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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Dilemma. Wife up for fun in certain situations. So how to create a situation without saying I arranged it? She will go out no knickers and few drinks she is willing to let loose but unless another couple there also willing its a lost opportunity. Hoping to get to Naas Saturday night and it would be great if another couple was willing to bump into us!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dilemma. Wife up for fun in certain situations. So how to create a situation without saying I arranged it? She will go out no knickers and few drinks she is willing to let loose but unless another couple there also willing its a lost opportunity. Hoping to get to Naas Saturday night and it would be great if another couple was willing to bump into us!!!"
Heard that one before!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What could be less appealing than the idea of meeting someone being set up by their partner?"
Well its set up for a reason. So your hubby never set up a meet? Or maybe you set up the meets? I know what she likes and i know what she doesnt like. Lots of people I spoke to said the got into swinging over a few drinks maybe with friends or a couple on holiday so im trying to create the situation thats all. If it happens it happens if not it dosent |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What could be less appealing than the idea of meeting someone being set up by their partner?
Well its set up for a reason. So your hubby never set up a meet? Or maybe you set up the meets? I know what she likes and i know what she doesnt like. Lots of people I spoke to said the got into swinging over a few drinks maybe with friends or a couple on holiday so im trying to create the situation thats all. If it happens it happens if not it dosent"
I'm talking about setting someone up without their prior knowledge or agreement, but whatever. |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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"Dilemma. Wife up for fun in certain situations. So how to create a situation without saying I arranged it? She will go out no knickers and few drinks she is willing to let loose but unless another couple there also willing its a lost opportunity. Hoping to get to Naas Saturday night and it would be great if another couple was willing to bump into us!!!"
Not sure how many couples or otherwise would be comfortable turning up to a meet were your partner is unaware of the situation. I may be wrong but it sounds like you and your Mrs have not played with anyone else before. This would be very off putting to many I think. I really think if you are planning on introducing your partner to swinging or others into your relationship, you should discuss this fully beforehand. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a fairly creepy request. She's either up for it or she isn't. Sounds like she isn't. "
Noting creepy about it at all. Like I said many people I spoke with got into swinging in much the same way few drinks things happen no one forcing anyone to do anything. You would think I was tying her up and dragging her. Sounds like noting I know my wife better than you your opinion is just that |
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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago
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"It's a fairly creepy request. She's either up for it or she isn't. Sounds like she isn't.
Noting creepy about it at all. Like I said many people I spoke with got into swinging in much the same way few drinks things happen no one forcing anyone to do anything. You would think I was tying her up and dragging her. Sounds like noting I know my wife better than you your opinion is just that"
Yes that may be true but I doubt they had informed a couple in advance of such an occassion. Just saying as a female I would like to be consulted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a fairly creepy request. She's either up for it or she isn't. Sounds like she isn't.
Noting creepy about it at all. Like I said many people I spoke with got into swinging in much the same way few drinks things happen no one forcing anyone to do anything. You would think I was tying her up and dragging her. Sounds like noting I know my wife better than you your opinion is just that
Yes that may be true but I doubt they had informed a couple in advance of such an occassion. Just saying as a female I would like to be consulted. "
Why isn't someone saying, #metoo??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dilemma. Wife up for fun in certain situations. So how to create a situation without saying I arranged it? She will go out no knickers and few drinks she is willing to let loose but unless another couple there also willing its a lost opportunity. Hoping to get to Naas Saturday night and it would be great if another couple was willing to bump into us!!!
Not sure how many couples or otherwise would be comfortable turning up to a meet were your partner is unaware of the situation. I may be wrong but it sounds like you and your Mrs have not played with anyone else before. This would be very off putting to many I think. I really think if you are planning on introducing your partner to swinging or others into your relationship, you should discuss this fully beforehand. "
Not planning introducing anyone into my life just the odd weekend of fun with another couple if we can. I did say friendship and take it from there. I do know my wife very well and I am just providing here with the opportunity to let loose if she chooses to. If I was in the place to provide the same chance to another couple to see how it went I would do so. How many times have couples met for drink and noting happened? Same situation if its consensual . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ahh.. You know what's good for her, but she's doesn't? I understand completely.
Getting your wife d*unk and setting her up without her knowledge is creepy. Don't do that. "
Your a lost cause and intent on twisting everything. D*unk?who is getting d*unk god your mind works in a bad way . My wife never gets d*unk she has a drink big difference. We are not drinkers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ahh.. You know what's good for her, but she's doesn't? I understand completely.
Getting your wife d*unk and setting her up without her knowledge is creepy. Don't do that.
Your a lost cause and intent on twisting everything. D*unk?who is getting d*unk god your mind works in a bad way . My wife never gets d*unk she has a drink big difference. We are not drinkers. "
Well said, look I can meet you guys, does she like fat hairy guys with big dicks? |
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"Ahh.. You know what's good for her, but she's doesn't? I understand completely.
Getting your wife d*unk and setting her up without her knowledge is creepy. Don't do that.
Your a lost cause and intent on twisting everything. D*unk?who is getting d*unk god your mind works in a bad way . My wife never gets d*unk she has a drink big difference. We are not drinkers. "
The whole idea or setting her up behind her back makes me incredibly uncomfortable. Calculating to involve alcahol to loosen her up and make her do something that she wouldn't orherwise does too.
Have you tried talking to her about swinging honestly and soberly? If so what did she say? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ahh.. You know what's good for her, but she's doesn't? I understand completely.
Getting your wife d*unk and setting her up without her knowledge is creepy. Don't do that.
Your a lost cause and intent on twisting everything. D*unk?who is getting d*unk god your mind works in a bad way . My wife never gets d*unk she has a drink big difference. We are not drinkers.
The whole idea or setting her up behind her back makes me incredibly uncomfortable. Calculating to involve alcahol to loosen her up and make her do something that she wouldn't orherwise does too.
Have you tried talking to her about swinging honestly and soberly? If so what did she say? "
Calm down, most married women would love the opportunity to be set up like this. |
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"It's a fairly creepy request. She's either up for it or she isn't. Sounds like she isn't. Women are always up for it!!
Wow. Just when I thought this thread couldnt get any rapier"
dont feed the muppet |
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"Ahh.. You know what's good for her, but she's doesn't? I understand completely.
Getting your wife d*unk and setting her up without her knowledge is creepy. Don't do that.
Your a lost cause and intent on twisting everything. D*unk?who is getting d*unk god your mind works in a bad way . My wife never gets d*unk she has a drink big difference. We are not drinkers.
The whole idea or setting her up behind her back makes me incredibly uncomfortable. Calculating to involve alcahol to loosen her up and make her do something that she wouldn't orherwise does too.
Have you tried talking to her about swinging honestly and soberly? If so what did she say?
Calm down, most married women would love the opportunity to be set up like this."
yea pal you look like most married women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What could be less appealing than the idea of meeting someone being set up by their partner?
Crabs?"
Hmm don't sound great, but probably easier to get rid of than a shitty spouse. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What could be less appealing than the idea of meeting someone being set up by their partner?
Crabs?
Hmm don't sound great, but probably easier to get rid of than a shitty spouse."
There you go again with your opinion and muck raking. Go back to what ever you were doing and resist the temptation to stir shit |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What could be less appealing than the idea of meeting someone being set up by their partner?
Crabs?
Hmm don't sound great, but probably easier to get rid of than a shitty spouse.
There you go again with your opinion and muck raking. Go back to what ever you were doing and resist the temptation to stir shit"
Have a great weekend! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What could be less appealing than the idea of meeting someone being set up by their partner?
Crabs?
Hmm don't sound great, but probably easier to get rid of than a shitty spouse."
Cream for one.....
Wicklow mountains for the other  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If my hubby set anything like that I’d remove his balls from his body ."
Says yer one whos handle was given to her? Have you read your own profile? Women can be arseholes too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile doesn't say a thing about your wife so I'm guessing she doesn't have a clue about you being on here.
Why not sit down and discuss it with her rather than trying to create this situation? You said you know your wife well, I'm betting you know already that she isn't open to the idea. This is something you obviously want since you've already had a meet with someone. If she doesn't then do her a favor and just end it rather than going behind her back. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile doesn't say a thing about your wife so I'm guessing she doesn't have a clue about you being on here.
Why not sit down and discuss it with her rather than trying to create this situation? You said you know your wife well, I'm betting you know already that she isn't open to the idea. This is something you obviously want since you've already had a meet with someone. If she doesn't then do her a favor and just end it rather than going behind her back."
Virtue signalling is whats going on here. You can guess all you want about what she wants but i know what she likes. Im not a clown I know she wants to let loose hence me looking to give her the opportunity why the hell do you think im intending this. Any finshed answering people who continue to read into it stuff that is not there. Title says for couple looking for friendship not people to opinion on my motives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why so aggressive .you put it up here you have to expect feed back .as for looking for friend that’s not what your looking for you said it yourself .you have shown who you are with the way you have replied to people as I said aggressive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you want to be aggressive about it then that's no problem. You don't have the balls to sit down and talk to your wife about swinging. "I know what she likes" yet you can't discuss it with her. Why don't you just club her over head like a caveman and bring her to a meet?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you want to be aggressive about it then that's no problem. You don't have the balls to sit down and talk to your wife about swinging. "I know what she likes" yet you can't discuss it with her. Why don't you just club her over head like a caveman and bring her to a meet??"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your profile doesn't say a thing about your wife so I'm guessing she doesn't have a clue about you being on here.
Why not sit down and discuss it with her rather than trying to create this situation? You said you know your wife well, I'm betting you know already that she isn't open to the idea. This is something you obviously want since you've already had a meet with someone. If she doesn't then do her a favor and just end it rather than going behind her back.
Virtue signalling is whats going on here. You can guess all you want about what she wants but i know what she likes. Im not a clown I know she wants to let loose hence me looking to give her the opportunity why the hell do you think im intending this. Any finshed answering people who continue to read into it stuff that is not there. Title says for couple looking for friendship not people to opinion on my motives."
To be fair you title is misleading....
What ypu are looking for is more than friendship....
Unless that is all you are looking for which makes the post a little weirder. Not the nest way to argue your point.
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"Ahh.. You know what's good for her, but she's doesn't? I understand completely.
Getting your wife d*unk and setting her up without her knowledge is creepy. Don't do that.
Your a lost cause and intent on twisting everything. D*unk?who is getting d*unk god your mind works in a bad way . My wife never gets d*unk she has a drink big difference. We are not drinkers.
Well said, look I can meet you guys, does she like fat hairy guys with big dicks?"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile doesn't say a thing about your wife so I'm guessing she doesn't have a clue about you being on here.
Why not sit down and discuss it with her rather than trying to create this situation? You said you know your wife well, I'm betting you know already that she isn't open to the idea. This is something you obviously want since you've already had a meet with someone. If she doesn't then do her a favor and just end it rather than going behind her back.
Virtue signalling is whats going on here. You can guess all you want about what she wants but i know what she likes. Im not a clown I know she wants to let loose hence me looking to give her the opportunity why the hell do you think im intending this. Any finshed answering people who continue to read into it stuff that is not there. Title says for couple looking for friendship not people to opinion on my motives.
To be fair you title is misleading....
What ypu are looking for is more than friendship....
Unless that is all you are looking for which makes the post a little weirder. Not the nest way to argue your point.
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So I will put you down as not interested then? Your on here looking for women for sex? So your virtue signaling to them haha so sad. I got mail suppourting my post and the way it was twisted around by these arseholes on their moral high horses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your profile doesn't say a thing about your wife so I'm guessing she doesn't have a clue about you being on here.
Why not sit down and discuss it with her rather than trying to create this situation? You said you know your wife well, I'm betting you know already that she isn't open to the idea. This is something you obviously want since you've already had a meet with someone. If she doesn't then do her a favor and just end it rather than going behind her back.
Virtue signalling is whats going on here. You can guess all you want about what she wants but i know what she likes. Im not a clown I know she wants to let loose hence me looking to give her the opportunity why the hell do you think im intending this. Any finshed answering people who continue to read into it stuff that is not there. Title says for couple looking for friendship not people to opinion on my motives.
To be fair you title is misleading....
What ypu are looking for is more than friendship....
Unless that is all you are looking for which makes the post a little weirder. Not the nest way to argue your point.
So I will put you down as not interested then? Your on here looking for women for sex? So your virtue signaling to them haha so sad. I got mail suppourting my post and the way it was twisted around by these arseholes on their moral high horses. "
Cool story bro
I dont need to virtue signal......I have terrible morals.
But ya you can put me down as not interested I like my meets to onow they are actually.meets.
If you want to get the wife to mail me about my bad morals work away though  |
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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago
Tralee |
To be fair OP, I think the main problem is that 4 people might meet, but only 1 has no clue what's about to happen. I understand your saying that sometimes couple's just meet and things develop, but thats totally random with no preplaning. What your talking about is closer to setting someone up and I think that's why most people are horrified at the idea. Personally I think it's a bad idea, if you think your wife might be up for playing then create a profile together and go from there or visit one of those adult holidays resorts and see what happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your profile doesn't say a thing about your wife so I'm guessing she doesn't have a clue about you being on here.
Why not sit down and discuss it with her rather than trying to create this situation? You said you know your wife well, I'm betting you know already that she isn't open to the idea. This is something you obviously want since you've already had a meet with someone. If she doesn't then do her a favor and just end it rather than going behind her back.
Virtue signalling is whats going on here. You can guess all you want about what she wants but i know what she likes. Im not a clown I know she wants to let loose hence me looking to give her the opportunity why the hell do you think im intending this. Any finshed answering people who continue to read into it stuff that is not there. Title says for couple looking for friendship not people to opinion on my motives.
To be fair you title is misleading....
What ypu are looking for is more than friendship....
Unless that is all you are looking for which makes the post a little weirder. Not the nest way to argue your point.
So I will put you down as not interested then? Your on here looking for women for sex? So your virtue signaling to them haha so sad. I got mail suppourting my post and the way it was twisted around by these arseholes on their moral high horses.
Cool story bro
I dont need to virtue signal......I have terrible morals.
But ya you can put me down as not interested I like my meets to onow they are actually.meets.
If you want to get the wife to mail me about my bad morals work away though "
You're right were all on here as consenting adults looking for people to improve our already great sex life. We have an open and honest relationship about what we want from doing this.
If virtue signalling and being on a moral high horse is telling you discuss swinging with your wife and tell her what you want then so be it. What you're attempting is the exact opposite. It's manipulative and deceiving your wife.
Consider this. You're the arsehole and you have all the other arseholes messaging you support. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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To be fair OP, I think the main problem is that 4 people might meet, but only 1 has no clue what's about to happen. I understand your saying that sometimes couple's just meet and things develop, but thats totally random with no preplaning. What your talking about is closer to setting someone up and I think that's why most people are horrified at the idea. Personally I think it's a bad idea, if you think your wife might be up for playing then create a profile together and go from there or visit one of those adult holidays resorts and see what happens
This is spot on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dilemma. Wife up for fun in certain situations. So how to create a situation without saying I arranged it? She will go out no knickers and few drinks she is willing to let loose but unless another couple there also willing its a lost opportunity. Hoping to get to Naas Saturday night and it would be great if another couple was willing to bump into us!!!"
The warning bells are ringing |
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