life it will be even harder here) but we joined this site because we are swingers, anyone can use the site that's fine but we embrace the whole lifestyle which includes meet and greets etc and we like to meet men that we genuinely feel are interested in it too. We are here and other sites a long time and when we have the time we would be more inclined to go to vanilla or a meet and greet than plan a coffee meet with someone we don't feel has any real interest in the same things as us. So yes if you are looking for a quick ride go to your local pub but if you are interested in all the stuff this site has to offer get more involved and work for it.
On the verification thing... We have met unverified people and would again, we all have to start somewhere but we have been let down and abused by so many before that we are choosy on who we meet if they are unverified.
Also if you are using the forums regularly and trying to get involved and getting people to know you.... Be the real you! Don't be a muppet on the forums and then expect to pm people with the "real you", notes on profiles are handy to keep track 
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"I don’t think it’s hard for them at all to be honest any I know arnt short on a supply of meets. In fact some would need a planner "
if you're a man on here and you'll practically get up on anything, you're flying.
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"I don’t think it’s hard for them at all to be honest any I know arnt short on a supply of meets. In fact some would need a planner if you're a man on here and you'll practically get up on anything, you're flying. "
Na in fairness it’s a bit of the other way around in most cases for women |
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"I don’t think it’s hard for them at all to be honest any I know arnt short on a supply of meets. In fact some would need a planner if you're a man on here and you'll practically get up on anything, you're flying.
Na in fairness it’s a bit of the other way around in most cases for women "
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As I said there are men here who have just as much choice. if they want to pretend not to have that’s their choice too. Only ones who don’t are usually ones who are not attractive to people they are mailing. Do you want women to start pity fucks? |
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"As I said there are men here who have just as much choice. if they want to pretend not to have that’s their choice too. Only ones who don’t are usually ones who are not attractive to people they are mailing. Do you want women to start pity fucks? "
Yes please me first, I love a good titty fuck!! |
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"As I said there are men here who have just as much choice. if they want to pretend not to have that’s their choice too. Only ones who don’t are usually ones who are not attractive to people they are mailing. Do you want women to start pity fucks? "
no but saying men have the same choice is been plain nieve. If women can't be succesfull on here there is something wrong. She could sign in to 50 plus mails a day or so. If outta those 50 she can't find a few men then there is something drastically wrong. Alot of men would be lucky to sign into 2 mails at times on here.
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"As I said there are men here who have just as much choice. if they want to pretend not to have that’s their choice too. Only ones who don’t are usually ones who are not attractive to people they are mailing. Do you want women to start pity fucks? "
Would that not clash with your last comment? |
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"As I said there are men here who have just as much choice. if they want to pretend not to have that’s their choice too. Only ones who don’t are usually ones who are not attractive to people they are mailing. Do you want women to start pity fucks? no but saying men have the same choice is been plain nieve. If women can't be succesfull on here there is something wrong. She could sign in to 50 plus mails a day or so. If outta those 50 she can't find a few men then there is something drastically wrong. Alot of men would be lucky to sign into 2 mails at times on here."
My average mail's for a day would be about 25 of course it depends on what time of the day it is when I go on, most days I just skim down through them and mostly just do a bulk delete. I'm probably lucky that I find it pretty easy to hook up with women on here,I find most are extremely easy on here, my advice is to read their profile properly and use that to fool them into thinking you're exactly what they're looking for, I would imagine it's harder for guys to find guys on here because let's face it, its much harder to get away with telling lies to a man |
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"As I said there are men here who have just as much choice. if they want to pretend not to have that’s their choice too. Only ones who don’t are usually ones who are not attractive to people they are mailing. Do you want women to start pity fucks?
Would that not clash with your last comment?"
I dunno would it? |
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"As I said there are men here who have just as much choice. if they want to pretend not to have that’s their choice too. Only ones who don’t are usually ones who are not attractive to people they are mailing. Do you want women to start pity fucks?
Yes please me first, I love a good titty fuck!!"
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"You obviously think it’s an abundance of good choices then? You need to be a female for a day "
Yes. Spot on. Most messages to our profile or J's single profile are just crude, or cock pics or wanna fuck messages for J. They all get ignored or blocked then even of the few that are not like that and make an effort with their messages, most of them would not be J's type. Then even with the very few where things have went as far as a social stage sometimes there is just no chemistry. So while there may be a lot of choices on here for females; as already stated by yourself, the number of good choices is very limited.
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Tables may be turning slightly but definitely not as some thinking.
If you ladies got one or two messages in reply to say 500 or a couple directly say in a month, then out of those few you have to hope it's more than a few word reply that doesn't encourage more conversation, then you're hoping there's a connection. You see it's very different.
It's one of the reasons many guys try the Cut and Paste, their chances of a reply going by the number that still do it over the years must have improved chances.
Factor the age filter into it and it's Pluto habitat while the fire is on Mars. |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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But do you really want to sleep with the 500 that you messaged???? I would doubt very much that there was 500 people on here that I would find a mutual attraction with. Or that there were 500 people that genuinely found me attractive. And I wouldn't want to be counted in the any wholes a goal category either. |
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"As I said there are men here who have just as much choice. if they want to pretend not to have that’s their choice too. Only ones who don’t are usually ones who are not attractive to people they are mailing. Do you want women to start pity fucks? no but saying men have the same choice is been plain nieve. If women can't be succesfull on here there is something wrong. She could sign in to 50 plus mails a day or so. If outta those 50 she can't find a few men then there is something drastically wrong. Alot of men would be lucky to sign into 2 mails at times on here."
There must be something drastically wrong with me. Even in my single days - there were hardly any days where I would get any more than 5 messages a day. One decent message out of them 5 was something phenomenal.
One decent message a week was something more realistic.
I genuinely haven't personally met a single female who receives 50 messages a day. Not one. And I've met a LOT of female fabbers.
So.... is there really something drastically wrong with me or do vanilla people (single guys mostly) join this expecting to be dial a ride and get extremely dissapointed.
Prime example happened today. We're on a family holiday, some twat sends me a message saying don't log into fab if you're not gonna suck Kerry cock.
This is the kind of messages women receive daily - should we give the lad a chance? |
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"As I said there are men here who have just as much choice. if they want to pretend not to have that’s their choice too. Only ones who don’t are usually ones who are not attractive to people they are mailing. Do you want women to start pity fucks? no but saying men have the same choice is been plain nieve. If women can't be succesfull on here there is something wrong. She could sign in to 50 plus mails a day or so. If outta those 50 she can't find a few men then there is something drastically wrong. Alot of men would be lucky to sign into 2 mails at times on here.
There must be something drastically wrong with me. Even in my single days - there were hardly any days where I would get any more than 5 messages a day. One decent message out of them 5 was something phenomenal.
One decent message a week was something more realistic.
I genuinely haven't personally met a single female who receives 50 messages a day. Not one. And I've met a LOT of female fabbers.
So.... is there really something drastically wrong with me or do vanilla people (single guys mostly) join this expecting to be dial a ride and get extremely dissapointed.
Prime example happened today. We're on a family holiday, some twat sends me a message saying don't log into fab if you're not gonna suck Kerry cock.
This is the kind of messages women receive daily - should we give the lad a chance? "
Clearly you shouldnt give him a chance... there was cork cock only a spin away... how dare you log into fab unless you are ready to blow some balls |
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I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face |
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face"
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face"
That would be one with general good manners and respect. Not really too much to ask for. In fact it shouldn't need to be asked for ever in any aspect of life, here or anywhere else. And you can have the hottest body and face, but it means nothing if you're rude or simply an asshole.
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face"
Nah, sorry, that is not actually true. It's about more than just physical attraction. The person needs to be able to hold a decent conversation. There needs to be some kind of chemistry or connection. |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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"But do you really want to sleep with the 500 that you messaged???? I would doubt very much that there was 500 people on here that I would find a mutual attraction with. Or that there were 500 people that genuinely found me attractive. And I wouldn't want to be counted in the any wholes a goal category either. "
Clearly I meant hole. |
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
I can see your point in fairness "
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
I can see your point in fairness
Body, face and poetry in the one message.. Single male unicorn
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
Dublin |
"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
I can see your point in fairness
Body, face and poetry in the one message.. Single male unicorn
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
Nah, sorry, that is not actually true. It's about more than just physical attraction. The person needs to be able to hold a decent conversation. There needs to be some kind of chemistry or connection."
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"As I said there are men here who have just as much choice. if they want to pretend not to have that’s their choice too. Only ones who don’t are usually ones who are not attractive to people they are mailing. Do you want women to start pity fucks? no but saying men have the same choice is been plain nieve. If women can't be succesfull on here there is something wrong. She could sign in to 50 plus mails a day or so. If outta those 50 she can't find a few men then there is something drastically wrong. Alot of men would be lucky to sign into 2 mails at times on here.
There must be something drastically wrong with me. Even in my single days - there were hardly any days where I would get any more than 5 messages a day. One decent message out of them 5 was something phenomenal.
One decent message a week was something more realistic.
I genuinely haven't personally met a single female who receives 50 messages a day. Not one. And I've met a LOT of female fabbers.
So.... is there really something drastically wrong with me or do vanilla people (single guys mostly) join this expecting to be dial a ride and get extremely dissapointed.
Prime example happened today. We're on a family holiday, some twat sends me a message saying don't log into fab if you're not gonna suck Kerry cock.
This is the kind of messages women receive daily - should we give the lad a chance? "
women have admitted themselves, many women to signing into umpteen messages a day. The choice is there. Some messages will be shit like you said but some will be fine. U out the shit from the good. |
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
Nah, sorry, that is not actually true. It's about more than just physical attraction. The person needs to be able to hold a decent conversation. There needs to be some kind of chemistry or connection."
if the physical attraction is not there it won't even get to the next step. |
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
I can see your point in fairness
Body, face and poetry in the one message.. Single male unicorn
Did I mention I'm a published poet "
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
Nah, sorry, that is not actually true. It's about more than just physical attraction. The person needs to be able to hold a decent conversation. There needs to be some kind of chemistry or connection.
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what? So why in all profiles have this requirement? the message so cute and only the background for such a face picture
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
Nah, sorry, that is not actually true. It's about more than just physical attraction. The person needs to be able to hold a decent conversation. There needs to be some kind of chemistry or connection.
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what? So why in all profiles have this requirement? the message so cute and only the background for such a face picture
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
Nah, sorry, that is not actually true. It's about more than just physical attraction. The person needs to be able to hold a decent conversation. There needs to be some kind of chemistry or connection.
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what? So why in all profiles have this requirement? the message so cute and only the background for such a face picture
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We request a face pic in messages because obviously there has to be an element of physical attraction but that alone won't cut it.
The person also needs show common decency which alas, doesn't seem to be so common on here. |
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
Nah, sorry, that is not actually true. It's about more than just physical attraction. The person needs to be able to hold a decent conversation. There needs to be some kind of chemistry or connection."
Are we the only couple out there who thinking if guys or girls are looking for chemistry or a connection are playing with fire ? In a couple situation.. |
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
Nah, sorry, that is not actually true. It's about more than just physical attraction. The person needs to be able to hold a decent conversation. There needs to be some kind of chemistry or connection.
Are we the only couple out there who thinking if guys or girls are looking for chemistry or a connection are playing with fire ? In a couple situation.."
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
Nah, sorry, that is not actually true. It's about more than just physical attraction. The person needs to be able to hold a decent conversation. There needs to be some kind of chemistry or connection.
Are we the only couple out there who thinking if guys or girls are looking for chemistry or a connection are playing with fire ? In a couple situation.."
Not necessarily. We're not saying there needs to be crazy sparks or romance, but there needs to be some kind of common ground. It can make the difference between a boring meet and an exciting or enjoyable one. |
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
Nah, sorry, that is not actually true. It's about more than just physical attraction. The person needs to be able to hold a decent conversation. There needs to be some kind of chemistry or connection.
Are we the only couple out there who thinking if guys or girls are looking for chemistry or a connection are playing with fire ? In a couple situation..
There's always a risk"
Yes there always is but having known each other for 13 plus years we feel secure enough in our relationship. If someone else can make either one of us feel more in a meet than what has been built throughout the entire friendship then relationship, then we were never meant to be. |
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I find just being myself works. I'm a single guy. Don't take life or the site too seriously. I mean life is short and none of us make it out alive. Anyone who has talked to me both on and off the site will tell you that.
It's a very rare occasion that I will mail a woman first.
I agree with that there has to be some sort of connection. You got to be able to have a bit of a laugh especially for many, as yeah it's sex but if any of us just wanted sex without some sort of common ground or attraction we'd all be fucking toys.
We are humans and by our nature we are social creatures simple as.
There seems to be an element on the site who think the women are here for them, and should feel privileged that they have mailed them. Little News Flash get over yourselves. Everyone has the choice to accept or refuse your advances!
You get what you give. If you don't give respect you don't get respect.
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Also to Add to that. The ladies have to know they feel safe. No one is going to meet someone they don't feel safe or comfortable meeting. How do they get to feel comfortable and safe? They meet to gauge the person and see if their is a connection or are you the next Unibomber |
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
Nah, sorry, that is not actually true. It's about more than just physical attraction. The person needs to be able to hold a decent conversation. There needs to be some kind of chemistry or connection.
Are we the only couple out there who thinking if guys or girls are looking for chemistry or a connection are playing with fire ? In a couple situation..
There's always a risk
Yes there always is but having known each other for 13 plus years we feel secure enough in our relationship. If someone else can make either one of us feel more in a meet than what has been built throughout the entire friendship then relationship, then we were never meant to be."
Exactly, if your partner is that easily distracted by another, they can have each other. |
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
Nah, sorry, that is not actually true. It's about more than just physical attraction. The person needs to be able to hold a decent conversation. There needs to be some kind of chemistry or connection.
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what? So why in all profiles have this requirement? the message so cute and only the background for such a face picture
It's not a requirement all profiles. If you're going to complain at least be factually correct. "
If he would actually read anyone's profiles and not some select trigger lines he would probably know by now that himself but I hazard a guess that that he may be one of them "we're all here for the same thing" kinda person... |
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
Nah, sorry, that is not actually true. It's about more than just physical attraction. The person needs to be able to hold a decent conversation. There needs to be some kind of chemistry or connection.
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what? So why in all profiles have this requirement? the message so cute and only the background for such a face picture
It's not a requirement all profiles. If you're going to complain at least be factually correct.
If he would actually read anyone's profiles and not some select trigger lines he would probably know by now that himself but I hazard a guess that that he may be one of them "we're all here for the same thing" kinda person... "
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
Nah, sorry, that is not actually true. It's about more than just physical attraction. The person needs to be able to hold a decent conversation. There needs to be some kind of chemistry or connection.
Are we the only couple out there who thinking if guys or girls are looking for chemistry or a connection are playing with fire ? In a couple situation.."
Only if you're insecure in your own relationship or are a jealous person (not pointing at you OP as I don't know you).
I've made good friends with some couples and we all just enjoy each other when we see fit. Intellectually, socially and sexually. Key to all is to be open and honest with all parties and never go behind anyone's back i.e. not just text the hubby or wife all the time with photos of genitals, not invite hubby or wife alone to any play time separately, not have any secrets between yourself and one half of a couple. |
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"I find just being myself works. I'm a single guy. Don't take life or the site too seriously. I mean life is short and none of us make it out alive. Anyone who has talked to me both on and off the site will tell you that.
It's a very rare occasion that I will mail a woman first.
I agree with that there has to be some sort of connection. You got to be able to have a bit of a laugh especially for many, as yeah it's sex but if any of us just wanted sex without some sort of common ground or attraction we'd all be fucking toys.
We are humans and by our nature we are social creatures simple as.
There seems to be an element on the site who think the women are here for them, and should feel privileged that they have mailed them. Little News Flash get over yourselves. Everyone has the choice to accept or refuse your advances!
You get what you give. If you don't give respect you don't get respect.
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I fully agree with you but attraction and respect is not the full mix, delivery is another component that is crucial too and from my experience the biggest let down. |
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over a year ago
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
Nah, sorry, that is not actually true. It's about more than just physical attraction. The person needs to be able to hold a decent conversation. There needs to be some kind of chemistry or connection.
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what? So why in all profiles have this requirement? the message so cute and only the background for such a face picture
It's not a requirement all profiles. If you're going to complain at least be factually correct.
If he would actually read anyone's profiles and not some select trigger lines he would probably know by now that himself but I hazard a guess that that he may be one of them "we're all here for the same thing" kinda person... "
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face"
There's a lot of women who couldn't pen a message without some bite or misgivings about something. Many on the forums get caught in this and it comes out in their conversations too. Beautiful come in many forms and the face and body can mask a cold sarcastic frustrated heart developed by negativity through forums. |
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
There's a lot of women who couldn't pen a message without some bite or misgivings about something. Many on the forums get caught in this and it comes out in their conversations too. Beautiful come in many forms and the face and body can mask a cold sarcastic frustrated heart developed by negativity through forums."
I'd say that Negativity is born not from the forums but from the constant fancy a fuck or I bet I can make you scream ( probably can in frustration) messages. The forums are usually not a negative place far from it. Just post like this seem to breed negative responses due to it being like someone flogging a dead horse. |
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I genuinely haven't personally met a single female who receives 50 messages a day. Not one. And I've met a LOT of female fabbers.
So.... is there really something drastically wrong with me or do vanilla people (single guys mostly) join this expecting to be dial a ride and get extremely dissapointed. "
I've met a few and seen the proof. They meet rarely, not socialites and don't if ever engage in forums and this may have something to do with it as they don't put out much publicly and maybe viewers don't feel as threatened. Just my thoughts on it. |
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"I don't know why women get this freshness, "I only accept decent message" what would that be? do you have to write a poem? And at the end of the story here everyone is looking for beautiful bodies and faces! one of the REQUIREMENTS: only face picture message accepted! Then the guy is dedicated to making a poem, but what really matters is the photo of face and body! So please stop this bullshit message decked and false moralism, because what interests in the end is the body and the face
There's a lot of women who couldn't pen a message without some bite or misgivings about something. Many on the forums get caught in this and it comes out in their conversations too. Beautiful come in many forms and the face and body can mask a cold sarcastic frustrated heart developed by negativity through forums.
I'd say that Negativity is born not from the forums but from the constant fancy a fuck or I bet I can make you scream ( probably can in frustration) messages. The forums are usually not a negative place far from it. Just post like this seem to breed negative responses due to it being like someone flogging a dead horse. "
I must be viewing a very different forum I guess. |
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" Nah, sorry, that is not actually true.... There needs to be some kind of chemistry or connection.
Are we the only couple out there who thinking if guys or girls are looking for chemistry or a connection are playing with fire ? In a couple situation.."
Only if a couple is insecure in their relationship. In which case they probably shouldn't be here in the first place... Swinging isn't a puncture repair kit, if anything it will only magnify existing doubts and insecurities. Having a connection and chemistry with third parties shouldn't affect a healthy relationship... They're just friends you have sex with now and then! |
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