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over a year ago
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When I was married could easily go months as my skin would literally crawl when my husband touched me
Now that I am single I think the longest was two months. I kept the postman in a job delivering Love Honey parcels during that lonely time  |
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If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?
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If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?
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If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?
(Reaches for hard hat...?"
I believe this statement covers this.
The sex you want you ain't getting,and the sex you're getting you don't want.
It's not just about a lady getting a ride. It's quality over quantity. And you can't spell quantity without tity  |
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"(Deep breath)
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If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?
(Reaches for hard hat...?"
For a single lady on Fab it can be like ordering off the Justeat.ie menu. You could have a fresh meal delivered piping hot to your doorstep.
But I have often gone two months between meets. Main reason I am a single Mammy with a fuckwit ex who rarely takes his children. I live out in the sticks so not just inviting any Fab randomners over. So that incurs hotel costs. My last two hotel meets actually cancelled as soon as I checked in leaving me to foot the bill. The main reason is I need to have some spark or chemistry to fuck someone. |
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6 months after my eldest was born, thanks to a botched episiotomy repair. On the bright side, the post-natal depression meant I didn't miss the sex much  |
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"(Deep breath)
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If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?
(Reaches for hard hat...?
For a single lady on Fab it can be like ordering off the Justeat.ie menu. You could have a fresh meal delivered piping hot to your doorstep.
But I have often gone two months between meets. Main reason I am a single Mammy with a fuckwit ex who rarely takes his children. I live out in the sticks so not just inviting any Fab randomners over. So that incurs hotel costs. My last two hotel meets actually cancelled as soon as I checked in leaving me to foot the bill. The main reason is I need to have some spark or chemistry to fuck someone. "
You have my respect, and apologies for not considering scenarios such as this when I made my comment. |
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If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?
(Reaches for hard hat...?
For a single lady on Fab it can be like ordering off the Justeat.ie menu. You could have a fresh meal delivered piping hot to your doorstep.
But I have often gone two months between meets. Main reason I am a single Mammy with a fuckwit ex who rarely takes his children. I live out in the sticks so not just inviting any Fab randomners over. So that incurs hotel costs. My last two hotel meets actually cancelled as soon as I checked in leaving me to foot the bill. The main reason is I need to have some spark or chemistry to fuck someone.
You have my respect, and apologies for not considering scenarios such as this when I made my comment. "
I got given shît before for not meeting when I had my son. Don't give a shite I'll always pick my son over anything else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"(Deep breath)
At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...
If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?
(Reaches for hard hat...?
I believe this statement covers this.
The sex you want you ain't getting,and the sex you're getting you don't want.
It's not just about a lady getting a ride. It's quality over quantity. And you can't spell quantity without tity "
True story |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"(Deep breath)
At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...
If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?
(Reaches for hard hat...?
For a single lady on Fab it can be like ordering off the Justeat.ie menu. You could have a fresh meal delivered piping hot to your doorstep.
But I have often gone two months between meets. Main reason I am a single Mammy with a fuckwit ex who rarely takes his children. I live out in the sticks so not just inviting any Fab randomners over. So that incurs hotel costs. My last two hotel meets actually cancelled as soon as I checked in leaving me to foot the bill. The main reason is I need to have some spark or chemistry to fuck someone.
You have my respect, and apologies for not considering scenarios such as this when I made my comment. "
No need for apologies I was just giving my insight into why I rarely meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"(Deep breath)
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If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?
(Reaches for hard hat...?
For a single lady on Fab it can be like ordering off the Justeat.ie menu. You could have a fresh meal delivered piping hot to your doorstep.
But I have often gone two months between meets. Main reason I am a single Mammy with a fuckwit ex who rarely takes his children. I live out in the sticks so not just inviting any Fab randomners over. So that incurs hotel costs. My last two hotel meets actually cancelled as soon as I checked in leaving me to foot the bill. The main reason is I need to have some spark or chemistry to fuck someone. "
I'm kind of living in a similar world, but I can't exactly call my ex a fuck wit cause she's not.. But yes it can be like trying make the stars align at times to organise a meet.. The things you take for granted when your young free and single
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"6 months after my eldest was born, thanks to a botched episiotomy repair. On the bright side, the post-natal depression meant I didn't miss the sex much "
I’m sure you made up for it all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"6 months after my eldest was born, thanks to a botched episiotomy repair. On the bright side, the post-natal depression meant I didn't miss the sex much
I’m sure you made up for it all "
I'm not getting any younger you know!! |
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I have to think about this one, down through the years it probably hasn’t being longer than a month! From a sex point of view that probably good but my choice in women to get into relationships with was questionable if I’m honest and was was mostly cause I was having sex with them rather than wanting to be in a relationship with them.
I’m chatty and end up in conversations when out that lead to kissing and a taxi home and relationships just started from there. But that was before I knew what I wanted and become strong enough to say this is just a bit of fun and wasn’t looking for a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"(Deep breath)
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If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?
(Reaches for hard hat...?"
Yes more men here but are the possibilities good not allways unfortunately. |
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If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?
(Reaches for hard hat...?
Yes more men here but are the possibilities good not allways unfortunately. "
Ah you can’t say that till you sampled them all then you can report back |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"(Deep breath)
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If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?
(Reaches for hard hat...?
Yes more men here but are the possibilities good not allways unfortunately.
Ah you can’t say that till you sampled them all then you can report back "
Sampled enough to learn to be more carefull |
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"(Deep breath)
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If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?
(Reaches for hard hat...?
Yes more men here but are the possibilities good not allways unfortunately.
Ah you can’t say that till you sampled them all then you can report back
Sampled enough to learn to be more carefull "
Jeasus I need to buy a rifle and take out some of these pricks that are spoiling it for the rest of us |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"(Deep breath)
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If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?
(Reaches for hard hat...?
Yes more men here but are the possibilities good not allways unfortunately.
Ah you can’t say that till you sampled them all then you can report back
Sampled enough to learn to be more carefull "
I agree I've met a few really nice guys but I've a few who were not like they seemed before hand and who think they can almost force you to have sex with them . And I always do a social meet but that doesn't even guarantee it's going to be OK. It has definitely made me more wary. |
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If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?
(Reaches for hard hat...?
Yes more men here but are the possibilities good not allways unfortunately.
Ah you can’t say that till you sampled them all then you can report back
Sampled enough to learn to be more carefull
I agree I've met a few really nice guys but I've a few who were not like they seemed before hand and who think they can almost force you to have sex with them . And I always do a social meet but that doesn't even guarantee it's going to be OK. It has definitely made me more wary. "
But that’s is what a social meet is! Coffee or drink with not other commitments. How else would either know if they wanted things to go any further. |
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Being a single mammy with kids living with me 24/7,not easy arranging socials,working full time also,last couple of socials cancelled and when I had a meet arranged family issues popped up.
Not very lucky at the moment....
And no I dont masturbate... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a single mammy with kids living with me 24/7,not easy arranging socials,working full time also,last couple of socials cancelled and when I had a meet arranged family issues popped up.
Not very lucky at the moment....
And no I dont masturbate... "
It's not easy as a single parent. I hope you get to have some mischief soon to make up for it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a single mammy with kids living with me 24/7,not easy arranging socials,working full time also,last couple of socials cancelled and when I had a meet arranged family issues popped up.
Not very lucky at the moment....
And no I dont masturbate... "
sounds like you need a threesome to make up for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is 3 months that long?
Dont get me wrong Id be happy with a daily supply but it is also something I can switch off if its not an option without it disrupting my mental well being |
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"Is 3 months that long?
Dont get me wrong Id be happy with a daily supply but it is also something I can switch off if its not an option without it disrupting my mental well being"
Go 3 months without having a wank ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is 3 months that long?
Dont get me wrong Id be happy with a daily supply but it is also something I can switch off if its not an option without it disrupting my mental well being
Go 3 months without having a wank ... "
Apologies for reading the actual OP and commenting on that.
But again I think I could its not something that plays on my mind unless there is a reason for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"6 months after my eldest was born, thanks to a botched episiotomy repair. On the bright side, the post-natal depression meant I didn't miss the sex much "
That's the attitude. Glass half full |
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By *ltered EgoMan
over a year ago
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Current ‘dry spell’ going since October 2017, about 20 months.
Longest was about 4 years ... 2012 - 2016
Mrs. Has absolutely zero interest in sex - I have no say in it - incredibly selfish.
Married life can be s bitch! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Current ‘dry spell’ going since October 2017, about 20 months.
Longest was about 4 years ... 2012 - 2016
Mrs. Has absolutely zero interest in sex - I have no say in it - incredibly selfish.
Married life can be s bitch!"
Why is she selfish?. Lots of reasons shes not having sex . One of them could be you. |
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Before I was online meeting it was 5 years plus, it’s really not good for your mental health and confidence levels.
My current hiatus is since April 2018.
Like a previous poster said about number of guys and offers on here being plentifully, it’s not a numbers game for me. It’s about good quality mutual fun.
I’d rather have no sex than be made feel like a hooker providing a service with no reward.
Hope your dry spell is broken soon red. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"(Deep breath)
At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...
If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?
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For a single lady on Fab it can be like ordering off the Justeat.ie menu. You could have a fresh meal delivered piping hot to your doorstep.
But I have often gone two months between meets. Main reason I am a single Mammy with a fuckwit ex who rarely takes his children. I live out in the sticks so not just inviting any Fab randomners over. So that incurs hotel costs. My last two hotel meets actually cancelled as soon as I checked in leaving me to foot the bill. The main reason is I need to have some spark or chemistry to fuck someone. "
Reading things like this makes me so angry and I don’t even know you. Do people not realise the effort some go to to meet and the expense, then don’t bother their ass showing up.
You’re a gorgeous lady so he’s also stupid aswell as a dick for not showing up. |
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"When I was married could easily go months as my skin would literally crawl when my husband touched me.you must of got married when you were out of your mind. "
You don't know the circumstances.
When you husband is in the middle of a manic episode and refuses to shower or change clothes for days you couldn't blame me not wanting sex. |
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"When I was married could easily go months as my skin would literally crawl when my husband touched me.you must of got married when you were out of your mind.
You don't know the circumstances.
When you husband is in the middle of a manic episode and refuses to shower or change clothes for days you couldn't blame me not wanting sex."
only himself can get help if he has a problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I was married could easily go months as my skin would literally crawl when my husband touched me.you must of got married when you were out of your mind.
You don't know the circumstances.
When you husband is in the middle of a manic episode and refuses to shower or change clothes for days you couldn't blame me not wanting sex.only himself can get help if he has a problem. "
Well it's the reason why I am now single. There's only so many years you can help someone who refuses to get help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I was married could easily go months as my skin would literally crawl when my husband touched me.you must of got married when you were out of your mind.
You don't know the circumstances.
When you husband is in the middle of a manic episode and refuses to shower or change clothes for days you couldn't blame me not wanting sex.only himself can get help if he has a problem.
Well it's the reason why I am now single. There's only so many years you can help someone who refuses to get help."
or refuses to admit there's any issue in the first place |
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I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough
But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it
3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....
Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho |
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"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough
But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it
3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....
Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho "
That's a dangerous last sentence to publish on fab..!! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough
But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it
3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....
Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho
That's a dangerous last sentence to publish on fab..!! Lol"
I just need to find that someone to turn me nympho. |
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"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough
But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it
3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....
Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho
That's a dangerous last sentence to publish on fab..!! Lol
I just need to find that someone to turn me nympho. "
Dangerous sentence #2..! You'd better tell your inbox to brace itself when the guys all read this... |
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"Before I was online meeting it was 5 years plus, it’s really not good for your mental health and confidence levels.
My current hiatus is since April 2018.
Like a previous poster said about number of guys and offers on here being plentifully, it’s not a numbers game for me. It’s about good quality mutual fun.
I’d rather have no sex than be made feel like a hooker providing a service with no reward.
Hope your dry spell is broken soon red. "
Well said Gingerrr |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough
But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it
3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....
Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho "
Totally get the thing about losing interest. I'm slowly getting my freedom back and waiting to unleash the nympho too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough
But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it
3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....
Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho
Totally get the thing about losing interest. I'm slowly getting my freedom back and waiting to unleash the nympho too lol"
God bless the nymho lol
Mrs B birthday bash might be a way to let loose the NYMHO |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough
But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it
3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....
Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho
Totally get the thing about losing interest. I'm slowly getting my freedom back and waiting to unleash the nympho too lol
God bless the nymho lol
Mrs B birthday bash might be a way to let loose the NYMHO "
Let's hope so  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough
But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it
3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....
Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho
Totally get the thing about losing interest. I'm slowly getting my freedom back and waiting to unleash the nympho too lol
God bless the nymho lol
Mrs B birthday bash might be a way to let loose the NYMHO
Let's hope so "
Mrs B hold a great night, with a lovely mix of people
I shall see you there and we can go on the prowl  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough
But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it
3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....
Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho
Totally get the thing about losing interest. I'm slowly getting my freedom back and waiting to unleash the nympho too lol
God bless the nymho lol
Mrs B birthday bash might be a way to let loose the NYMHO
Let's hope so
Mrs B hold a great night, with a lovely mix of people
I shall see you there and we can go on the prowl "
Definitely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough
But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it
3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....
Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho
Totally get the thing about losing interest. I'm slowly getting my freedom back and waiting to unleash the nympho too lol
God bless the nymho lol
Mrs B birthday bash might be a way to let loose the NYMHO
Let's hope so
Mrs B hold a great night, with a lovely mix of people
I shall see you there and we can go on the prowl
Definitely "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Longest for me was a year. It wasn't on purpose. Just between being sick and other stuff.
Did cleaning your brothers room put you off sex lol"
Ha ha nope. Was just a rough year. |
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By *ltered EgoMan
over a year ago
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"Current ‘dry spell’ going since October 2017, about 20 months.
Longest was about 4 years ... 2012 - 2016
Mrs. Has absolutely zero interest in sex - I have no say in it - incredibly selfish.
Married life can be s bitch!
Why is she selfish?. Lots of reasons shes not having sex . One of them could be you."
Selfish, in that it’s only her terms, no conversation about the whys, says the still loves me etc.
At this point, I’m only in it for the kids. |
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"Current ‘dry spell’ going since October 2017, about 20 months.
Longest was about 4 years ... 2012 - 2016
Mrs. Has absolutely zero interest in sex - I have no say in it - incredibly selfish.
Married life can be s bitch!
Why is she selfish?. Lots of reasons shes not having sex . One of them could be you.
Selfish, in that it’s only her terms, no conversation about the whys, says the still loves me etc.
At this point, I’m only in it for the kids. "
If there's any comfort from what I'm about to say - and I suspect not - this is quite a common occurrence.
While everyone has different views on marriage, it's one of the toughest things to do in my opinion. Add in kids and often it goes to hell. There are those better suited to it but many of us are not and you don't know until you actually do it.
None of us can advise you as we don't know context and circumstance and I can't condone or condem you either. My only advice is to find a way to be absolutely clear why you find yourselves in this situation and I can't see that you have that.
Get 3rd party help. Be clear and unambiguous why. They figure out how best to provide the most stable environment for your kids while having some modicum of happiness yourselves.
And fab actually can provide therapy for you, if not the physical gratification you desire |
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"Current ‘dry spell’ going since October 2017, about 20 months.
Longest was about 4 years ... 2012 - 2016
Mrs. Has absolutely zero interest in sex - I have no say in it - incredibly selfish.
Married life can be s bitch!
Why is she selfish?. Lots of reasons shes not having sex . One of them could be you.
Selfish, in that it’s only her terms, no conversation about the whys, says the still loves me etc.
At this point, I’m only in it for the kids.
If there's any comfort from what I'm about to say - and I suspect not - this is quite a common occurrence.
While everyone has different views on marriage, it's one of the toughest things to do in my opinion. Add in kids and often it goes to hell. There are those better suited to it but many of us are not and you don't know until you actually do it.
None of us can advise you as we don't know context and circumstance and I can't condone or condem you either. My only advice is to find a way to be absolutely clear why you find yourselves in this situation and I can't see that you have that.
Get 3rd party help. Be clear and unambiguous why. They figure out how best to provide the most stable environment for your kids while having some modicum of happiness yourselves.
And fab actually can provide therapy for you, if not the physical gratification you desire "
Well said, and third party help can have a stigma attached to it for alot of people, it really can help to sort problems in a couple, but more often than not helps you move on with your life and be happy again.. Happy you, happy kids, happy life. |
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"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough
But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it
3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....
Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho "
I have it on good authority that you are a nympho !!!! |
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"You need a local fwb who can attend short notice.
Know the feeling regarding socials always on weekends i have kids."
Where do you find one of those fwb's? |
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"A local fwb interested in regular sex would be nice to come across
Yeah ... and then vanilla life gets in the way ... over 3 months no sex ...
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3 months????.... I would put u at a max of 3 hrs without sex lol |
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Longest for me was just shy of 20yrs...ex decided as soon as the ring was on the finger..he could do better lol
And im a stubborn bitch...i wasnt gonna cheat no matter what LOL |
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"You need a local fwb who can attend short notice.
Know the feeling regarding socials always on weekends i have kids.
Where do you find one of those fwb's? "
On the opposite side of the country usually   |
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"A local fwb interested in regular sex would be nice to come across
Yeah ... and then vanilla life gets in the way ... over 3 months no sex ...
Yeah need to get a new bed soon... its falling apart ... men coming and going...
3 months????.... I would put u at a max of 3 hrs without sex lol"
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"When I was married could easily go months as my skin would literally crawl when my husband touched me
Now that I am single I think the longest was two months. I kept the postman in a job delivering Love Honey parcels during that lonely time "
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