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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hey all,

So we've set up this account now with a few months and it's been difficult to get any verifications. I understand that it's extremely rare to find that elusive unicorn, especially considering our location, but any women out there willing to help us?

X

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"Hey all,

So we've set up this account now with a few months and it's been difficult to get any verifications. I understand that it's extremely rare to find that elusive unicorn, especially considering our location, but any women out there willing to help us?

X "

A veri is a veri why does it have to be from a unicorn a cpl or a guy can verify u just as easy a quick coffee or drink would do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

True that. In thar case. Anyone willing?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Be careful. People generally

don't read profiles. They rarely read veris too.

If you'll have a veri from a single man - single men will just assume that it is what you're looking for.

If your profile states you're not looking for any single men but the only veri you have is from a single guy - boom, hundreds of single guys will start getting frustrated at how your profile states that you're not looking for single men and only veri you have is from a single guy, so they'll try their chances, create frustrated forum posts (happened before) and generally call you stuck up for not being interested.

There's plenty of ladies from couples looking for f&f and plenty of single ladies who like to meet a couple.

My suggestion would be - include photos into your profile that portray both of you together or separately, that give people some perspective of who you are (obviously without revealing your identity if you desire discretion).

Fill your profile in with your desires, how far you would or wouldn't like to go. And finally sprinkle some respect and personality into your messages.

Personally I absolutely hate getting messages from nameless, faceless couples profiles telling me how they would like me to play with the wife/girlfriend while that nameless and faceless man watches .My best guess is that most women would be that most women would be repulsed by that kind of offer straight up from a complete stranger (I don't know you OP, so wouldn't know what kind of messages would you be sending, so it's not directed at you personally in any way).

To meet a couple a woman has to fancy and trust both parts of that couple. Try to mentally walk in her shoes, treat her like a human being and not a spare sex toy in your bedroom that you're eager to try out, meet her for a drink.... it does take effort, but in the end it's worth it.

I promise x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks missus. That's the best advice we've received so far. Just as we were about to give up. Profile makeover incoming !

Xx

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"Be careful. People generally

don't read profiles. They rarely read veris too.

If you'll have a veri from a single man - single men will just assume that it is what you're looking for.

If your profile states you're not looking for any single men but the only veri you have is from a single guy - boom, hundreds of single guys will start getting frustrated at how your profile states that you're not looking for single men and only veri you have is from a single guy, so they'll try their chances, create frustrated forum posts (happened before) and generally call you stuck up for not being interested.

There's plenty of ladies from couples looking for f&f and plenty of single ladies who like to meet a couple.

My suggestion would be - include photos into your profile that portray both of you together or separately, that give people some perspective of who you are (obviously without revealing your identity if you desire discretion).

Fill your profile in with your desires, how far you would or wouldn't like to go. And finally sprinkle some respect and personality into your messages.

Personally I absolutely hate getting messages from nameless, faceless couples profiles telling me how they would like me to play with the wife/girlfriend while that nameless and faceless man watches .My best guess is that most women would be that most women would be repulsed by that kind of offer straight up from a complete stranger (I don't know you OP, so wouldn't know what kind of messages would you be sending, so it's not directed at you personally in any way).

To meet a couple a woman has to fancy and trust both parts of that couple. Try to mentally walk in her shoes, treat her like a human being and not a spare sex toy in your bedroom that you're eager to try out, meet her for a drink.... it does take effort, but in the end it's worth it.

I promise x"

Please dont paint all single guys with ur male bashing posts not all single guys behave in this manner yet continually u post negitive toned comment on them. I have met many people on here that dont meet single guys and verified them that it was a social meet and was clear thst that is all it was jeeessss

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By *evil_u_knowMan  over a year ago

city

If youre not interested in single men ever then dont get verified by one, stick to either couple or female.

Couple will be the easiest, but if you're not interested in couples you will have to wait until one is feeling social, just be upfront you want a social meet to get verified.

In the meantime you could get a webcam verification, that can come in useful to get meet verifications.

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By *upidsbowkissWoman  over a year ago

City Center


"Be careful. People generally

don't read profiles. They rarely read veris too.

If you'll have a veri from a single man - single men will just assume that it is what you're looking for.

If your profile states you're not looking for any single men but the only veri you have is from a single guy - boom, hundreds of single guys will start getting frustrated at how your profile states that you're not looking for single men and only veri you have is from a single guy, so they'll try their chances, create frustrated forum posts (happened before) and generally call you stuck up for not being interested.

There's plenty of ladies from couples looking for f&f and plenty of single ladies who like to meet a couple.

My suggestion would be - include photos into your profile that portray both of you together or separately, that give people some perspective of who you are (obviously without revealing your identity if you desire discretion).

Fill your profile in with your desires, how far you would or wouldn't like to go. And finally sprinkle some respect and personality into your messages.

Personally I absolutely hate getting messages from nameless, faceless couples profiles telling me how they would like me to play with the wife/girlfriend while that nameless and faceless man watches .My best guess is that most women would be that most women would be repulsed by that kind of offer straight up from a complete stranger (I don't know you OP, so wouldn't know what kind of messages would you be sending, so it's not directed at you personally in any way).

To meet a couple a woman has to fancy and trust both parts of that couple. Try to mentally walk in her shoes, treat her like a human being and not a spare sex toy in your bedroom that you're eager to try out, meet her for a drink.... it does take effort, but in the end it's worth it.

I promise x

Please dont paint all single guys with ur male bashing posts not all single guys behave in this manner yet continually u post negitive toned comment on them. I have met many people on here that dont meet single guys and verified them that it was a social meet and was clear thst that is all it was jeeessss "

How was she bashing them? Its a fact on here, maybe you should be less of a snowflake and concentrate on better things

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman  over a year ago

your imagination

Has nobody else noticed your ages??? While we all may feel young at heart... At 95 you might find you're scaring a few away

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Good god if I was a woman I would

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Watch this space be interesting to see how this develops

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By *ubcouple35Couple  over a year ago

North Dublin

Even if you do get a meet op at 95 years old you may not be around long enough to even read the verification

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Be careful. People generally

don't read profiles. They rarely read veris too.

If you'll have a veri from a single man - single men will just assume that it is what you're looking for.

If your profile states you're not looking for any single men but the only veri you have is from a single guy - boom, hundreds of single guys will start getting frustrated at how your profile states that you're not looking for single men and only veri you have is from a single guy, so they'll try their chances, create frustrated forum posts (happened before) and generally call you stuck up for not being interested.

There's plenty of ladies from couples looking for f&f and plenty of single ladies who like to meet a couple.

My suggestion would be - include photos into your profile that portray both of you together or separately, that give people some perspective of who you are (obviously without revealing your identity if you desire discretion).

Fill your profile in with your desires, how far you would or wouldn't like to go. And finally sprinkle some respect and personality into your messages.

Personally I absolutely hate getting messages from nameless, faceless couples profiles telling me how they would like me to play with the wife/girlfriend while that nameless and faceless man watches .My best guess is that most women would be that most women would be repulsed by that kind of offer straight up from a complete stranger (I don't know you OP, so wouldn't know what kind of messages would you be sending, so it's not directed at you personally in any way).

To meet a couple a woman has to fancy and trust both parts of that couple. Try to mentally walk in her shoes, treat her like a human being and not a spare sex toy in your bedroom that you're eager to try out, meet her for a drink.... it does take effort, but in the end it's worth it.

I promise x

Please dont paint all single guys with ur male bashing posts not all single guys behave in this manner yet continually u post negitive toned comment on them. I have met many people on here that dont meet single guys and verified them that it was a social meet and was clear thst that is all it was jeeessss "

I also had multiple posts praising single guys for their patience and effort. You see what you choose to see.

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"Be careful. People generally

don't read profiles. They rarely read veris too.

If you'll have a veri from a single man - single men will just assume that it is what you're looking for.

If your profile states you're not looking for any single men but the only veri you have is from a single guy - boom, hundreds of single guys will start getting frustrated at how your profile states that you're not looking for single men and only veri you have is from a single guy, so they'll try their chances, create frustrated forum posts (happened before) and generally call you stuck up for not being interested.

There's plenty of ladies from couples looking for f&f and plenty of single ladies who like to meet a couple.

My suggestion would be - include photos into your profile that portray both of you together or separately, that give people some perspective of who you are (obviously without revealing your identity if you desire discretion).

Fill your profile in with your desires, how far you would or wouldn't like to go. And finally sprinkle some respect and personality into your messages.

Personally I absolutely hate getting messages from nameless, faceless couples profiles telling me how they would like me to play with the wife/girlfriend while that nameless and faceless man watches .My best guess is that most women would be that most women would be repulsed by that kind of offer straight up from a complete stranger (I don't know you OP, so wouldn't know what kind of messages would you be sending, so it's not directed at you personally in any way).

To meet a couple a woman has to fancy and trust both parts of that couple. Try to mentally walk in her shoes, treat her like a human being and not a spare sex toy in your bedroom that you're eager to try out, meet her for a drink.... it does take effort, but in the end it's worth it.

I promise x

Please dont paint all single guys with ur male bashing posts not all single guys behave in this manner yet continually u post negitive toned comment on them. I have met many people on here that dont meet single guys and verified them that it was a social meet and was clear thst that is all it was jeeessss

I also had multiple posts praising single guys for their patience and effort. You see what you choose to see.

"

If u had well done and dont get me wrong but ur last few weeks theres being a lot of negitive undertones which i picked up on

And felt i had to say something as theres lots that keep stum incase theydamage their chances of meeting fems. And honestly just a slight chsnge to the post to reconise the positivd imput of single males would have made the jnterpertation of thd post alot different

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"Be careful. People generally

don't read profiles. They rarely read veris too.

If you'll have a veri from a single man - single men will just assume that it is what you're looking for.

If your profile states you're not looking for any single men but the only veri you have is from a single guy - boom, hundreds of single guys will start getting frustrated at how your profile states that you're not looking for single men and only veri you have is from a single guy, so they'll try their chances, create frustrated forum posts (happened before) and generally call you stuck up for not being interested.

There's plenty of ladies from couples looking for f&f and plenty of single ladies who like to meet a couple.

My suggestion would be - include photos into your profile that portray both of you together or separately, that give people some perspective of who you are (obviously without revealing your identity if you desire discretion).

Fill your profile in with your desires, how far you would or wouldn't like to go. And finally sprinkle some respect and personality into your messages.

Personally I absolutely hate getting messages from nameless, faceless couples profiles telling me how they would like me to play with the wife/girlfriend while that nameless and faceless man watches .My best guess is that most women would be that most women would be repulsed by that kind of offer straight up from a complete stranger (I don't know you OP, so wouldn't know what kind of messages would you be sending, so it's not directed at you personally in any way).

To meet a couple a woman has to fancy and trust both parts of that couple. Try to mentally walk in her shoes, treat her like a human being and not a spare sex toy in your bedroom that you're eager to try out, meet her for a drink.... it does take effort, but in the end it's worth it.

I promise x

Please dont paint all single guys with ur male bashing posts not all single guys behave in this manner yet continually u post negitive toned comment on them. I have met many people on here that dont meet single guys and verified them that it was a social meet and was clear thst that is all it was jeeessss

How was she bashing them? Its a fact on here, maybe you should be less of a snowflake and concentrate on better things"

Sorry my dear but as a male I am entitled to comment on matters conserning males surely as far as i know snowflakes get upset on others behalf just see the resemblence

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Only the last few weeks ??????

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

?????? I actually just changed our ages to broaden our spectrum because plenty profiles had us blocked due to age limit. But hopefully we get one Veri before our centenary

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"?????? I actually just changed our ages to broaden our spectrum because plenty profiles had us blocked due to age limit. But hopefully we get one Veri before our centenary"

Ummmm your not going to help your case with women by changing your age to bypass their preferences to be honest

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By *upidsbowkissWoman  over a year ago

City Center


"Be careful. People generally

don't read profiles. They rarely read veris too.

If you'll have a veri from a single man - single men will just assume that it is what you're looking for.

If your profile states you're not looking for any single men but the only veri you have is from a single guy - boom, hundreds of single guys will start getting frustrated at how your profile states that you're not looking for single men and only veri you have is from a single guy, so they'll try their chances, create frustrated forum posts (happened before) and generally call you stuck up for not being interested.

There's plenty of ladies from couples looking for f&f and plenty of single ladies who like to meet a couple.

My suggestion would be - include photos into your profile that portray both of you together or separately, that give people some perspective of who you are (obviously without revealing your identity if you desire discretion).

Fill your profile in with your desires, how far you would or wouldn't like to go. And finally sprinkle some respect and personality into your messages.

Personally I absolutely hate getting messages from nameless, faceless couples profiles telling me how they would like me to play with the wife/girlfriend while that nameless and faceless man watches .My best guess is that most women would be that most women would be repulsed by that kind of offer straight up from a complete stranger (I don't know you OP, so wouldn't know what kind of messages would you be sending, so it's not directed at you personally in any way).

To meet a couple a woman has to fancy and trust both parts of that couple. Try to mentally walk in her shoes, treat her like a human being and not a spare sex toy in your bedroom that you're eager to try out, meet her for a drink.... it does take effort, but in the end it's worth it.

I promise x

Please dont paint all single guys with ur male bashing posts not all single guys behave in this manner yet continually u post negitive toned comment on them. I have met many people on here that dont meet single guys and verified them that it was a social meet and was clear thst that is all it was jeeessss

How was she bashing them? Its a fact on here, maybe you should be less of a snowflake and concentrate on better things

Sorry my dear but as a male I am entitled to comment on matters conserning males surely as far as i know snowflakes get upset on others behalf just see the resemblence "

OK sweetie, whatever you say

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman  over a year ago

your imagination


"?????? I actually just changed our ages to broaden our spectrum because plenty profiles had us blocked due to age limit. But hopefully we get one Veri before our centenary

Ummmm your not going to help your case with women by changing your age to bypass their preferences to be honest"

Ah here.... I'm off

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By *rishcouple12Couple  over a year ago

Cork County


"Has nobody else noticed your ages??? While we all may feel young at heart... At 95 you might find you're scaring a few away "

Thank god I thought was the only one seeing that ...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Sorry my dear but as a male I am entitled to comment on matters conserning males surely as far as i know snowflakes get upset on others behalf just see the resemblence "

Thats a white knight, a snow flake tends to just get offended by things easily.

I dont see an issues with the post and its not because I want the ride (sorry missus).

Its pretty balanced really calls the profile for having a confusing veri and also mentions poor couple profiles. And its not like any of the mentioned behaviour doesnt happen.

You or I dont need someone posting about how good single males.can be our behaviour speaks for itself

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"?????? I actually just changed our ages to broaden our spectrum because plenty profiles had us blocked due to age limit. But hopefully we get one Veri before our centenary

Ummmm your not going to help your case with women by changing your age to bypass their preferences to be honest

Ah here.... I'm off "

Where we going?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman  over a year ago

your imagination


"?????? I actually just changed our ages to broaden our spectrum because plenty profiles had us blocked due to age limit. But hopefully we get one Veri before our centenary

Ummmm your not going to help your case with women by changing your age to bypass their preferences to be honest

Ah here.... I'm off

Where we going?"

For cake... You buying?

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By *he SophisticatsCouple  over a year ago

Casa Del Fun


"?????? I actually just changed our ages to broaden our spectrum because plenty profiles had us blocked due to age limit. But hopefully we get one Veri before our centenary

Ummmm your not going to help your case with women by changing your age to bypass their preferences to be honest

Ah here.... I'm off

Where we going?

For cake... You buying? "

Mmmmmm cake!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman  over a year ago

your imagination


"?????? I actually just changed our ages to broaden our spectrum because plenty profiles had us blocked due to age limit. But hopefully we get one Veri before our centenary

Ummmm your not going to help your case with women by changing your age to bypass their preferences to be honest

Ah here.... I'm off

Where we going?

For cake... You buying?

Mmmmmm cake! "

You can come too... Shorty is treating us

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"?????? I actually just changed our ages to broaden our spectrum because plenty profiles had us blocked due to age limit. But hopefully we get one Veri before our centenary

Ummmm your not going to help your case with women by changing your age to bypass their preferences to be honest

Ah here.... I'm off

Where we going?

For cake... You buying?

Mmmmmm cake!

You can come too... Shorty is treating us "

***quickly changes age preferences to block all cake eaters**

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"

Sorry my dear but as a male I am entitled to comment on matters conserning males surely as far as i know snowflakes get upset on others behalf just see the resemblence

Thats a white knight, a snow flake tends to just get offended by things easily.

I dont see an issues with the post and its not because I want the ride (sorry missus).

Its pretty balanced really calls the profile for having a confusing veri and also mentions poor couple profiles. And its not like any of the mentioned behaviour doesnt happen.

You or I dont need someone posting about how good single males.can be our behaviour speaks for itself "

Yes but at the same time throw enough sh1t and it starts to stick theres enough guys not helping the causs here, I dont think we need to be slated enmass as theres plenty good guys here enhancing the experience for fems,cpls and guys (see allinclusive)

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman  over a year ago

your imagination


"?????? I actually just changed our ages to broaden our spectrum because plenty profiles had us blocked due to age limit. But hopefully we get one Veri before our centenary

Ummmm your not going to help your case with women by changing your age to bypass their preferences to be honest

Ah here.... I'm off

Where we going?

For cake... You buying?

Mmmmmm cake!

You can come too... Shorty is treating us

***quickly changes age preferences to block all cake eaters**"

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By *he SophisticatsCouple  over a year ago

Casa Del Fun


"?????? I actually just changed our ages to broaden our spectrum because plenty profiles had us blocked due to age limit. But hopefully we get one Veri before our centenary

Ummmm your not going to help your case with women by changing your age to bypass their preferences to be honest

Ah here.... I'm off

Where we going?

For cake... You buying?

Mmmmmm cake!

You can come too... Shorty is treating us "

And what we don’t eat we can wear!

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"?????? I actually just changed our ages to broaden our spectrum because plenty profiles had us blocked due to age limit. But hopefully we get one Veri before our centenary

Ummmm your not going to help your case with women by changing your age to bypass their preferences to be honest

Ah here.... I'm off

Where we going?

For cake... You buying?

Mmmmmm cake!

You can come too... Shorty is treating us

And what we don’t eat we can wear! "

Can we lick it off each other

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By *he SophisticatsCouple  over a year ago

Casa Del Fun


"?????? I actually just changed our ages to broaden our spectrum because plenty profiles had us blocked due to age limit. But hopefully we get one Veri before our centenary

Ummmm your not going to help your case with women by changing your age to bypass their preferences to be honest

Ah here.... I'm off

Where we going?

For cake... You buying?

Mmmmmm cake!

You can come too... Shorty is treating us

***quickly changes age preferences to block all cake eaters**"

Ah damn it!!... That’s so unfair

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Sorry my dear but as a male I am entitled to comment on matters conserning males surely as far as i know snowflakes get upset on others behalf just see the resemblence

Thats a white knight, a snow flake tends to just get offended by things easily.

I dont see an issues with the post and its not because I want the ride (sorry missus).

Its pretty balanced really calls the profile for having a confusing veri and also mentions poor couple profiles. And its not like any of the mentioned behaviour doesnt happen.

You or I dont need someone posting about how good single males.can be our behaviour speaks for itself

Yes but at the same time throw enough sh1t and it starts to stick theres enough guys not helping the causs here, I dont think we need to be slated enmass as theres plenty good guys here enhancing the experience for fems,cpls and guys (see allinclusive)"

I didnt see it as slating enmass I thought it was a pretty accurate example of what can happen on here, I also dont think you disagreeing makes you a snowflake btw.

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"

Sorry my dear but as a male I am entitled to comment on matters conserning males surely as far as i know snowflakes get upset on others behalf just see the resemblence

Thats a white knight, a snow flake tends to just get offended by things easily.

I dont see an issues with the post and its not because I want the ride (sorry missus).

Its pretty balanced really calls the profile for having a confusing veri and also mentions poor couple profiles. And its not like any of the mentioned behaviour doesnt happen.

You or I dont need someone posting about how good single males.can be our behaviour speaks for itself

Yes but at the same time throw enough sh1t and it starts to stick theres enough guys not helping the causs here, I dont think we need to be slated enmass as theres plenty good guys here enhancing the experience for fems,cpls and guys (see allinclusive)

I didnt see it as slating enmass I thought it was a pretty accurate example of what can happen on here, I also dont think you disagreeing makes you a snowflake btw.

"

Exactly what can happen there are also many other things that could have happened

At the end of the day we all have opinions and I'll stand by my opinion until I am shown evidence to the contary and then I'll weigh up that evidence and adjust my opinion accordingly. As for labling me a snowflake I could care less I am here long enough for enough people to know me for being me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Sorry my dear but as a male I am entitled to comment on matters conserning males surely as far as i know snowflakes get upset on others behalf just see the resemblence

Thats a white knight, a snow flake tends to just get offended by things easily.

I dont see an issues with the post and its not because I want the ride (sorry missus).

Its pretty balanced really calls the profile for having a confusing veri and also mentions poor couple profiles. And its not like any of the mentioned behaviour doesnt happen.

You or I dont need someone posting about how good single males.can be our behaviour speaks for itself

Yes but at the same time throw enough sh1t and it starts to stick theres enough guys not helping the causs here, I dont think we need to be slated enmass as theres plenty good guys here enhancing the experience for fems,cpls and guys (see allinclusive)"

I think it's only fair to say that if one is not looking for any single males - better not to give single males a reason tho think otherwise. Plenty of chancers as is.

You may get all upset about it. I'm realistic and judge all advice and my own actions by my own experience and inbox.

If you were to receive even a quarter of some gems that people, who don't meet your criteria, but are still trying their luck - you'd nod in agreement too.

Note how I said people, not single men.

Single men were only singled out as OP has specified that this is what they're not looking for.

For a long time I didn't want to meet any couples at all and said so in my profile. Couples still contacted me saying " well, we can see that you've met couples before, so we're trying our chances".

So No, you don't need to be a single man to be ignorant and disrespectful of others preferences, but on here not to be on the receiving end of that disrespect- may as well give people as little reason as possible to have anything to complain to you about.

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"

Sorry my dear but as a male I am entitled to comment on matters conserning males surely as far as i know snowflakes get upset on others behalf just see the resemblence

Thats a white knight, a snow flake tends to just get offended by things easily.

I dont see an issues with the post and its not because I want the ride (sorry missus).

Its pretty balanced really calls the profile for having a confusing veri and also mentions poor couple profiles. And its not like any of the mentioned behaviour doesnt happen.

You or I dont need someone posting about how good single males.can be our behaviour speaks for itself

Yes but at the same time throw enough sh1t and it starts to stick theres enough guys not helping the causs here, I dont think we need to be slated enmass as theres plenty good guys here enhancing the experience for fems,cpls and guys (see allinclusive)

I think it's only fair to say that if one is not looking for any single males - better not to give single males a reason tho think otherwise. Plenty of chancers as is.

You may get all upset about it. I'm realistic and judge all advice and my own actions by my own experience and inbox.

If you were to receive even a quarter of some gems that people, who don't meet your criteria, but are still trying their luck - you'd nod in agreement too.

Note how I said people, not single men.

Single men were only singled out as OP has specified that this is what they're not looking for.

For a long time I didn't want to meet any couples at all and said so in my profile. Couples still contacted me saying " well, we can see that you've met couples before, so we're trying our chances".

So No, you don't need to be a single man to be ignorant and disrespectful of others preferences, but on here not to be on the receiving end of that disrespect- may as well give people as little reason as possible to have anything to complain to you about. "

Can i say that post there while expressing a similar experience of cpls on ur single profile whenever it was didnt have the negitive conotations of the first post and has the same effect while not taring all with the one brush this is all i was pointing out

And thank u for engaging in a difference of opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

This thread really took a turn I didn't want or expect it to. But those that had the banter thanks for brightening up our day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This thread really took a turn I didn't want or expect it to. But those that had the banter thanks for brightening up our day "

Welcome to the forum once your post is out there it could go anywhere

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By *uzzus2Couple  over a year ago

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I suppose that's why they only want a woman so that when he pops his clogs she will still have company lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I suppose that's why they only want a woman so that when he pops his clogs she will still have company lol"

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